Siyum Nedarim | Lawrence

my name is Marsha suede thank you very much for coming director of oldaf Altura I'd like to first thank all the people that helped put this event together the seed was planted it wasn't for a Sim on the Durham my cousin nachman schwade was here somewhere reached out right there reached out a while back and said is there any way we could put together a sheer unpractical Durham now the question I got when I was talking to people about this was are there any relevant Allah that are and always say nether do we have to don't we have to how many that are relevant to day-to-day life and I live in Lakewood and I heard of give three Sunday morning shiramana so there's certainly practicals that come up daily that are relevant to nadarm so Rabbi yasi weberman was the top candidate in the area to give this year thank you to him um I would like to thanks Mr Mitch ader newly minted president of the OU for coming and on behalf of the OU Rabbi Howard ramesha Howard Josh Joseph I would also like to thank Moshe brandsdorfer where I work with Usher tester who's here who all work to have all staff an old passionate working on a daily basis I'd like to thank the Berger and erlichmann families for sponsoring and dedicating this breakfast and this year and this year we've had an old ass team sponsor from the beginning The Goldberg family has been dedicating to human in memory of yitzuk is there who was a person who was sick his whole life they always say I've said this a bunch of times he was someone who was in the hospital over 250 times he passed away he was 47 someone who constantly persevered certainly a lesson for those who are doing the deaf on a day-to-day basis I would like to thank David Safir who put me in touch with the other ask on him here in the show putting this all together a real Aber thank you for bringing your cover and I think we covered everybody if I missed anybody thank you to everybody else I just want to say one show as I was driving up here from Lakewood this morning I was thinking there's a famous Mission I didn't bring the mission down in front of me famous mishna yesma was met by somebody and he said to him and he was asked to come move to that person's area and he said that even if you give me all the money in the world Amy darling so the simple shot is even if I'm the wealthiest guy in the world I'd rather sit on a tire and a mocking Terror but I saw the Metro shmuel says a fascinating shot and I was thinking about how it's relevant and you come to this community and assured I'm having a share here he said it doesn't mean that he said I want to be the even from the wealthiest person in the world I prefer to have Toyota it means that he's gonna have all the money in the world not he's the wealthiest there's no one else is going to have any money besides for him and he's gonna have to support everybody every stalker every mice did every Ani is gonna have to get their money and their sustenance from him so he's going to have quite a lot of scouring against he's supporting the whole world is that Alpha pukane the fire of living and learning in amakim Taira is greater than supporting and giving everything else every penny that he has to everybody else in the world so to be able to come to a place where they are Max Electro and are supporting Torah and supporting organizations in and out of the neighborhood and at the same time being able to create so urim all the shoes that are here and all the meisters that are here it's certainly you have both miles without further Ado Rabbi Weber it's Australia thank you very much brandsdorfer for his persistence the um and the special uh thank you to the erlichmann and burger families should be exclusive from there that's it so it's some of the things that were appropriate uh we're talking about Mission like nitrate stock Etc it's a big mouth stalker and everyone is knows the it's not an appeal but their families are very special families good friends so I'm doubly appreciative when they originally asked me Russia Branson First said you know can you give me some questions that you know you want to you want to talk about something like the whole end of the dorm is like calling him this cutting this I'm like okay if your wife says coin him each coin him if you want if your wife says you're coin they're not going to get in and off from you what's the din so the first thing is you need a therapist as well but we're not going to deal with that child I'm gonna deal with one child over here try to deal with a few shilas and get into a little bit of the lumus a little the background and then we'll see if we run out of time I don't see a clock here which is usually not a good thing so you'll have to uh tell me when a 10 minute warning or you'll give me that's I'll clean up and give it back to you okay the okay so the question is I guess the gemara says that there's a mcflages whether it's good the plastic says whether it's better to make a Nether and better with one should I know I don't need a microphone because my family always tells me I'm very loud and so I definitely this is for the video here so it's not going to help you it's like this is whether someone should go and so whether it's better to make a Nether and fulfill it or better not to make a net there at all and some tests out that the is talking about really one should not make a nether at all and the The Shining over there the Russian armband say that we see that if a kosher shouldn't make a nether so if someone wants to go and give money if you have the money go and give if you don't have the money then be quiet and don't give so the Clara comes out and if there's an appeal you know make you say believe that there there at the end of the in the back of the Riff says that it says I mean he made a net there he was leaving me from Quran he was going to bear bear look around now he's living he went to Karen so he says the video is considered an ace Sarah and he decided to make a nether so with your friends sorry you can make another so reverse says I'm going to give money if I have a fua but he says and he says because of this there are some requirements that annoying to get stuck up and Shem and Lamar to pay for the electricity on Russian and Kipper alone because the sifragm are open in front of a Kurdish baraku and it says the noise they what what happens so that they're they they're it's an ace Sarah and therefore in order to to they want to be saved from the din right they can give the money and he says they give it the next day immediately right and he says what about other cases that people are knowing to given shops in yantev he could be Mash of the Minogue because they're doing it because it's a Yom kenuffia people are all there and the name are needed the money and also they go boy and we're going to come to collect it the next day and the result says they're going to come to even collect it with Force right we come click enforce so the question over here is is that what about BisMan Hazel so the says in Rich gimbal ID that sorry should have to be careful not to make a nether even for soccer it's not good to make another unless you have the money you give and if not don't make another agile until you have the money the imposed him stock of it's you have to give the money you should go and give the money please you go if you have to make a pledge say blue neither so ramesha says in in debris Maisha and the dorm over there he says in the Horus that he says that there's a minute for many many years to go make another brabham for the Turtle base Kinesis and and in the Darius aquarium they were annoying also to give a nether when they were getting Aliyah and that's the Turk for the stalker for their name and the chocolate basic knesses because what's going to happen if you go and say bolina there so everyone's going to go and say there right and then and then when it comes time to for collecting people won't go and pay so therefore he said they're allowed to say you're allowed to say it Stam and give a give it with a you know it's considered a Nether and therefore you don't have to worry about people forgetting it because they're embarrassed and the government will come and collect but if there would come a time that people would go and it would be akshardare and that you wouldn't have to go and say you wouldn't you wouldn't have these problems over here if someone forgetting you're not paying up then we it would not be a problem you shouldn't you should say neither you shouldn't say Russian blue nether again and even if you know he says that if you're if you're gonna go and be matarash and explain that you're going to say Nether and you know you're going to pay after shoppers still you should say it's time and you should you should mail it will be considered another why because if you say believe now there again everyone else is going to follow after you and it's going to end up being a loss for the show so emotional holds that you should really say you should say you should go say stop and it'll be considered like a Nether and that's how you should make your appeal remember he says that he has this child over here Michelle this is will say that for another time the uh he says over here if someone gets an Alia and makes a ton of what should they do he says the minogies that we say an archila there and he has a whole stick of title over here that there's a A din of mites even if you say blue nether it'll only absolve you from from a nether but if during the that won't absolve you from your obligation to give any money because there's still a dinner that if you went and said it you have to be airlock and you have to go and say it if you said it you have to go and keep your word so therefore you won't in terms of the nether part you're not going to be obligated but in terms but lagabi the denim of might just Mark you're still gonna have to go and give your pledge so my mother Shabbos told me said I heard you giving a show on the dharm I'm going to give you a million dollars I said believe neither she said now I don't have to pay you I said well actually Microsoft is like a Tish Mark I can make a payment plan for you a million dollars you plan on giving out slowly but um but it see but I think she holds like the end of her moisture standoff because her Andy says considered like you're explicitly saying that you shouldn't have any ascribe and maybe it means uh it could be maybe he means that you're totally exempt it's an interesting thing he says at the end that there's he says he says this is every so often to give a certain amount of money to sucker on behalf of those people who made who pledge money to the basic knesses and didn't pay so he wants to go and absolve them from them no pressure a little bit lower um they uh either way that would be a you know that would be a nice thing but like us I think many people say blue Nether and immersion of course says you shouldn't say but of course when you give now the gemara seems to the gamaran teslav seems to say that if there's a and it's awesome that if there's if there's if there's a concept of if some P if people are naive to do something they're accustomed to do something then if we could be considered like a nether now the obviously we're coming out now you should say blue nether it doesn't make a difference where you're planning you're planning giving out two dollars to stock every day right whatever you're planning doing just say blue nether right so the question is that there are certain Concepts on hugger type that if you go and do something if you do one time with Das to continue to do it forever you have to say believe another before the first time or if you play if you do it three times in a row and then you but the third time you should say lean out there as well but if you didn't then you would it could be you would need to be mattered in front of so the question is what's considered a what's what type of Ned what's considered another over here so what's considered a hug a tofu so like let's say you're you know what's it's a hard fun example but like I say I mean right just off the top like let's say your wife asked you to you decide you're going to listen to your wife three times in a row I don't mean three times within like a minute period take out the garbage take out the garbage I mean like three times in a row is that considered a nagatova you think we should pick a more practical example right yeah wait until so the the Shah says first in ratio Dali The dwarm there are mutter and you know that they're mutter but you know again inserts considered like your Macabre and a Nether and you're not allowed to be mature them right and therefore someone who regularly fasts right and they said and so on right and therefore he says and he's not well he has to be Mata nether and the shark explains what is it talking about we're talking about something that's a seog and a gather and apprecious the the uh over here brings that it's also something because of hasidos now the shock goes and qualifies this and he says that it's not shy to say that your mother only something that some people are annoying and not all people and meaning like something something is meaning that there's a section of quality all this mutter and somehow that it's Usher but what which claw yourself upon themselves you can't go and be matter like Pasha says let's say six hours between meat and milk you can't go and beat Mata right if you're holding someone's a holiday and they were never six hours in such a case that's an exception but the pastor says that one cannot go and be um be make on that however the shock brings a stir up and he says that we have a problem over here over here it seems that if someone's not well let's ease fasting fasting is searching and he's not well and he wants to go and be closer because he's not well so you need to you need to imagine another happens to come out there one one is not obligated to fast so he says what's the what's the distinction over there over there the person comes out he doesn't have to fast and over here he comes out the if someone's not well he has to he has to there if again in archaim he doesn't have to fast if Bruce comes out during surgery and over here if he's not well he has to fast so the shark goes and says that when I was macabo Paul myself the faster service so what am I vocabul by myself I'm gonna call myself the minute the fastest built in that Minogue was not too fast if a bridge comes out on it but over here when I never dawned on me that I wasn't going to be well so therefore it wasn't built into my original Cabela to that if I'm not well I won't have to fast so again he makes the distinction between return is that if there's a retrievement so therefore I was being the cowboy myself right what the middle I guess the meaning is that of course comes out right off the fast but over here I wasn't thinking about it and therefore it's not included by Kabbalah if I won't be well and therefore I have to fast the dog of which is a very important which I want to point out again it's only point out that it's only going on on hug of stuff it's not going on a regular net there he says he doesn't agree with the shock and he says no the difference is is it what what is the nature of my retraction if my retraction is a permanent retraction which is the our case over here in yarideo that I'm not well so then he said I don't want to I don't want to go back to fasting I want to totally break my my nether so then I have to then I have to need to imagine that there but if it's just a temporary pause for some sort of reason if there's a Miko sure for example there's a a suit there's a Bismillah so I'm not stopping it I'm just taking a temporary pause and I'm going back to my my inaugatova so on that I don't have to go and he says that's very good with the mugging of rum because the Muggin of rum says that that if someone was if someone ever Shoshanna is not feeling well he doesn't have to fast meaning because he's going to be going back to his his Nether and therefore his and therefore it's not a problem so again we have two we have two uh shaktima we have one the shock says that when I was Macabre upon himself it was based on the the what the Minogue is the middle because if there's an if there's a bris I don't have to fasten the the the and but machine can buy over here that being well that was never my Kabbalah and therefore I'd have to be marked another but the dog of always saying a very important aside that if it's if it's on hoggetovan I want to go and I'm going to go back to it I just have some reason he says or some sort of me I mean if I'm not feeling well and I'm eventually going to go back to it it's not going to be a problem and I don't need to be Mater nether the and he says it's good with the mugging of wrong button if I'm not going to be what if someone's not well ever Roshana he can break he doesn't have to fast because he's going to go back to it it's interesting because there's a there's a Muggin of rum a different Muggin of rum so he's trying to establish that his heart goes in the market whether you have to wash up until here or up until here so the rift in the rush so the mug and Rob says before you start doing this before you start washing all the way up to the after the Palm or your arms you have to make them tonight what's your tonight because what happens if I don't have water I'm gonna be stuck enough water and I'm going to be over I'm going to have a problem of another but I was saying according to the Dogma Volvo I'm only stuck it's a one-time thing so therefore I shouldn't have to make a tonight so why is the mug in the room say that you have to make it tonight so it could be maybe with possible the I found the shinsky says in his truvis that he wants to say look over here he says that by a Dover it's a very sadistic he says that's a Minogue and it's a see you're going to get there it needs our Torah in other words when I come and say I I'm a cowboy myself as a young I want to protect this it's a more of a get of like a light plug so therefore if I'm a Cowboy by myself it's across the board there's no wiggle room but we're not being the Cobble upon myself something for chuva right so then this is I'll do tomorrow it wasn't as strict as a Kabbalah that there's no wiggle room so therefore again if it's a seog I'm being a cowboy just like the din is that you're not allowed to let's say I want to keep a mushroom let's say I want to keep after I want to keep Shabbos for being in town so so there I'm I'm doing it because it's a seog right it's only it's because it's seog because I want to keep you know the it's a everyone keeps it and that's why I want to do it so therefore I keep it as a seal to keep the DIN and therefore I'm not we're keeping the time so therefore there's no wiggle room if you're just doing it because maybe because of fear of Shabbos we have to do with child of I believe but if just because of fear of shops it's not a practical message I'm just trying to bring a uh just trying to think of an example now but I'm doing because of a fear of Shabbos so then I maybe it would be you know there'd be more wiggle room so like this um the question would be so that so like this so again is talking about A din of of chuva and therefore there's more room to to make ill but over here so if there's a bris you can you can eat right but but over here it's a seog in your day and therefore if he wasn't well he'd stop the fast the only problem is is that it doesn't enter because they're both cases are both talking about fasting let's say I seriously made truva our heims talking about and in your days talking to serious so what's the Relic can be so it could be like this maybe that the the when when I'm being recovered by myself a in the early day I didn't so I'm doing it because a sector of people probably saw there's a it's a it's a I don't say a social Norm but is there people that are that fast and certificate so I'm part of that group it's like the people that keeper being a time I'm part of that group then there's some people because they're scared of Shabbos or whatever it is right then they'll go and keep or you know the they'll go and keep later they want to and chop us later because they love Shabbos or whatever it's going to be whether I'm not getting to the practice of that child just using an example so it could be like this it could be that there are two types of Tennessee there's one there's a tiniest because I'm doing it because of the true aspect of others all because of the two of us another is I'm doing it because it's cool to do and if I'm doing something that's my couple to do that's more of a gather of a light plug in which case by the way the the Morgan of rum would be very good because the the Morgan of arm is saying that on Earth Rosh Hashanah right I confess because I'm doing if I'm not well I don't have to fast because I'm doing because I'm not feeling well right but um but it's because it's a true verse so there's more wiggle room my shanking over here where there's a halacha meaning I'm doing it because it's a seog so over there there's no wiggle room to move around I'll go upon him what's going to be the din brings he said they'll be passing like this all the time that if there's a temporary pause then and you're going back to your uh that's fine if it's a permanent thing then you'd have to I'm gonna be marked another so we can give a few examples let's say let's say first of all so far by the way so let's say for example uh make it for Shivam right so let's say someone has this MacBook on the RS let's say there's emfest and there's the 12 hours before so if whatever reason there's some sort of sorry that uh someone knows he doesn't have to necessarily get at 12 o'clock at night three people to him after another which would sound be an uncomfortable thing you could be Simon from Doug for sure it's not a problem well so let's see your men against uh to go every area of Shabbos to the mcfo or you're going Shabbos to the mcfar or nothing a certain amount of times and now they have a little bit of an earache they're a little bit nervous right so you always have that one guy in the mcphire Shabbos who does like shy Fearless you know what I mean the um what believe neither yeah it's on yeah let's say you're doubling the second let's say the mission board says that if you're in Miralax says if your middle if you are the zahiram to David so then you should go and um you should you if you're behind us you can go and dive in as well let's say you don't have a minion right you can tell them says that it's because it's it's like on hogatoiva it's like you know like you're in macabo and Nether and therefore you can go and you should really you can go down behind this because you're you're this is your minute right now so if again if it's a one-time thing they have to break it's fine but if there's a reason a valid reason for it right but if there's isn't Washington we have you in Canada you Martian that's the that's the way yeah but that's the that's that hug I was never a cal upon himself onion buff I was just because for the rest of the year in case where I don't have water what do I do so in all these cases over here again also for myself especially Meister let's just say is a is a Minogue you should be my cowboy upon tell your kids to be vocabul upon themselves they should also say by the way because a lot of people use mice or money from its us that they could also stipulate that you're going to be able to do it for mitsus but in this case over here if someone has to go and break it it's not going to be a problem if it's a one-time thing it's a one-time thing or it's a temporary thing now what happens if um in terms of nitrate stuck over here the the if someone guarantee someone says they're going to go and give money to stucco when exactly is going to be held on them so in you're asking why are we talking about Stocker so they're Josh's in in in Rosh Hashanah and others in the lock and in Zion gimmel that the Stocker is included in the dharim and therefore someone says how real I sell it stucco or sell a zoo let's talk I have to give it to that name immediately and if he's and if he delays he's over about her why it's in his hands to give it immediately and a Niam armitsuyam okay and if there's no name he should be mouthful should leave it until the name karma in other words there are two denim the first days soccer is included in the net there and therefore someone pledges money he has to go and give it like a nether and if there are neem around he for sure has to go and give it right away otherwise he's over about to ask her and because he has the ability to give it and there are nem there and if there's no name yes leave him until he comes there until yeah I mean she had yeah I mean that's what the Macabre says gonna give it we'll talk about afterwards you can argue and shot him later the the uh explainer like this the so like this including a darm so you see there are two denim over here one if there are neem in front of you that you have to go and give it to that and you don't give them you're gonna be about Akron two even if there's no name you have to go and be my first now the question is when are you going to be over are you gonna be over every day or is it going to be called shavasha so the lotion of the written is that it's because and but the Gamora seems to say in terms of Cabanas and Roshana that after the gimbal Golem passed you're either the same thing would apply over here to stalker it's interesting there was a there's a mice that's brought that he was McCabe had an arrayach and he's he was what had wanted right after my if you rush to go serve him he said he was going to go he's gonna go take care of him but it's just for any Mitzvah if someone goes and says by the way it says I'm gonna go pick I'm gonna go and give you a ride I'll meet you there at 12. so it could be I have to really that's like a nagatova I have to really or some sort of maybe like you know In the Ghetto of another I have to go and be there at 12. right that's why I seen sulitz it says they start you know they it doesn't I guaranteed they they so like this the so what's so it's funny because he says that he was rushing because he was scared to take care of Donnie because about her so I don't understand if you hold Pasha says he had a little bit of time maybe he held that it was you know I don't know he was conscious but either way I'll go upon him now the Mahaba goes and says that dafka if your mother but everyone has the opportunity to call Jacob that they should be by him to give them meaning to give it uh to give it out slowly so too if you made it right that is would be allowed to go and change it right that is going to be mortar but again can repeat enough make sure you say we nether so like this okay good question no bezier Shem is or Mutual Shem or whatever it can be is just saying that Hashem should give me the correct to be able to do it but it's not going in taking away the nether the unless you thought at that time that you're going to give because if we're going to get to soon if you think about it in your mind then that would obligate you it's like this so what's going to be so if you want to give it out slowly so the question is you again the Washington year align right and you should and you should make this tonight that this tonight would help even if there are nem around if you make this tonight so because I want to give it to Donnie that I see fifth now you can't just do this as a stick because you don't find anyone fit right the the shulkin says that you can do he says meaning you you have to be real it's like this let's say I go and want to give money to a dinner over here I'm going to go a minute to Yeshiva dinner so that Derek is to there's a difference it seems to be there's a difference you see them and so there's certain mices at least for let's say Yeshiva okay the why because needs the money right away are Yeshiva the way they work is first of all they know that if you give it over time that you're gonna go give more money right please just you'll correct me if I'm wrong right and also about that part you'll agree on right so they also the the Meister needs money throughout the whole year so if you have a bunch of people the way it's supposed to work is let's say I'm going to give it out in increments I'm going to give my I pledge a thousand dollars I'll give 250 quarterly so everyone's supposed to be doing that and then hopefully everyone is and then the money she will be getting money for the whole entire year but needs it right away so for Yahoo when you give it you have to go and give it say you have to give it right away for and really truth is for Moises it's really taller when the Gaba is but it's your Das is when you give it to myself your Das is to go and give it out slowly right the now let's say you make a Misha bear or an appeal or something that you're really you question or not so again if you if you didn't say blue nether really if it's for yachty you're going to be and then you should be careful if Agape comes to you from the my Sid it could be that you have to go and give him that as well again unless your Das was betfairish that you that you didn't want you didn't want to give it like that now it's interesting by the way there's something there's we see Moses for Saturday that they can even go and force it right and stock is included in the darb so if they could force it so Mela they could really Force they can enforce you giving the stucca I was wondering why they have a good volume was Josh you like a more bigger guy you're not such a small guy so I don't know if you're still the guy by here but uh okay but you know to get a bigger guy to so there's some sort of thing I don't know exactly how you force the guy but I someone told me a lawyer told me that in correctly from wrong goals if he's wrong he's wrong the that he said if you make a pledge especially in writing and the bill there's a built for a building campaign they start building based on that on that pledge so then don't worry okay okay fine we'll speak after her I have a different show that has a has problems um they you they they can go and sue you in court based on that so the residents and let's say someone makes I hope they should be together for everyone in the right time right still makes a lot of money and they want to put in a charity fund so but they didn't have Das so they didn't have Das to go and spread it out over time so what's going to be the dim if you made it tonight that would be totally fine right again if you didn't make the tonight so it could be that a charity fund is going to be different because when you put it in there it's considered like your dust was explicitly to go and spread it out because the the first of all if you go and give it out right away You're Gonna just left with for the next two three weeks or a month people just knocking on your doors right even though everyone he says I will not tell anyone how much you gave okay but the and also there's another swara is that bism that we don't use goodbye him and rather people give it out themselves so so for sure as kavana was for specific Anem at the time that he wanted and therefore you wouldn't be over about her now the the I see the Thomas I forgot what time I started I think it was a few more minutes yeah we'll just speak about uh the the uh yeah Meister money is like a netherton is what's the nature of it but I think we passed this nemon that it's a Minogue and um yeah and and make sure if you make it tonight before no when you buy for shade it's already it's it's nicer it could either have a separate account I mean depending how your business runs my pronounce is very simple just I don't have like too many Investments so but you know if investments in it gets a little more complicated but if you have just regular you make a you make you put a separate Meister account or you put into these whatever you know these ojc's or jcfs or whatever it is and makes life easy now um the like this the the just just a few more points then I guess what happens if I thought I was going to plan on giving some stuck up so the Allah is that if that if someone has a makshava to go and give sucker so the investment has the remark brings the original Christ of someone says the remark brings like this that if you believe and you don't need an Amira because if you in if you said and if you said it then they could force you to be mikaim it and then there's if you didn't articulate it you're not going to be high The Icarus is meaning even though you didn't articulate you're still going to be higher so the question is what exactly does it mean that the gather of makshava so the Morgan of rum when he's talking about in in his tiny says a hero Billy boy that in philos meaning he says but if it's only just bed that's not called the Kabbalah says over there that if Government believed by mamish of Zion says meaning you're in a siashi believes in the Iran says intestine a different thing he says ruts and Gummer it's interesting so in other words it's not a fleeting thought that you thought you were going to get stuck are you a concrete in your mind I know I'm gonna give there's a chance you win it yeah no no I'm not when I said no no when I said I was no that's on that Claire yes no because no because it was out tonight that he's I'm gonna win tonight yeah at that moment yeah and you're not allowed to do I think it's called a shill in English another do like I'm gonna I'm gonna be the guy trying to raise it the whole time yeah It Happened One Time by the way and the person at the had to go up and set and they won so they have to go up and tell the person I was very impressive I said to go up and tell the the guy bye that I really don't have enough money I was just trying to up it to for the shore so they went over the person and gave the last bid and he said he'll take it which is very impressive because usually it's all part of like the covet like you know okay one you know it's yours yes you have a problem over there because if you know what how do they make a CM without you so definitely it's blue nether but you have to go and inform them if you're not going to do that and preferably not the day off right the the um okay therefore and then hopefully they'll be smart enough to get another guy to do it yeah so therefore like this so let's say to go let's say you go and you what happens like this I decided I'm going to start to give to a certain Ani and this guy left and he's gone so again you should always say be neither but if you didn't there's a guy walks in I plan on giving it to him so if I was Macabre makshav and I plan on going giving it I plan on going giving it to this honey over here so now this sun is gone so what do I do so it's interesting that you're really not gonna be mishana from from one stock to the next so if you can't find the guy you should go the cousin he says you should go and give it to another Ani and Derek's secret if she explains it's like what's that going to help I plan on giving it to the sunny she says that when the scriveness of when I'm when I am me that I should go and give it but not necessarily to that specific Army I don't it's a hiddish according to that I don't have to go and run after the Ani and um I could change it from 100 to the next but either way I would think you're part of the lagami because my Das was to give it to the sunny and he's gone so I'm an onion so there's nothing there's nothing I could do but aquapon this is all if you planned on on you've got an intent to give what happens if I went and took the money out of my pocket and I wanted to go and give so it's interesting brings empiric bays in our liquor 12 he says that he had a he always has time he used to put the money on on the on the table in front of him and therefore when they were people would be going people will be going then you'd have copied to collect it would take from sometimes you would give a little bit one a little bit more he would take it out right and uh but one time there was an ani that came passed by him and he started running after running to go to to give it to him to try to find him so they asked him like my hi you know why why are you so worried about it you say you never worried about he said because my kavana was that when until it gets to the handed Oni it's not it's not it's not there's no um myself anything that guy was blind and he didn't realize it touched his hand he didn't feel it and therefore maybe that was included in like a ball or so he went to run after someone should definitely have you know in mind until it gets his hand now the what happens if the Ani decides that he doesn't want to take the money right it's considered um he wants more so Pasha says you're putter but you should go and give it to another Ani because you did what you had to do either honey is either an avla but uh in terms of you right uh you're you're fine I was mentioned two other shylas that one is that what happens if let's say someone is someone Dominic early right and then they started diving again right and they started coming again after playing right you know because if you don't have mental early most of the time the rule is you don't get the minha on time right so it's usually like a second minion a lot of times you know there's many Miss mountain and then there's a enough people that come in later on because Shabbos is it's it's it's hectic so I doubt right and now right I come to show uh the different showers get confused by the way that stand would be a child what would be I come to school and then I started diving again after Pogba does that default into myrf that doesn't do another you'll figure that out yourselves but the but um shell happens a few times a year but let's say I I was macabo Shabbos and then I realized I didn't have so you have to be shot the the the bush says gimbal that uh okay so if it's me Tom nedder you have to go and and be shyal so how you should get three people together and it seems to be that you know be a stubborn thing to do to get three people together and be shy along you know you didn't realize and then you can go and die but that won't help for your wife why because your wife already lit candles so what you're going to do with the bracha so I'll leave you to think about it she was she always so what did she do um yeah yeah by the end of serious my dog you should you should really have that you should say um have your wife ever Rosh Hashanah hopefully or everyone's on speaking terms you say to your wife I'm going to right I'm going to you know I'm going to be you're gonna Point me the schlier and you say I'm doing it for my wife they should really say so what's the story with everyone erase all this but the question is what if certain stalkers McLoud Netherland says that these things are more like ancillary meaning they're not a real nether so they're for the mysterious medal works on these things but it's it's not so pushed because these are Josh's right these are Joshua and uh and Joshua it's part they made it like another so who said the mysterious medal works on something like this says he said this they did meaningless doesn't work only it won't work on real in the dark but in terms of in terms of in terms of like right you know or certain things that are like learned that as in Russia like so he wants to say then say that it will be okay all right so the I think he says also so he says um so he says he was at a meeting of the various and he met him there and he told him and Iran was very happy with it and it was great he said the mysterious but I will work on these things but either way you actually if a lot of times women can't come to college so you know there and all these things so this you know whatever they should be trained to say neither there's sometimes I'm writes when his kid was like well you know the girl was at 11 in a day they set them down I was like intense you know they should explain to you in the diary and true you know and everything you have to so anyways that was the the clinic over there all right either way um I just want to just put the just one thing over here that just will finish that with a it's just a small a small horror that it's not because you know but it's a smaller heart from it's probably an old half if not he'll make sure it's on the the like as the posix says so when you say right means that we shouldn't make your word School in right says so you should make so it could be like we see when someone makes a nether they create a reality they ask for something on themselves so in in that world it's going to be us sir so the Swarms say that make sure that everything is everything's good and whatever lose your mouth if you're living in that world of caduce and you're living in that world where everything's good and it's like cooling right that's what you go to it because he's living in that world he's all living in that holy world it was helpful that we should be able to take and be careful with the words and make sure to say blender and it's just I want to tell you something it's so beautiful to be in this show first of all I've learned exactly learned here a few times and it's just it's a very comfortable feeling it's a very nice shawl and it's just a beautiful Heaven as a Haver you should go ready learned a lot from him on behalf of my wife Rebecca and Irene Jackie this CM should be in Elias and shama for our father-in-law from Yamin if you take all 90 blot of nadarum and you sum it up into one lesson that one lesson would be is the importance that wants for us on our words if there's anyone that we know who emulated this more was our father-in-law his word was his bond and it's something that we could all learn from him I'm going to end with uh the last little story there isn't a dharm and also want to thank aldot for letting us be part of the CM and for all the God by him who arrange this and Max foreign ER who entered the house of a certain woman asagavra her husband came home solic knife and the the this adulterer he was hiding behind the curtain Javi Martin there was a there was a Crest lying around with some kind of vegetable in the room and a poisonous snake went ahead and tasted from it um presumably leaving behind some some poison he had no knowledge that the snake went ahead and left some of its venom behind this adulterer was hiding behind the door Lo he screams out do not eat from this for a snake has tasted it so amarava and now the other Shiloh was this lady going to be mutter or not amarava in to say Shara his wife is permitted because if they already did an answer he would have preferred that she that the husband would have died because the posix says and the adulterer have committed there's blood in his hands and and um and if someone is on adultery then he's questioned on Misa also and perhaps the husband would have um the the adulterer would have rather the husband that he'd rather have um therefore that he that this lady is a mother to her husband foreign