Shnayim Yomi - Metzora - Shishi - #6 5782

[Music] the aliyah begins with discussing the laws of anita neither laws is actually one of the most important laws in terms of marriage of tara amina torah a woman that is anita during certain times of the month where she sees dom she's tame at least seven days and if she cannot make a have sick tahara she cannot ascertain that she's no longer seeing uterine blood flow so she can detox she can be made even more than that but we know that once she's able to make the have sick tahara and bismarck we have a we add more days for not for beyond the scope of this discussion but then once that is done today we actually count shivanikiyam not minatora that's not required as part of the din of nido and she goes to the mikveh but mikvah we know tara's mashbach the whole idea of going to the mikvah is really the one of the main we feel the main important parts of the whole idea of what neither is that's how we learn it that that creates a vibrancy in the marriage there's still excitement in the marriage and uh that there's a time out that leads going that you can we come back and renew the the physical parts of the marriage and it it fascinating that vaynermecha points out that in the parsha that we hear in in mitsura the the saliyah there's no mention of going to the mikvah for the needle and he brings down from the onion from yohudai gone that's a call of homer that if something that she sits on then that becomes tame and that becomes pure only through going to the mikvah to call the homeless she becomes tohora through going through mikvah and there's other different richonne giving different to roots how do we see that she needs to go to the mikvah but there is no mention of the neither going to the mikvah of course she has to go to design the yum yum is not enough you need to have your man you have to make for why the torah and not specif why only intimate this concept of mikvo allude to it but not actually front and center say that anita needs to go to the mikveh and i was thinking like this the per perhaps it is as follows that most of us when we talk about tarsus mishpochra the main focus is we cannot wait for the wife to go to the mix we focus on going to the mikvah going to mikvah that shall become taha tahura and then we can resume the physical aspects of the marriage and that generally is how it's taught to all of us is that this is a uh renewal of the the the marriage but it is a the focus is on the going to the mikvah and and the woman coming to her again maybe that's not really the primary focus maybe where the primer focus is teaching us as the madrid says we know that the uh the concept of nida is actually connected to the hate of adam and java where there was this tremendous loss man went from being an eternal being to being a finite being death descended in the world his connection to death to sin to death and anita has that alludes to the idea that uh that that that there's been a lost potential an egg has been lost there is a loss of of of sin connected the way the kuzuri explains it and but but primarily is that the the tikkun of of they did not have restraint they were given boundaries of this is what has to be done and they overstepped those boundaries they ate from the tree that they weren't allowed to eat from and maybe the main focus is to focus on the process of the seven days that we are restraining ourselves or we are being held back from what we would like to partake in and that should be the main focus not the main focus on going to the make fun what happens after these days are over but actually the main focus has to be the fact that we have to teach ourselves restraint especially in today where everything is about self-gratification and immediate gratification that we want to have it immediately and now the t we have to teach ourselves is that no the person has to understand there are boundaries a person must teach themselves restraint and the torah therefore never mentions the mikvah directly only mentions the process that leads to when one needs to go to the mix [Music] you