Shnayim Yomi - Toldot - Sheni - #2

foreign [Music] we have a story that is very familiar we once again have one of the others this time who's going down to avimela he's going down to uh the king of the Polish them and Avi melak takes his wife takes Rifka and Yitzhak says the exact same thing his father avram had said before him he says my wife is in reality my sister and the base Yakov the ishwitzer Reba tells us something very profound there's a very deep idea that the others are teaching us here that there's two relationships that a two main relationships a person has in their life one is with their wife and that is an acquired relationship that is something that a person chooses they meet someone they get to know them and they decide to marry them it's a Kenyan they acquire their wife that's a relationship of a husband and wife there's also a relationship of a sister that's not something a person chose that's not something the person has free will that's just the way you're born you're born into this family these are your siblings this is your sister that's another relationship that a person has says the holy is with sir we have the same the same two connections these same two attacks two attachments with we have a relationship that is known as ishti we are like a wife to the rebanish which means that we have to choose a relationship we have to develop it we have to work on it and always do more Mitzvahs and more conducive in our lives to bring ourselves closer to the banished level but we also have a much deeper connection a much deeper relationship between that is known as says you are my sister what that means is your relationship with me is not dependent on your actions it's something you are born with you are born a hit that means that you have a relationship with me that is unbreakable and no matter what you do you could maybe mess up a little bit your relationship compared to a husband and wife but the relationship compared to a sister a relationship that you're born into that you can never mess up and that's what avram and Yitzhak teach us when they refer to their wife ASI as my sister what they're saying is that a relation that he had banished all of them allow it to always remain allow it to remain permanent like a sister something that you're born into and of course a bunch of answers there to fearless and that's what it means to be a year to be born into that relationship and that's what yes is the first person in the world who's born as he is he's born into a relationship with his father had to choose it he was a girl he had to find the Revenge club yet he's born he's a little baby he did nothing he's already a kid and that's each and every one of us children of avram and yitzel we are born into that relationship let's always remember that and always be proud of the fact that we're born again [Music]