Is prayer SELFISH?

if you're an independent operator if your life is your life and God is just basically there because you can't avoid him because he's bigger than you stronger than you he's got all the stuff that you want then yeah it's probably not appropriate to go bother him and ask him for stuff especially on the holiest day of the year probably not very emotionally sober probably self-indulgent but if you've given yourself all of yourself to him then what can't you ask for it's all for him it's not for you it's for him