South Side Sandwich Shop Shapiro Shiur 12-24-09

is so many things he really talk about there was one question that i had when i was a good question that you usually wouldn't have you could have seen that when parody had his meaning so you see that paris said tiago you made how much are the days and years of your life so actually it's actually a little bit strange the question why would you ask about days and years you know first of all it's a little strange that when a team would sit down with somebody the first thing would say hey how old are you you know he might have one more thing to discuss and also once he's asking him why is he asking him how much are your days and your years so look around there are a couple different uh he might have been the oldest person that paris ever saw there's a man well over 100 uh yeah probably something how old are you how old are you so jacob answered back that i got to mention back listen i i look old to you but i'm still not as old as my parents were you know it's here maybe he knew that he was not going to live that much longer he said my father gets abrupt my grandfather they lived longer from champs that's how he's a fascinating parent just like this we have an impression of haruhi maybe from 613 car avenue so if you have an impression of power he's like a bumbling uh president but to go tonight ari was a king he was a very very bright person and when paris sat down with thiago he realized that he had this may have been the holiest person he had ever seen and yaakov avinu you know was somebody he wanted to analyze he wanted to study it and he takes a look at gaga and he saw he understood like when we sometimes when you if you've heard the expression that somebody has three people that have and and people talk about that what does it mean to have length of days and length of years there are some people who live many many years every day they may have wasted most of the days of their life they live to be a rifle date of 100 years old but it could be that many of the days are are wasted on the other hand you have people that don't sometimes the person doesn't live that long you could say about that person that every day of his was used and he had a reason was asking yaakov he saw a hush of a holy person over here in front of him so he was asking him you know this person over here this is the guy i have to ask tell me how much of your days you're as a you're an old man how many of your days are really used out completely how many so yaakov that's what yaakov answered the same way yaakov had to back if johnsonville her says listen uh whatever whatever days that i may have used and as as much as i filled up my days i still didn't fill it up as much as my father and my grandfather would have filled it up that's that's that's that's what i wanted to know he wanted to know was he uh so i was thinking um when when when he first came down to control the brothers and i think that's something that's comparable to this it says that you know how she brings down a message in the beginning of participation rashi says that beacon shiaka played malaysia ready he wanted to go into retirement he had a long he had a tough life to be my loved one and everything yeah lived with his father-in-law for so many years right also and he had a tough life and he wanted because she got to himself with an event and says that right away i first broke and said no this is not you you don't rest over here this is not this is not this is not the place that's trying it's an unbelievable thing i heard years ago he said he said uh what no no steph left so he uh he said that he grew up in miami when he was a kid in miami the one time they had a contest and the winner of this contest the reward would be that you get 15 minutes in a super store in a supermarket and you can grant whatever you want this woman for a week before she was gonna be in the store she had it planned out she was gonna hit this vial at this angle and then you know the shopping cart would be tilted at this angle and you're gonna sweep things off the shelf like this and like that hey this woman gets into the store and she starts shoving things into her into her shopping cart i think and after two minutes she's sweating she looks like she's gonna faint someone yells at her why don't you just sit down sit down for three minutes like relax and then you'll get the stamina again she looks at the guy playing crazy shot by the coach broke who was telling goku that's what he was teaching me i'm trying to connect it to what we see in this week's power show the iaco avenue learned the importance then of every minute and every day now from the show they have glaciers no it's not the time to rest it's not the time to stop because now's the time to to grow in real hilliance to do to move on to to have to talk but uh to build quality so now now is not the time to rest it's not the uh and that was what marty was that's what pari was asking him he saw any other jacob was the type of person that used every minute and used every day and and that then he got it he got an appreciation he got appreciation for that there's one one of the small things the uh all the profession talked about he said i need yourself so the brothers weren't able to speak they weren't able to say anything the question is everybody everybody says you know that what we learned from beerus and all he said was that he knows that they couldn't talk what are we going to say when it comes after asked him and also we're going to see we're going to come up to the heavenly court and everything's grandfather we're not going to have what to say either so right then when the brothers when he said 22 years of questions was answered right then they saw right there wasn't like the 17 year old dreamer he was not uh he was not somebody that because they told joseph for the beer he said the mirror why you was telling me he said we're gonna throw him in the and we'll sell him and we're gonna see what's gonna do with your dreams you're just a dreamer you think you're going to be a king we're going to make you into a slave right now it's a beautiful thing for her says an unbelievable thought he says that we sometimes think that is not only is he going to carry out his plan but he's going to use you who's trying to stop the plan to carry it through he says and this is what happened this is what happened with that he goes through yeah i don't want to i don't want to go through the whole thing now but he goes through a whole bunch of things like different things that people go through in life when they try to choose a hospital or something and it doesn't work out and everything you have to do you know touch focus on a plan you have to just follow through and understand that that's your best work not to try it okay but anyways what he says about me he says that what happened to me here was is that good is that your sympathy is what actually was the kind of the the will and that's what actually sent the kind of the will out of credit he says that there's a nothing that we can ever think of nothing that we could ever do that can go against the will of hashem he said if you look back sometimes what have you tried to do something that that you know you see that your life is headed a certain way and certainly happening in your life and you try to fight it just the thing that you try to do to go against the thing is gonna think that's gonna send you right back on the track that you're supposed to be and that was that was the thought that that's the quarter of problems these are two very important lessons first of all that second of all the lesson that we said in the beginning is that that's the lesson that we learned that to live a hundred years is a wonderful thing and we should all be licensed to live and be healthy for 120 years but to live it and to understand that you're never going to have another today every single day that's our reason that's what was he so that's what he saw in yakuza that's what he had learned his lesson from participation that every single day has to be used out because the me never comes back