Shnayim Yomi - Ki Teizei - Shlishi - #3 5784

[Music] so in this alyah we find two very interesting topics one will be about parenting and one will be about self- control the the in the first Leah we spoke about how Rashi explains the natural progression about going out to war seeing a woman and then you end up hating her and then at least to Bor and of course the the uh the idea of comes to mind but the end of shen leading into we have the MIT and then we have the Mitzvah of if you build a house you have to have Gates on the roof so nobody should fall and then we have the Mitzvah of shess we have the Mitzvah K don't uh don't put two animals to plow together don't put two species of fruit foods to grow together and the dictum of Mitzvah Mitzvah comes to mind so the question one might ask is why did the Torah choose these things the the the idea of a man going out to war in as and to teach us and the idea of and and making a fence and and the mitvah of K and andness why is that Mitzvah Mitzvah so if we think about it in the case of the as the soldier he did not have any self-control he gave in to what he wanted right at that moment as opposed to the he didn't give in at that moment you you have to send the mother bird away and it wasn't so difficult but you did it you were able to control yourself even for for a short amount of time and that's a very different thing you control yourself what's your reward for your self-control Mitzvah Mitzvah this simple Mitzvah will lead to another Mitzvah to another Mitzvah and to another Mitzvah the other the other main important thing that that I saw in this Aliyah was about parenting right happens a man accuses his wife says that she wasn't the boua she wasn't a virgin when I married her so if if he if he's found to be a liar what happens uh the parent he's given over to the parents which means Bon they give him malus he's got to pay he's got to pay a fine but what happens if the wife is guilty what's the punishment they take her to the door of her father's house and they Stone her there why over there because her parents gave her they gave her an upbringing and if she's going to go ahead and do something it must be that the upbringing wasn't so good right and this leads to later on in the alah a woman who's found in the city and then a man Loy rapes her so if she's found in the city we assume that uh that that that it wasn't raped and uh Rashi says it's she wasn't she wasn't AA right Rashi gives the examp example of if there's a hole in the fence a robber is going to come looking hey it's the door's open right the woman who's found in the city she's she's walked in the streets that's not the that's not the place of a lady she she she right s's AB is asked where's Sarah Sarah's Sarah's where she belongs and we saw by Leia Leia went out to greet yov ainu and say tonight you're coming home with me and what happens Dena learned from Leia she went out to the city and that's where that's where uh and that's where they saw and that's how that whole story unfolded but if it's in a field the the P says we assume she cried out because there that's that's not that's not roaming the streets so it's very important that that that we look at our and uh we see that it has an effect how we deal with our kids it can lead to how they're going to behave in the future [Music]