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Special Series - How to Win the Fight | Rabbi Yehuda Mandel
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I know a person who had a dream and
somebody from the next world who had
been nifter several years earlier came
down to him in a dream on the exact
night that this person's namesake had
been ni and the namesake was someone in
tanak and that night the person appeared
and in front of my friend in a dream and
the person looked beautiful that person
was very very careful
with unbelievable careful and the next
World they didn't look that good in this
world they looked super happy and super
beautiful and dressed up unbelievable
that was a dream there was a message in
the dream also and the message was to
calm down about certain things that this
person was too St
about and this person was giving a
message we all make mistakes you just
try your best that was that's the end of
that story I have my advice for people
working on these things number one the
shim says you walk into the street Ding
and ask Hashem save me from
Curiosity now I recommend just do that
for 30 days forget about what happens I
don't care just say I want to be saved
from Curiosity you know what you did
with that let's say you know it fails
let's say you're all messed up you have
no idea what you accomplished in the
next world even more from Tyra Agra you
tried it it didn't work who knows where
you're heading the other plan is you
make a
cabala for the next 30 days or for a
week just one time I ain't looking just
once rest of a time you can't help it
you're a mess but one time I won't look
and that time there's a special schooler
if you turn your face all the way
there's a special Mitzvah to do it like
that do it anywh you want but just one
time I'm going all the way you have no
idea the power of that one time you're
not M couble anything just once is that
hard you'll see there's a spillover
effect it's going to affect you forever
but stick to the one day and report it
to your friend every night and say I
kept my
Caba us you made a Caba now chop it in
half you chopped it in half now make it
in a quarter make small Cabos they're
very powerful they are Dynamite it puts
an oil on your system and you're hooked
in you're one of those holy Jews that
that has an oil of being watching your
eyes FR told me he was discussing C and
he told me do you know Yehuda whenever I
want to get angry I do you don't I say
on this you're a guy that like that you
can't you know you're one of those you
can't control it's hard we all
understand you be a soldier and you say
just once but I du won't I want to tough
I'm a soldier I'm stronger than you I do
what I want I'm boss around here this is
so so
exciting this it has to be you have to
say I love this stuff just say it cuz
the world out there screaming in the
other direction they love everything
that's tummy and disgusting and you just
say it I love self-control it makes me
feel I'm in power I'm in control I'm a
control freak I'm an official I love
being a control freak even once a day
doesn't matter I love that that's my
hobby and report it make a game out of
it make
it make it I heard from
big they told me how to learn make it
your
job I gotta make him Gish it's your job
to make Gish I love it what you mean
inside never say I'm
really cut the garbage you're going to
learn how to lie like Robin Miller
better a positive lie than a negative
truth and you're going oh I'm conquering
it I feel much better do you know how
that affects you inside when you say
that words have power you're hypnotizing
yourself and your body listens and the
body loves this stuff and when you're a
babus or you're control the world is
under you you can have Nim GL happen to
you because you are a Ness because
you're going against your teor you know
what it does to a person practicing
self-control it gives him life and
vitality that's your people stay young
and vibrant if they do these things it's
it's G it's gaval and don't fall in you
see other they fall NE they'll they'll
swing out of it someday in the next
World you're going to have good company
up there do you know there was a woman
who made a hpit there a gamaran gon she
made a hesped on her husband and she
said about her husband my husband was
better than
yadik and she gave one reason after in
many ways he was greater than
y andal put that down in a gar gon
because they felt she had a point they
wouldn't let her get away with that y
sadic imagine kazal held it true do you
know what it means if you're up with the
greatest when you leave this world
you're going to meet Smiley beautiful
malim running towards you you created me
remember that time yell yourself back
look how gorgeous I look and I'm out to
protect you I'm going to be speaking up
for you don't be afraid cuz this is
number one these days especially before
msia comes has got his last his last
war in this area you're one of those
Fighters even if you fall and you keep
losing it don't matter as long as you're
a soldier you're part of it you're
making phone calls what do I do should I
try this should I try that and you're
going nowhere you're a fighter and
you're a winner automatically even if
you lost you don't really lose the
is just be I heard this from D seel said
main things be a warrior even if you and
don't be impressed by all those a that
you do don't you dare be impressed do
you know why that happened because
you're a tadic that's why don't do them
again there's a story
with I heard this it was on the there
was a b that did something very nasty in
this area and it was just unre
repeatable and he sent a messenger to
tell the Mas ofid and the Mas ofid sent
back tell him he's
AES what that means who knows but I'll
tell you one thing if you have a bigar
you know what you're supposed to do
you're supposed to
say I'm from a great God it's the only
don't no other if you make any other
there something wrong with you you're
messed up and you're one of those you're
falling into a worse y don't get near it
not for us you don't call yourself
nobody these days don't you dare today
you call yourself the rash and you'll
get a mitzvah for that alone somebody
called me up
from he said Rabbi Mandel you didn't
even talk about kadua you talked about
self-esteem and automatically my kadua
situation turned around believe in
yourself this will give you the best way
to get self-esteem is this raron khina
said of a baka went from home to
Yeshiva and he didn't see anything when
he came home he didn't dance for half an
hour that's why he won't become a gutle
why don't you dance for half an hour y
does not want you to appreciate when
you're a great guy and you're careful he
makes not yeah well why of course it
wasn't so hard he makes a a whole mess
out of everything he likes his first
love is putting you down don't ever ever
do that put yourself up for the
slightest thing Al said you learned one
py you got to be dancing and
singing one p make aiel out of every
tiny thing we're fighting onik who's the
extreme opposite mik makes jokes out of
that's
nobody baloney my ding it's not the real
thing my learning I don't really know
the m you go to war go extreme the ram
says a shuffle has to be extreme Bic
extreme means you're saying things that
aren't true you're going to lie through
your teeth for the rest of your life
like RBI Miller has a tape called the
artificial man he was constantly
involved in lying you lie and you say
you're better than you really are always
do it's probably true always do that the
less you feel you accomplished something
the more you did because Yahara gets the
top people and puts makes it ah it
wasn't so important it's the extreme
opposite I heard this from the VBA from
Yim he said The more nus you have it's a
proof that you're one of the greatest
people around he starts up only with the
greatest and I want to tell you one
thing about chuva if you did Chua and
you stopped what you used to do even
once become your entire life as a
process of chba that's what you it's
always a tra situation and you're always
getting millions of Mitzvah and all your
Aus those nasty angry Mal that you
created are converting themselves into
your best friends they say you know I'm
the same guy that you sinned I just
became your best friend because you
changed and you did trba how many few
people believe really believe in ch yeah
but since I did it I'm no good
balone
says is what could be worse than that
when he did cha he felt like such a
million dollars he didn't feel the
slightest guilt or pain it's gone it the
TR bug off we don't do that Yar says no
you once did that we got your number
you're one of those already don't do
that you have to go to war to believe
that CH works
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