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Shalom Alim everybody Welcome to the
Y Community Center we are not yet open
hopefully on Hanukkah we'll have a grand
opening but we um we welcome everybody a
warm welcome home to Torah for those who
are not familiar what we do here we use
the clear as the basis of our discussion
of course we deal with fundamentals
really fundamental concepts in Judaism
in
Yad and I encourage you to use the
original Hebrew sheets which you can
find down below link to in the in the
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number one number two we're actually
going to talk about Sedaka charity to a
certain extent how important it is and I
just want people to know that on our
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because what we do here at yanet is we
give out a lot of Charity and we help so
many people in so many different ways so
through tonight's learning which is just
I randomly picked something I haven't
seen or done before in the CLE car which
is always exciting for
me uh of course review you have to do
review you have to go over the lessons
you've already learned and embed them
right bring them into your heart and
hopefully that will change your life or
make your life more meaningful and
better so what we are discussing here
tonight is the children who are born
these twins that are born from that
relationship where where Yehuda goes out
and he is involved with Tamar not
knowing it was Tamar about to put her to
death
where you know she puts up the Sone and
he admits that she's more righteous than
him and these are the CH children who
are born from this Union of Yehuda and
Tamar who end up one of them ends up
being in direct lineage for kingship and
one of them does not and we're about to
find out why that is so we're dealing in
pares v shave it's in chapter 38 of
Genesis verse
29 okay
now we're dealing with the birth the
birth of parot and peris
and
zerak who comes from who right Yehuda is
going to descend from
Paris and zerak we'll see who descends
from zerak but the PK we're looking at
is in verse 29 where it says in English
verse and it came about as he was
drawing back his hand behold his brother
emerged and she
said the mother what with what strength
ha you have strengthened yourself and he
Yehuda named him Perez right
parrots now what was actually
happening the first one to reach out his
hand from the womb right so to speak
from the womb was the hand of zarak and
there was a Simmon placed a crimson
piece of string placed on his hand and
he withdrew his hand he brought his hand
back in I mean this you have to have a
good imagination I don't know if this
ever happened in history but it happened
and he put his hand back in and then
parrots came out first so who really was
born first let's leave that up for now
for your imagination but the actual baby
that came out first was parot even
though zerak put his hand out and then
withdrew his hand and I'm just we're
going to focus on these words as he was
drawing back his hand in
Hebrew okay that's going to be the the
words we're going to be using to explain
everything now the first thing the clear
points out is arba
four times the word hand is said now I
will read the English just so you should
see how and we'll count them together so
if we go back to verse 27 and it came to
pass at the time she gave birth that
behold there were twins in her womb and
it happened 28 that as she gave birth
one put out a hand first time hand is
used a midwife took a Crimson thread and
tied it on his hand
saying that's the second time hand is
used this one emerged first oh one
second and it was as he drew back his
hand this is our verse that behold his
brother emerged and then she said with
what strength you asserted yourself and
he called that's Yehuda called his name
parot afterwards his brother on Whose
hand so where we at is this the third
time or the fourth time was the Crimson
thread came out and he called his name
zerak I want to go back and read again
so we have all four times it happened
that as she gave birth one put out a
hand his the Midwife took the Crimson
thread and tied it on his hand this one
emerged first and it was he drew back
his hand third time that behold his
brother emerged and she said with what
strength you assert yourself and he
called his name parrots afterwards his
brother on Whose hand four times hand is
used was the Crimson thread that one
came out and Yehuda called him
zerak okay so the clear points out in
case we didn't realize that the word
hand is used four
times four times the the word hand is
used here now he says
so a in Joshua he committed a crime
of he he took things that were sacred
and he us he took them actually he
stole and you should be familiar with
what happens over there he's put to
death who did he come from he descended
from
zeru as it says in St hedrin
43a I mean the gamorra is actually
bringing down a verse itself if you read
Joshua 7: 24 and 25 it says that Yeshua
took aan the son of zerak the silver the
mantle the wedge of gold and his sons
and his daughters and his ox and his
asses and his sheep and his tent and all
that he had and all of Israel with him
and it continues and all of Israel
stoned him with stones they burn them
with fire and stone them with stones
we're not going to deal with the crime
of aan tonight but apparently according
to the gorah actually was a little bit
confusing to me because there's one
opinion that he violated three serious
crimes another opinion he violated five
serious crimes where the CLE car got
that he violated for I don't know but
maybe it's a compromise I don't know but
we'll go with the flow that the word y
yav his hands are written four times
that's clear that's for sure we went
through it twice and the clear is
explaining based on this Gora that he
violated um he transgressed using holy
items four different
ways so the clear says
ra the reason there is a hint to this
idea of the connection between hands and
violations is to teach us loros
on account of the fact that aan
descended from him came from
him Zer did not Merit to succeed to
become a king nor any of his children
only through the line of Yehuda okay and
why is that the clear card brings down a
verse in Mish in Proverbs
294 it's number three in
the it
saysit that only if a king is Stern
and establishes Justice then the the the
country will
exist right here he translates a king
establishes the country with Justice or
through justice but what about an isot
right har a Hy man will destroy the
country in in in the Rashi says if an
honest judge remember King Solomon he
was a king King David was a king they
were judges they sat in judgment so if
if he's an honest judge he establishes a
country whereas Rashi continues to say
what about a h man he does not take he
does not care to take time in judgment
either he's too quick or he's not as
diligent the rabbis in cbis mentioned
that if a judge is like a king who does
not who does not have to acquire friends
and accept bribes so now we're talking
about a judge himself if he's acting
like a king a proper King should be very
wealthy and he doesn't have to acquire
friends right there's a mission in
perote to acquire friends well he
doesn't have to acquire friends because
he has I don't know
the power of life and death you're like
automatically the king's friend and he
certainly doesn't have to accept any
bribes and through that he's able to
bring right True Justice to the to the
country and he establishes the country
but if he's like a priest so there's a
difference between the kingdom the
kingship which is um let's say domestic
law as opposed to a priest which is
religious law and if the priest asks for
trumo in the threshing floor
if he's asking first of all you as the
one giving have the right to choose
which priest you give it to so the
priest who's trying to get the truma
he's tearing it down meaning if the king
is acting like a priest so there's an
idea of separation between what we call
and in English in America they call it
separation between church and state so
in our Judaism there's really a SE
there's no separation there really is no
on a certain level there's no
separation however we have to imagine a
separation right so so the king should
not act like a priest and demand things
but rather be um quite confident and
self-sufficient and
whatnot okay so the clear continues
after this verse he's after we got this
idea that zerak was not going to be mat
with kingship because of his well we're
going to see and find out
the only right if only if you um
basically chase after greed if greed is
your motivating factor that's going to
be a problem and
therefore then you're going to accept
bribes this is what we see happening in
many countries I don't want to mention
any names but we basically have people
who um run for office who are poor when
they run and then 30 years later or 40
years later they're
multi-millionaires it's better to have
someone who's wealthy to start off who's
not going to accept bribes you get the
hint therefore he withdrew his hand he
had no place this person called zerak
had no place as being a
king so he would drew his hand because
he really wasn't fit Nei neither for to
be the first born nor to be in line of
Kings it's very strange CU we're getting
an introduction to this idea that he
withdrew his hand that's literally the
words we're dealing with and the cleard
is giving some insight into the type of
person who you want as a leader and
unfortunately even zerak had progyny who
was you know talking about aan here uh
committed a grave crime of thievery
I wouldn't call it extortion but it was
it was definitely thievery and he
violated uh the sanctity and the holy
things that were captured in war and
that was in Jericho and was not to be
used at all by anybody who collected
what we call the schl The Spoils of War
that was dedicated to Hashem and to be
totally uh destroyed and burnt and he
stole and he stole and you know what
happened as a result
36 soldiers died in the next war of I
and I think it's going to be very um
pertinent to talk about as we go
further so the clear is now going to try
to explain the the fact that it had four
times the word hand in the the few
sentences that we
read there's some kind of a hint
regarding there's a hint regarding
someone who desires has
a such a desire for
money that he does not he does not pass
from this world with even half of his
desires
fulfilled right as it says
if someone has
100 he's going to want 200 you have 100
you want 200 whatever you have well
guess what that doesn't have to be it
doesn't have to be it's not a good thing
to be in this constant state of Desiring
more and more more and more wealth of
whatever it is he call Adam every human
being well again this a general rule D
every be every human being
has two hands okay we know exceptions
but and what does he do with those two
hands that he has in this lifetime he's
going to make effort and work in order
to receive to
reach
handfuls with his own power and his own
might according to whatever ever effort
he made right that's what we do we have
two
hands not four wait till you see this if
that's
true right anything that he achieves um
obtains it's because of the work of his
two
hands if for some reason that person is
not
satisfied in what Hashem granted
him by filling His Hands by having full
you know a
handful so then he desires more I just
want to stop here for a second and
mention peros tells us who is a who's
wealthy who is wealthy someone who
is someone who is happy with his life
L that's rich that's wealth right that's
true happiness the person who cannot
stand the fact that someone else has
more than him I think they call that in
in in America they call it uh keeping up
with the Joneses in our circles we say
keeping up with the
schwarzes but you get the idea that the
grass is always greener on the other
side or you're not you're never
satisfied you're not completely
satisfied that I get but you want
more as we said he's Desiring more uh
that his hand should be
full the word m here is outcome in order
that the outcome would be enough for
four hands two hands are not enough Four
Hands is what he wants
this in essence is the measure of
someone who owns one but wants two or
has a 100 and wants 200 or has 1 million
and one's two million you can do the
math meaning double of what he's already
achieved he still wants more than just
his two hands
the this is where we get to the idea
that anybody who has this deep desire
for money I'm not going to call greed
although we started with that
idea but he has this desire for money
he's unlikely okay David he's unlikely
therefore as we were saying anybody who
is Desiring money cannot be a true Giver
he's not going to be a real Giver
because he wants to hold on to his money
and hold on to his money in order to
just make more money which I understand
but we'll find out that the one who
really wants to make an impression on
the world and get we're going to call a
place in and get true reward we
understand what whatever he was given is
not even his right it's a gift from God
God graced you with this and you would
likely to give Saka is opposed to
someone who thinks that they earned it
and it belongs to them and they're going
to use that money just to make more
money but the point here he
says that's why
Z for times y right four times his hand
is
used and we had we saw that he gave you
know progenies to aan he is not likely
to be successful to be in a position of
power kingship or judge judgment as K
tell us in gamorra Stan hedin
49a when he did Mish you know what he
did he made sure that everybody walked
out happy right that the guy who was
being
judged right let's say wrong you know he
did a wrong and he was giving Justice
David was a bason right was a bason but
he was one of the he was on the S hedin
and um he made sure in his court that
the person who was guilty that was
mishpat there was true judgment and at
the same timea true uh see even the word
SED means judgment and and righteousness
but it's sedu it's charity he made sure
that everybody walked out feeling that
mishpat was done and Sedaka was done and
he says ready for this because did both
yav was his General
was and we're going to see the gamor now
why David was successful in war and
we're going to see that the enemies will
fall if you do what if you give
Sedaka okay so for those people I can't
believe for last year and almost a half
the Jewish people have been doing so
much Seda so much for the war effort so
much for the widows so much for the
women whose husband or milim so much for
the soldiers it's like impossible to
describe in a short period of time the
amount and we have here people were
making
tius was facilitating 90 pairs of to
filling for soldiers that want in we
made thousands and thousands I have no
idea how many just our group alone made
sites for theim underneath the raban of
the of the army and um we had given tens
of thousands of shekele in the beginning
anyway towards um the MU andem so many
organizations have been there for each
other we're all here for each other and
that's true s and this is where we're
going to win the war you understand that
wait till you hear more okay if you look
at The Source number four St hedrin
49a I I think it's worth reading to
understand
David's judgment and the Sedaka part
that really brought about y's ability to
uh for the Army to be um
successful so it says the gamor
notes and those so the previous part of
the gamorra described yav in a very
negative uh negative light
but not everyone agrees with this so
those who view yav in a negative light
disagree with the previous right the
previous opinion of Rabbi ABA barana as
RAB ABA barana says if it wasn't for
David who studied the Torah yoav would
not have been able to wage worse
successfully we're going to see two
things Torah and Sedaka and were not for
the military Acumen of yav then David
would not have been able to study Torah
it's so interesting you have the Army
and you have the Yeshiva if it wasn't
for one you wouldn't have had success
you needed the army so that the Yeshiva
guys can study you need the Yeshiva guys
to study so that the Army could succeed
why does everything have to be black and
white what do they call it binary one
way or the
other both this and that the way of uh
the words of God it says in 2 Samuel
8:15 that David exacted judgment and
Justice the verse says about mishpat and
Seda to all his people and yav Son of
zarua was over the army that is what
made success both like they just said by
D he did
Mish and what's the reason that D EX Ed
judgment and justice to all his people
how did he do both mishpat and and S he
was able to do so because yav was over
the Army assisting him and fighting his
battles what is the reason that yoav the
son of was over the
Army he was able to do so because D did
originally both SED and Mish and mbat
and that's the
gamor let's go on in the clear Al
nuda regarding Yehuda in the BR of Moshe
Renu to the tribe of Yehuda look in
chapter
33:7 of
Deuteronomy
337 we find that in number
five may this also be for Yehuda and he
Moses said oh hearken oh Lord hearken to
yehuda's voice and bring him to his
people now hear these words may his
hands do battle for him the hands that
can either give Saka or refrain from
giving Sedaka may his hands do battle
for him and may you Hashem be a help
against his who against his
enemies okay look in the Hebrew it says
y now the word RAV it's very it's a very
interesting word because it can mean so
many different things it can be a m
a raav it could be a lot could be many
here it means enough it means enough
well we'll see here is being translated
as battle battle let's see the clear he
says yud 33:7 of Deuteronomy
y again we are translating it as battle
because you're talking about of the
enemies the clear says Yul
means that his hands what they should do
battle it should have been plural the
word ra if it means battle since the
hands are plural the word battle should
be
plural of course y implies two hands
it's plural the the word ra
is something doesn't mat up something
does does it make
sense that what is it trying to teach us
there is a lesson here
sh the lesson is do not one should not
desire uh money or you know physical
wealth more than two hands worth more
right more than you can handle
D two hands is enough the word
raav means enough it's another way to
look
at it's enough for you in fact that's
how it's
translated if you like the verse
said
ah one second in in Deuteronomy 3:
26 okay but the Lord was angry with me
Moses is speaking because of you he
didn't listen to me he did not listen to
me the Lord said to me it is enough for
you look at the Hebrew
ra right it's enough for you but it
actually says more now in English you
wouldn't see it says speak to me no more
regarding this matter so in the Hebrew
is El
Al to
don't speak anym about this matter but
if you read it like
this it's enough for you don't add you
don't need anymore just another way of
reading those same
words so back in the clear we got the
idea that ra l means enough for him and
we said it's a language and that's the
verse he just brought down chapter 3:
26 Al and what is this h
that's enough God gave you two hands and
what you do with them that's enough what
do you need four hands for what do you
need
L don't request more than what your two
hands can can do and what did it say at
the end of Deuteronomy
337 wait till you hear this so you go
back to 337 this was number five right
may his hands do battle for him and may
you help Hashem may you help against his
enemies so how does God when will God do
that when you feel you have enough and
then you're a giver you're you know that
you have enough remember if you feel you
feel like you don't have enough you're
unlikely to give okay but when you feel
rich right you
are you know that you have enough and
you're willing to give more to others so
that's what the clear is saying based on
the end of that
verse right may you help him against his
enemies is a meter of feeling that you
have enough right you have enough Supply
satisfaction with what you
have that's the reason to give because
you really feel you have enough
and because of this the Merit right if
you feel
this then in the Merit of that your
enemies will fall before
you yav mean right we just saw that from
yav just like it says also in
Psalms at 112 chapter 112 of toim of
Psalms verses 5-8 now I didn't copy the
whole thing here on the sheet but if you
read it on your own you'll see this is
amazing person good is the man who is
gracious and lends
to and what will
happen if you are
gracious right that's what it means
you're an you're not just an
you're you money you
give then and you also conduct all your
Affairs Mish properly and it's beautiful
you can read all the verses in between
verse 8 says his heart is steadfast he
will not fear until he sees in his
adversaries that word your enemies your
adversaries they will fall before you oh
okay now the cleard ends after those
verses the meaning ends this paragraph
so too it's also quoted in babama in in
page
17A it says over there someone
who someone who's involved in giving
charity basically you're enemies will
fall before you as
corpses the gamor is amazing I think
it's worthwh looking at and let's do it
now it's on page three number eight it's
like a third of the way down where it
becomes bolded large RAB yokan says in
the name of RAB
shimai what is exactly the meaning it
says in Isaiah chapter
3220 happy are you that so
besides all Waters we're going to focus
on the word Waters that send forth the
feet of the ox we're going to focus on
the word ox and the donkey maybe I'll
give you like a little bit of an Insight
Waters is referring to
Torah ax is somehow referring to Joseph
and Donkey is referring to yakar yakar
let's see how he goes it teaches that
whoever engages in the study of Torah
and in the performance of Acts of
Kindness merits reward equal to the
portion of the two tribes ysep and Yar
the gor explains how is this derived
from the verse well it does say Happ you
that so sewing what it's referring to
sewing acts of Charity because we know
in a hosiah chapter 10:12 it says seow
for yourselves for charity reap
according to the kindness so we see a
connection right there and what about
the water water always refers to the
study of Tor as it says in Isaiah
55:1 ho all who are thirsty go to the
water and we know that's referring to
the the water of Torah and the fact that
he merits reward equal to the portion of
these two tribes is is derived as
follows the reference of the ox is an
illusion to yoseph as it says in
Deuteronomy
33:17 and what about right and one's
reward is that he merits to receive a
canopy of Honor as ysep did okay it says
ysep is a fruitful Vine a fruitful Vine
by a fountain its branches run over the
wall the idea of branches running over a
wall is compared to a
canopy what about the reference of the
donkey that is talking about
yakar okay who is described as a donkey
not like an ass in a bad way but as in a
donkey in a certain way um it says in
Genesis 49:14 yakar is a large bone
donkey now we got that straight now are
those who can make this comparison in a
totally different manner remember the
statement was his enemies will fall will
fall before him is like in the blessing
given by Moses to the tribe of yoseph
and it says over there
Deuteronomy
33:17 by the way the blessing is
bestowed by Moses to the tribe of ysep
it says and I want you to remember this
quote when you see what's going on in
the world whether it's in Syria whether
it's in Lebanon whether it's in the Gaza
whether it happened with all the seven
countries that came against us in the
past or today with the houis in Yemen or
maybe tomorrow with Iran who knows it
says his horns are the horns of a wild
ox with them he shall Gore the Nations
even to the ends of the Earth and what
about the merits then he merits and he
will Merit the understanding of yakar
yakar was being they understand they
understood how astronomy Works they
understood the time you know the the
time schedules about everything and they
were the ones that learned the T
and zul was the one that supported them
it says over in 1
Chronicles
12:33 and of the children of yakar men
that had understanding of the times to
know what Israel ought to do they had
clarity about the times and when to act
and when not to act okay so the last
thing we read in the clear was that your
enemies will fall before you and now we
know she r l that his hands were enough
for him we use the word Ra was enough
for
himal okay that means that with the
Amal that his efforts would be enough
from what he received from his two hands
worth of work and he was satisfied
the and he did not seek extra uh
luxuries right he was
satisfied then that person will be a
true Giver of Charity and therefore what
hasem does
was he will be a help against your
adversaries now the cleard ends with the
last five
lines everything we just said about
being a BAL Sedaka giving giving giving
and the enemies would fall before you
comes from Yehuda who descended from
parrots zerak however when it came to
zerak what did he do he retracted his
hand for some reason he didn't feel that
what he got from his two hands was
enough his hands were not
enough but he didn't seek just two hands
he wanted four hands and that's exactly
what we've been talking about for the
last half hour and those four hands are
mentioned in these couple
verses he actually desired things that
were not fit for him we're not Royo like
it says by aan aan in chapter 7:21 7
verse 21 of Joshua look at number nine
on the sore sheet where I bolded it he
admitted this was his confession I
coveted them and I took them he stole
but listen to the the English and then
we'll see the Hebrew and this is what
his confession was when I saw the spoils
of a goodly b babylonish garment and 200
shekels of silver and a wedge of gold a
50 shekels weight then I coveted them
and took them the Hebrew
is I covered them and I took them them
and behold they're hidden the Earth he
told them exactly where they were where
he hid it okay so the C car ends
remember this is a descendant of
Zer y therefore what he did was he
retracted his hand he turned his hand
back says his right hand um like someone
who returns their hand retracted their
hand
of because it wasn't within his
personality it wasn't that he would have
these character traits of proper mishpat
and nor the therefore was held withheld
from him the firstborn he was not the
firstborn he stuck his hand out and then
he pulled it back and Paris was the
firstborn so he didn't get the firstborn
and he didn't Merit to be the ruler the
king through his descendants but parents
did
because it's a necessity that every King
at least our Kings should be victorious
over enemies he's the one leading you
know whether it's the decision what they
call in America the chief chief of what
what is see president he's like the
commander and chief what is he called
Commander
whatever no but this is the the actual
president of the United States has a
certain title commanderin-chief the if
you're in the army or Marines or Navy or
whatever Air Force you're I think I
could be wrong you're under the you're
you're ultimately under the president of
the United States's command that seems
to be what it implies and he says this
is what the clear says zerak didn't have
it and therefore he couldn't be
it he didn't have these character traits
Kore as we said so we said a lot of
things to tonight and it's just for
those who are unfamiliar becoming
familiar what we do here we take one
verse or maybe certain words of a verse
and we go into what we call the clear's
interpretation see when I say
interpretation we're talking about what
he heard and learned from his great
reban who go all the way back to Haren
itself to Moses who is the clear RV it
was none other than maral of Prague and
goes all the way back to mosenu and on
the other side he had another R the SCH
KES a very big cabalist and so we do
trust that his insights are
genuine and I'll even say lifechanging
he's not going to steer you wrong but we
should all learn one thing that when we
read an A Commentary it's not it's like
this commentary is correct and everyone
else is wrong that's not the case there
are levels there are levels of
understanding everything and they go
deeper and deeper and I invite you to
come back and um escort us on this
journey for truth and transformation and
we're doing it using thees of course and
the oral Torah which is goes hand in
hand as we've been talking about tonight
and hopefully we can all become more
uh with the character trait of his being
satisfied with what we have and through
that we'll be bigger givers or let's say
more often doesn't mean we have more
money to give but we can divide it up
and give a lot as the rambam says
sometimes it's better to give a $100
doar to $1 to 100 different people than
$100 to one person because it creates
within you a giving spirit of course if
the $100 going to make a difference in
life and death there's no question you
give $100 to one person but a lot of
times it's better for you to give 100
different people a dollar just to become
a giver more often I know it sounds
strange many things in Torah are
counterintuitive you know why the Torah
is our instruction manual for life and
in order to you know if everything was
intuitive we wouldn't need
instructions so it usually is
counterintuitive so some of the things
we learned tonight maybe it resonates
with you maybe it doesn't but the Torah
for the most part I find
counterintuitive and that's what's so
exhilarating because then you're
learning something andem we learned a
little bit of Hebrew we learned a little
bit about the backstory and specifically
why four times yav is used a little bit
about zerak and that doesn't mean that
everyone today whose name is zerak is
like this just to get that straight but
this is about the
historical personality of zerak and aan
came from him whereas from Yehuda came
from parrots and the Kings come from him
and bat will all Merit to give more Sak
this year and with that I wish everyone
a shabbat shalom and a great life and
happy life and we'll see you here next
week
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