SSSS Parshas Matos

okay this week paras only one para this week m and m separates the three paras between mto m and para right now we're in a period of time that is called b sorry which are the three weeks the three weeks between and the gora yuma says famous why was the first why was it destroyed because they had they were on the three that is why the first was destroyed Why was the second base of destroyed the second base of English was destroyed because of the following Why is it that by the gulas was was for a finite period of time it was for a period of 70 years and they knew it would be for 70 years and it was for 70 years a mdash where all they technically were was the not that we're making light of being but they were of and because of that we still don't know when the gulus will end and we've been dominating for the gula for almost 2,000 years We've suffered inquisitions holocausts pilgrims everything throughout these 2,000 years And still there's we have no idea when this ghost is going to end All because of the love of so how come the first was so finite It was for 70 years and they were over unbelievably tremendous and for the and for the second were still suffering in that gulus almost 2,000 years not even knowing when this gulus might end So it's brought down in the from the there's a reason for this I'm going to read you another Gmorrah The Gmorrah says the says which we're going to l soon um couple of weeks That's one you want to call but you can call out to Hashem There's another which we lain a couple days ago Lane it also on we kindness the says when could you seek out Hashem when could you find Hashem when he's available is there so how do we reconcile those two one says the inra that whenever you want to find Hashem you go out to meet anybody can call him and he's always available and then we have Another that says yes the only time that you can really get to is when he's available when he's close to us right is not close to us then it must be that is not available so which one is it so we can answer the the that there's a difference here one of them is talking about a theu is talking about what that's a rabbit A robin has a special that whenever when you're when you act as a robin when you are robbing when you're in zur whenever you want to come close you have that opportunity however of somebody who is a young kid somebody who separates himself from a he's one person on his own he's talking about is available to you when he's available to you only when is right here That's the answer to that question by the bayas reshine by reshine whatever they did and they did a samuras they didn't give a damas by reshine one thing they still had though they may have been a but they were still they still had they were still close to each other they still were in a and therefore they were to a gula after 70 years they were to a finite There was a gul that lasted a certain amount of time and then they had the gul However by the shi there was by they became a they were split apart and once you're in you could only reach and when is when we only make when this goes we fix up everything that we did wrong that the base of was destroyed that's the only times it's going to be uh that's the only time that we're going to be able to have a side only if there's a complete take that and when is only if we deserve it The says there's a riot to this It brings very interesting riot as he was shown The says in last week's para by the who had no brothers they wanted to get in So they asked the following why should our father because he didn't have any sons Why should he be any less than somebody who did have sons we also want to see a beautiful brush on this He says when is considered when we act as together then we have and we are but if we're not then we lose the name of from amongst the family of Israel when we split apart when there's when we're not together then we lose the shame of moral says a beautiful thing here says he said that like this since we know that Israel really has a shame we're always called the Torah calls us right since we have a shame and the ultimate goal of the of is to be that The haram has one goal His goal is that we should never make it to this mat of we should never make it back to this mat that we become in because always be available to us If we're going to be if we're going to is going to be our will have to be he'll have to listen to how it feels to have cries and finally being Mashiach The atara has that goal in mind by us continuing by us being involved and by the world being involved and unfortunately being involved in so much we're playing right into the hands of the every time we make and we make and we say yeah this is is for sure good this is no it's not really a this is every time we come up with an excuse like that we're playing right into the hands of the ataro because that's what the ataro wants most that we should not have and we should not be able to get to that goal of is called a again by the mishkun we find we see also a mishkun the mishk and the of the is the of you have to make as a as a everything has to be together in order to have a mash in order to have the and by those two things it says for us You need only through the are we able to have the and are we able to have the mdash and so says another unbelievable here in the in the we'll be able to tie together and understand what we what we just said and the questions we asked He says the reason why the Bikto was destroyed was not necessarily because of the a just because of the love of of it could be that if we just had were the of maybe we wouldn't have been punished for one lab yes not good to do an al of course we don't want to do an ala but maybe just for one of the the mito for that reason alone wouldn't have been destroyed Something unbelievable The reason the Bikosh was destroyed is because what comes out of the sin what comes out of that because what happened now we're not connected anymore when we have we don't have a relationship and if we don't have a relationship with once that's gone then the Bikish had to be not necessarily because we were over allowed The reason the mash was destroyed is because by having by breaking apart by having we destroyed the connection between we destroy that connection there's no reason for mikdash cannot exist So when we say everybody knows a famous mera which you'll hear many times in the next three weeks and hopefully it won't be three weeks hopefully mashia will come before then hopefully we'll start and we'll be able to do that Right Somebody if the Bik is not built in your days if the Bik is not built this year it's as if the was destroyed this year So what's the reason because by when we continue when we continue when we look at another year no he's not as good as us And we say about what's happening we're keeping we're keeping the alive We're keeping the spirit alive And by keeping it alive now we understand very well why it's as if we destroyed it because the minute we have that connection the minute we have the minutes we have the minute we have the we'll have a and we'll have everything together and will have to be but how do we make this connection so I was thinking of a I hope I could say this but it's it's related to this week's para the says in this week's para when I talks about the inuring things We learned that when you want to something you have to capture it in the same way that you made a trade So maybe that fits exactly It fits very well with what we said What happened the base of mik was burned The m of mik was destroyed Why because of the the only way we could cauture ourselves The only way we could reverse the burning of the BA mikdash is is to be as is as ves is that we should have the same kind of fire and the same kind of drive for the same kind of drive to have to be friendly to not speak to that every year there should be there should be amongst So we have this time of the year of course is very the the eyes of are on us especially this is the time of the year that we're we're coming up to the to the day of fish again and wants to see are we going to change are we finally going to stop this are we going to give him a reason to to act as our father and take us out of