Love your child so they don’t find ACCEPTANCE anywhere else!

what we can control is that under our roof the feeling of warmth and love and acceptance has to be so undeniable that no matter what will happen our children will be immune to that lure of false acceptance that they will find out there cuz when they'll compare it to what they've had their whole lives they find anything else to be Hollow why would I want a stranger's love when I have the love of my parents the people who know everything about me and still accept me now you're going to say I'm a religious Jew how can I do that what do you want me to do ultimately there is a limit to where my child's behaviors will just make it impossible for me to accept them and my answer to this is not to ignore T but look in T and see what T says because I think a lot of things we say in the name of religion are not what tot is really saying and a lot of parent child relationships were unnecessarily destroyed in the name of something that God never said he wanted