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Okay. So, welcome again to our
relationship flow. We are in the David
Bish and we're learning
still in hash boem. Apparently this is
the 23rd session since kadesh would be
learned 23 times in this holy safer from
Nakman's his main rabbi
of Braz and um big to learn right now
especially
the yachts the balata and my namesake um
Alza Ben Ruben dove desla who I'm named
after and also the shamish and leba a
lot of other sadikim around this time of
year. Um, so we have a lot of aura of
sadikim here and one of the big voters
that sadikim are busy with is sweetening
the judgments. So we learned last time
to be like a lion, a geore to rise up in
the morning. That's the first in this.
So we're going to see that that also
applies for in the minimum my son's here
because I think last time we also
learned about this. He's come back to
the sugnos
is very circular like he he goes around
and around but it's more like a spiral
different it's really taking you up and
up and up on certain
and until you get it really strong and
uh so he's talking here he says
mates of
the base mdash so this is what it says
in the
um sif uh three like this third part.
It's fitting for every person who fears
hem to be pained and distressed over the
destruction of the bas mdish. So I was
just in Balam today and last night and
in the middle of the night was around I
was outside on this messa and it had
this big like gilly of all came down and
I was standing there on the measa by
myself and I started going a bit crazy
started like talking about the sadikim
and sima and I got a bit loud and my
wife was like it's the middle of the
night it's like midnight there's people
sleeping all around what are you doing
anyway the point was that when you're in
such a mockum of us and you we're able
to where we were we were able to see the
holy city the old city and you you
should really have an awakening of
towards the b mdish you should want
there to be a bas mdish you should want
there to be a gillina in the world that
we don't want any more gollas we don't
want any more s from the lack of the not
having a bas mish brings and it's
something that [snorts] really every
night a person should try and give a bit
of time to it um [snorts] so you you
know, Gdar Fence, we'll talk about him
in a second, talks often about um the
idea of waking up more like early
morning because to wake up momish
midnight, like last night I was up
midnight, but usually, you know, you try
to go to bed a bit earlier so you can
wake up on time for shaku. So if you can
just wake up [snorts] a little bit
earlier and just give a little bit more
of the earlier part of the morning
before the day begins fully and use that
time as as we said before a few times to
tap into the quietness and peacefulness
of the early early morning and like the
end of the night. It's a great time to
really tune in to his bodess and and his
boneress and thinking about the
greatness of hashem and and doing this a
vod of katsos he brings underneath and
I've actually never seen it written in
any swarm um in the [snorts] breads of
the or safer um he brings underneath the
rash that I've quoted many many times
and it's a famous concept is apparently
it's bought in the book the sweetest
hour so this is the mccor in prayers of
research from Kramer that it says
that was rabbi's big quote
in Tanina Torah 24 so the
inlo is
four letters shin
so
is the shin mikvah is the meatos is and
he is and they're the four big the
pillars of
to sum up because remember
through Ben can also be translated as
through not just son of means through
through
fully through
is what we're learning about morning
over the base of mdish and it's bodus
that's these are the four bodus yeah
it's all in the word simra four four
letters simra shin
hey
and uh now to come back to gdalia he
says a beautiful concept he says reflect
or project he's very clever with words
fence remember he's coming to shalim
he's been doing two sharim here and one
of the great is a great synagogue which
is almost opposite you know the the old
city and heading towards the modesh it's
one of the closest venues you can have
to do such an event and um it's an
opportunity to bring That light of
andodus and
mikvah. These are all things that Gdali
is definitely working on. Says how
people see the world is often a
reflection. This is from his book
surrender which will be on sale there.
It's how they see themselves. When you
look reflect from people how you look at
people's is often to do with what the
way you look at yourself. If they think
that the world is just a cesspool like a
schmutzy place of shea and deceit, then
they themselves be full of lies and
deceit. Watch out for those people
always telling you just how corrupt the
rest of the world is. As the saying
goes, it takes one to no one. That was
from Dr. David Lieberman. So, he's a
very special doctor and a very special
teacher. And we know nowadays there's
loads of conspiracy focused people that
often reflects on the fact that there's
something wrong inside of them. We
shouldn't be busy with all the
conspiracies. We should be busy with the
ems and giving and seeing the good in in
the the yiddin and the people around us.
We're either projecting or reflecting.
When we are bothered, this is a time
reflect on why are we so triggered or
bothered in the first place. So, Gdalia
goes on to say, "The world is often a
mirror, not a window. What we notice
most in others says more often about our
own inner world than theirs. If
something deeply triggers you, ask
yourself gently. If this is revealing
something I need to heal, understand or
accept." And we start projecting and
start reflecting. discomfort becomes a
doorway to growth, not judgment. What
you notice in others often a message
about yourself.
So great. So this is this is very
helpful and we're going to see now that
that connects into the of mourning over
the bdish. Why? Because of vula once
said what if you're not up to the level
of mourning over the bish. He said a
beautiful concept. He said that you
should mourn over your own your own
within your own place of destruction
where you're not connected. is the same
as your lack of connection to Hashem,
your lack of connection to Yiddish.
That's the each of us need to be busy
with reconnecting ourselves back to
Hashem. So our inner world is aligned
with the will of Hashem which is
the kind of a vod we should have.
So says no v whoever mours went and sing
it rejoicing
that being pained and distressed over
destruction and the absence of the base
of migdus is the equivalence of its
rebuilding. So you see that the panemius
is mirroring the kitonius of having a
basin mdish. We build the basin mdish in
by morning mourning over it with be to
see its bin because on a panimous level
that's what we've that's what was
reflecting from within this is what we
want this is where our desires are this
is we want to basically we want to mock
and we just finished
we don't really finish we
is all about kabonus so someone who was
learning it in the garra should be moira
again and again about the mochim Mikdesh
and the holy aod of konas that's one of
the big aodoras of learning shas because
it takes you through the all the
different worlds of halaka and and
mitsas of what amissa will be doing when
we have a bas mikdish especially in
satis kshim which is where we are now
we're going on to manas it's another
form of aem these are things by learning
about awakens and arises inside you a
desire again and again for that reality
he says based images this is the bion
Now this is very deep. This is a whole
new level that don't say they do say the
base of mikdash is a mock of das but
here he adds in an extra thing. Not only
does it build das the base of mikdash
das knowing hashem but it also it gives
you to elevate the shamas. That's
something which we're always trying to
do. Rabbi was very big in elevating
souls. I I don't understand this
obviously gam but apparently he had a
lot of of nishamas come to him all the
time he would elevate I mean I
definitely in the in the world of dreams
had sadikim come or or maybe there's the
shamas I'm busy with in the world of
dreams was able to do that down here in
this world he was a saddic on the level
>> everyone can do it
>> huh
>> everyone does it in east madga
>> yeah and his madrega so the concept of
even if you take it to a more secular
understanding
>> talk to someone we Oh my. Yeah,
>> 100%. So that's what Steven Kobe talks
about. It's called the sphere of
influence. The people around you.
Obviously, you have to make sure they're
good people around you. I was just
telling Nissim last night, this black,
it's so crucial that he has good people
in his team and everything we're trying
to do or with anyone else I work with.
It's very important that we're like all
attuned with good peoples cuz, you know,
this is the key to success at Slack. But
it's all about elevating souls. That's
hopefully what we're trying to do with
all these events and everything we're
trying to do. And the goal is the
bringing it together with DAS and the B
mdish. That's why it's so important to
do the Soda because it tunes us to the
true D the true place of D which is the
base of Mishim and Gim are now building
the base synonymous with building up D.
This is possible elevate souls and we
already had this in the 13th Torah in
the first section of and we need to look
at what says over there.
We already did that. about a year or a
half ago we learned that Torah maybe a
year ago
when you wake up in the middle of the
night you break sleep
moment that is the aspect of tyus moment
yeah so that's the madrega where you're
on the level where you're able to break
not only your sleep but also your ty
moment your desire for money and you
know right now I I'll be honest you know
it's everything's slowed down a little
bit after Kaneka. For me personally,
there's a lot of potential things, but
nothing like closed yet. Not not so
much. So, it's it's all about patience
right now. Like I just boom rested a
little bit more than I would normally
cuz you should be working more. And then
you use that time to do other things,
you know, to spend more time with the
loved ones or work on more learning or
doning. When there's moments where
you're not working as much, it's
opportunity now to increase the rness in
now the Torah time. while I'm waiting
shim waiting on shim is a big time to
increase our Torah learning and our cha
and then hashem will decide like one of
the
is you go through the six weeks of
shinosa
which we're in part now the seven which
is connected to these six seven weeks
and you go through them in va and then
you go to
bashim
and then you come out with para's chuma
sav mo mikdash And you come out with pur
yeah come out with this d you come out
with ability now to elevate a lot of
sparks and then all the sheff starts
pouring down that's usually the concept
the talks about but anyway so when you
wake up in the middle of the night
you're breaking the sleep and his t for
money yeah the desire for money and
they're connected
mdish I'm warning over the the
destruction of and the destruction of
the mdish I desire bonoso through doing
this we rebuild
It's very deep concept about helps us
break sleep, break tous m desire for
money and gives us ability to rebuild
the base
and this is the next level which once
again it's only I've seen sadic talk
about this and that then you are able to
elevate souls gather up Jewish souls and
elevate them renew them it's not just
elevating them it's renewing them
renewing their renewing their yiddish
kai the yishkai becomes fresh and alive
and energized and you know when I used
to go to certain sadikim last night like
this energy of rasim zber hit me he was
a big saddak he used to do all these
evodas and when I used to ever be around
him the energy I felt renewed I felt
energized and I realized over time I
need to be able to develop that a little
bit myself and not just be rely on him
and that that was one of the reasons why
I knew I couldn't be around him you know
always or you know a certain point cuz I
need to figure out how to develop that
pineas myself not nurture from him but
such sadikim around even just having a
connection with him all those years ago
he's still in my you know rashima I'm
still feeling his saddic's energy until
now that he he brings a renewal he
brings a brings a leak like a lot of
energy a lot of a lot of rsonus good
rsonus it was the bro he gave once when
I introduced him to Matio the singer and
I'm trying to help his sons now le and
do he gave me a bra when I was with
Matiel helping him uh translate the
Torah on a shabas kdish and he said to
be to do thee
I wanted him to give a much more you
know time and to him but that was the
bra he gave when I think about it really
does encapsulate everything
to do the will of god completely and the
sim with energy with this energy we're
talking about simka As you said,
it's all the pillars of of how you renew
yourself and bring that energy into your
life.
And this is the aspect of death or
non-belief. Yeah. Of where someone has
all these different kafiras. We've been
learning about this already for the last
few weeks. This htaka, the sweetening of
the judgments and bringing um an end to
that connection to death to misa and to
god forbid not believing in in Hashem.
And Hashem, we learned in Tanya this
week, Hashem makes room for people to
have in creation. It's called Simsum.
He's contracting his light. So you don't
feel always his presence. He plays
almost a game of hideand-seek with us.
Gives us but the goal is obviously for
us to choose Hashem and to to seek
Hashem and want Hashem. That ronus that
will that that's the clarity because
anytime there is non-belief idol worship
in the world there's burning anger in
the world.
Yeah. So we want to get rid of that
anger in the world that's going on in
Iran right now. We want to get rid of
that. want to sweeten it. There should
be there should be clarity.
By rising at midnight, we raise up a and
we draw down
this kindness into the world, loving
kindness into the world. That's the the
sadik always about bringing down these
these this good energy this this energy
of kindness and love from Hashem. But it
takes a voter. It takes being a scabris.
It takes strength to on the side of den
to use the the gibb like a lion gab on
the sleep and then from that you bring
it to and with and you your your is and
both sides of the bring you to d the
between
brings you to d to say that's the kind
of a vodikim are busy doing through this
avod
through migdash bringing this clarity
and sweetening of judgment bringing
everything together.
So this is something which once again
that you'd only hear probably from Rabbi
Nakman such a strong dugish an emphasis
on the Indian of pigeon nephesh you know
as as I learned it the other day in the
there was someone there who said from
the nominska rebber that he doesn't
really know the concept so much of the
pigeon nefish especially if you're going
to bring put his name connected to a
charity he doesn't hold that he's roy
for pigeon nefish but I do know that my
rebbit does take pics and he'll take
saddaka I mean I've seen the way he
gives out so it's all it's all going to
good places or holy but um the idea of
sadikish is is a much more panmious of
and it's connected into this what we
just learned now this idea of pigeon
so just like waking up in the middle of
the night breaking tus this this desire
to sleep so who giving saddaka charity
breaks the tiver of money. We said money
and sleep are connected to miser death
and and god forbid den denial of hashem.
You have to break those two desires and
[clears throat] bring everything back to
death to avote Hashem. It breaks the di
money and mitigates the denim because
when when you're busy too busy with
money and too busy with sleep entering
into the world of judgment and we don't
want to be in the place of judgment of
negativity of of of god forbid of all
this
and the same with rising at midnight
breaks sleep
and it's the aspect of the desire for
money canal
and that sweetens everything. So by
getting up and serving Hashem a person
increases ama and drawsim into the world
into his life energy and as we said
before we shouldn't forget if you want
to be a good ashbar on people a good
energy on people this is one of the ways
you have to be tuned in to sim to not
just sim like being happy but like but
the keys of sim which is
and these are the four keys the four
pillars of brez
>> [clears throat]
>> and Rabbi Nas are bringing us pigeon
neish doing charity
specifically with sadic this this these
these are the gives us ability and
sweetens all the negative energy um one
of the concepts pigeon is also connected
to rashash shana and it's a very
powerful time to redeem oneself and and
and one's soul as we know by um
rashashana um and all these other
concepts that Akman and Brezlo brings
down but um here we are right Now in
chim I would say that the evodor is to
really try to push ourselves a little
bit more in waking up a little bit more
for us hashem and to not worry about the
money story to have patience do theas
that we need to do but not get crazy
about it and to through those two things
breaking our sleep a little bit breaking
the the the
desire for money will have much more
shea much more kindness much more
goodness not just for ourselves but for
all of Israel and for the whole world.
Amen.
>> They don't think you