Shnayim Yomi - Miketz - R'vi'i - #4 - Rabbi Mordechai Kalatzsky - When You Really See Someone

Now we have ravi the brothers are going down there's a very very interesting pse and saw his brothers and he recognized them. Now it's interesting if he saw his brothers you think he recognized them and he spoke to them strongly and says again he recognized his brothers which is interesting because it just said it just says he recognizes brothers and they didn't recognize him. Now Rashi says Yoseph recognized them because they had a beard and they didn't recognize him because he didn't have a beard when he was sold. Now the truth is if you met a sibling and like he looked like you saw [clears throat] Mary Saul he looked different than an Egyptian wouldn't you recognize him wouldn't you have picked up on it you know Yseph was dropping hint after hint after hint that it's him how come Yseph saw them and the brothers didn't see Yoseph and the answer is because Yseph was looking to see them he says I It's going to say next week's para says I'm Yseph your brother that you sold to and you have to look this up says even the moment you were selling me I never stopped being your brother I always loved you I always see you but since they on their level the tremendous level of the shift we can't begin to fathom but on their level they thought he was in the house of illreute he was in the house of immorality. That's where they were going to find him. He wasn't going to be sitting with them in front of him. Even though you're sitting right in front of him, they didn't see him. You know, a lot of times you could see someone, but you don't really see them. And it's so important to realize that there's so much more going on that maybe when I'm frustrated, maybe when someone judges me, maybe when someone's not nice to me, maybe when someone misunderstands me, maybe when someone's angry me, maybe when someone is insensitive to me, maybe they're going through something, maybe they have a struggle, maybe I have to like try to find compassion instead of just being hurt. That's very hard. Taking the high road is one of the most difficult things in life but is what allows us to grow to become the best most adjusted settled happy joyous people. It's so important to say you know where am I not seeing where am I getting too caught up in my subjectivity that I'm not being objective and you'll be able to open up a whole new world. Now, who do I who do I talk to to find that out to find out about that? Maybe you talk to your spouse. Maybe you talk to a good friend. Maybe you talk to your kids who you're seeing a certain way and say like, "How are you? How are you feeling? What are you thinking?" There's a whole world of people to go into their thoughts and not just, you know, you find people, they're not talking to each other, they're talking at each other to start recognizing people and then it changes everything. So the brothers came down and he he said that they're going to be slave that they're that they're spies and he put them in jail for 3 days. Now we get the kamishi