Parents who BULLY their children

if you have the guts to admit that you have been your child's bully and you want to do cha right now then to me you are the greatest parent in the world but M shabal cha AED him in the place where a true penitence stands is the highest place and if you can have the humility to say I was the one who exacerbated my child's feeling of being unsafe in this world I'm going to now make it my life's mission to make them feel safe then to me you are the greatest parent even greater than the parent who got it right from the beginning