SPEAKING VENOM - Jewish HaShkafa (9)

[Music] Shem we are uh back here in uh Sunny Isles Florida doing our ashfa Jewish ashfa series and uh based on the Kish if anyone could do me a favor and give me a different cup there's a little bug in there so drink belongs to him um the um Jewish is getting a lot of good feedback it's a um a clear understanding of what we're supposed to think what we're supposed to do as far as our day-to-day life uh and Kish had a clear picture uh that he painted for us last week we talked about hearing this week we'll talk about speaking um and bem give you a few surprises at least one that uh I know is not going to be uh um it's not going to make anyone fall asleep let's just say that so today will be for for y thank you Ys Ben Leana an David Ben Mercedes abam um Esther Bora sakya B Sarah and all of will have and also actually a very very special for a very dear friend and I think there's at least a few people that know he's probably the biggest in the world give is a uh team of people right now that uh for the last uh couple of weeks have been giving out our CDs all over uh New York the team grew in the last few days a few other sikim took the opportunity uh to uh help am do CH and thereby help themselves do chuva and joined the team where uh they uh are taking some time every day they uh get in touch with um with us and we uh connect them toim who's leading the team over there and giving out CDs in different places in Queens in Brooklyn uh we have some uh given in uh Lakewood and several other places anyone that wants to give out CDs in New York area New York New Jersey area uh but wants to you obviously take it seriously not just uh uh you know 5 minutes type of thing get in touch with us we' be happy to uh have your help and uh as you all know one of the uh greatest tools to fight the Satan is to do kiru now even though when you do kiru as I've told you guys in recent weeks when you do kiru and you help people do chuva you're declaring war on a Satan at the same token when you do kiru you're destroying your soldiers so it gives you a lot more strength to deal with it and gives you a lot more in your learning gives you a lot more when it comes to and most importantly it clears out many of your sins as the Z says while everybody else has to go up to shamim and has to go in front of a judge go in front of the bed of shamim and uh they're going to show you a movie of your life what did you do what did you not do where were you here where were you there movie of your life maybe we never see a movie of our life now Z gives us a what's k z says in can check it yourself if you want if you make kiru your business meaning n you do kir here and there I donate $5 every few months you know I give a few CDs whenever I get a chance no kiru is your business meaning you are trying to constantly be involved in kiru if you have a day job and you can't do something physically then every month like clockwork you're donating your M or your to why my whole the whole reason why is giving me this is for me to publicize to publicize to return to get his kids to come back home you give your which is 20% Which the G says is really the guarantee to become rich in this life is only if you give if you give 20% of your p and it's off the gross not the net because after the net this generation there would never be any Mel because everybody lives above their means somebody gives their money to kiru or they don't have money they don't have money so they have time everybody has time everybody has 24 hours a day doesn't matter who you are they dedicate their time they go out there they give out CDs on a regular basis they go and make videos they make flyers they invite people to the lectures they organize lectures they make their business says in the they don't even look at you pass go go go go go we go g g go go we don't look at you they're afraid to look at you why he's one of the Stars she's one of the Stars this RAB if there was ever a get out of free jail card the get out of jail free card this one is as good as it gets so a few smart people are taking advantage of this because they know that no matter how many years you've been learning to no matter how many years you've been religious and so on and so on everybody's got a few things here and there they don't want to see in a movie so this is rabai one of the things that you can get involved in like I said whether it be financially or be time wise or skill it's a very very good investment best investment that it could ever be you know Shalom used to say you know people would come up to him say listen I invest in this I invest in that I invest in this but none of these things are going to help me in G I want to buy stock Ina how do I buy stock in youra he says you have to buy you have to invest into into that's how you buy stock in why your house lets you buy 15 houses what are you going to do with them in all you're going to do is see other people live in them you have five buildings with your name on it guess what soon as you go up there they take your name off give it to the next rich guy you have what wife kids okay wife kids husband kid okay what are they goingon to do nothing what can you why because this is an investment That Never Ends because every single time you give somebody a CD you make a uh anything that's going to help people do chuva and somebody does chuva as a result of your efforts that investment even if you decide that you want to stop that investment will never stop paying off why every single mitvah he ever does every single Mitzvah she ever does goes to your account also so you're talking about investment I was in investment business for 16 years never seen such a deal never seen such a deal and it's important to know that when you get involved with such K there is a uh handsome reward in this world as well helps your P helps a uh a lot of different things so a few people are taking advantage of it and I hopefully hopefully we'll have some more people do as well but not just in the time aspect of it but also in the investment part of it as well monetary investment because again we already out of 100,000 CDs approximately we have a uh to already place the next order we're going to try to order a half a million CDs anyone that wants to invest in this is where you go now the uh Kish was a big himself helped a lot of people do chuva till this day we are doing chuva because of his teachings and you notice that all of the giant rabbis the were constantly involved in helping people return to a sometimes they would do it with speeches sometimes they would do it with a uh books all types of things but they toiled and toiled to make sure that their Torah didn't just stay in their own hands and in their own mind why because the says somebody learns Tora but doesn't teach it meaning is not a it's like a person that doesn't have a God because the main purpose of learning Tor is in order to learn about a and emulate his behavior the number one thing that you learn about is is giving he never takes he never gets anything nothing you can give him other than helping his children come back home there's nothing you can give a nothing for you your Torah is for you eating is for you drinking is for you getting married and having kids is for you everything is for you it's not forem so says the first thing you're supposed to learn when you learn my Tor is that I'm giving First Mid first character trait you're supposed to emulate is giving being generous if you learned my Torah and you did not become generous with my Torah that means you haven't learned anything that means you learned my Torah like philosophy you learn my Torah like science like history you are some that's like a person that hasn't have a God so here we see that obligates us to be to help people do chuva and again doesn't require you to do K as far as giving speeches in fact for the vast majority of people you'll learn today it's better you don't speak for the vast majority of people it is highly recommended you don't speak not a peep why speaking is dangerous speaking is very very dangerous why toor says to us Torah obligates us to rebuke our brother says You must rebuke your fellow but don't come by way of sin meaning you have to rebuke somebody if you see him do something wrong do something wrong you see him driving on Shabbat you see him going out with a non-jew you see her going out with a non-jew see me have say listen it's t not you're a Jew when did you become a where you going to marry her she's from India she's not Jewish she's from China she's not Jewish you're a Jew you're not allowed to marry her unless she converted unless say uh something I'm missing here cuz there's some people that are Jewish and look Chinese and they are Jewish and they look uh you know uh Muslim and all types of things are all types yeah of course so unless she's Jewish no no she's not Jewish my my dear brother you can't be with her it says you have to rebuke on the other hand it says to you don't make sins what that one thing do with the other there's a way to rebuke there's a time to rebuke there's a time in the way to rebuke and if you do it wrong you're making a sin and that sin you could lose all with it meaning it's not for everybody to rebuke the same way if I say something in a public lecture it doesn't mean you can say it why I'm speaking to the general public I'm not looking at any one particular person and saying you're are criminal you're this you're that not doing that and when I do it I mention them by name and it's usually no nobody in the room happened once that was in the room because the guy was a rash but otherwise not the person's not in the room usually it's rabis but or I like to call them rabis ra meaning Evil by but uh if I say something doesn't mean necessarily you can say it doesn't mean you can't say it it means you have to know the content fully and know when to say it and how to say it and who to say it too many times new come to me and tell me listen Rabbi I love doing Chu I like learning I love everything but ever since I've been doing it I don't know I keep fighting with my family every Shabbat I'm fighting with my family every day I'm fighting with my family said why are you fighting with your family oh because RAB I don't know I see my mom she's doing this this and this wrong so I tell her what are you doing it's no good I said which one of my lectures did I say go tell your Ima to do this this and this which one said well you just said to reuke when somebody's doing wellong no no I didn't ask you if I told you when did I tell you to go tell your mother what to do when when did I tell you to go tell your mother what to do like that like what you're doing well you didn't do it like that I figured I could do no there's a way to do it you cannot rebuke your mother why you're 15 years old you just got out of your diaper a few years ago maybe you still have diapers she doesn't know you cannot rebuke your mother why you're 15 you're not allowed to rebuke your mother you know what you should do go learn a few books about honoring your mother and you'll understand that even if your mom was a z you still not all to reuk so what should I do you have to learn how to do it so how can I help her ah you want to help her okay now now we're talking you want to help her not rebuke okay they say you do it IM there's something amazing I want to watch what I want you to watch it with me what I don't know this a guy a story I want to watch you okay let's go watch guy story hang out with my son sure I'm hanging out with my daughter for two hours sure why not let's sit did play and I'm talking there you go that's how you reuke why you picked the lecture you use your brain to pick the right lecture already that you know affects her because of modesty because of immorality because of this this this and that he say IMA let's sit down and watch this and you watch with her and she hears the truth and it didn't come from you it came from me she says to you at the end oh yeah you know it's nice it's not for me okay no problem you come back a week later IMA I got something amazing this time what is it you got to watch it with okay another two hours with my kid why not and you sit down with IMA you sit down with ABA and you say okay let's watch it and you watch a lecture again together 5 minutes 10 minutes 20 minutes 2 hours 3 hours whatever it is let them get the information for me why they don't know me they're not feeling personally attacked by me and I'm not 15 years old and I'm not their son and I'm not wearing a diaper so you have to understand there are certain people you should not rebuke why they're too close to you and they will not receive any rebuke from you even if you're right even if you're right I learned this on my own skin it's very hard very very hard to see your brother your sister your cousin your mother your father doing different things that are wrong and not saying anything why because you want to help them there's a way to help them many times people do this they make a mistake you try to correct them try to tell them to do something else give her a book buy her a package do something else that's full of books and CDs and so on but you see that people like to fight they want to prove everybody wrong and that's why says don't make your rebuke into one sinful Behavior where you're really rebuking not because you want to help them you're rebuking because you want to tell people what to do it's ego it's ego how you know it's ego it's not working it's not working why because promises you something makes a promise makes promises human beings also make promises only differenes hm keeps his promises says how do you know somebody has someone the words he says people listen to them he says something people say okay okay honey we got to go here okay honey we can't do this okay guys let's go okay got change okay why know okay we do what you say Mak sense don't make sense okay if it doesn't work your rebuke doesn't work means you have no means your rebuke is coming from ego comes from G why if it was working then you know I'm doing good I'm doing good to helping I'm good good to to myself if it's not working I mean you have no how could it work if you have no she may not know what is even but her does and knows the entire T so you have to know that there's a way to speak speak and most people should not speak should not speak cause a lot of fights but doesn't mean you could stay quiet you have no permission to stay quiet you have to rebuke indirectly I wish I would have clarified this years ago but nonetheless it's never too late it's okay I didn't have as many people following me a few years ago today more people following more people get the new advice no one listens to the old lectures so two days after it's posted it's like uh discontinued first two days thousands of views a week later oh did you watch the election no it's old you have anything new what me I just posted it a week ago yeah you have anything new Rabbi anything you new can't watch it live what do you need to watch it live for all right why people are so fanatic about this live thing I like them it's good these people are good people but it's amazing to me why people care if it's live on video or it's tomorrow on video it's still video like you guys that are here okay understand live is different being part of the lecture is it's a very very different but being live video I never understood that part but I know it means a lot to people because of that we made an investment to get better internet we're going to try it again we tried already it's not the first time we're trying we've been trying for months we got devices from this one I don't know for some $300 device $250 device Mohawk bohawk whatever it was it didn't work then we tried something else didn't work now Sunny God bless him found something else another 300 bucks investment and $100 a month for anyone that wants to be a partner in the live you could pay the bill if you want $100 a month why because now if it works if the internet is good Sun the internet good not open the mouth with this Aon but internet's work is live people watching live they feel like they're part of the lecture I don't understand it but I'm not a fan so fine I don't even watch my own lectures people tell me listen you said this this talk show me where I said this this and this show me I don't I don't watch my lectur I don't watch anybody's lectur so anyway we made an investment to help people learn more to some uh woman actually that uh made the one of the recommendations one of many we get many recommendations every week from people you know every week we get recommendations one woman told me that we have to change our posters to be more colorful another one told me we have to get better internet but the one that told me about the internet she actually invested she invested a little bit of money to help with the internet the one with the poster didn't help so much another one said to me that uh how come you don't pick up the phone I don't know if that was a recommendation or not it was kind of like you rebuked me on the way here how come you don't pick up the phone people still don't get you know what it tells me when somebody tells me how come you don't pick up the phone you know what that tells me you don't watch my lectures how many times I tell you guys don't call me I don't pick up it's 5,000 calls a day I can't I can't I can't have some mercy on me have some mercy if anybody UND understood what we do every single day I barely see my kids other than Shabbat there's no schedule there's no night there's no day it's hundreds of questions every single day hundreds of issues every day so many people I don't even want to tell you because will be a waste of time because people don't listen anyway but the point is don't call don't expect calls text message WhatsApp is the best send a message with your question I'll send you a voice note sometimes five minutes later sometimes 5 days later but nonetheless I will return your message at some point that's the best way and at this point practically the only way to communicate I'm sorry if you uh uh want a personal phone call I'm sure you deserve it I just can't do it I just can't do it why because in that phone call it's going to take an hour hour and a half I could help 20 other people your blood is rather than 20 people it's not not a personal thing it's not a agenda it's not a uh ego thing trust me if it was about money I'd call you call you say listen uh I'll talk to you for an hour but it's 500 bucks an hour or my older age $3,000 an hour I'll talk to you if it was about that I call you it's not that it's just there's just no time no time you want help we can have help on messenger I have a few guys even some people that are here in this room send me 75 messages a day why they have questions and they get answers do the same thing do the same thing honestly I think that if anybody actually watched all the shim and paid attention you wouldn't have any questions because all the answers are in the but people like personalized answers anyway tells us here that the Creator saw that the proper flow of life is impossible without contact between one person another and the world in which all people are deaf and mute is valueless and unsubstantial that chaos would be better the to meaning if we weren't able to communicate as we discussed last week there would be no point to this world just like there's no point to the air conditioner in this place because it never works there will be no point to the whole world if we're not able to communicate now who made a machine that makes strange noises and that machine is known to us as the mouth on the other hand he also made a machine that reacts to these sounds known as the ear by way of the mouth and ear language was created and Man became a living thing a speaking being as it's uh said in the aramic uh language so last week we discussed how a person has to be very attentive to things that are being said to him uh when uh you hear the truth you cannot simply ignore it you have to make sure that you pay attention to what the truth is simply because this bit of Truth can save your life this bit of Truth can be the one thing that influences you to go in a different and better direction for the rest of your life where whereas if you ignore it you could be losing your opportunities of of a lifetime now there was a person in mentioned in Torah by name ofo and it was a idol worshipper of the worst kind at one point of his life where he literally idolized anything he tried everything out soon as he found out it wasn't good wasn't good wasn't working tried something else tried the statue tried Yos tried Buddha tried this one tried that one tried everything didn't work didn't work keep trying trying trying trying trying trying then one day he says he hears about the God of Israel says that's it takes his Pope hat down gives up the millions of dollars gives up the position puts his life on the line goes to the desert to meet is was so impressed with's chasing of theit and acceptance of it that only by hearing about it not even just by seeing anything he didn't see the ocean split but he heard that am is no longer a slave so obviously this is not like some fantasy it's not like oh yeah I heard this guy got extra so maybe no no he heard is is no longer a slave that cannot happen outside of a miracle that's the most biggest miracle in the history of mankind that the servant became the master no other time in history before or after were slaves ever s freed that way where the servant the slave became the master no other time even when other people were were freed from their slavery they weren't really freed they were just sold to somebody else or they ran away but they were never truly freed and not as a nation but when was freed the whole world knew this is this is this is God when found out he reacted differently than everybody else while everybody else was impressed by God impressed by the god of Israel he to says no no it's not enough to be impressed it's not enough to be impressed by Miracles it's not enough to be impressed by the wisdom it's not enough I got to do something about it I want to put everything on the line to take advantage of it he gave up his Pope hat his100 million he gave up the house and he put his own life on the line because in that place in that world you can't just abandon idolatry it's like the mafia once you're in you can't come out and that's why that's why whenu met and then thereby later on [Applause] met it says that Moshe had to fight some people they were trying to kill tpor and sisters why were they trying to kill tpor and sisters nice beautiful girls try to marry them why kill them because their father used to be their Pope he doesn't want to be their Pope anymore want to kill all of you and sent to save them so now says I heard the truth I heard about it it's enough how much did love this he gave the idea to kazal to name the that we receive the T the the climatic story if you will of the entire Tor is that we receive the Tor that's the highest level of the entire T we got the T you should be called should be called something no it's called why is teaching us if you hear the truth and you take full advantage of it you're praiseworthy you're worth something to me you worth something to me and is worth a whole lot so we see here it's not just about hearing the truth it's doing something about it you hear a lecture you hear the rabbi say that you have to keep Shabbat that you have to be generous that you have to do kiru that you have to be modest you have to take off the wig burn it and put a real like and start acting like a Jew instead of Aya you hear these things you got to do something about it watching the for six months a year two years and still nothing changes there's something wrong with you there's something wrong with you now something should change after you hear strong Shu if nothing changes after watching a rabbi for a year or two nothing changes about you still the same thing that you started something's wrong either with you or the rabbi either with you or the speaker has to be cannot be that you hear somebody speak for two years and nothing changes even if you hear go speak you hear mahat Gandhi speak for two years something has to change you hear Hitler speak for two years something changes you he Tony Robins speak for two years something's going to change why you're going to be impacted by the speech I could tell you I've told you this it's funny but it's it's it's it's it's it's just gives you the understanding of what spe the power of speech is I've heard quite a few speeches from Hitler I don't speak German I don't speak a word of German all I know is danen that's all I know I don't speak German we have a German Channel but it's not me doing the subtitles it's a couple of German sikim that know how to guys that Jewish that know how to uh uh no German I don't speak German but there's many Germans German Jews that need to learn so we have a German Channel now when I heard Hitler speak I didn't need to know German all I knew is whatever he's saying it's motivating now I didn't know you you're talking about killing me and my grandfather and my grandmother and I didn't know all I know is I'm listening to this guy wow this is amazing this guy's exciting this guy is passionate now what would happen if Hitler imim was born a mute can't speak you know what happened no Holocaust no Holocaust why the whole Holocaust was inspired by a speech all thing he went from being a nobody loser to being a leader of a country that for a short while became the strongest country in the world how speech talking but talking in such a fashion that it inspired people to do things that were beyond their nature beyond their Norm beyond their ability people idolized him like nobody else in history simply by a speech which means that if you're going to listen to someone for two years something has to change or there's something wrong with either the speaker or The Listener now I know the speaker in this case being me may not be the best but I'm not the worst either why there are too many proofs of people doing chuva every single day to show that I'm not the worst a few people say I'm the best I don't really buy into that but at the very least I'll say I'm not the worst why there too many people doing Chua meaning it's working for too many people too many people are changing their life from these speeches which means that if it's not working for you it cannot be me it may be that I'm Not Your Vessel and you need to listen to RI maybe or to Rabon or Rabbi anava or some Rabbi in in in uh in New York what one of these people no problem I may not be the vessel but the point being here you have to do what it takes to change you have to do something about it I can't do it for you I can't change my speech for you because it's working for everybody else so on the other hand the Kish tells us that if a person listens to the truth and acts on it he becomes a big deal if he doesn't if he listens to the truth and doesn't act on it he loses the chance of a lifetime if when Abu three days after his 3 days after his he was suffering and a made it the htest day in history andu instead of suffering just the pain and anguish of a he was suffering something else he was suffering that he wasn't able to host guests soem send them guests three malim and those malim were going to give him the good news that he's GNA have a baby now that he has a holy B he's going to have a baby yeah but he's 100 years old so who decides if you're going to have a baby or not hem if you have a baby hasem decid you can to have a baby if you don't have a baby hasem decide you're not going to have a baby why you have to ask that you have to answer that too review the Torah review your actions and see what happens if you're doing everything that's then you go to serious and see can help me but if you're not doing everything in the Tora start with that if you're not keeping Shabbat you're not keeping you're not keeping a modesty start with that why because any real that's what they're going to tell you to do keep the you'll get blessing so AB got these three amazing guests that Three Angels come to a house and give us such can have another baby we're going to destroy all of the Manis Freedman of the world you know so now what would happen if when when these Three Angels Came AB didn't know they were Angels thought they were Arabs thought was Mustafa Ahmed that's what he thought it was now he told Sarah go make cakes and he told Ishmael go get the cows ready I need three of them why three tongues each Mal gets a tongue kill a whole cow just for the tongue to give it to to these Arabs s go make cakes now if sah was like unfortunately many of the women today instead of saying okay I'll make the cakes what you say I'm tired let's go by order it let's go by you make the cake why you bringing guests to the house did you ask me first did you ask me if you could bring guests was your house only you know house 10,000 square fet not taking the all house just a little room yeah but do you ask me if you can bring guests okay you don't want the guest go hide in the house no no you ask me if you get guests why don't you go to the house sometimes yeah but he's a rabbi he wants to come did you ask me sh did such a thing said I'm tired guess what she wouldn't be S she would not beu would be menu she would not be s menu she said I'm tired one time in her life 90 years old she's right she has the right to be tired she's 90 she has the right to be I'm tired I'm not even half that age yet I'm tired all the time I'm tired now to be tired why you have an opportunity to do Mitzvah you have an opportunity to do mitvah if she had an opportunity and she didn't take advantage of it lost opportunity lost opportunity and that's the same thing every single one of the women that you see in starting withu all the way to this week you have sh everybody reads the story of Ruth Moment of Truth Moment of Truth Ruth's husband died or sister husband died my dear friend says says in the beginning why are the two husbands of the sisters die I won't leave you hanging I'll tell you the truth that's what they died they wasted seed that's why killed him same reason he killed he killed husband that's why he kills people we see it say that would kill you why cuz you're killing people I'll kill you I'll kill you I'll kill everything right you're destroying your Kusa Ruth had an opportunity to run away be with Opa go hang out why Naomi is poor is old she has no kids what uh what are we going to do so Naomi says listen Ruth Ruth you can go go with your sister is going AAR said all right see you later Ruth says no no no your God's my God your people my people she took advantage of an opportunity she could have said no CU said yeah you're right you don't have a kid for me what am I going to hang out with you for the rest of my life we're going to socialize go to Starbucks together yeah go go find a husband still young still beautiful Ruth says no no no truth is over here I'm going to be here the truth is over here you know what happened says this Ruth married Boaz became the grandmother of David aik and live lived long enough hundreds of years long enough to sit on the throne right next to SCH her great great grandson three generations later that's how many hundreds of years she lived she lived to see the BET mdash Ruth didn't see the bet mdash but Ruth saw the BET mdash Ruth became the grandmother of the M why Moment of Truth what happened with says Opa married a 100 men and she had a son from those hundred men who is that son golat golat who's golat the arch enemy of David David and goat second cousins or great-grandson something cousin some type of family connection why sisters Ruth and opa David became mashia goad became garbage garbage only reason you guys know his name is because he was a giant that was destroyed many Giants lived but he's remembered because he got embarrassed for eternity because his mother embarrassed herself for eternity being with a 100 men her sister sadik why Moment of Truth Moment of Truth one chose to the other one chose no I'm going to go hang out with the bar I'm going to meet I'm going to a nice guy at the bar a nice guy at the bar she made a nice guy at the bar and another guy another guy and another guy every week another guy another guy at the bar another guy more more more 100 that's what G says 100 bars bar hopping and forever she becomes you insult right look what the results is of your actions had an opportunity to be the grandmother of the mashiah bkus why she heard the truth didn't act now you see here the significance of hearing and doing is huge what about speaking what about speaking now the Tora tells us that speaking is one of those things where it's bigger than anything else why seph Proverbs chapter 18 verse says death and life is in the power of the tongue meaning your next word your next speech your next reaction can determine life or death how many times did we see people that are considered famous politicians celebrities or and the like ruined their entire reputation that took 40 50 years to build because of one stupid statement one thing they said of Everybody Hates them now the longer you live the more of these people you see see these people build their careers made a bunch of money Hollywood celebrities but all of a sudden no one wants to hire them no one wants to talk to them why yeah he's an anti-semite yeah she's a uh she said something against uh this she said something against that yeah but how does what she say have to do with how good she is as an actor no no it's not about good or bad I don't want to deal with her I don't want to deal with her not for me not for me and this happens day in day out someone says something the public doesn't like it and they rip him to shreds so much so there's an entire industry a multi-billion dollar industry which guarantees people G that's built on this it's called the news what's the news news is in modern language new that's what news is they tell you bad things about anybody horrible things why no one really cares about good things you tell somebody oh this guy won the lotto maybe one time I'll show up in the news two minutes but this guy died that guy got divorced this one cheated this one robbed the bank oh it's a news for three days straight bad news no end the president said something bad all news for a week straight until he comes up with something else that's worse the uh Israel did such and such on the news how long two three weeks until they do something else the economy is bad 24-hour Network economy is good yeah we're going to go to different programming now we're going to start a new uh animal channel inside CNN what what how come when the economy was bad was 24 hours a day news economy is good turn into an animal channel what happened no one cares about good news bad news why sins exposing people exposing people in a worst way I tell you a secret although everything I just said is 100% imit And exposing people is a terrible thing the whole news is full of Filth and you're not allowed to watch it not allowed to read the news there's a small secret sometimes it's a mitzvah sometimes it's a Mitzvah to expose somebody I'm we're going to bring that tonight that's the present it's coming soon now how do we determine if the next thing we're going to say is going to be life or death the mid says if he merited if he didn't to death meaning if he toiled in Torah and he merited to speak during his life then the t is called life is called then his speech will bring him eternity life but if instead of toiling in Torah he did not toil what did he do he toiled in then he's decreed to death not just in this world but the next T is very critical of people that speak evil tongue if you notice all of the isms were started because of the power of speech used in a negative way whether it's communism or Socialism or Zionism all of these isms what were they motivated by people don't know how to speak good speakers if you're a good speaker you could do whatever you want why was Obama elected to president he didn't achieve anything his entire life he doesn't have anything to speak of that's of value that warrants him being a president how did he get to be a president for eight years he's a good speaker one of the best horrible human being fantastic speaker though why speaks clearly and tells you what you want doesn't ask you what you want he tells you what you want Steve Jobs brilliant mind but there are much smarter people than Steve Jobs in fact all of the people that actually put apple on the map you don't even know who they are you know Steve Jobs why good speaker very good speaker and so on and so forth the speaker doesn't necessarily always have to be a person that speaks eloquently and with the right RS and the right and the proper l no it's not that it's just a person has to be motivating inspiring and give you a visual of what he's saying in a business world if you want to be a good salesman you have to use a tactic called dollariz what's dollariz you have to make the other person start counting the dollars that they haven't made yet but they're going to make with your help that's what dollar rizing is how much money they going to make or how much money they going to save if you're selling a product that's going to save the money tell listen with this product you're going to save 20% guess what you're not going to make any sales you tell somebody you're going to save 20% you're not making any sales you're not going to make sales sir how much you spent on such and such wow you spent $100,000 on such and such what if I told you you could spend I could save you $20,000 off that bill for a cost of $100 sold what is it what's the credit card why dollarized I told them how much he going to save making is the same concept that's if you want to be a good salesman you want to be a Ben you have to be honest have to tell people the truth can't really do that in sales all the time why because you have bias you can be an honest salesman B I always was but nonetheless I've never met people that could stay honest why it's hard to stay honest and make a sale so the point is is that when you're a speaker and you're motivating and you're inspiring you can get people to do the things you want to do but in reality give them the feeling that they want to do it and you could do a lot of things and all of the people that you see that were great leaders with the exception of mosenu were all good speakers mem specifically says he had a speech impediment he had both a stammer and a stutter one caused by birth one caused because of something that happened to him when he was only a few years old when par par had gold on one side and hot coal on the other side because said this kid is g to take your crown one day said n he's just a kid he's just a baby so they had Moshe the little baby see what he's going to pick is he going to pick the golden yeah maybe he wants the crown to be the next Pharaoh if that was the if he was going to take the gold they going to kill M little MOS they're going to kill him bam wanted him to die cuz he knew bam had prophecy he knew that M was going to kill him and Moshe was going to grab the gold last second as he's about the little baby Moshe is about to grab the goldem sends Mal Gabriel to push his hand into the coal he pushed his hand into the coal touched the coal what happens when you touch something hat reflex you put it in your mouth and it was a little tiny piece of coal on his finger burnt his tongue for the rest of his life he was a stutter so m the leader of is worst speech in history both a stammer and a stutter so how did he teach all of T tell us that when he would speak T it would be AEM speaking through his throat clear speech only when it's tah though honey what do you want for dinner 50 times 20 minutes say h what you want for he wrote 13 times in one day and taught to everybody all one day one day can't do that with a stutter why says when you teach my T different different M different Moshe but the rest of the leaders that were not even the Sho string of mosu that followed him were all great speakers motivating some were very clear some were not but nonetheless they motivated people and so we see here that Z Zionism communism both being almost the same the isms of the world were constantly led by people that knew how to speak which shows us clearly that speaking is a very very big deal now what happens when a person does not use their speaking for the right reason in 800 plus years ago writes in the third gate section 20111 the class of those who speak is divided into six categories the first category is one was describes a fault to another person when he has no such fault person says this guy yeah no he's um he's cheap but he's not this guy he doesn't keep me but he does mean you're a liar he says the things are not happen things are less than what they are this organizations no they're not good no good this Rabbi no no he doesn't follow what it says he just makes stuff up sometimes he may even ascribe a negative trait in place of a beautiful one that he really has meaning sometimes this person is really good but you're saying to people he's really bad the opposite this person's heart has gathered for him the attributes of two evil classes the class of liars and the class of those who speak meaning a person that does such a thing is not only someone that's speaking but it's also a liar it's a different punishment different chamber different chamber everybody's got chamber he finishes his punishment for that one day he did say one day about for his whole life for that one day he said the rabbi is uh crazy okay that's one Jaber you finish a sentence over there okay now we go for the liar section different chamber and that's just for one day finish that you know in the chambers they say until 120 tell you that right hopefully it ends after 120 years over there then continues and he says we have been admonished by the Tor not to accept lest it be false and a lie as the PUK says in seph chapter 23 verse number one do not bear a false report Shalom says in Proverbs 17:4 an evil person pays attention to the sin sinful speech whereas a liar listens to destructive talk this means that there are two classes of people who accept a wicked malicious person for they are of all flatterers and wicked who suspect innocent people and enjoy finding the fault in people guilt and dishonor in their fellow men there are some people like that they look for what like see see I told you there's a catch see I told you guys are this ah you see they always look for something bad in everybody like good yeah not interested that's the news that's the news the news highlights the bad stuff in society and some people do that with people yeah you you hear Shimon Shimon bought a house yeah but the house is uh you know house it's a bad neighborhood yeah but he bought a house yeah but I wouldn't want to live there that's a person that finds a fault in everything a you see Shimon just got married yeah see big woman are you marrying her he married herto oh okay yeah yeah get something's wrong something's wrong everything everything something's wrong he has two eyes you know some people have they look everything rosecolor glasses everything is like soft this guy's the opposite everything's black everything's like negative negative everything is negative in people not in himself ah you see that Sarah just uh just got married yeah yeah what what do you mean why would she M she got married yeah I don't know I don't know this guy where did he come from does anybody know him who knows what he's going to do to her who knows poor girl she doesn't know say Alto that's people are oh you see they're expanding the house yeah you must be uh doing something with that job of is if you know what I mean what no what do you mean you know I mean how much can you possibly make being a plumber maybe doing something little Plumbing with the IRS maybe why you inciting his cheating just because he has an expansion on this house why why black eyes black negative everything negative some people malicious people that's one aspect people that look and enjoy seeing the flaws of other people and as soon as something that they said or thought or whatever they see that's wrong see ah see I told you I told you they're not going to make it they got divorced it's like he's happy they're getting divorc he's happy the guy's going bankrupt he's happy the guy people are losing like he's invalidating is evil such people stay away from them run as far away from them don't even give them a second look you know what happen you give them a second look you turn into uh Lot's wife turn into salt she look back turn into salt don't give those negative people run away run fire far far Don't Look Back why they're never going to change you're not going to change them you're not going to change them all they do is they replace people they replace friends in their life when people eventually get sick of their negativity they find flaws in everyone the second class which is the liar he listens and he believes the destructive talk since he does not distance himself from falsehood he has no problem accepting lies and bearing false reports and consequently he's quick to accept as it says in uh Jeremiah 9:5 a liar listens meaning the person of falsehood which is similar to your lodging is in the midst of Deceit meaning that the person is a uh among people of that are liars so once a listener accepts says in section 212 the law for him and and the portion of punishment Meed out to him is equal to that of one who spoke the L himself for people will say those who heard his words accepted them this proves that they are true and accurate meaning that because this guy now listened to accepted the L he's going to get punished like the guy that said l people think oh no no I don't want to speak but you know Rabbi such and such because they always worried about speaking l no my friend you listen to you accept it and you believe what he says you're going to get punished just like him you're not even allowed to listen to why because by listening to you're validating the speaker cuz the guy that's speaking he say look if it was so bad what I'm saying why would he listen to me why would 10 people listen to me if it was so bad on top of that other people that are stand by listening standby over there yeah yeah what what did you just say to him go ask him what I said go ask him what I said oh he already knows what you said and he didn't say anything about it he didn't say anything against it ah that validates what you said so just tell me I'll believe you but you listen by you being an audience say you get punishers like them you're enabling them to make even if the listener merely bends his ear and shows that he's attentive and accepting these words in the presence of others this also abets the evil causes the disgrace of his fellow man and strengthens the hand of the one who brings his negative reports to others said further in section 213 in uh he's quoting Mish 2628 a subdued person hates a ly tongue which means that a person who's humble and low-spirited and subdued hates lying if you don't hate lying that means you are not very subdued you're not very humble you're not very honest yourself because by Nature if you're an honest person you hate lies you hate a system of liers people that are lying you just can't stand you're allergic to lies the Umi beginning of they ask him what's the most difficult mid character trait to develop he says having the character trait of Truth emit why because that means that not only you have to stand for the truth all the time you have to fight the she at the same time also you have to fight the lies because you can't stand it you're allergic to Liars so a person that hates ly doesn't want it is not willing to listen to it he's pained when he sees such a thing but a person who speaks but what about if he is not a liar he just speaks or he hears but he's not a liar our sages reference him also that he's in the class of those who speak and they he will get punished by not having the Merit to have the he'll never see the even though they're not counted among the Liars they're still making a very big sin to the extent where says I don't want us to look at you and if one recalls to a person the evil Deeds of of that person you remind one of your friends yeah remember when you used to go out with that non-jew remember you used to uh eat in McDonald's every week remember those to sin not let to remind people of their bad stuff unless it's for help resourceful resourceful now even have to remind yourself of your oh I used to be a murderer I used to be a killer can't say by yourself unless it's to help people tell your trua story of your bad sins she tell people look I'm not doing that anymore but just tell people you're a wicked person or tell somebody else that they used to be Wicked not allowed you're not even allowed to remind the convert of his bad ways oh remember when you were a girl you used to go eat McDonald's forbidden not to do that how was it when you were not Jewish you eat frogs you ate that it was a good do you eat you eat bats like the Chinese you ate it it was good not allow to do that some people think oh no yeah he's a you know he's a convert so I can ask him that we're cool we're cool I could ask him about eating bats I know it's want do when you were in China you ate bats too how was it was it good no sin sin from not allow people think it's not a big deal go to get know Bo what I do you ask them about the bats but he really did read Bats who says you have to bring it up whether he did it or he didn't do it doesn't make a difference who said you bring it up you brought it up it brought his mind back to that he started feeling bad about himself or worse yet he started Desiring eating bats again person has to be very very careful with the words that come out of their mouth if he embarrasses him for his deeds of of his past about this the sages says in page 58b the one who embarrasses another in public joins those who desent to G and do not ever come out he doesn't say 12 months here if he relates and makes unnown the Abominations of that person's sins in the presence of others but not in front of him he doesn't talk about his bad in front of him embarrass in front of him he tells other people you you know yon used to do other people's not there though Ruben's not there so he's not embarrassed am in front I'm talking about behind his back if his intent is to tarnish his reputation and belittle him before his compatriots concerning this the page 42 42a says that the class that speaks will not receive the divine presence and the same applies to one who relates the former sins of a to others so we see that I mean it goes more and more than several chapters about this and sections about this the talks about evil speech I think it's at least 15 to 20% of the book talks about evil speech now the truth is that without without fear of the almighty it is impossible not to speak l in fact it's so difficult to not speak that when you don't speak it it's either because you're crazy or there's just nothing you know there's just like something really bad happened that's worse than this because unless you're religious and you're scared to speak L that's what people talk about all day what's the number one topic of conversation other people and the worst part about it is that people have lost all sense of Shame whatsoever you know when and made a sin they from the Tree of knowledge what was the first thing that they realized they made a mistake the first thing that happened he realized they were naked and they were ashamed meaning that they had for the the first time in their life although very short they realized that they're naked and they're ashamed meaning that a sense of Shame is what makes you human when people have no they also lose that sense of Shame that's the reason why they talk about other people nonstop in front of them behind their back and about the most personal issues in the world like some of the craziest conversations in the world have become daytoday talk I'll give you a few examples and I'm sure you've heard this before and maybe you did or maybe you didn't find it ridiculous but after today I promise you you will because For the First Time Ever you'll think about it first thing that people do when they meet each other what do they do what do you do for a living why do you care are you looking for an employee or are you looking for a job why do you care what I'm doing for a living do you know what he cares sizing you up who has more money who has more money that's what he cares are you a customer are you a prospect he's sizing you up oh you a doctor what kind of doctor why you ask why you need a doctor you sick no I want to know how much money you make if you're a dentist Private Practice probably $150,000 a year but if you're an oral surgeon that's 800,000 a year if you're private to Medicine maybe 200 if your spinal surgeon could be as much as 1.8 million your job title tells me a whole lot about you you're a mortgage broker how long you doing it what do you care you're looking for a mortgage why do you care how long I'm doing it if I can provide you a mortgage ah if I'm doing it for three months that means I'm probably hopefully breaking even maybe making $5,000 a month if I'm already doing it for 10 years oh this guy's doing good it's probably at least 20 25,000 a month why he's got customer base already maybe I get leads from him for my job for my business people have no shame whatsoever they're prospecting you and pretending they're becoming friends worse yet I'm going to give you only a few examples we can't take this too long this could be five years worse yet the wor the last one is going to be the worst one second where do you live why you want to come to my house I didn't invite you where do you live oh I live in such neighborhood oh next to that oh you you're like GPS you want to Target exactly where why pricing your house you know what the worst question follow-up question is you buy you or you rent what are you my mortgage broker my IRS uh uh auditor my accountant my lawyer why do you care if I bought or I rent what information will you get out of it if I tell you I bought does that mean such thing if I told you I rent does that mean something else what are you getting out of it what so if I rent I'm homeless I'm a a loser and if I bought then that means I'm rich by the way it's the actual opposite in many cases people are so superficial materialistic they I heard this weekend of Shabbat we walking around with the little kids walking around I heard little girls that were sitting over there little girls they couldn't have been more than 12 13 years old asking each other so you guys buy her you rent 12year old girl never made $3 in her life asking her friend did you guys buy her you rent you know why she said that cuz that's what she's her parents do with her friends what does a 12-year-old care if you bought you rent was she going to lend you money for rent or she wants to uh you know buy your house like what do you care if I bought I rent and I'll tell you the worst question the most obnoxious question the most disgusting question I've ever heard in my life now only for the purpose of teaching am I even saying this because I hope the next time you hear this you're going to rebuke the person that's doing it not in front of people but take them to the side because this question is the most invasive disgusting question I've heard in my life are you breastfeeding or not women and men feel perfectly comfortable today to ask a woman that just had a baby whether she is or not breastfeeding now although this is perfect normaly this is the way of the world what do you care why do you care what I do with my baby and my body the most obnoxious disgusting question in the world is asked millions of times every day millions of times every day why all of these questions and many much worse than these believe it or not they can get much worse than this are all because we've lost our sense of Shame we've lost our sense of shame we speak freely we say whatever manure comes out of our mouth whatever vomit comes out of our mouth why no no fear of the almighty no fear of the things that come out of our mouth we just speak well I speak my mind you know I say how it is Rabbi yeah then G know they're going to do also how it is with you why because your words are hurting people what if the guy is self-conscious what if he's self-conscious about the fact that really he's renting but you know everybody else bought what if he's self-conscious about his job he doesn't want to tell you he works for the sanitation department do want to tell you he wants you to think that he's a businessman like everybody else even though there are many guys that work for sanitation department making a lot more than businessmen why do you need to know this information what if she's self-conscious about the fact that she chose to feed her child one way not the other what if she had breast cancer and she doesn't have the ability to give her kid breast milk and you just reminded her of that you know how nicely they're going to boil you like a barbecue in Gom for that stupid question you asked your girlfriend no no she's just my girl I know her for many years who gave you the right to ask such a question why just speak my mind okay sh they speak their mind also why you didn't think now why am I pressing this issue if everything I just said came from an average person mistake mistake I'm sorry I'm never going to do it again I'm always going to think before I ask but what if a rabbi asked these questions in fact not if a rabbi asked these questions what if if a rabbi said much worse than this is that as excusable as a average person the Australian times calls for an apology from a rabbi who likened child sex abuse to diarrhea who is this rabbi [Applause] a leading Rabbi compared child abuse to diarrhea saying it's embarrassing but it's nobody's business meaning that somebody that was molested it's embarrassing that he was molested but it's nobody's business this what a rabbi said what kind of Rabbi is this Rabbi is supposed to learn Tora a rabbi is saying child sex abuse is is a not a big deal this is inexcusable what else did this Rabbi say in 2013 he says the following and let me ask you a question do you sometimes forget to say Al which is the blessing after you eat because that's much much worse than being molested the fact that you forgot the blessing is worse than the fact that you got molested meaning you feel bad about being molested you should feel worse about forgetting a blessing that the rabbi is decreed which is completely false by the way but he said this now if a young girl or boy got molested and he went to the rabbi for you know please help me out I'm traumatized I'm traumatized somebody violated me and there's no way to undo it instead of telling that listen I'm sorry it happened this is horrible what do you say ah why you making a big deal out of it you you getet make a blessing Ah that's much worse than you getting molested how religious is that kid going to become now not so much let's see what else he said same Rabbi I don't know what the percentage is I don't know if you've noticed but there's hardly a kid who comes to sha program that hasn't been molested sexually meaning he's telling somebody is complaining to him listen Rabbi got molested horrible somebody violated me ah what are you making a big deal out of it everybody that goes to ISA gets molested there's hardly anybody doesn't get molested what a support system for the for the Yeshiva World who is this Rabbi who is this Rabbi how come we haven't mentioned his name yet I'm cooking if that wasn't enough he says the following so I said this to the girl he actually now himself is telling other people what he said to a girl that came to him after she had she was molested like he's proud of what he says and you can find all this online by the way it's not uh just your own tube you'll find this online the you'll see it and he says it's a lecture to the public teaching so I said this to a girl her family comes from Russia and I said what do you think you're the only one that was molested you think that your mother and your grandmother back in Russia made it through their teenage years without being molested by shika by a shits by a disgusting man so what girl got molested he says why you don't think your mother got molested your grandmother got molested by some evil guy so what he got molested so what they got Mol Ed they stopped their life they wouldn't they wouldn't get married they wouldn't raise a family what are you so fragile about what happened to you if I was the girl's father I'd murder him on stage live like pinkas him right next to the Molester why because it's very possible he caused more damage than the Molester now after this came out it was all over the news and they wanted an apology from this Rabbi but years have passed seven years have passed since almost nobody in the world knows who this story is about sadly enough it's not surprising who it is manace fredman is the rabbi in all of these in February 1st 2013 sex abuse victims Sue Rabbi overc comments the Sydney Morning Herald find this on the news all of what I just said is in this article and others many many articles any other Rabbi that would have said such a thing would have been buried long ago and never been let to even have a YouTube channel now am I mentioning it to bring shame to him partly partly and I'll tell you why also but I also tell you that there's another reason for it you see when you teach when you teach lies there has to be a consequence when you make fun of child molestation when you make it as if it's not a big deal to molest children to the the public that means that you don't think it's a big deal which means that your children will also think it's not a big deal so is it any surprise that four years later we have the following headline in the newspaper in Pittsburgh Day School teacher suspected of sexual abuse in Pittsburgh Rabbi Nissan fredman 26 years old and the son of an influential Minnesota based Rabbi Manis fredman m Ed no less than three kids caught on Shabbat while in the act as the article writes we're absolutely certain there's at least three cases or more when you make fun of the Torah you make fun of the law of homosexuality where kadosh himself writes it's an abomination and you say ah it's not an Abomination that means you don't think it's an Abomination that means that you don't think that child molestation is of an Abomination either because that's what homosexuals do by the way if anybody hasn't noticed homosexuals are many times the child molesters child molesters are always homosexual so when somebody makes fun of it and says n it's not an Abomination and people think ah why are you making such a big deal out of it he meant something else Rabbi he meant something else yeah he meant it's not a big deal and his son got the teaching from him and 26 years later he was a teacher of a school molested a few kids you see when we speak out against it's not for ego it's not for money it's not for popularity it's to warn you it's to warn you now you're going to say wait a minute you've already said enough about these people why more what is this what new is this going to bring you see there's a rule in the Torah it's a very very serious rule in the Torah that the beginning of wisdom is fear of hem and that's why the and the were very very careful not to give people the death penalty unless they were certain that these people were murderers if somebody was a murderer they would the Sedin the wisest man of all time would question would get Witnesses and what if the guy that is being accused of murder didn't have anything he didn't have any witnesses to support his cause and he himself didn't have anything to say would they just kill him no the sanedrin would start looking for ways wait did you kill him because you thought he was a Nazi so you thought they were under threat maybe cuz if that's the case it's not murder you were defending yourself it's allowed did you kill him because he surprised you and you just weren't sure what you were doing did you kill him like they were looking they're looking to get you out they're not looking to kill you the are not looking to kill you on a capital case because if you're guilty it's death penalty but what about what about someone that has the accusal is being accused of being a causing people to go to Christianity causing people to go against Hashem what about him someone says look this guy is trying to get people to be Messianic Jews really Christians in Disguise this guy is telling people that homosexuality is not a sin it's not an Abomination it's nothing this guy is telling people go worship Buddha they're accusing you of this after you brought to theed they kill you so what does do with him if he has nothing to do to to defend himself page 29a says the following the court does not plead on behalf of someone that causes people to sin even if it's a capital case meaning you don't have something to defend yourself we're just going to kill you yeah but the murderer the guy that's being accused of murder you helped them hopefully to try to get him out of it but me just being accused of idolatry and and I'm being accused of getting people to go to idolatry and that's it you're not even asking you're not trying to get me out no what you're much worse than the murderer doesn't that sound evil only if you think God's evil where do we get this from hem himself the says we learn this from himself says the instigator the guy that causes people to sin the meit is different than the potential murderer the murderer why we learn this from the merciful one we learn this from himself where he writes in the book of Deuteronomy Chapter 13 Verse 9 have no mercy nor shall you protect him on this person says if a person causes people to sin you are forbidden from having Mercy on him on the murderer you're allowed to have mercy but on the person that causes people to sin no mercy not allowed to have mercy himself writes it the book of Deuteronomy chapter 13:9 where he says the following it starts actually verse uh seven if your brother the son of your mother or your son or your daughter or the wife of your a or your friend who is like your own soul your best friend will entice you secretly saying let us go and worship the gods of others that you did not know you or your forefathers from the gods of the people that are all around you those near to you or those far to you from one end of the Earth to the other end of the Earth You shall not AED to him and not herken to him your eyes shall not take pity on him you shall not be compassionate nor conceal him rather you shall surely kill him your hand shall be the first against him to kill him and the Hand of the entire people afterwards you shall Pelt him with stones until he dies for he sought to make you stray from near Hashem your God who took you out of Egypt from the house of slavery a person that teaches things things that are against the Torah whether it be Christianity or it be some other false ideology is worse than a murderer and thear says this person you're not allowed to have any Mercy on them it's forbidden it's like eating pork to have mercy on such people you have to expose them until it's over can't give up can't stop why it's where do we learn that we cannot have any Mercy on these people 29 a continues says says in the name ofan ofan where did we learn this from that the significance of the is so bad says we learn this from the serpent well unlike Adam when Adam said hasem said what happened why did you sin Adam said it's the wife's world that's the wife that you gave me he asked what' you do he says it's the serpent it's the snake's fault but then when it got to the snake AEM says you're you are cursed he didn't tell why' you do it he didn't give the snake a chance to speak why he is once you cause other people to sin you lost your right to speak you lost your right to defend yourself and this is why it's Al in the r the chapter 4 in number one the rambam writes there are 24 Deeds which hold back chuv meaning a person does such things make it more difficult for them nearly impossible for them to do chuva in number two the rambam writes clearly among the 24 acts that withhold Chu that hold back chuva there are five deeds which cause the path of chuva to be locked meaning no chuva there is no Chua what is it one one who separates himself from the community when they repent he will not be together with them and he will not have the opportunity of sharing their Merit somebody that pretty much doesn't want to be part of clisa wants to live in some Mountain by himself while the rest of the community needs him that's that's terrible okay we'll learn about that topic why it's so terrible later on two a person who contradicts the words of the sages what AB said it ah Raab said it n they're just rabbis what said no said no I have a different opinion no no I don't think they're right someone who contradicts the words of the sages with without any president without any proof like he just decid that this is not to say it's an Abomination he decides it's not an Abomination to says this is a sin he says it's not a sin to says wasting sin is a sin he decides no no it's not a sin what it's not for this generation such a personai contradicts the words of the sages the controversy that he provokes will cause him to cut himself off from them and thus he will never know the way of chuva two three someone who makes fun of MIT someone makes MIT no fear of hem how can you were you afraid of hem what you crazy afraid of hm why would you be afraid Hashem owes us we're in the exile for 2,000 years it's our fault that he doesn't want to speak to us every Jew is going to heaven you know you heard this before right manace to Menace and the rest of the clowns that we talk about to make fun of the ah saying if your wife doesn't want to go toik you could be with her anyway she wants to go to the beach on Shabbat go with her for or another case he says oh I think the should be changed it's not relevant to this generation says decided that wrote the uh the is not relevant to this generation D decided D the bird decided he considers them degrading n come on what he will not pursue them or fulfill them he does not fulfill how can he Merit to do cha four someone who makes fun of rabbis someone who makes fun of his teachers will cause them to reject and dismiss him as Elish to In the period of rejection he will not find a teacher or a guide to show them the path of Truth people don't like to hear the truths what do they do they start making fun of it ah this RAB is Extreme he's fanatic he says people that violate shab like Idol worshippers no he didn't say it he just repeated it it says it in the Tor a person that violat Shabbat is considered an idol worshipper he just read what it says you could read if you'd like they like to make fun of rabbis ah this Rabbi always talks about wasting seed you have a problem Rabbi is that because you're talking you're you're uh telling us your real feelings how come this Rabbi know so much about this how come they're like making fun no problem Chua gone no Chua this by the way is the worst punishment in this world just so you know not not having the ability to do CH five worst yet someone who hates rebuke hates musar this why why is someone that hates musar going to lose his way to do chv how come this is so horrible because this will not leave him a path to do Chu the rad 900 years ago says without rebuke there is no chuva there is no chuva you cannot do chuva without getting rebuked not possible no I want to do chuba the happy way okay Christianity they make pretend they pretend like they did Chua because they believe in Yos why they murder people on a regular basis admonishment the rambam writes leads to Chua when a person is informed about his sins and ashamed because of them he will do chuva so now who in this generation dares to say they are smarter than the ramban who says you want to do CH you have to learn mus you have have to get rebuked it's the only way who is brave enough to put their name next to the rambam now you see the rambam was not the only one that taught this you know who also taught this the very same kabad that you hear no no we don't teach M apparently kabad does not read their own newsletters January 19 to 25 issue 2020 meaning a couple of months ago in the story issue of theu magazine that's uh published weekly it's a subscription based weekly Torah publication designed specifically for english- speaking Community talks about different rash ra T and so on they bring in theic story section they bring a story of the previous lichi the one before the most recent the six R yerson once told a story about two brothers one learned an enormous amount of tah like his father though R Moshe he he favored learning foreign sub subjects the Tony Robins of the world the uh uh Buddhism philosophy Fred manism all types of stuff you know he likes it he likes the F manism all isms all those things he liked it but he was an expert in the talmud he was an expert in talmud an expert in r in in every field of but because of his philosophical mindset he sought to rule leniently everywhere especially in the field of blessings the blessing to recite for specific occasions and what about cabala and musar he was against he was against cabala he was against M he liked the he liked he liked he liked but M no way cabala hate it his brother on the other hand was not his name was R was not as much of a scholar as his brother as his father or brother but had and he learned T he learned mus what happened with those two brothers the latter one rud grew up learned some Torah got to a point where he was able to finance 10 to live on his property and teach his kids have teach he would debate with them and learn with them and raise the house full of what about the scholar that was an expert in and ra and tal but hated M and cabala what happened to him became a studying Torah while smoking cigarettes on Shabbat desecrating Shabbat in y eating but anytime you would see a rabbi or a poor person says hey come to my house but you can't eat anything like he knew the law he knew you can't eat at his house but against the law why when you have know your whole Torah goes to the garbage your whole Torah goes to the garbage who's this taught byab this is an issue month and a half ago so the next time your local kabad Rabbi says no we don't teach M do you read the magazine magazine the Rabbi says otherwise says otherwise the balat says otherwise you know how many times the balat mentions the word musar in his T you know how many times theyab we're experts in M why because what is m m is to do the best you possibly can to purify yourself as a human being your character traits what's even more than that even more than that which means that without what ends up happening is that a person starts speaking whatever is on their mind things like God needs us we don't need him what why because he created us therefore he needs man is fredman we are familiar with God because God needs us more than we need him and that's why Commandments 10 commandments that translation has has ruined everything as soon as you say God has Commandments he's no longer friendly he's not the one who's needy now you got to watch your step cuz you violated a commandment that's not Jewish thinking Jewish thinking is when God spoke to us at Mount Si he wasn't telling us what we must do he's telling us what he must have the kind of world he needs and the kind of world he he invisioned when he created it so God revealed himself that's that's why it's called Revelation at Mount Si if we could get this into our into our thinking into our educational system we need God if he created us then who needs whom how did we become the needy ones when he created us so well don't we need to eat and sleep and drink said well that's how he created us said such things on a regular basis no how can you burn a soul what will you do with it how can you burn a soul man as fredman says such things so what is it like to be in Hell there is really a serious proper definition or description of [Music] hell when you come home home to your home and you don't feel comfortable that's hell when you come to the place where you belong and you don't feel like you belong that is horrible the burning in hell is not a fire with with little demons with pitchforks the burning in hell is the embarrassment that a soul feels when it doesn't know how to be a soul anymore some souls go back to the world of souls as if they never left completely comfortable being a soul that's heaven but when you're uncomfortable being a soul cuz your soul is so used to being in a body not being comfortable as a soul among Souls that's hell how long does it take to readjust maximum 12 months after 12 months you're in heaven every Jew has a complaint against hem why we're in the exile for 2,000 years suffering it's our fault that God doesn't want to speak to us man is fredman secular people have nothing to be ashamed of it's not our fault God God uh hasn't spoken to us in 2,000 years or 3,000 years man is Freedman God forid God forbid that God should be punishing us for our sins cuz you know when you don't talk to your children for 3,000 years they forget some of the things you tell them making fun of a poor girl that got molested ah every Yesa person gets molested what's the big deal what happened to you why you so weak man is fredman how Canad still have this it in there but te it on a regular basis how isad not coming out with video after video separating and distancing themselves from this Manu how is that possible that this is the first time you have all heard of this how could it be how could it be that this Secret that wasn't so secretive from seven years ago is buried so deep that even the lawyers don't want to talk about it that's how much money has been invested into hiding this now the video of everything he says you could only find it in the black web you could only find the audio of it which they tried ruining also but you could find it the fear of an the rejection of an is is a very potent medicine and it has to be administered very carefully I don't know what the percentage is I don't know if you've noticed but uh there's hardly a kid who comes to to a Yeshiva to a program that hasn't been molested seual and all the all the children who have been sexually molested have serious emotional imbalances and the question is why why is to make a dramatic I'm talking to this girl who is very very off the not off the de I mean that that's that's saying that's pretty admir she decided she hates men she's going to be a being there she is why because she was molested so so and she's been going for therapy and she's been talking about her been close to 20 years that she was so icept that her you're not the only one who was molested oh I was moled not the only one yet and let me ask you a question do you sometimes forget to say Al she she like she not keep shabas she I said do you sometimes forget to say Al says that's much I said that's much worse than do she was very upset until she finally calm down said look you were 9 years old and you didn't do it so what a are you guilty of you forget to say that's your AV that's much more serious so it doesn't bother you that you forgot to say but you can't get over the fact that somebody else didn't a in other words what happened is that we stopped being Jewish in our in our responses we've all become psychiatrists a kid tells you he's been molested right way you're thinking oh emotional damage what do you know about emotional damage if a kid comes to you and says I was molested you open up the let's see what what what's the a what does it say in if you are inappropriately touched you know what it says it says D if a kid would come and say this Uncle or this count counselor is touching me it really don't don't go with him nothing nothing that's all there would be no damage there would be no trauma there would be no no no drop out the problem is we tell children how bad certain things are and then we don't tell them how to handle bad ala had to write a whole time yet to convince people if you have a don't freak out you're not a it's okay you're going to have you have you have 10y what and you're freaking out over what what is you're giving too much credit I I I could open an office and be busy full time just telling people who have been molested so nobody's allowed to touch you what are you holy so you touch that's it so I said to this girl who was really her family comes from Russia from I said what what you think you're the only one who molested you think your mother and grandmother back in Russia made it through their teenage years without being molested by a so what they stopped life they wouldn't get married they wouldn't raise a family what are you so fragile what happened to you they invested a ton of money to hide everything I'm telling you a ton of money right that's what Liars do now how do you come and say I'm sorry I said what I said I'm an idiot I'll never do it again guess what I'll be the first guy say you know what you admitted you're wrong but hiding it you you're hiding that your son is a molester three kids you man all these kids are traumatized for the rest of their life you piece of garbage are hiding it you should hide a poster on his face molest her why cuz those kids have that on their for the rest of their life you can't take it away from them you're hiding it you're making fun of it you should be the first one that goes out with a lecture to say I made a mistake in lectures and with my kids what's the proof look what happened with my kid what you think it's a coincidence that judged the me measure for measure measure for measure the guy's making fun of child molestation sh says look what I'm going to do to you you're child's going to be a molester and by the way I spoke to a few experts in the field they tell me that molesters are usually molested too the people that molest were molested also it's time we speak up against the why that's why you have a mouth that's why you have a mouth you're going to fulfill mitvah say keep Shabbat learn T all these wonderful things fine do it but if you're going to stay quiet when you know that people are going against the Torah what do we need your mouth for what do we need your mouth for it's useless you're only complaining what about the internet connection the economy is down we have to use our mouth we have to speak up we have to do it because unfortunately nobody else is doing it not enough why this guy is more popular today than he's ever been the most absurd thing in the world every day comes out with a video tens of thousands of views people are watching him no he's the greatest mind of the generation what did you listen to the words that he says you want to rip your hair out I don't even need to get haircuts anymore I just rip it with my hands I stopped watching I stopped I can't I can't it's mindboggling to me but this is why you have to warn people they don't even know what's dangerous anymore because they themselves have no shame so they don't realize that speaking like this is wrong making fun of a bled kid making fun of AEM making fun of the Torah making fun of the sages this is evil and anyone who doesn't speak against it is also evil why you're sitting there doing nothing while blood is being spilled you're sitting there doing nothing while blood is being spilled that's evil you have to be able to let people know they tell you they listen to these tell them listen I know you listen to them don't take this personally it's not against you I'm just warning you here's a few videos listen to them make your own decision you don't have to go crazy start cursing the guy out and and having Venom coming out of your mouth don't make sins there no permission to make sins over this but you have to let people know take this video share with people listen you listen to this guy I just want you to know before you press play again on his next lecture this is who he is this is who he is this is what he did you want to continue listening you made your choice but don't ever say when you go up to Sham no one told you when your whole mind is distorted and you're more like a Christian than you are a Jew and you go up to theed of sh and they give you a decree of a million years in Gom don't say I didn't know why I I told you I told you you're listening to the wrong teachers you're listening to the wrong people why it's not a coincidence that a person that makes fun of God also makes fun of people that are victims it's not it's not if you make fun of God of course you're going to make fun of people and this cannot be a small mistake why number one Rabbi is not allowed to make such mistakes this is basic Humanity 101 human you're being a human needless to say a rabbi two you wouldn't go out and embellish it and talk about it to other people too which means he was proud of it as says a person is who he Praises a person is what he Praises you praise such Behavior that's because that's what you are you don't think that molestation is a big deal it's very likely you're a child molester why because of normal person hears child molestation shrinks like a little ball of fear disgusted reviled G you ever see a little pure beautiful kid How could somebody hurt such a little beautiful pure kid I don't even care if he's Jewish or not just a little kid what did he do it to anybody you're going to touch this kid and then on top of it after this kid gets touched you're making fun of him if that's not evil what is how could this stay buried how could it stay buried how you have a mouth you have to use it that's the reality and that's what the says there's a time and a place to use your mouth time to make sometimes the mitvah is a sometimes the Mitzvah is rebuke sometimes the Mitzvah is to stay quiet sometimes the Mitzvah is to speak out you have to know how to use your mouth effectively or else it simply becomes turning your number one tool into useless into a weapon into something that's just not good because you'll be judged for it of not using it the right way if you're only saying with your mouth that's not going to help help you in life not in this life or the next one if you're only complaining about your neighbor but not against the it's not going to help you in life it's very critical that people understand every single person needs to warn anybody that they know that listens to these that we mentioned because it's not about who these people are and they have more views or less views and what they have has nothing to do with that it's the damage that they're causing some that's a that causes the public to sin as the r writes he is a person that hasem closes the doors of chuva you can't fix stuff like that why you cause people to leave hem you cause people to think that there's no need to to do mitvah because there's no G so why should I do it you cause people you can't fix that and because of that the says we judge him harshly we judge him harshly no cuot no cuot no Second Chances nothing a person like that they don't have anything to defend themselves you have to go against them no mercy and I'm telling you on the way here I had a yet this afternoon I had a yet saying come on I'm gonna bring this garbage up you really think I want to talk about this filth and then I realize that Mercy that Mercy Mercy is yet that Mercy is yet why keep it buried keep it buried millions of people still don't know keep it buried can't keep it buried anymore Mercy can sometimes be a bad thing we learn that from Sha Sha was merciful on am says you made a sin against hem you weren't allowed to be merciful against amalik a person that makes fun of the tah is amalik being merciful on him is a mistake it's a sin no you don't understand I understand I read it I have eyes I have ears I have a brain that's what he said that's what he did that's what his son did who manages the world precisely as much as I hate teaching about this stuff it is a part of the Tor and we need to learn it next week will be much more encouraging topics for other good things not that this is a bad thing but nonetheless we don't have to go over this vile subject of menace to Menace uh we'll have is on Tuesday of our new um uh series the era of mashiach on Tuesday but there's no on Wednesday no on Wednesday we'll come back to this location next week uh we have sh on uh Thursday uh so uh this is the time to learn as much to as possible the biggest mean that uh is critical for is to learn T why because the day of that's why it's customary not to fall asleep throughout the night and learn to the whole night I don't know if they're going to do any programs and shoes anymore because of everything that's happening but uh personally I would uh recommend that if you are in New York area like the hot areas don't go to Sho yet the uh the the the uh the problem is not gone places like Florida or other places around the country that didn't get hit as hard as New York you know use your wisdom to decide whether it's worth it for you to go to SCH or not because you know the uh the experience you'll get in SHO you'll be able to replace but a life that's lost for disease because you're not patient you can't replace and that's the thing guys that are in New York I don't recommend going to SCH at this point uh simply because there's still a risk there's still a risk out there uh and it's unnecessary risk although everything is from sh still if you've already been away from it for two months what's another few weeks it's not going to end the world especially if you have people in your house that are older and so on there's absolutely no need for you to take your life risk not with your life not with anybody else's life stay at home study at home pray at home until further notice other places again it all depends where you are and whether it's worth it or not and that's a case by case bases amen amen [Music]