What a wife needs from a husband

what does a wife need from a husband so I'm gonna say something that is so triggering because it sounds so old-fashioned and patriarchal but a woman needs a husband who's a provider but by a provider let me explain what I mean I don't necessarily mean financially although it can mean that as well what I mean is an initiator in any emotional transaction there has to be somebody who initiates who brings the energy now the other party can then receive that energy and expand upon it which is what femininity actually does extremely well but a man has to be the one who initiates and that means you walk through the door you give her your attention and your focus you initiate the interaction