Shnayim Yomi - Yitro - Chamishi - #5 - Rabbi Yaakov Gibber - Growing in Torah Through Toil

The public tells us whatever will ask of us, we will do. famously tells him the we teach our youngest children when they're old enough to be able to discern the word which of course means literally a betroal an engagement the two processes from which marriage takes place the and we understand that that which is the the dar the level the connection the sh of to the been And of course to the curiosity of the why is that so why is it compared to the betroal the engagement if you will and why is it not specifically which is the goal which is the and the actual marriage itself we understand that the prerequisite that which comes before the that is to the ultimate is of the why should it be if the is the why should it be that the relationship between us and what we're willing to do is related to the not the actual itself explains a very important what of course we understand yes it's true that that is the a person ultimately wants to get to the ultimate level of the relationship which is the complete and total connection to the which is the marriage which is the A person doesn't want to remain in the betroal state in engagement state. A person ultimately wants to go from engagement to marriage. A person ultimately to be able to merit to be able to be on the level of Vegas of connection and a relation with its real truest sense. A person has to work hard for that. A person has to a person has to earn that that ya that ais is represented in the status of a when you're in that status of a you're working towards something you want to earn something you want to achieve something you want to reach a goal and destination when you put in your blood sweat and tears when you appreciate how much a melas how much work is needed for that endeavor so then ultimately you'll reach your goal