Shnayim Yomi - Miketz - Chamishi - #5 - Rabbi Mordechai Kalatzsky - Emunah in Daily Life

Kamishi, the brothers are realizing that something's going on. And they go back and Yoseph tells them to put all of the money back into their sacks. Wow, the money's back. It's also in my sack. Their heart left them. And they were started shaking lay. What do they all say? Mazos, what's going on? Eloh kim lanu they didn't say what are the Egyptians doing there was only Hashem do you know if you if I wouldn't live with that clarity that everything's a message from Hashem all people are a message from Hashem I will live such a different life and I think it's so one of the most powerful things I've learned is and says There are seven required qualifications to have. And if you have these seven, if you find someone with these seven things, you could rely on them and have completely and fully without a concern in the world. Number one, that this someone loves you completely. Now, even if they love you, you need number two, they're on the forefront of their minds. They don't get busy. things come up, you know, you forget. And even if they love you, and even if they're on the forefront of your mind, you still need number three, that they could follow through. So, they love you and they're thinking about you and they could follow through. Number four is they have to know what's truly good for you. Cuz what if they make a mistake? Or what if I think it's good for me is not really good for me in retrospect. Anyone could play Monday morning quarterback. So, number four is they have to know what's truly good for me. Number five, they have to have a track record. I have to believe in them. They see, you know, you've been doing this for a long time. I can rely on you. Number six, they always have my back. What about all the conversations going on they don't know about? What about all the situations that I don't even realize? So, they always have my back even if I don't know about it. And finally, number seven, they're a niv. They're magnaminous. They're not a fair weather friend. They let things go. So if you have someone who loves you, is always thinking about you, can follow through, really knows what's good for you, has a track record, has your back, is magnaminous, you rely on them fully and only has that. And that's how the live their whole life. And if we could live that way, to think about those ideas that Hashem is those qualifications, we'll live a different type of life in existence. So they put away Shiman and then they tell Yakov that we need we need Binyammon. YaKob's like no. He's like listen we need the the fam's getting worse. So he says okay. Yako says you could you could go come to Shishi.