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Are You Making This MASSIVE Parenting Mistake in 2025?

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SoulWords—Rabbi Shais Taub

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The harm of helicopter parenting is not what most people think it is. Most people think it is, well, you're gonna make them spoiled brats. Making them into spoiled brats is annoying for everyone else who has to deal with them. But that's not the worst thing about helicopter parenting. The worst thing about helicopter parenting is that when you save a child from a situation that he or she could have handled, and I stress that he or she could have handled, but you don't let them handle it, you deprive this child of getting to know their true self. When do we see what we're made of? When we overcome adversity. A child who's deprived of the ability to overcome challenges that they have the ability to overcome. If a child is in a situation that they cannot fend for themselves, then yes, we as parents swoop in. That's not called helicopter parenting. That's called being a responsible adult. But if a child is in a situation where they could handle it and you don't let them, you deprive this child of discovering their true self, their true potential, and ultimately you deprive them of knowing who they really R.