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Showering On Yom Tov | Rabbi Anthony Manning | September 17th 2025
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Everybody, good morning.
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I'd like to talk about a topical issue
which we have not looked at for many
many years and I've updated the saw
sheet so that you have a completely
up-to-date version in front of you which
is the issue is issue of showering on
yontf. Now we're about to enter into the
season because in the next few weeks we
have four days of yont two days of
rashana and then sukus and
of course for our brethren they have six
days of yont on which to kind of work
out how they're going to shower or not
going to shower. Um, of course, we also
end up every now and then having a 3-day
YONF, what they call quotes from quotes,
a three-day. This is going to happen a
little bit more, or at least not 3 days,
but two days in Israel. A little bit
more than usual because if you remember
before Pesak, we excitedly announced
that Era of Pesak doesn't fall on Shabas
for another 20 years. And everybody was
very excited about that. But that does
mean that Shivus is more likely to fall
on a Friday or a Sunday for the next 20
years than normal which gives us another
2 days uh in Israel. So that's something
everything has a you know an upside and
a downside. So this question will become
relevant and will remain relevant. One
of the fascinating issues on this
particular topic that I find very
interesting is it doesn't just deal with
halakic issues. Bottom line, can you do
this or can you do not do this? But it
deals with metaic issues. What do I mean
by metahalakic issues? Issues that go to
the the question of the methodology of
the
how do people decide what they decide?
What are the factors they bring in
Tibet? Um does the change? Does it
adapt? Does it evolve? These are
metahalaki questions which which come up
very much on on this issue which we'll
see as we go along. This is also an
issue that people seem to be a little
bit triggered by in my experience. When
you ask certain rabbon if you can take a
shower on yonf they get very uh
insistent. No, it's completely osa and
it seems to be the one of these kind of
slippery slope. you know, if you let
people take a shower, next by the time
you look around, they'll be in the pool
and they'll be on this on the beach and
and it's kind of a part of a a system
that we have to shut down. Other people,
if you open the panini hala, he'll say
it's it's appropriate. You should take a
shower on Jonf if it's a two-day or
quotes and quotes three-day yonf. Uh
it's something that you should do. Uh
so, I need to get a little bit of a
handle with you today on why people are
saying different things. Also, you you
never seem to have two people who get
the same answer on this question. I
brought you on page one here. Some of
the variations you'll come across. For
example, some rabbis allow you to just
shower the whole body on. Other people
say you can shower up to half your body.
I I I'll let you work out how to
calculate that for yourselves. It might,
I suppose, depend on proportions of
different kinds.
Others allow you to shower the body limb
by limb. Others just the face and the
feet and the hands. Uh others don't let
you shower step into a shower at all.
You have to stand by a sink. Some people
say you can shower in hot water, some in
lukewarm water, some in cold water, and
some not at all. And there's a big
debate as to what does it mean to have
lukewarm water. We'll get to that, too.
Some say you can shower in water heated
before y, some in uh some that in water
that was heated even on yontf and others
not at all. Some differentiate between a
bath and a shower, others between a
private bathroom and a public bathroom,
let's say in a dorm. Some make a
difference between a one-day yon, a for
two-day yans, and a quote unquote
three-day. Others do not. Some make a
difference between regular boiler
systems and ducheves. Others do not. So,
this is where this issue becomes a bit
more complicated. What I'd like to try
and do to with you today is show you the
basic framework of why people differ in
the way that they differ. And then you
can go away and ask your shila and work
out what you can or can't do on yonf.
But hopefully we look at the there are
three separate issues that we have to
get clear in our mind. And until you get
clarity on these three separate issues,
none of this really makes any sense. And
it sounds like people sort of all saying
different things. Once we get those
issues clear, I think it'll all fall
into place and we will hopefully take a
very complicated topic and make it a bit
more understandable. So let's look
together. Uh at the beginning, it's
relatively easy. You're not allowed to
do any at all on Shabbat that we know on
Shabbat. So most of what we're going to
be talking about today is let's just
take the first source very easy. He's
talking about here.
So the seventh day of PES is also a
Shabbat as it were.
Sorry, seventh day of of the week.
Sorry, we'll get to PES in a second. The
seventh day as in Shabas is going to be
a Shabas.
You may not do any mala
etc. We say this for kdesh on shabas you
may not do mala that's very
straightforward however when it comes to
yon and that's I misspoke before this is
the uh the issue for for yon in number
two
um number three excuse me
on the first day is a mikesh
this is talking about
and that's going to be a mikes so in the
sense of it is a special day it's a y
day and then it says
no may be done on any of these days. So,
so far it says like Shabas
only. There's an exception. You can do
what needs to be done so that people can
eat that you can do and the wording he
uses
that which needs to be eaten
for all people. I translated it here the
way that the raar camp does. What is
needed so that everyone
will be able to eat. Now we'll have to
define what that means nephesh everyone.
But there's the basic difference between
Shabbat and on Shabas all is prohibited
but on there is an exception.
Number two I don't need to go into now
but as you know one of the on is bishel
is cooking. Another one is lighting a
flame. But some of them are actually
mentioned in the sukim. Many of them are
from the oral law. It doesn't really
make any difference which it is. But
clearly bishel is one of the issues
we're going to be looking at today. And
the distinctions as I said between
shabas and yon. Okay. So what do we know
so far? You're allowed to do bishell on
yonf if you needed for things you're
going to eat. So here we get into the
principle which again everybody agrees
on. Lisa of look in number four please
on the top of page two.
I say the following.
You are not allowed to heat water. We're
talking about here.
You're not allowed to heat water on to
wash your feet
unless it's also drinkable. It has to be
not just drinkable but bring down but
something you're actually going to
drink. Meaning you can put a pot on the
fire and you can fill it with water said
b shamai and you can use some of that
for your tea and the rest of it you're
going to use to to wash your feet of
people wash their feet a lot obviously
in those days because people walked
around in sandals dusty etc and b shamai
are happy for you to heat water even if
there's extra water that's called
marbashi rim you're allowed as b shama
to have a bigger pot you don't have to
have a little pot because at the end of
the day you're not doing any more mala
action you're just putting a pot on a
stove and lighting a flame in a way you
can on doesn't matter if there's a
little bit or a lot. You're going to use
some of it for drinking and some of it
for washing your feet, but it has to be
there has to be something for drinking.
Says theor
Torah allows you on to do
for eating
and not you're not allowed to light a
flame and to cook water in order to wash
your feet unless you're also using it to
make tea etc.
and Bil say no it's fine you can heat
water specifically and only to wash your
feet it doesn't have to be for drinking
tea and the garra explains this at
length I brought you one line from the
bar that summarizes it
since heating up the water lighting the
flame is permitted for
it's allowed even not for the purpose of
eating
when you need it for some other use on
this is the principle of
since it's uh because it's allowed for
for eating for it's also allowed not for
eating. Now that seems a bit strange.
The posik said you're allowed to do
malika for eating how does basel
suddenly come to the uh jump that well
since you're allowed to do it for you're
allowed to do it not for it seems to be
the opposite of what the pix said and
the mafia explain this principle of mto
in different ways one of those that I
found most interesting is an approach
that basically talks about the idea that
the word this is angel's approach
doesn't just mean eating in a means
means consuming as Well, and it can even
be broader than that. For example, in
the zikin, if you if you if an animal
damages your crops by chewing on it,
that's called in that's called shenm.
They're using their teeth and they're
damaging your property by eating. Kazal
explained that that's not only eating.
If the animal rubs against it or brushes
it or tramples it, does it for any
purpose to help the the animal somehow
get some benefit, that's also included
within that same category of shen. So
too here
says bet shami is not just bet excuse me
is not just eating but is any enjoyment
or benefit from it all falls within the
category of some kind of consumption as
in
there is a debate which I'm not getting
into today as to what kind of benefit
does that need to be the the garra talks
a lot about someone could take a lulv
out on yon when there's no aw because
according to behel by chama would be a
problem right according to behel because
you need the lulv it's a need for Ysef.
Is that only a a need which is a mitzvah
need? What about a need which is a
general need? And if you remember back
to when we used to live in places with
no av. I don't know if you used to live
in places with no av. I certainly did.
First 32 years of my life. I never
really lived in a place where that was
an av. And on yans you knew you're
allowed to carry but only things that
you need for yf etc. And you know go
through that. So Ben Hill clearly say
that if you're allowed to cook water for
um for eating, you're allowed to cook
water also for washing. But what did he
say? Washing your feet specifically.
Well, why only your feet? What about
heating up water to wash your whole
body? Having a shower, having a bath.
Why is there a limitation on feet? What
is the issue here? And what's uh what
how does that apply today? So there are
three separate things we need to think
about. The first one I'm going to talk
about now on page two is the issue of
shave kesh and that's going to be for
certainly for Ashkanazim a major major
issue. Look with me on source number
five please
papa. So this gammor in is talking about
how far does this of doing mala on yon
for other purposes how far does that
actually go? So look what he says here.
If that's the case, according to Beh,
you can expand it from food to other
things. Let's ask the qual question.
Are you allowed to make a mukmar? A
mukmar was where they took it's from the
Arabic word for coals or the ancient
Arabic word for coals where at the end
of the meal if there were kitchen smells
in the room, so you would take some
coals and you would sprinkle um herbs on
the coals to make a beautiful smell so
that you would uh take away the nasty
food smells in the house. So maybe you
can do that on
since you're allowed to do burning
things in order to to do for eating.
So you're allowed to do it not for
eating. This is a use. I like the room
to smell nice. Am I allowed to sprinkle
my herbs on the mugbar on
he says to him
the following is answering your
question.
It doesn't say you can do anything you
need to eat. It says anything you need
to eat.
It has to be something which is equal
for everybody. Not a mmar. What's a
mmar? So a mmar is only for people who
are very um what's the word? Finicky or
indulgent. Most people are perfectly
happy at the end of the meal to wait a
few minutes and the food smells clear
themselves. They don't need to have
incense, you know, sprinkled around the
house. It smells for a bit. Okay. A
mugmar is only for a small section of
the population. It's non what's called d
shave coish. Now the mforian explained
that co can't mean everybody. Nothing in
the world is equal for everybody.
There's always one person out there who
is different from everybody else. So it
says means for most people. What is
universally accepted for most people?
There are obviously exceptions. And a
mukmar is for rich people and fussy
people. It's not for everyone. You can't
use a mm. So
then another question came up. If that's
the case that it's only for regular
people,
what if you have a venison crosses your
path on yons and you want to say, "Oh,
look, let's shed and have some uh have
some venison meat. If a if a deer
crosses your path and you want to have
venison on yon,
you're going to tell me because most
people don't eat venison. Certainly not
in England by the way when I believe
they they all belong to the queen or now
the king. So if you're if you fancy a
bit of venison in England then please
make sure that you get permission from
King Charles first if that's relevant.
So if you if you aim people don't eat
venison
so you should be prohibited from deer
because it's not
he said to him no no no
obviously most people don't eat deer but
they the reason they don't eat it is
because they can't afford it. They'd be
quite happy to eat it if you provided it
for them but the reason they don't use a
mukmar is because they feel it's just
you know strange they don't need it. Who
does that? only very rich people.
Everybody likes to eat meat. I mean, not
everybody, but people like to eat meat.
They'd eat venison if they could. And
it's it's not just a thing that people
do. It's a thing that people need.
People need to eat. This ta is something
which is so we need to ask now that
question about showering on is showering
on something which is shave. Is that a
universal need? Is that a universal uh
practice? How how does that work? And
why do people shower on yon? Do they
shower for health reasons or any day of
the week? Do they shower just because
they feel nice? Do they shower for
health reasons? Is it is it a firstworld
practice? So let's have a look at number
six says to in the middle ages. Now
you'll probably be aware people shower a
lot less in the middle ages and we'll
talk about that later on.
mater
in Ashkanaz the only is to heat water
for your feet
to bathe your whole body they agree
surely that's
because you need something which is
which everybody does or most people do
bathing on is only for
like a bit hedonistic. Maybe honistic is
too strong. Self-indulgent. That's what
people people like that
hands and feets. That's everybody needs
to wash their hands and feet. That's not
indulgent. Notice he added hands
sneakily in here where the the the
Mishna only talked about feet. So the
saying, "No, the three go together.
Hands, face, feet. These are things that
people wash. When we get to the mission
of Burough, we'll ask the question,
well, what about feet? Now, people don't
wash their feet very often by the time
you get to Poland and Russia in the 19th
century. Is that still included? And
that's going to be very important. Now,
this to us is extremely important
because to seems to be saying that the
stakes here are very high that if you
heat water on Yonf in order to bathe
your whole body, that might be a Torah
prohibition because you've done a mala
which is not shave.
So that's really a problem if you do
that. You're allowed to heat it for your
hands, knees, and hands, face, and feet,
but not for your whole body. And
therefore, if we're going to go with
this opinion, then it's going to become
very problematic to wash or to to bathe.
To heat the water to bathe the she the
problem here is not the bathing, it's
the heating the water to bathe.
Paradoxically,
this very stringent approach might be
the very one that saves us and gives us
a lenient answer. Because if you're able
to turn around and say, well, the whole
problem is the people didn't used to
shower daily. Now the people do shower
daily. It is shave nephesh.
So now now you have a whole different
answer. But can we say that? Do we say
that? But that's the first issue
according to shave nephesh. Park that in
your mind. We're going to come back to
it soon. The second issue and people
don't realize this. This second issue is
a very significant one is what's called
The gazer the decree that the rabbis
made against bathous or also called
gazer balanim balanim well you all know
what balanot are balanim people who run
the bath house so what's the issue of
actually taking a bath on sh here the
issue is not can you heat the water but
the issue is can you even go to the bath
house and we'll see why that is look at
number seven please with me so the uh
the men of taria maybe the women as well
But certainly the people of Tavaria um
initiated or innovated something very
interesting and technological in the
time of the Mishna. Number seven says
the Mishna in Shabasia
there's a new invention that the
Tiberious Institutes of Technology in
the time of the Mishna brought out.
They have these hot springs in Tiberius
as I'm sure you know. They brought a
pipe of cold water running all the way
through. They didn't turn it on on for
Shabas. It runs all the time. A pipe
that goes through the hot springs and
now they have hot water on tap. They
just open the pipe and it's hot water.
They didn't heat anything. It heats by
the seismic activity of the of the Aryan
and the responded to them. I'm sorry,
you can't use this shabas. If this is
water on tap that you're going to use on
Shabas
and it's like water we we are
rabbitically going to give it the dinner
of water that was heated on Shabasim
and you know how the works. If you heat
water on Shabas or even if you get a
non-Jew to heat water for you on Shabas
you're not allowed to use it. You're not
allowed to use it for washing. You're
not allowed to use it for drinking. So
if you use this pipe for water on Shabas
we're going to make a gazer. You can't
drink it or use it. But if you use it on
it's like water that was heated on
and you're not allowed to wash with it.
Here we are again. You're allowed to
wash but you are allowed to drink it
because you're allowed to heat water on
to drink it and therefore you're allowed
to drink it. What what was the concern
here? It's nothing to do with Shabesh.
The rabbis had a concern where people
were heating up water by other means on
Shabas and they wanted to kind of close
that down. They wanted to close down
this use. So the the reason for this is
brought down in the Gmorrah that
explains what's going on here. Look at
number eight.
Originally says the Gmorrah.
If you heat water on Friday, originally
the was you can take a bath on Shabas in
hot water. Now, we now don't bathe on
Shabas at all. We'll get to that.
There's a min, which is the third part
of the equation. But back in the day,
people used to bathe. People certainly
used to go to the mikvah a lot, but
people used to even bathe on Shabas as
long as the water was heated before
Shabas. Fine. What happened?
They the Balanim, the the people in
charge of the the bathous started to
break Shabas. They would heat the water
on purpose on Shabas and they would tell
the customers
Oh, it's fine. This was all from Araf
Shabas. People would come to the hot
springs to the to the bath house. They
would say, "Oh, this is nice hot water.
How do you do this?" It's fine. It's
from yesterday. We have a special
system. Yeah. Maybe one of these pipe
systems that we talked about before. So,
obviously they banned it because they
said people are lying and they're
breaking Shabas and saying they did it
in Shabas.
They did it.
So the rabbi said, "Okay, no more
bathing on shabas, but you can go to a
you can go to a shvitz. You can go to
the sauna." Why were they more lenient
on sauners? Because they regarded a
sauna as a medical issue, as a health
issue, not just an indulgence issue. So
they said, "You can still take a sauna."
So what happened?
People were still lying. They were going
to the bath house, taking a regular bath
on Shabasim and they were saying, "It's
fine. We're just taking a sauna. People
were prepared to weasle their way out of
this and they would lie and they say
we're taking a sauna. So the rabbi say
okay no good they prohibited sauners as
well
but they allowed them to bathe in the in
the hot springs that were naturally um
emerging. So
but they still didn't listen. They were
still abusing this and they were bathing
in regular water which was heated on
Shabas
and they were saying
we it's fine we went to the we went to
the hot springs. So the rabbis turned
around and said you know something the
whole thing is
so now even the hot springs is
but they said good news is you can still
take a cold bath on chas because how can
you abuse a cold bath? Everything they
tried with the hot baths didn't work.
They they said you know take avitam
and people lied. So you can take a cold
bath. The rabbis saw
that this was not working and the rabbis
were just being ignored completely.
So
they backtracked and they said okay
we're going to put back on the permitted
menu the hot springs
and as well and you could take a even as
well. the only thing you can't do is go
for an actual hot bath. So it's very
interesting what what made the rabbis,
you know, backtrack on this. So this is
also part of the metaic discussion. Very
often when you know the rabbis sees
something that is not working, so they
want to try and put some system in place
to to stop it being abused. When they
see that it the whole thing is just
being completely ignored. Certainly in
the time of the Sanhedrin, the Sanhedrin
were not allowed to make a gazer or a
takana that the that cibur that the
community was not able to take because
then they just become the people that
everybody ignores and that undermines
rabbitic authority entirely. And
therefore getting that exactly right,
getting that balance right was part of
what they're trying to do here. But they
backtracked and they said, "Okay, you
can go for a uh you can go to the Kame,
you can go for a sauna, but you still
can't take a hot bath on Shabas." And
that's called
how far did that go? So look in number
nine says the Gmorrah.
So this water that was heated on Shabas.
So that's not that is that still a
problem if you heated water on Shabas.
Well yes that was the whole gazer. Even
people who heated water on Shabas you
can't bathe it in on Shabas
says on Shabasu
aa aa you can still do aa aa aa a a
means limb by limb you know you put your
left arm out you put your right arm out
you know you do the hokeie koke and you
you do the whole thing it's this process
you stand outside the shower arm arm leg
because that they didn't make a gazer on
the gazer was on bathing not on people
just dipping their arms and legs in the
water. No, no, no, no. Once you start
letting people do the hoke koke in the
shower, that's no good.
It has to be just your face, your hands,
and your feet. Yes.
>> Showering itself is is a problem because
when you take a bath, your whole body is
immersed simultaneously.
>> Showering your whole body is not even
>> Excellent. So, you're raising the
question, what does any of this have to
do with showering? They didn't even have
showering in those days. We'll get to
that. We'll get to that. We are, you're
quite right. We're talking about bathing
so far. Okay. So, we have
you're not allowed to take a bath on
Shabas, even in water that was heated
before Shabas. Um, and there's this
debate as to whether you're allowed to
dip your arms in or not your arms in or
whether it's only the face. We passing
like on that. And on Shabas itself, the
is that you're only allowed to wash your
face, etc. on water that was heated
before Shabas. But what about Yonv?
We're we're today asking about Yonv. Did
they extend this whole issue to Yansf?
Because the issues on Yonf are much
less. It's a different kind of question.
There's of course it's not the same
thing. Okay, there's an is let's say to
heat water, but what is that is? So have
a look at number 10. So the ram asks
this as follows.
So if you want to wash in principle on
and anoint with oil, that's not a
problem of shmearing. It's thin oil. say
and you're allowed to do that on it says
anything that you need for therefore you
can heat water for washing on
you're allowed to heat up water
and he says face arms and face hands and
feet
you're but you're not allowed to to to
wash your whole
That's the reason as far as a ram is
concerned even on there is a problem of
it applies to as well
of but on Ysef will be more lenient
water that was heated on
then you can have a complete bath on on
that water but
spilled that only applies to Shabas that
doesn't apply to Yon so the Ramb sets
down very clear clearly this is not an
issue of shave nephesh this is an issue
of how far does this gazer go it's
really a gazer on shabas but it also
applies to yon and therefore we're not
going to allow you to bathe fully in
water that was heated on yonf we're
allowed we're allowed to wash your hands
feet and face but water that was heated
on air of yon that's fine that's fine
we're not worried about that that's not
part of the gazer he doesn't say
anything about limb by limb But he
certainly doesn't apply the gazer in the
same way to Yansf and therefore again
we're going to have to work out. So
what's the deal? Does it matter if
you're Sari or Ashkanazi? So far we've
had two reasons why bathing on Yon might
be a problem. Reason number one is if
you heat the water to said shave nephesh
this is not shave nephesh you're
breaking on a Torah level says the ram.
No no no I'm not concerned about the on
the Torah level. Maybe he doesn't hold
by that. He holds it. That's fine. Shave
nephesh would include this. But the
problem is the rabbitic gazer of you're
not allowed to do that because of part
of this general principle. Have a look
on page four number 11 says the um the
maharil. The Maril is of course
Ashkanazi and the Maril came in the 15th
century and said but we 14th century we
have a min irrespective of all of this
we have an Ashkanazi min and he says
because what about women who go to the
mikvah on Shabas now as you know you're
allowed to go to the mikvah on Shabas
but what about women who don't go to the
mikvah on the correct night of going to
the mikvah they had to delay they go to
the mikvah later it's not mikvah night
as it were so wood women go on Shabas,
they should really have gone on
Wednesday or Thursday. Okay, they were
out of town. It wasn't convenient. It's
fine. I'll go on Friday night. So, we
have a says the Mahar that the women
don't go to the mikvah on Shabas unless
it's the night of their mikvah
if they can go on the weekday.
You shouldn't go on Shabasim.
Why? What's the problem going to the
mikvah? By the way, no one had an issue
before going to the mikvah. We were
talking about the bath house going to
the mikvah shabas is fine for a woman
anyway and for a man also depends on
exactly what's happening and why but not
for that not getting into that now do me
high because for this reason we have a
clear shalas
we don't even have cold baths on shabas
what could be wrong with a cold bath
there's no issue of heating up the water
there's no issue of the gazer of it's a
cold bath what's the problem the sh
And if I'd have asked you at the
beginning of this year, what's the
problem bathing on Shabas? You probably
would have said this first. Oh, you
might squeeze, you might squeeze out
your hair.
They were worried about people who are
going to carry if you're out in out and
about. You have a towel with you. You're
going to forget. You're going to carry
even in a rabbitically prohibited area.
You're going to carry on Shabas.
Even the water that's on your skin that
could also be called carrying valunt and
also the the towel but migasaras and
also in rivers misha because also
swimming you know you're going to the to
bathe in a cold river you might end up
swimming swimming is another problem on
on shabas the kismin and pushing away
some of the the the wood chips on the
water you'll you'll be carrying you'll
push them down at amus therefore we have
a general principle that we don't do any
bathing not because of the bathing but
because we're worried about other things
you'll squeeze your hair, you'll squeeze
the towel, you'll carry the towel,
you'll end up swimming, etc., etc. So
that that's where the Ashkanazi min
comes from that we just basically don't
bathe at all in cold, in hot, on shabas,
on etc. Now, what is the extent of that
minhug? Does that min apply to
showering?
Now, on the one hand, if the problem is
you might squeeze out your hair, I mean,
talking to people who have hair, okay,
but or let's say squeeze out the towel,
then that applies when you're sharing as
well. If the problem is you might carry
push water away whatever that's not shy
for towel you might end up in it for a
shower you might end up swimming I'm not
going to end up swimming if I take a
shower you know you can't end up
swimming anywhere so is this min
applicable or not so we have three
different reasons why there might be a
problem bathing number one I can't take
a hot shower on Shabas or a hot bath
we'll say bath for now uh because I
might heat up the water and it's not
shabish there's a Torah prohibition
number two maybe there isn't a Torah
prohibition But this is part of the
general gazer that the rabbis made. We
don't want people bathing on shabas and
yon because the balanim were lying and
they were heating water on shabas. Da da
da. Well, number three, we don't want
people bathing on yons because there's a
general min that we have certainly in
Ashkanaz that we don't bathe at all.
Now, what are the practical differences
between those reasons? So, I brought you
on page four. You can do most of this in
your own time. depending on which reason
uh you use that might have an impact. Uh
for example, I put at the beginning
would it be permitted to bathe on Yonf
in water which was heated before Yonf?
Okay. So um let's do number two
actually. Would there be an except
exception for someone who is miter?
Let's say someone says look I'm very
very fussy. I feel if I don't take a
shower, I'm going to be extremely
uncomfortable, almost sick, almost I'm
almost like a if I don't take a shower.
So according to Tosfus, who holds that
it's Torah prohibition, I'm I'm sorry.
You know, what can we do? If it's
nephesh, then we can talk. It's not
likely to be puak nephesh, but heating
water for puakesh and a brickm etc.
There there's a there's a discussion to
be had there. But those of us will say
no. The Rambam will say, "Well, no,
there's a gazer raon." But does that
gazer apply to people who are in extreme
discomfort? We have a general principle
gazan. The rabbis did not normally make
a gazer for people who are so
discomforted depending on how that
discomfort was. What about the maharil
he's worried about or they're worried
about squeezing? Well, was that minhag?
Did that min apply to people who are ill
as well? Or was the min only on healthy
people are not on ill people? And there
are many uh other aspects as well. What
if people shower daily? So will say well
may fine maybe that's shabish. The rabb
will say well no that's a rabbitic
prohibition just because people shower
daily. Now the rabbitic prohibition has
not necessarily changed. We're worried
about people heating water on shabas
etc. And you can look through this
yourself uh and uh and think about how
those differences apply in different
ways. Okay. What's the Yes.
>> Oh, we'll get there. We'll get there. We
are going to get into our in a few
moments. Okay, look at page number five.
How does the paskin and this is why this
area is complicated so far? I hope it's
been relatively simple. You have a
question. Can I shower on ba on? And the
question is, well, there's one reason
which is shave. One reason is the
gazeron. One reason is the what does the
rule number 12?
You're allowed to heat up on water
to to wash your hands and for hands read
hands, face, feet,
but you can't bathe your entire body.
Even if you're only doing it bit by bit
you cannot bathe with hot water which
was heated up for more than your hands
face and feet doesn't say why is the
reason because like it's not shak it's a
Torah prohibition is the reason the
Rambam which is the gazeran is the
reason the minhag probably not because
the never had that minaz
but you can't do it secondh
but he You have water which was heated
on Arab
then you can then you can bathe on Yon
with that water. Okay. So that sounds
like the ramper. That definitely sounds
like the ramp. You can do you can bathe
on Shabas in on Yon in water which was
heated on
but not in a public bath house.
Definitely sounds like the ram because
the the concern is the gazer of the
public bath house. And then in comes the
rema and says
and where we are there are people who
say no way Jose in any way cold hot
shabas
and that is the minute I say so how's he
pasining is he pascinating like but why
because then there'd be no problem with
cold water is he pasing like the ramb
sounds like he's not is he passing like
the min so the pac is clear the reasons
for the pac are not clear and if you're
interested later on I brought you in the
footnote here an analysis on in
hakipedia which is a very good website
by the way I recommended you can learn a
lot of halaka from alakipedia
um it gives an analysis as to who might
the makab and the rabbit pasing like in
the one hand it sounds like to the other
hand it sounds like the ramb and you can
get into all the lus of that and
therefore the problem here is the later
maforim are not totally clear on exactly
what the reasons are why they have given
these pakim and therefore how they will
apply to showers today because again if
we're going to get into the shave nefes
argument there's maybe room for maneuver
we'll talk about that in a few minutes
since yes sir
>> of course this is talking about Europe
he's not talking
>> well no the makab is in the Middle East
the makab is invat
so he is talking about the middle east
and he's it's hot invat and it's hot in
Europe as well he lived in Turkey for
most of the time it he's talking about
both okay now by the way you'll see in a
few minutes When I show you a graph, how
hot or cold a place is is not
necessarily indicative of how often
people shout.
You It's a little counterintuitive.
We'll see in a minute some of the some
of the some of the statistics. Um there
have been developments since then. Yes,
madam.
>> Um what about um well
was heated before?
>> Yes.
>> If you're using a hot water service, you
know, which most of us do, you know, we
we don't go and water going to take a
shower.
>> Okay, good. But some but the water is
being heated somehow. We're going to
have a look at certain systems in a
minute as to how that works. We're going
to see how that works. There have been
developments in the last four or 500
years. The magnafra for example in
number 13 says look we are very strict
on that min uh whether it's hot or
whether it's cold. If you look here the
last two lines of the magn he quotes
this and he says as far as we're
concerned he's in Poland in the 1600s
then is still to say it's
even to go to the mikvah is okay
it's another reason also why if it's not
the night
we are an even better even though he's
says He was also worried about this men
of squeezing hair and min says the
magist to be completely strict about
this. We do not do any of this stuff on
shabas or on yon because we're worried
about squeezing the hair. Number 14 says
the po
we don't go to the to a river. We don't
go to the mikvah do go to the mikvah
again he says you will come to squeeze
your hair
and there are many other reasons as
well. Okay, Ra Moshe.
What about a woman?
>> Now, he's not saying that a woman can't
go to a mikvah cuz that's already
mitzvah and that's a requirement. But
any other reason other than a woman in a
mikah that's mitzvah, he says we're not
prepared to go. Don't go on shabas if
you're aid. Don't go to a lake. Don't go
dip your feet. Don't go for a bath.
Don't go for a shower. Ra Feinstein was
asked, "What about taking a cold shower
on a very hot day?" And he says
something which is very interesting in
number 15. What about this minuk? So the
question here this is the whole chuva by
the way it's a oneline chuva. Okay.
Number 15
in Ashkanazi lands in America obviously
not to take a bath on Shabas even to in
cold water.
Here's your question. Does that apply to
showering? But
even if it's a sharav see you have they
have sharav in New York as well. Okay.
Even on a very very hot day what's the
deal? So says Mercy Feinstein as
follows. one line
if you're not uncomfortable meaning it's
just like a bit of a indulgence
then I recommend you should be
even though I must tell you we have not
find anywhere
in our in our we haven't found any
evidence of a min that you can't shower
every single reference has been to
bathing not to showering right because
it didn't exist and therefore if you're
going to say this is part of a
longestablished minhag. The min can only
be on what the minag is unless you say
that in the 20th century the min has
evolved and now don't take a shower
either. But said he says I'm not sure
where you're getting that from. But then
he says
but if you're really uncomfortable
then you can for sure have a cold
shower. And he's talking about having a
cold shower. That was the Shila. And
therefore he says on a on a on a hot
Shabas a shabas or yonf if you want to
have a cold shower dip in the shower he
says there's no reason why you can't do
that if it's really disturbing you and
that by the way is the shabas kilhas as
well who clearly pasans that uh uh if
you are on a hot chabas day and you need
to just pop into the shower just be
careful not to squeeze your hair etc
just to cool you off there is no reason
why not to do that but he didn't really
know why there was a min to to do that
anytime because the min did not relate
to um to showering. There was also
another development that over the 18th
and the 19th centuries the women began
to put their foot down and said we are
not prepared to go to a cold mikvah on
showers. We insist the mikvah has to be
heated. And there were various different
chuvers landmark chuvas in the 18th and
19th centuries for example the
both allowed women to be uh in a mikvah
that was lukewarm. It doesn't have to be
cold. Maybe the women in the middle ages
would break the ice on the mikvah and go
in the mikvah. He says that's not the
case anymore. In the 19th century, women
were not prepared to do that. Already by
Rabbi Ka, it got even hotter the Kim of
Sans says the common practice of women
would immerse on Yansf on Yansf even in
a fully heated mikvah on Shabas as well.
The mikvah is heated. The justification
is that the women just wouldn't go to
the mikvah otherwise they needed a
greater level of heat in the mikvah. By
the way, how how warm is lukewarm? We
keep using this word lukewarm. Now we're
haki Jews. We have to have a definition
for everything. Right? So there are
three shittas in lukewarm. Either
lukewarm is anything and I put who they
are in the footnotes. Lukewarm is
anything that most people don't call
hot. So people if people call it oh
that's not hot then that's called
lukewarm. Or lukewarm is anything under
body temperature which is what 97°
Fahrenheit something like that. All
lukewarm is anything under yatis
meaning weats which is the which is the
level of heat on shabas which you pro
you violate the prohibition of bishop.
What is so y in the garra means the
temperature which you put your hand in
and your hand would kind of not would
burn but you just go you'd pull it back
again. How hot is yad? Because the is
saying if it's not yat then it's not
hotically. So we don't go by people's
hands today because there are people
that can stick their hands in dish water
which is absolutely boiling. Okay. And
the other people which who won't go near
it. So there is a big debate in the post
as to what is but I just want to let you
in on an interesting sack of rash said
there's a garra I think it's in I'm not
sure that says that if you an animal
um and the animal turns out to be a
trafer which you wouldn't know until you
checked it then your knife is not tra.
Why? Because the blood of the animal is
not halakically hot. It's halakically
cold. And therefore, you're never going
to trafe up your knife if you an animal
which is a trafer. So he says, so then
it's very simple. Let's find out the the
the highest blood temperature of any
animal that you would ever she and that
for sure is not Yasibbo based on that
gummor. So he sends his talinium off to
do some research research and they found
that the highest blood temperature of
any kosher animal or it's actually a
bird that you might chef is a sick goose
a goose with a fever okay which is still
kosher is nevertheless sheffable and the
blood temperature is 113° as far as I'm
aware Fahrenheit therefore he said that
for sure is not yatsel anymore maybe
even higher is not yatsel anymore for
sure that is not yats anymore so you
need to be a fru you need to be a
botonist, an anatomist, uh you need to
you need to do all these things. So,
let's ask a couple of questions before
we get to OPSAC. And we'll see in a
minute how we pass. I'm going to give
you some uh some bottom line here. First
of all, are people's showering habits
different these day than they used to
be? Well, for sure they are. There's
been a revolution in showering partly
because of just people access to water.
Um you know, my father didn't grow up in
the 14th century. He grew up in the 20
mid- 20th century in England and they
did not have any running water in the
house or they had taps but they didn't
have baths. They had to take a bath, you
know, somewhere else or fill up the bath
or whatever. They didn't have a bathroom
in the house and to go to the bathroom
in the street. So, people didn't have
running water in the way that they do
now. And things have changed
dramatically. And I brought you some
graphs here uh as to which people take
how many showers a week. Uh you'll see
interestingly that the British are
fairly low on that. They don't like
getting wet. But you could excuse them
and say that it's never warm enough to
take a shower in England anyway. But
interestingly, the Chinese take very few
weekly showers. It's really quite hot in
any parts of China. You see the Russians
take a few more. Uh the French, the
Spanish, uh in the Middle East, they
actually do take quite a lot more.
Australia takes a lot of showers. Uh
probably because it is also hot there
and they have first world access to
water. Uh but interestingly, the winners
of this particular competition are the
Brazilians who take 12 showers or more a
week, which is a lot of showers. um
which is quite a lot. uh this is very
culturally uh dependent you know because
of uh I mean I used to work in Paris in
the summer and if you go on the metro in
Paris in the summer you know that the
French showering habits are not the same
as uh as necessarily as Americans or
British
>> well that's right so uh so you'll it is
very culturally uh dependent and I put
you I've given you various graphs there
as well but more interesting for us is
do I care does the definition of shavan
nephesh change depending on the
circumstances. So on this there are a
number of rulings of Nissimus very
clearly ruled and this is a ruling of
the debris as well in the B Mosha that
is objective
if say that is not nephesh it's not
nephesh that is an objective definition
of and we do not uh play with it and we
do not change it and it makes no
difference what people actually do and
he says even if people shower daily that
doesn't mean it's a daily need doesn't
mean they need to shower. It means
that's what they do. We're talking about
what people need.
Okay? And he therefore says that you
cannot uh you cannot depend make that
depend on people's actual habits.
However, that's not so posh. It's not so
straightforward. Um we'll see soon that
Rafichek's clear position uh brought
down by many of his Talmim was that
Shaveal Kesh is something which is
society dependent and if you live in a
society where people um have changed
their bathing habits then that will
actually impact the and there are even
hints to this the the Mishna Bur the beh
the here talks about whether you can now
still wash your heat water on answer to
wash your feet and he says well now now
we don't wash our feet anymore so maybe
the definition of shaveesh has changed
now he's saying this to be strict not to
be lenient he's saying now you can't
even wash your feet anymore because
that's not shave nephesh but once you
get into a debate as to this potentially
changing then you are into an
interesting discussion and he brings
down um other moraphorium here in number
17 that that that suggested that maybe
it's not just the hands and the feet and
the face if there other limbs that
people regularly uh uh wash. People may
be washed when they prepare for mikvah
other parts of their body etc. People
wash obviously a lot but there is a uh
there is maybe some there's some room
for uh for for flexibility there
depending on what the society is there's
a very important in number 18 he says as
follows
we saw this before
we are not to heat water on
we treat it like water which was heated
on Shabas but and they made on the on
etc etc and the re says as follows
because the issue here underlying
everything is that washing is actually
just a pleasure activity
and that's why it's
like we said before the sprinkling of
the of the herbs on the on the it's a
pleasure activity
that's the reason why washing Is even a
question here?
Why did they eventually permit the
sauna? Remember originally they wanted
to prohibit the sauna but they went back
because people were just not listening.
that is called
because a sauna is for health purposes
and therefore we're only concerned at
washing because it's just an indulgence
and therefore again if that has
significantly changed in today's world
we don't regard showering certainly
showering and that might be a difference
between showering and taking a bath
taking a long hot bath I think for most
people in a busy world we live in is
considered a little bit of an indulgence
Okay. I don't think I've done that for
35 years, honestly. Okay. Taking a
shower, you run in, you run out. It's uh
part of it's like getting dressed. And
therefore, the whole attitude, not just
the frequency, but the nature of the
thing itself may have fundamentally
changed. We just don't relate to
showering as a as a pleasure activity.
We relate to it as just something that
is uh something we do as part of our
daily routine. Um and that might be
relevance as well. Before we get to the
bottom line, let me just take you
through a few uh heating systems because
we were talking about the heating
system. Turn to page eight. I couldn't
leave you without a few diagrams. Uh
most people either
have an electric or gas boiler system uh
like we used to have in the old country
where you have an immersion heater of
some kind or a gas burner which is
heating up your water. How does that
normally work? So you have a boiler that
heats up the water. You turn on your hot
tap, hot water comes out and
simultaneously as hot water comes out,
cold water goes in. Now there are some
clever systems where you can bypass
that. But in the old fashioned systems,
if you didn't let water in and you just
took the water out and the heating was
still on, the whole thing would explode
and you'd be, you know, in the sky
before you could look around. So the
cold water goes in. That cold water
going in is heating up. That is the
problem. That's the bishop. Cold water
going in is heating and it's heating in
a clear rishon on the fire. So that
really is bishial. Now there are those
who want to say but that's grammar. It's
very indirect. Well the answer is it's
not that indirect. It's water out water
in. Ah there's a time lag until the cold
water heats up. There's always a time
lag with bishel until the cold water
heats up. The nature the nature of the
mala itself is a it's a mala that takes
time. You don't say if someone puts a
pan on the stove to heat water on
showers. Well, it only heated up 5
minutes later, so that's grammar. No,
that's how long it takes to do Bishel.
That's how Bishel works. So, there is a
problem. There is an argument to say
that, well, you don't intend the cold
water to heat up. It's a dasha.
But then you get into the debate. Well,
it's a secret. It is going to heat up.
It's definitely going to happen. So,
does it help that you didn't intend it?
And did you really not intend it? Now,
in some systems, by the way, when the
heating the water system is turned off,
although the water is still hot, when
the cold water comes in, it sinks to the
bottom and the water you're taking is
off the top. And therefore, even if
you're taking out hot water and cold
water's going in, it's not necessarily
the case that that cold water will heat
up on Shabas or Yonf. I mean, let's talk
stick to Jon. We're not really talking
about Shabas water in any case.
>> And you're not using that water in any
case, unless the unless the whole system
is being used. a lot of people are using
it. So that there are debates to be had
as to how the system works etc. Um and
and therefore that may make a
significant difference and again you can
get the systems adapted in different
ways. And then there's the duchmeish. A
duchemesh is a completely different
system. A dudmesh doesn't heat the water
up by electricity or by uh gas. You have
either uh a solar panel which generates
electricity if you like and heat or
generates heat I should say and heats up
an element and then heats the water or
you have water even going through in the
old fashioned systems going through the
panels and therefore everybody agrees
that uh dudeshish is not a Torah
prohibition of heating water even on
Shabas most people are most that you
can't use dudmesh water on Shabas for
certain things although there are people
who are Mel certainly with a small child
or someone who's sick. But on Yv on Yv
the situation should be quite different
because which of these issues are even
going to apply with the duchesh
according to that we're worried that
you're doing a Torah prohibition. It's
not shave nephesh. Well, this is not a
Torah prohibition. Okay. So, it still
might be a rabbitic prohibition and we
get into this other uh this other
debate. What about the rabbitic
prohibition of the gazer? Maybe that
didn't include something like a ducheme
etc. And therefore there's we're not
giving a whole sheir on shemish but it
may make a difference. Of course there
are other concerns as well. There are
systems today where when you just turn
on the tap the pump goes on or instant
hot water. They're obviously a problem
because nothing to do with what we said
so far. When you're turning on the tap
then you're actually operating the
system and there's a lot of things going
on at the same time. Bottom line. Can
you have a shower on Yansf? Yes or no.
Okay let's have a look number nine page
nine rather. So the first thing is it
depends on whether you're spar or
ashkanazi.
Okay,
sometimes it pays depend to go either
way depending which it is. Thearim is
easier the is basically the the bet
rules like the ram and that the
consideration is
it's not the issue of shab nephesh and
therefore most party post can go down
the line and say that you may shower in
hot water on yonf not shabas on yonf as
long as the water was heated up before
yonf because that's how the ram pascan
certainly in a private bathroom if he
was heated did before Yonf then that is
permitted. Some sarity postkim permit
normal showering on Yansf with water
heated on Yansf in a dudesh. Okay. If
using a D sheh system on Yansf as well
and there are others postkin that will
even be more
uh and and allow on a 3-day Yansf etc.
As long as the water h in the boiler was
hot when shabas came when yansf came in
and new incoming waters is coming in
afterwards they're even make on that but
the mainstream saripac is if the water
was heated before you can have a hot
shower on yonf it's fine the ashkanazim
you have two groups one group is more
lenient than the sardim and one group is
stricter than the because again if
you're really pinning your whole debate
ones
that will depend on whether you allow
that to change with the times so the
there are two bas basic groups. Um I say
there's a minority group but it's a
significant group that says that
showering is today Sha Nephesh and
therefore you can walk into a shower on
Yonf again not Shabas on Yonf and you
can uh you can use the hot water which
was heated in a regular boiler system on
Yonf again not if it's turns on a pump
or electric electricity etc. Um and they
will allow that completely and normally
there are some like Rasha who is worried
about the draon. Yeah. Meaning the draon
may not change even if people's hap
habits change. This is okay. It's better
to use lukewarm water even on yontiff
itself. You can just you know fine that
for most people by the way that's
totally fine. Nobody really needs a red
hot boiling piping hot shower on yon.
They probably don't want one especially
if it's warm outside. Uh a lukewarm
shower should be fine for for many
people. Uh and certainly the Ashkanazi
postkin many of them say that's okay as
well. And a duchvish would definitely be
okay according to those postkim. And
then there are the Ashkanazi postkim
that go the other way and say no the
main problem is shaveesh and today we do
not change that based on the times and
therefore I brought you here that water
heated on yonf many of those postkin
will say no that is not allowed you can
only do it to wash your hands and your
face maybe not even your feet some
people will say you can do the you know
arm in arm out uh in lukewarm water
others don't even allow that uh and I
brought you all of the links uh down
below just lastly Before we finish uh on
page number 10
um the uh the other issues that we've
talked about in the shower. Yes, be
careful about squeezing. Squeezing is a
problem. Squeezing towels is a problem
of malabin. It's pushing water through
the towel which is cleaning it.
Squeezing hair is a problem of do'ach
which is squeezing the liquid out of
something else. Um a bar of soap
obviously is is a problem. People should
use liquid soap. And there's a debate as
to how runny uh is is liquid for the
hala. And I brought you a few other
things as well there. combing hair,
brushing hair, etc., etc. There is a
parallel debate just to end in the last
30 seconds of smoking on Yonf. And this
goes in the opposite direction. Whereas
the Morishim used to say, look,
everybody smokes. Therefore, lighting a
cigarette is obviously permitted on Yonf
because it's shave nephesh. Today,
almost no one will say that because most
people will say smoking is prohibited
any day of the week. And therefore,
since it's not shave nefes, people react
very badly to smoking these days. Most
people do not smoke. It's a small
minority. Therefore, smoking is
prohibited on uh yon for another reason
other than the health reasons. There's
an or that says that if you smoke on
second day y but you don't smoke on
first day yf that's an added problem
because then you're insulting second day
yon. Okay. So what showering on second
day y is that the same? Maybe not the
same because people only need the shower
on second day yon. They don't need it on
first day yv. But uh I would advise you
to speak to your local Orthodox rabbi
and find out what to do. But uh now is
the season and we'll work out uh what
we're going to do going forward. I wish
everybody
everybody should be well and we'll see
you please God in a few weeks.