Shnayim Yomi - Shemini - D'var Torah

[Music] we read the story of aharon losing his two children and the torah describes how haron accepts hashem's yes with love it's quiet no complaining and he got rewarded tremendously the torah goes out of its way to describe what haran did and he was rewarded hashem came and spoke to him special a special mitzvah of of uh like the torah describes one may ask and i saw this in a sephiroth one may ask i mean what should ahadon say what could you do they're dead what are you going to what are you going to do of course he was quiet what could he have done what they do bring them back that's not the way the world hashem killed them it's the right thing so i saw an amazing shot they bring from the sephiroth that when a person when something's bad happens to a person what should he say oh you know what this also is probably good and the quran says you have to bless hashem on bear just like you bless him on good which means that you have to work on yourself something bad happens you have to work on yourself to say there's probably good in this as well says the seventh assad when aharon saw what happened to his children he didn't say gamsalotova he didn't say he didn't say anything he reached a level that he didn't see it as a bad thing at all that's what's was so happy when on everything hashem did to him that he didn't even feel the need to work on himself to not to not feel bad of course whatever hashem does is is great it was without it it didn't have the whole give and take so the chavez queen continues and says that's why the pasuk says it's an interesting word it should have said i don't was quite i didn't say anything can you complain no says means if you're quiet but sometimes when a person is quiet you still see on his face he's turned pale he he's he's he's controlling himself controlling his emotion he's just not talking but almost like a dome there was zero change in his complexion he was the same as before that's what we were saying from the seventh as if nothing happened there was a great rabbi khasit rabbi the divine king from tons of prime sansa he lost his son at a very young age a seven-year-old son and they made the levia before early in the morning they came to the show right after and the bride turns to the people and he says imagine you're walking in the street and all of a sudden you feel someone come from behind and give you a whack on the back so you turn around and you see well if you see it's your enemy something you don't like comes and gives you a whack on the back you turn around you look what it is you get angry what i do to you i'm just walking my merry way what are you bothering me for but if you turn around and you see it's your best friend it's your best friend that you've been with this guy for years he only did good to you and he gives you a smack on the back you turn around you look at him and you smile and you ask him what was that all about what's doing says that they behind me i just received today a tremendous smack a big beating from heaven and i looked up to the heavens to see who gave me this beating and who do i see i see my best friend i see the best my loving father so i'm gonna smile at my father and say started praying you imagine this is the level of insecure they realize nothing from hashem is without reason there's a reason for everything the banished had a student called the bishop who lost his son this son lo was was engaged half mara keith sheen and his died died the day of the wedding leaving the kala um to fall to ye boom to a 13 year old brother which she ended up she waited for him a few a long time she waited for a couple of years until he did ubum to her and he married her but the father rishaman was devastated and the benefit got up by the shiva and he spoke about the topic of gilgolim and the beneficiary in his roha kodesh he spoke about how this was a google of that and again of that and his tikkun was this and he calmed the father which means that this is another way to calm ourselves down when things happen to us and we know that hashem has a rhyme and reason you see a young person passing away there's obviously a tikkun that was finished they bring in from sadka when he was sitting by the shiva of a young couple that lost a baby so he said to them imagine you get on on a city bus on a bus and the bus has bus stops but there's also the end of the run and some people get up by the first stop somebody by the second stop the third the fourth and some people stay to the end of the run do you question the people who get off by the first one hey why'd you get off why don't you stay to the end of the ride you paid you could have stayed till the end of the ride with the same ticket why did you get off you don't question them why whatever they got on the bus for they got off now some people need to stay to the end that's the same thing with people today in this world some people get off on the first run some people go to the second and some people wait to the end of the ride there's no questioning there's different guild gulem there's different tikunim this is just a hazuk for us when we go through uh difficult situations we have to remember remember the time remember the south carolina remember that remember that satiem how they accepted all hashem's things with love maybe we'll reach that level that even what looks bad it's not bad we'll look at everything like it's good like and will be that hashem will reward us tremendously shabbat shadow you