09-27-2017 Yom Kippur Fasting and Laws of Chol Hamoed

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that has to eat on Yom Kippur the falls on Shabbos we're talking about now obviously challah Shakespeare Sakana and someone who's ill whose life is in danger or possibly in danger was a lot to eat could eat regularly and is regularly meaning that could eat without kiddush and there's no there's no recitation of kiddush that's that's the law for myself okay a lot of discussion but that's how we come out there's no kiddush so there's no kitty shuttle so he just eats whenever he needs to eat I mean it would be a problem he had to make kiddush wouldn't it I mean can't drink enough we're talking about let's say no you know the question really drinkin not fast enough to make it right but the question is somebody who's a lot let's say a woman has a baby on an errand kipper so she's parted from the fish she doesn't just have to go sure really it's regular so now the question is should good Jew Creek Jews anyway let's say that's your beverage let's make kids already once that's gonna be great once she's drinking grape juice the answer is kid is not is not necessary okay as long as we're talking about kid is justice jump the other way what about benching so if you made bread obviously you'd have to bench but is there any differences question what's their way so first of all someone who we just up often off the bat someone who eats less than a shear which you know many people who were ill talk about the moment exactly when and how how to calculate that but many people have to eat something drink something but they could stay under the what's called possibly cashier a fancy shear which means less than the threshold of Karis when you do that you will never make a broth right now in that case those you never slow if you're eating because you're right you're gonna eat over a course of time in order to think about how crying you have to eat cuz I specialist price which is a cos is within within four minutes span two minutes been and typically the way we calculate even though technically they accept I gas is bigger which is the kippers sighs but at the end of the day you don't leave it cuz I you end up not eating as I say eating too slow you're also drinking too slow so the shine look comes up what about don't person who has seen regular someone who's who it'll fill enough that the rough says that they should be regular or person who's down as we'll see it's regular to when you Benson you would bench if you made enough bread you wouldn't see it on the field if you had enough cake and you would aides if you had enough fruit fast enough and you do say y'all Bri so there and would say it's the Sharps this year so you would say would say and you TLV avoid you will not find the new stuff in some of the ventures you'd say um when you get to normal summers register you would say be I'm a keeper Massa what the interested finish taxes talk about this in my shop Schubert's russia if a person a cake or drink grape juice or wine or they should summon them where they have to make an ala a snow did you make the main show lush do you say there's a crane or the type of BMI keep or myself this is that phone I never found it in any venture or sitter and maybe the listeners if someone sees an adventurous sitter nor was it says by benching there are ventures they have benching word says like in parentheses okay Louise or cotton that's irrelevant to a child the denial of the same question for coverage is regular hoots regular so that continents as a child should say p.m. he promised after you look at me in showers I'm here to find a sitter adventure that says gimmicky permits that and a hell what would be the difference between well that gets it maybe it's comparable to kind of important you don't say it so I found this year and I think that's why I used to think and I had a whole world Sharon exit they said this championship unfortunately one could be tanked but because it was shopping shoot with Russia but in the air I found it preparing this year the shamash obstacle also brings from examine our Buster bracha that you want would say this ahead of time so but I have a question if he's benching right and he forgets the Oliver Yoho goodness him he would not have to repeat them correctly and after imagine the rule the rule is that you only repeat benching if it's a Sunnah that you were that you're high if according to all opinions so therefore Friday night champ stay on a regular Friday chops day if you miss if you miss then you have to repeat or yontiff but by women who is a shine whether the high Minnesota do not have to repeat bench except by the Seder so you Kippur you're not obligated I'm in other words even though we get to eat because you're Hilah or a cotton you know I'm again in a sueded you could eat other things and therefore to Fidel you'd have to go back but other discussion is there's a special bra huh I spoke about this also brother few myths if you miss y'all via bye there's a special raha that's only recited between by a rock which are my man in the next brother do you make that bra ha so this is three-way month like us and some summer of the opinion that you say they brought a witness Seema which means birth and it's a long Bravo some say say without a seam up which means you say just like we're stylish the broth without pour hot sauce them at the end you should wear what comes out you don't make the broth I'm that's such a rare case I'm talking about somebody who's eating regularly without in without and they remember that this such a thing is saying acceptor brokers like this is pretty yeah anemometer Ganga for seven years and we have an improved three boyars so this would be the longest break of no actually with three days yontiff first on the soup kitchen that saris and you keep her on a Shabbos hmm and that's not gonna I'm against seven years it's actually the longest span last time it's happened three out of the seven years at seven years with 300 yards in between which means you get an extra month has an emphasis to 1926 19:33 just been along it'll be a break you know for three day I'm a long time coming yes yes okay so let's talk people about this year of the fasting the amounts that you can eat lately is bringing up with your question how does one measure my low lumo of the mountain is less than that and how do we figure out okay how much a person should eat if he's permitted to eat correct so the first thing is is that well obviously someone to determining if they have to eat how much they have to eat it should be it should because attention whatever wrong with the role of um if a person is not you know before Yom Kippur people should really people who feel like they may have a need to speak it over in advance on Yom Kippur itself obviously if you have access to ask somebody should ask but if someone is doubt or doesn't have any access or they're afraid if they wait till I ask a wrong it can become further ill than the general rule is something much smaller which means if a person has any question as to whether or not they're they're ill or they can you don't think they could harm themselves they could life-threatening illness or kick it to a situation where they will put themselves into a life-threatening situation they should even drink immediately so that that's that word person cannot doesn't have the ability to ask but again before you Kippur one who cut the place is an illness or is is ill shot but once once it's permissible the question is how do you make these calculations so the you are Anubis speaks about this commissioner and tomorrow and it will give the Hebrew terms and I will display each of them there's a fundamental difference between food and drinks food is the standard size which is a a salmon a person is what's called five carries that's the is at the little measurement of a Santos a casa which is the size of a certain type of a date below that is less than the sheer so if a person is ill we would ask the doctor says they need to eat in the rough says yes it's potentially dangerous we would say could the person I would ask the doctor could this person get by with eating less than a kiss mi casa I would say every seven minutes excuse me every I'm sorry every nine minutes because they eat less except on Casa every nine minutes this matter how big or small person is it's the same measurement as doctor said yes it could that's enough intake so the person would eat less except on Casa every every every nine minutes except my casa is a little bit more than that one fool announced but for simplicity you measure their simplicity we tell people that you just take us snaps cup which is a plastic snaps cup now you have to make sure you have the right specialized doctor the plastic glasses might be bigger but the plastic ones on the bottom some of them take 29 ml 1 fluid ounce is fun I didn't have milliliters approximately I was yourselves on a Friday night and they they they said I Michael Hyatt you know they pulled out of Cup which was a button said you know these things are risky because if I tell people a schnapps cup that's plastic together you're gonna give them this right and then a drink too much you have to make sure it's it's one fluid ounce you could fill it with whatever you want any food you can get in there you want to put it bread you want to put in you know some grain cereal spaghetti or pasta whatever you whatever you can fit in that Cup is good against a little bit higher than that it's um it's closer to one in a quarter or maybe one of the third but besides one of the thirds and sagat's is bigger so one of the thirds good but again it's just easiest to use that calculation and then you're you're you're you're good to go um buy drinks it goes by your size okay so let me just say what works for almost everybody and then I'll if that's not enough then I'll think what to do a a well huh but I look love is as follows music cheerful okay now if you just filled your cheek and spit it out you're gonna not get enough it's really bigger than that or rather I should say you're not getting the right amount oh boy look mug shot speaks about this you fill your mouth with liquid and you feel like you you know try without swallowing you you fill your mouth you could just try second third time if you want you'll see the second time you might be able get a little more in okay and then you spit it out and then half of that is immortal enough okay so that's the cutoff that's the car race you want to drink less than that let me give an example let's say a person filled their mouth and it's two else's okay that's pretty big most people could not enough to us once a person fills their mouth a lot let's say it's three ounces person fills their mouth with three ounces of liquid they spit it out and they measured three ounces or you take a metric system that's gonna come out to about a hundred forty nine milliliters okay you divide every night eight milliliters is there a little bit better to use because they're there more of them analysis is too general if you want to get exactly you got a graduated cylinder or a medicine spoon from a medicine stick that you use to feed the children it has marks exactly how much fluid is so you can get exactly how much of this a teaspoon by the way is equal to six milliliters not five milliliters there there one teaspoon is five milliliters okay I don't confuse everybody with numbers but again it's if you do milliliters you can get the exact amount okay okay now you you take half of that amount so let's say you got three ounces in your mouth three fluid ounces you spit it out you see you measured it's three ounces 1.5 ounces would be sure the static cars individual person corrected it's different than smart says I'm Mel topojson right oh you did great giant he had a very big bowl a little more because he was a he was a giant but why is it cheek full exactly equal to the half amount you can fit into your mouth because then you're you're fitting into in between your cheeks there's also room that's why the lung is your fill in the cheek so full Miz entire cheek means from here I don't have it doesn't mean a lot when I'm correct if you do that right you're gonna get very little that's but anyways you want to drink less than that so ideally you should figure out that you're particularly if you don't want to listen to me out half of it is one and a half ounces usually less than one and a half ounces or milliliters you had 150 milliliters in your mouth 75 is a problem you're gonna drink a 70 71 milliliters okay if you can't if you know I go through this whole process then typically one fluid ounce is less than the Malloy would love unless you are extremely small person or maybe like a girl just for bus Mitzvah right right it was small such a person but what else might be over boiling but a regular adult regular don't sure almost unless again assuming that there is sooo one ounce is less than their their bacon right I once asked her behind him in this question and I said so there's a person have a right to assume he's average enemy he said especially doing the assassinate rumor course you can assume that their Bane oven I'll tell us really that red rubies is employed by kiddush that's really one point nine ounces i was i once retinas test lot of people love me years ago okay at the exact number but clearly you know an ounce is gonna be take it down so take again the same schnapps glass case are same stops cup and plastic plastic right one ounce 1/4 ounce one m to lose that's the maximum you want to drink that every every every seven minutes doesn't work every four minutes that doesn't work every two minutes mmm-hmm now you could do food and drink together they don't add up so when I tell people just the simplest thing is if you really need a course of doing this on an ongoing basis then let's say 8 o'clock in the morning sit down with a cup with food and a drink give you 2 cups and needed a drink it and then 10 minutes later when you've cleared both right 810 right 8 within the minute now they 10 they do it again both and now you just keep doing every 10 minutes and then it's just easy to keep track that's a 1 ounce both and keep going yeah it's not a lot of people need a lot of food most people for my is my experience I would say you know and and this is my own observation Schiele's ok I would say I would say about 17 out of 20 good unless this year Shila right most people can came and if those seven take any less than shear and if those even those people who need to you know if those twenty I would say 15 of them it's enough to drink they don't even have to eat and the doctor is gonna tell them it's enough for you to drink you don't have to eat he can easily care little fancy the doctor depends what their what their problem is you know that's what their issue is some people need to drink simply they have to take medicine and the medicine they can't go a day without taking if a person just needs a multivitamin skip it but if a person or alright they take something for digestion or they take a vitamin D every day for just you know just forget about a drink or if they're just taking a pill wouldn't they they want to make it water and tasting well before that in other words but if a person has let's say heart medicine or has you know blood pressure or things that pervy dangerous warm or they're in situation where the pressure medication the situation where if you skip it's gonna kick them in it you know some people are certainty and then rejection medication for for you know what transplants and so on if a person is going to and again those are just examples lunch a nice tomorrow but in that case sometimes doctor will say didn't have to eat or drink anything they're really fine there's one thing they gotta take the pill they cannot go a day without the pill they can't swallow without water and and I tell people practice you want to practice it's a good if you good if you not have small pills and well in sitting the crowd here especially younger take Mookie's I stopped the Winkies Patrick's weekís and practice you know today that's tomorrow you'll learn how to swallow eventually you learn how you do laughs well how I learned but I you know what my sickness he's going to do it before the kipper and you need water so now ideally throw Heineman says ideal you should take water with set of water you should take something that takes a little bit off like a another medicine that has an off taste maybe like a mile Antho which is right you those flavor but it's stuck schmuck if that doesn't work or it's a medicine that you can ice around whatever you have to be careful there to medicines don't have a problem with each other you could take regular water but Elaine come last night she she she had she had shingles and she's on a certain medication I asked a lot fast Sara doctor said she's a student at state it's built Jessie huge pill and she even practiced in one ounce she said she could get it down so I told her to go through this whole process with blue glove and test yourself in other words one on Sanibel went to the minimum she can no one else's now if you make it over one and a half ounces one you know get all the graduate cylinder and try to figure out and why not put something like bad-tasting in that water like making it taste good you know you don't care about the taste all right if you would like you could it have to be careful with that you could you could feel my wife had a strap about 20 years ago before Yom Kippur we asked her vitamin what to do and he said you know take a like mylanta with it and she said it was horrible maybe she did it but in other words gel medicine you have to you have to be careful you don't want to you don't want to really the problem because I did did you get the medicine and he had the medicine my see it's something you really again if it could be done should be done you just want to want to be okay let's take some of the questions that we have my behavior the shear of less then the COS eyes for a feel of how much is it really impractical okay we discuss there it's not exactly cuz ice anyway and we discussed how much it is one should not go back what else okay it's a it's a it's a volume okay lady is asking is that disappear a lot huh that if one has a hectare must eat more than this year next time he eats he might be okay with lessen this year do we hold that we love myself well I mean again if someone's a college it's a condo and they have a had to eat then enough to ask attachment no it's every every bite blot a person Hodgins mr. Khanna but a but a someone that had to get away with less than the sheer which has to count every time they eat you know they want to be sure they can eat it's important to know by the way that if a person is a highlight I've heard this from a few compromised cam if a person's consciousness at Cana I mean I try their Potiphar fasting the whole thing would write that sure Amal bad in other words if you are born on to try this day it's a person chef a personal pleasures piece of content that really popped her from the tightness been around Bonin right the fee of of now trying to go less is a few drop on it just takes a little bit of the edge off a car is but if they're religious icon Allah they're really departed part is that right all this really posting that when they're asked if they if the person can either that right so the answer not you can you must eat grounds in that way you don't want pizza they want us you don't want a person to feel like you know I gotta eat but maybe I won't and then if they really have to eat then they must eat it's a miss penalty okay look how knees asking about half dollar and we got I think maybe she asked us that but you know as well yes I see it okay we'll get to that in a minute shops he asks should a your lettuce a woman I just gave birth tried to eat with you okay so we say the woman's it was in three days right so you Kippur she does not have to sure it was from three to seven days it's really she's putter and she's really regular I think disability Bishop bruises don't say maybe if she's able and she's capable she shouldn't do she room and a woman is more just one in seven days there's also discussion how to calculate seven days that was a shot she would rush a few years back but Lamesa is it's more in seven days she has to fast unless there's a medical problem it was a woman gave birth on Rosh Hashanah I mean this one seven two babies one seven days old she's moved fast not fast but obviously if she had a problem or the sub you should then again it's an individual question it's hard to write it's hard to give a general as a general rule okay are yes what did grab a hammer Paschal what the lady was unable to swallow a pill with less than an ounce of rice I told her that you should sure figure out although I told me it was more than I thought was born an ounce you should figure it out for an ounce and a half which I might guess I asked her I did you come from out of town and I said you know let's just small friend you're gonna get bigger she said okay she should we figured that she might make it to ounce and a half and she thought that Falacci was hopeful if that would be enough I guess other eight so would have been you know the right thing would be to follow up and say about adding you know thinking of medicine to start que no oh really okay let's have a star came thought we had a brand of plug in there yeah yeah we make it in the factory and with no basis approach gentlemen so I haven't tasted it though there's a flavor in there and we had a question I think we may have the addresses already can the person who was not it'll take his prescribed medicine medicine without water when it is not known as skipping a day will do any harm so he has a prescription medication she's not gonna take anyone's she's gonna swallow the pill right so general assume swallowing a pill for Hylas in more maple if someone's a Hilah well Jen basic corner that means they just don't feel well there's no danger we are not there to swallow a pill which like therefore Fela not a problem if a person doesn't know he's really should speak to the doctor if that child's today he doesn't know if what did ask I guess it means nothing to know if if he can skip it if you could skip it or not right put specific they should ask the doctor if the person still Pacific they should take it so it should be swallowed so if you're not sure if you can just skip it without any problem yeah you don't want to skip you know what's good - enough to the consent doctor and that that varies you know you got all sorts of it certainly antibiotic someone contracted struck you know tomorrow today and oh my medicine that's something you don't play games with so you can't give me a 25 hour span okay and we have we had economies question which was can the woman make up delemus on Yom Kippur so she can break her fast before husband comes home that is an excellent question very very very to give very relevant to many women because their husbands take their time well sometimes I do some women role with the kids right now come over anyway and even they call right with my remote tools Mozart's bull Schieffer and my roof and end of the eel is at Cisco common whatever that shawls 40 to 50 70 to 60 whatever they they hold that's what happened so by definition the husband's not gonna come on also educational Donna this this past month a Shabbos in Baltimore was it really after three days of the mall is it would yes a kitchen longest life you put the gun right we don't send Genesis make sure well okay can follow the good the gun all the senses brings that some push to say during say Robin what minute is not to say so I'm she'll say yeah that way number one you get the for Yom Kippur number two is seven both of us mister could be cloudy you know you never know right you could end up nice I think the pebble villages and then you see them right but anyway if they saved on a Shabbos could you say any what you would you would gain that you would come over it's probably shot because I don't like that's what's the shops the my look was I think about a lot of 30 that's a small time right there's a Maha Lucas high school but according to Hankin who held it you don't have to change the clock and other personnel here you don't see math we're at the beginning right so so therefore you would have been able to say however the prevalent mending is to be math we're at the end which is a cool at the beginning do you change the clock so 11 p.m. and there's Easter all those 4 p.m. here which means you only have such at such amount of time at the end to your master 7 hours you're you're strict so at the beginning going to that you would be able to sync your phone if someone asked me the shadows mornings okay and I told them this was his Shabbos you should be much wear because because a there's two reasons that say one is you have the they're makin rally aina right where you can not say it's too early right FB is yes you have to push it off so even those is it so now you said tomorrow okay but here it's like it's sex makeup i Possible's that say I see no problem the question is can she can we make up dollars come on okay so they're there right to the soul with generally speaking we say a woman again I think general and then we'll talk about it generally speaking we tell women ideally not service I have dollar on a regular basis if a woman is alone then she should attempt to hear a dollar from a man so that maybe she was to uh you know to a family next door or to shul or whatever it is however if a woman on a regular massive Shabbos is not in a position to make up dollar she should make she should make up doll herself and drink from half dollar there was another elephant that many bees women don't do for my dollar when the man makes for a woman makes Abdullah she needs and she's alone with other women she's a drink Abdallah sambar - Kennish sir except it cost has to hold Revere's etc so she needs to drink that Muslim Kippur we would consider shots attack and that is yeah that you know normal as a shop is she waits trust the converse a box on the hill and that's it on on now mutzie and Kippur never clusky a shoe on this and also spoke about this once in a shear the - you drink water unless you have kippers is a fascinating Shila I'll come back to that in a minute I don't confuse everybody but if you want to eat you want to eat you're hungry you're thirsty you you know you want to eat a drink you could we would make half dollar I might say it bro once takes a comment whatever Tamachi holds or if she's bill even if you hold later if let's say that someone doesn't eat till time T tool but she's not feeling well certainly we would roll back that time too earlier to break the fan she's a score of how early you know take the earliest time for a pilot and you know and especially she made it through the entire day the only thing that I would tell this woman she would they have dollar and it said tell my wife to do it was my wife is it sold for Neela but she goes home immediately after Schafer and then once you know once this man Malaka come she drives home right and I you know she said I'm Bill Mitchell drive home and make up dollar home any I will and then I come back after ability I tell women is that there's a shine on the pie scam whether a woman can make by a woman can make by her NH so she were actually says no the other day like pie skin who said yes they could stuff woman's home alone that makes half dollar so she should she has much reliance a brother to say um eyelash but here on this but says shopping for husband's coming home and a half hour from jewels so baby I said you don't need the but you don't believe the H in order to to make to make you know you have to all and eat without husband comes home he makes under H by the way the H is should be what's called their Shabbos and let's see I'm kipper that's a candle that the simplest method is to light a candle but before you get burgers again it's better than ever it's a shadow that you use the outside candle but the other you could but if you want designated that that's absolutely the best way to do it and then you use that candle when it's much a Shabbos but you have it a regular we're gonna see him Kippur on Wednesday night if you know I'm nurse Thomas you don't make it by marriage which means you gotta have it well it's not to Shabbos if you know you say using their Shabbos if you don't have one we allow you to use a regular Kim back to the water topic so normal month a shop is you can drink water before normal to shops well the question here is recess even though even though he can't eat after correct resolution shop assisted a a woman you know woman the husband comes home late from shul and she's thirsty especially the summertime she wants to drink you know for half dolla you are a lot to drink ordinary water in water so the problems about saying Kippur is do you need let's your Kippur besides the regular dinner Abdullah well you could drink water before but you are fasting you've kippers a kindness the question is is this have Dulla and your Kippur what we say in Kippur them along a part of it or does it also terminate eating the prohibition I see okay right so is there for the knife community what can any way to make up dollop it you could drink water so do we say no one says common columns now you're out of the under the eating prohibition and therefore he can because I'm at all but you could drinks and kippers over you should grabbed all you could drink this was a Shabbos Shubert Russian the flesh rule we're classy I'm afraid the acid ending riotous hahaha well what's the bottom line know that you could you could okay all right have another Thomas is right okay okay it's the case to face in case okay this is a good trick question how can you comment a few comments Rochelle should I can be a sir I'll give you a pseudo on pay stuff how do you eat comments if she'll sure this holiday unless they're pizza that's the question so the mr. Brewer has a technically nice no and that is your watched on the less debt pace of this user shop is actually coming up you wash before watch mushki you ain't mad sup he ate a meal and your meal slept into the night mmm-hmm I'm sure Bruce s technically if you wanted you could eat comments that point no put it back something you had a guy a neighbor that brought you uh uh you know some cookies you could eat those cookies but there's one problem super assess that that it's a steer because you need the cookies and then send EMS venchik you can't do that it's a contradiction I can do cookies she can't do it because of the alibi of a promising but but surplus key brought around others brought a ride at one second but I didn't make up all uppercase uh that's a bigger presents a problem so you see from there that not dollar is on is not on the peripheral he's suitum of a day in other words it's on the belong on the work so you can't can't drive a car you can't okay LeBron mother but I'm gonna lumbus or on the easier he loved him kipper gun that's gone with it no information that's all right very good very good okay you who this says in the show where you grew up the Rafael to say casual volunteer mr. cement you huh so you have another mess of which with to enter hard to say okay the Shiva's done my shoes they don't say I don't love an issue that says okay but okay okay different we did have a scare months it did at issue but a few years back yeah it was cloudy right remember you wrote about an article yeah right yeah it was cloudy cloudy and we have to insist I remember this I remember that that year very well because I traveled there to throw a fit issue but on the plus side no I said well it wasn't available in Baltimore to say so I saw your articles online and then I got there so I said I'll say you didn't answer so at least you know the last night I'll say thank you sir and as I went into dementia I said that I said to my boys I said after we come out after Meyer we're gonna say cash lejana but I forgot I understood I just I said that was the last night it was nothing else I could do I was a San Diego gonna cuddle san Diego's beautiful weather New York San Diego he told me in the 20 or so years he was there he almost never remembered it didn't remember a time you even postponed it one night funny because always clear owes that except my last week in San Diego it was a week after tisha Bob we moved to Bob and it was cloudy every night I'm saying I can't be on a plane to LA no on the red-eye maybe I'll say it there in the end I got it in some night barely it was clear it was just well you could say right if you see the room in here it's not supposed to go out but if you're running late you go yeah okay are you asking in this case of mud say Yom Kippur ideally or Kapila a woman doesn't have to wait for husband or she should wait chuchi well back in the regular woman doesn't make up dollars so certainly to say she can drink water right right water country boy I would say I do is use a white but usually that's it I'm gonna wants to eat that hungry in other words there's only I feel that's easy to push aside and say look just hungry she's fasting she was running normal okay all right I think we'll move on and spend next few minutes on homeboy which we promised to speak a couple of minutes on I'm sure there's many more questions about your Kippur and you can reach us at Starrcade 4 1 0 4 8 4 4 1 1 0 or info at star - kata or force the boss appointment all by this one the last Wednesday of the month is there a televised you do you broadcast your wonderful program no we do not about the case this here is it no 20 24 11 in 2024 they'll be classic of April ok I'll have before that but that one just came to mind right right right so the answer is no then we take off on your typical Moya we take off we let our listeners take off everybody's off ok ok so come on right so what are some practical quick practical topics shopping people people are off you know they want to go shopping sales rule was muscle mutton which is business homebodies prohibited unless unless one to two important examples once let's talk about you so I buy it means it's for the benefit of of the antov or mine I certainly food shopping my people you know usually they're cooking more than usual to somebody but either way they have to go shopping so that type of shopping free huntin eccentric is certainly certainly winter it allowed the question or strike a bite someone needs an article of clothing to use on your home I do give them the law says that's also permissible with all the examples of number of eight if a person is in a situation where if they don't get it now they'll lose out so let's say a unbelievable sale something that not just a regular like just like 10 percent of dollars and always a sale everywhere you know every time it means something that's that's unusual unusual and something you need it is something that's not available otherwise and motivate for example your online fairs you know something but wait they want to go to her to straw or it were their children any Shiva you know I've suddenly clue the Telstra cotton tells Cleveland Chicago I said some thoughts Cleveland and you know there was a coup for where the fares just every just never went down never went down in the summer actually they would they it was unbelievable sale they had compound it such a lot of time not having the summer dad had happen hole money I would have grabbed it saying that you know I'm waiting months for this identify for the bus system attention that's a real cover of it you talk hundreds of dollars oh and I went down and stayed down actually would recommend just but you know I know that we kind of come to ride you don't know you don't know what about if if you're somewhere and bumpy wants to buy your kids something right so that's a summer of it that this happens you have sometimes grandparents who will join buying something so so AG if a grandparent what's a little tip a few call them present they want to buy something that's a sign and it's they could buy something with somebody in other words you want to buy something that did grandchild will get I'm not from I'm young to follow might that's certainly not probability they want to buy they want to take out family and they say okay it's it's on us what about you know that type of present that would be a number of aid because you know for a family saying okay this will be this gift will be covered and they're here and they're gonna buy because they're going shopping with them and have you pick out and all that when they leave town you're not gonna get that benefit so if the grandparents or Alcorn and whoever it is once the same luck that you shopping and pay for it that is considered of our uh big for the recipient because when they're not around it's not gonna happen another another there are of it sometimes is a person is in a city where something is just not available for example what's example you know Lakewood has certain stores that you know certain things are available that that are just not available readily available in other cities in the in the in the amounts of people will find something that in their hometown they might not find whatever whatever it might be and therefore you there they're visiting you know holobyte and they say I could get it right here where I live it's just not available this is complicated to get and it's something where they can't get in otherwise something good order order later but let's say this is a article of clothing where you want to see it you want to see what it is that it also you want to UM you who dare saying that Monday calamari is Columbus State and some stores may have sales again but would have to be a sale that's unusually right I mean the sales it you know I found that their sales there's a guy's a holiday their holiday sales that go all year round with the holidays of the asylum mm-hmm after Columbus Tammy thank you or whatever to go through the whole list of battery of all the huggums their holidays but you know whatever it is it's imprison esta you know right okay not having over time to shop constitute Devereaux no meaning theoretically the only other way of going to the store is by taking away that's that's a share Hector because that's really hostiles I'm gonna use the term in Kaunas of Hall of money this is what cuz I'll were afraid of Mac there were several points of this number one haircuts you don't think you know I don't think yeah that's all mine how's our friend people say Arab yontiff West I'm having a haircut I'll come into the other you know that looking proper call my so the answer that laundry can't do lunch call my for that reason people last time so so and there's another hostile MIT the general rule holla might is that a mice ahead yet which means a something that an average person could do you don't have to send know how to do with policy change a tire change a tire something that you'll have to be a mechanic to do that's considered I might say handed and therefore that's motor let's are combining it without getting into all complicated carb pairs but or hang up a picture that's somebody let's say person says you know what I have lots things around the house to do the trash my buddy my house being hands-on my bleep up last days I want to fix this and is it doorknob that needs to be fixed and in this need six I have that holobyte so let me wait at the holobyte that's called Mohammed a little my aid and generally speaking that's prohibited so if you if you if you are you to do list you push the side column money saying well there is it strike I'm buddy that's awesome so same thing here person just doesn't attack to shower like that call a boy that is not a Hector my scene okay that's different than if you're a city and then the cells there in front of you is a question of time Shawn's asking question going back to the gifting of the grandparent if the grandparent is asking the question so can they by the president when visiting the grandchildren you're saying that the grandchildren for the for the parents who would have to buy it otherwise for them because they're they're the grandparent helping honor if they permit if they can arrange that to do it after yontiff and say we were ever you live in honor of their before you live in honor of our visit you know here that's certainly that's the better water way that's not always practical especially with clothing or or or bicycle you know see the bicycle kitchen wants it whatever it is then then I think it's motor because there they are ensuring there's no door off their their dumb probably will allow them to buy the present plus the second by this day again I'm not of you know giving my tunnel I see okay okay we're not going to work some stores themselves the question is you go into a store you know someone is there asking you know what's that to be open that's a child that they may ask those book you're a store owner you mean rnase question right you the fruit stores because if you're a - I love that day you know they asked they should ask depending on what you're selling and what your needs are you use so if you wants to do a store that's a formal order you have to soon be felt obstacles they ask that child left your store owner said now my hurrah and go through exactly what I remember there was a store that sold like baby carriages in Brooklyn and once needed one I called him on call boy I said you know I call them to make sure they're open I said that it was a firm story I said are you open they said we're open for call them oh it means and actually when you got there they did they did it according to what that luckily it's like there's their their gate was down your Callaway gate down the door was open so it was like half open and closed which is got disgusting already and so they really weren't were you know if you listen people need carriages sometimes because the rap breaks if it means I buy something they weren't open for business well the question no one and not going to work right so that's something about that go to work that's something that so much should they ask you know a Shila this is this is it's hard to generalize well we could generalize but in what yes don't shy look you know in general we'll say a person should try to take off from work to avoid because it's master plan if it's at overall evade nominee it's our rabbi is that Adam is RAF means that I'm going to lose profit was working and I make X dollars kind of the hole might I don't get paid that's not that's not enough of a hectare what does the answer is either the work itself is number of it you know if you're an employer like two examples of urine if you're a you own the you own the operation and you say look I have customers and yontiff yontiff technically you know it's our clothes Thursday and Friday that did not matter and then if they see we're closed for ten days elsewhere and I'm gonna loop that they what they all they liked other that make competitor right right they can go elsewhere and that wasn't forever that's number of it so therefore that is the classic Hector for someone owns a business to at least services customers now that doesn't have to go send the salesman out to make new business that just means we're catering to the needs of our customers also depends on what type of business he owns if you're an employee and you work somewhere the typical Dover Ave would be where the company's going to be upset with your work especially if a person is risking his job that's pushing but then another drama is where there's gonna be ill will because you're ready taking anything off the beginning correct Danny's at the end if someone doesn't have occasion for example and they say you know some companies will sell can we understand you have your holidays we're gonna let you borrow the vacation so we can make a special favor and give you the aunty vacation days but really you've already you know use your pool of vacation days then you come with all of my they're gonna they're gonna just say like you know this is too much and then you know Boston or other employees are going to have perhaps they'll be ill well like why is he gonna take off a lot of days you know ten days or whatever it is and therefore one has to gate this is it this is any a in order to pass in the shadow that you need pressure this fifth it's an art and that's the sinkhole of understanding the impact of taking off so you could properly present the Shia love to a minor or raw you want to get a feel for what happens if I take off not believe to give a good job you're not employees to jeopardize your job you're not employee of to or have you know it's an area where you're in your situation of well don't forget this concept of Ummah solemn were looking at how many days we take off dates back to how much someone already told told shops and pacify everything always always always happens always pays up and leave early case I always pay sir right egged me though we gotta go to yonder for that personal said you're complaining about our young tiger they get another one in your honor but you see that you know this is something needs careful direction I do want to show everybody to stargaze not close because we have Cassius take care of it we close then we have correct it's because nobody staff of people are the companies want something like you know we're not we're never gonna actively pursuing new we don't run out in the cold call anyway but it means things a little bit uh you know look at sublet slower okay I think that we we covered many many topics let's just take a couple of the last questions ever ever visiting family and getting there just before yonk if can you fix something all the more that they cannot do that really depends wouldn't that's a general question whatever what you think what is it and what's the need of it that's all it somewhere on Chavez clothing on column oh yes yes we considered yontiff should be the Shabbos or you know something the special clubs from very well okay cooking I'll call it more after young person that's the judge there's one case I'll tell you about a second very interesting but generally speaking cooking 4ft under is austere so that's very relevant if someone's making it simpler people make it has a gravitational fasteners that are you know right after yontiff okay so there's a caterer that's dealing with that but then you have Jeff Ross you know you could have as someone can get married Sunday or Monday at the under Tuesday is there any it's already um Jeff Ross or something environments when I prepare you are comparison can not prepare a whole money it's also there's one case that you can prepare for after you live this year and dad is you could prepare whole bunch of shops gracious shops registers the day after suppose Tyra and they bring a Raya the writer is the fact that you can make it you make it optional whole body right what's an iftar Sheila cooking in Columbine I start over shyness for Shabbos right now how can you get up chillin prepare for shopping it's already after the under par the answers when yelling is attached column light we allow you to cook but if you wanted was a bit detached then the shops is detached like most jobs bridges you can't blow so you cannot mm-hmm asking mmm I believe she's joining us from ancestral what about exercising info my okay Robbie motor exercise would be butter the most health things are motor if a person wants to make a doctor's appointment and it's a um it's a routine checkup and that should not happen a home light right as you say well call my time off let me go to the eye doctor I go to the dentist there's more laughs about fishing the dentist is Milazzo involved in the process is that somebody if a person had a cavity and their pain some people think he ever dated come back in the next six weeks you'll be fine so they do not come home like persons in pain it could get it fixed on all my you know your wisdom teeth pulled the whole mine right that's like you know that's a real octave a breaker that you should do exercises multi regular regular exercise with called mañana chops of course generally exercise the problem you know it's a problem right okay I think that there are other questions that we didn't get to I would ask if you want to submit them to our email info I started educating or ago give us a call for one zero four four four one one zero I want to thank our Chapman and Miss Debbie Rowe system for helping us in this webinar and thank your Abba hammer for joining us time ago gr but everybody mrs. 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