Shnayim Yomi - Acharei Mot - Kedoshim - Chamishi - #5 - Rabbi Reuvein Brand - Connected as One

Kamishi here in our double par of here we have several mitzvah which are very practical says this is a mitzvah we need to focus on the mitzvah of watching our speech of not speaking which is something true about something someone but that's negative it's lo not being a gossip mongerer saying you know what palon said about you so You're throwing somebody else under the bus. That's and then of course there's which is something which is totally fabricated negative about somebody else. All of those the entire world of it's right here at the beginning of the fifth ali not to do injustice to other peoples in whatever capacity we have not to hate others not taking revenge. The shami says we should view all all Jews as one body. So the same way if God god forbid on a Friday night accidentally I cut my kala and my sliced my left hand with my right hand holding the knife I wouldn't slap my right hand it's one organism. So we have to view all Jews as one organism. We have other lots of other mitzvah. We are encouraged who says plant trees just like we did in gen and making sure that we have the appropriate uh propriety when it comes to interpersonal relationships and not to have wanted inappropriate relationships and not to have any witchcraft. These are all just a ton of uh different mitzvah that we need to think about. The mitzvah the word actually means to clarify. And so when I'm in a relationship with somebody, if I want to invest in a relationship, if somebody hurts me, you know the worst thing I could do is I could let it fester and never address it. You know what I could do that's better? If I really committed to this relationship, if I think that this relationship can be saved and salvaged and perhaps rehabilitated, I need to clarify what I'm feeling and bring it to that person. Don't carry that grudge around. We can get to this amazing level. There was a misa there was a gabi who was standing outside in the of the kdushim the first grebba and there was a huge throng of people and people were pushing they were trying to get in and there was one man who was desperate and super insistent he had to see the reb was so frustrated that the gaba wouldn't let him in that at one point he finally vented all of his frustration he slapped the gaba in the face the people were stunned and finally when the next group of people came in to meet the rebba the kadusha Sharim sensed what this man had done to the Gabby. And he says, "I'm sorry. I can't speak with you after what you did to the Gabby." And the guy the man breaks down. He's He's crying. He says, "Rabbi, I'm so sorry. I feel horrible what I did to him, but I have no children. I'm begging you. I'm desperate for a braha." The room says, "I can't give you a braha until you make amends with the Gabby." So, he goes outside. He speaks to the Gabby. The two of them come in a few minutes later. And the Reb looks at the Gabby and says, "Are you mo this man? This poor Jew?" And the Gabby says, "I'm mo of one condition. condition that you give him for children. That's the highest level of we should reach that level of