STRAY CATS taught me THIS 🐈🤯

when you're dealing with people especially people who are disregulated because they've been through trauma you're dealing with a very very very deep level that words do not penetrate and you start to realize that it's it's not the words I'm saying it's little things that I don't really normally pay attention to like my vocal tone am I speaking too harshly maybe too loud my volume is too loud it's too scary too intense eye contact my eye contact is too intense I'm making quick movements sudden noises right and normally we don't think about that but the cats taught me because the cats will not tolerate anything that stresses them the cats make it very very clear when they are stressed when they are uncomfortable they run and hide so I learned from the cats how to make another living being feel calm feel safe and ultimately after a long time feel connected