Shmily Brody’s Triple Play: Dating, Business, and Healing Unraveled

welcome to another episode of positivity thank you all for joining I'm so excited to share another episode with you the feedback is incredible and uh can I know how to reach tens of thousands of people and both on this channel or on my Vlogs Channel and the WhatsApp and personally was was com was was get compliments it keeps me going and also I don't personally address like mention was was ha but totally expect and I want these people to know that they also give me fuel while I send them love usually because whatever but I send them love I can see for myself I was also in a place once where I enjoyed the criticize or certain and then I became older so Allah say power so I want to introduce Our Guest today CEO of bro floors and my brother mention my brother so um so to to clear that out before we even get started is yesly bro is my third cousin because his name is bro man El Baba bro and um a few years ago I said I asked him we were so such good friends from Yeshiva and English Comin so so it's a little bit small over there my family has moved to Lakewood now on Tom so yeah so without further Ado let that jump around elev style huh thank you yeah so first of all one zero yeah I was getting there by the way this is part from the introduction technically okay so go on so and it was just incredible because the reason is because we at the at the same time basically quit in the job it actually F me he took the the the jump before me with quitting his job I think I actually he tried a few different business ideas but I opened the business and then shortly after he opened the business but s just beautiful and we can see each other and the growth and learn and there's there a tremendous amount in in introdu concept selfhelp self love healing many books that he introduce me to many Concepts yeah exactly so I believe the power of letting go power of letting go yeah makes sense and uh till this day probably one of my favorite books a book that I read so many times oh very nice yeah and so so he has tremendous amounts of uh of um Credit in my personal Journey because we're not we're not in this world to do it alone that's what I personally believe parents and siblings and friends and and all of that but on a business level supported and he gave an ideas for we media how to set it up I remember uh even in the first days of my company business plan like the conference this bullsh yeah basically at that time because for the customers chain of command CEO Co CFO by the way um CFO and there's a team can out of this is 100% content creat crazy yeah content creat visual pling company like manag straight to the go in manage the stress the TR the problem the theal is the goal is right yeah absolutely yeah so yeah we didn't want to mess up the the brothership um but up until this day the Vlogs With the podcast podcast is a behind the cameras a behind the Vlogs so I just owe him a huge uh gratitude and uh and and and thanks for everything that you did my life correct 24as the video correct like in person so yeah there's a tremendous amount of uh credit that I I I would give you in my career and uh so but likey aery no so today uncovered exactly today we're here to uncover the mystery um especially Val I think on Journey engaged expence FL so conversation and if you ask the question for is like I said because if you find me um but yeah without further Ado welcome positivity it probably feels like home man interesting a different feeling first of all thank you it's my pleasure like besides [Music] theel just experience yeah so yeah so I took upon myself to to put myself out there because I believe as when I put myself out there right so like in my experience that that worked yeah so uh that's why I'm I'm here right that when they put themselves out there yeah are they Challenge on top is different I'm curious which one it is for you experence challenging right I want to get into from business but I want to get into the juicy stuff business business um go un engaged yeah in MA thank you smoth process as did your probably your own opinion but resistance like challenges and then one day just decided okay the clarity engaged proposed and I think that now from what I've seen you are really really happy and probably in the best place in your life in terms of confidence clity security you feel safe you feel like you're living a purposeful life you have meaning in your life you feel like you're the I think that you're in the best place of your life so if you can share this canai beneficial um and whatever you want to share I don't think you mentioned as you want engage to my second time right so so take it away take it away so it's up to you how much you want to share um VI because is my question relevant my question is relevant to to down dating how did you meet this girl how what what was the process of going out and how did you know how to make a decision what do you feel right now what do you think is a good marriage tremendous amount of again the question well okay so whoever doesn't know I wasn't gay and I had a broken engagement yeah in about they like and about three months later and I dated for about 5 months and I got engaged two weeks ago so so first of all if I can break it up for you what the feeling fin when gets broken up like because because even for me growing up it it does sound like probably one of the most painful with mean experience I maybe it's even bigger than loss cuz loss is inevitable it's a loss of dreams right but breakup like when I men loss at the end of the day some part of you says oh they sucked a okay loss can happen when breakup happens is like yeah it can also happen but why did it have to like it it it feels I don't know it's it's one of the toughest things that can happen someone so what was what was that process and that interesting whatever um engaged for the first time I'm talking about um something didn't feel right after I got engaged I got Eng good dating whatever something it didn't feel right and I wasn't short like I was questioning myself my question was is Rel something else [Music] like invited okay nice so she did The Awakening Workshop Yeah so basically how are whatever I don't know like honeymoon face like this feel by the way and played out complicated and nothing personal between us but in E family and uh that happened that now leading up to that as whatever happens I'm good like it's going to be a better relationship so either way throughout be actually before the breakup win-win situation hopeful victim for a second and interesting question question the right thing question happens to be Rel Rel this right right yeah like like okay andag in the next while like their experience relationship like okay like it's doable like anger sadness acceptance whatever so stages from grief um a plan of action by the way between the gap between relationship and but I inclin a question what did the saddest moment feel like the darkest moment or I should say um the darkest moment hellow victim mindset victimhood like the breaking point between you had like the craziest roller coaster like an yeah in in in less than 365 days what you went through it just shows anybody the kind of transformation that was and how to understand that in in the moment right now no matter what they're experiencing there's like things can turn around okay go ahead so okay so the list so that was one of the difficult moments of action mentally physically and emotionally I I basically signed up for a lot of stuff myself like and powerful powerful but wow guilt and blame and shame and anger anger of certain mention this is the anger stage from grief um blame guilt the sadness of my mind I'm not so good inse I'm not good enough to begin with mistake yeah so myself but that's my my biggest question to you would you ever still feel like you're not good enough after you saw that cycle cuz I don't think you have that anymore I don't think you ever question yourself if you're good enough or not depends I mean maybe it's still there but you work through it so well the inse mhm okay so the so you did a list that I would call a self-care list really you really took care of yourself acupuncture Chinese medicine acupun mean it was but you really work work yeah you gained like 20 lbs in in in in muscle like you started uh working like you went up a full size like you started really really taking care of yourself which is really inspiring that you channeled all that anger from the business right right you channeled kind of all that anger into something certain shame around anger I don't think this angry more like he can feel angry okay like the is actually prot when invade my boundaries steps up and hey hey hey don't invade my boundaries mention this is healthy emotion or they experience en's anger in terms of blame towards in my life so realized recently as empowered man empowered masculine man right I like tion wow okay awesome right that's beautiful okay so the first thing you did is the list yeah and whatever came to my mind the conversation okay so the list I think is very inspiring also because but I think this got like deta at the time stupid and crazy criticized like go ahead so the second uh emotions okay meaning that's a big that's a big difference you show which was a few months after you broke three mon three month Gap so confirmed sealed lower intimidated by meated by yeah equal part equal equal so so whatever consciously yeah wow and you did that confid I put myself out AC picture away get the picture let me go me her whatever happy birthday shout out birthday yeah cated yeah Rings Bell very nice yeah yeah so and and the the process I'm not I'm not exactly sure what I would do how I would do it um in obviously but this time you did it right and you feel confident about it you also read and listened a tremendous amount I would say I would say hundreds if not thousands of hours in terms of dating relationship Rel if you want you can walk it through for yourself or coach therapist yeah so if you want you can walk it through for yourself your process or you could talk in general what you believe should be the process for any men especially single are married that can use some relationship advice that that you can share maybe based on your knowledge so yeah go ahead so first of like so okay which was whatever was a nice beautiful experience which was also a little bit of a roller coaster smooth roller coaster like of emotions but previous experience so I better hit it right yeah so but comfortability level hit it off in two days yeah like V he feels comfortable but lose settling I'm as long right but the also had like a process of certain questions certain ideas with would you recommend this to anybody would you would you share approach the the choices to secure both your maybe I would say insecurities but securities also like because at the end of the day the end of the day you did for yourself what you needed to do and so you know like so my question like influence from the surround the family anything anyone get the parents they didn't interfere but surroundings grounded safe and secure like confidence requesting and requiring and checking and I expect the same so feel confident exp the same and expect now so and deserves and expects the same challengeing the mind of the guys to meet their requirements that's it wow um okay the basic steps or they want to date right I want to get into the Minor Details specific area and run us through if you want to go of a public form expence opin obviously like meaning that opinion yeah exactly for you when you say something it's always back by like real research yeah so what would be the day today uh this is the foundation well it comes up you know you change your your whole navigation you had so many periods that you were ready not ready and when you were ready so question boys or girls correct right yeah that's that's good enough I think n like you got to feel it you got to feel open and available to Aran yeah Visa expects question right they got to be in the mood the head space the confidence I guess it doesn't right saying your actions will usually tell you where you really meaning [Music] you don't try your best you do whatever it takes right right okay so the first dry the first is key because you want interested gave the feelings wow so gave the the like the villain don't don't take it don't don't stretch it out also listen listen listen don't talk okay and questions questions yes no questions openend questions so CL questions clich mind expect I don't know but get her to think I guess the moment question genuinely genuinely curious major Point mind been curious to get to know this person the moment so okay I love that because so basically deepest about questions feelable don't jump from one topic to the next stretch all the topic the most possible meaning to say question yeah so and whatever next question like and she will feel like you're really interested by the in the wow so this is number one but I walk usually side right so each other open know so something like that is over 21 whatever the next values personality oh values values mind belief system value religiously spiritually values in and it's value value respectful mention value mention that healthy Republican Democrat values yeah exactly like Val now 100% if you don't have the same values goals goals and Visions you know stage you both feel very comfortable and more less and obviously do right okay this is a loaded question but if you can answer it as quick as possible because I have a lot of questions I still want to ask how does one know when to break it up and how does one know when to continue that this is possibly the one so get the question and question and the answer is as concerns is worth it the question is is it worth it is it worth it so I love the answer very very smart this is like Collective knowledge oh wow really shout out to of the podcast with we media clients but support system mention the podcast they lead and guide me through my life so decision is decided okay what was uh what did that feel like specifically personally BAS I guess this right um attraction um is in in Focus kick um question of podcast like meaning like attra attracted but meaning to say attracted number one [Music] know attracted the way is physically attracted V is emotionally attracted right the personality is clicking mhm so this relationship conflict arguments do low days in low day the motivation I'm sorry like okay disag motivator really and thisy attracted right but they work a little bit differently and by the way heala [Music] biology F supplements vitamin D vitamin A yeah the Z get certain vitamins designed each other he Bri hips of because Lally tion I'm saying like the of the point as designed as purpose attct in by like is wow nice question which is in your opinion what's the purpose of life so well how do you find purpose that's a different question yeah so so I believe is design operate and according to their agenda and goal this is the you know Collective purpose indidual the main general purpose in life I believe is creation a co-creator so is the creator from thecreator creative beings creativity check in the camera checked of [Music] the yeah light um okay so the the Creator from the is it created the and we we're doing his work we're doing God's work which is creating and we continue to create with his help but he needs our help to create right now Alliance create reproduce reproduc reproduc this is the main goal and purpose and agenda right um for a second done done self done healing journey I feel like you've um mastered recognizing your own patterns and you have such a curiosity to learn and grow that it brought you to the place where you are now which is you know um you you are I think you're turning 26 next birthday sh you're a real Creator and I think it's like a real it's like a almost a new chapter for you in life like the for the first time at least as an observer like things are falling into place can you talk a little bit about your healing Journey the under menion why it's important to have a healing Journey if or if a person is on a healing Journey right now so Journey healing journey in the opposite wayal respect journey by respect each other's Journey that's number one okay um meaning messages a challenge now you can choose to take the challenge and work on it other is ignoring that's mentions and we are trained to ignore everything to numb ourselves and and so on and the M suppressed saying suppression is depression yeah anding Journey unless heal like ches [Music] like challenges Journey Workshop workshopy like you're gonna figure it out the guys healed heals no time doesn't heal it takes time to heal right it takes time to heal it takes a lot of time so the the the good news is that everyone can heal the bad news is it takes time wow interesting very interesting so okay no question is obviously you're already a full year an entrepreneur and how did how did it feel to take the courage to open a business um the day-to-day operations um building a team building up clients sales if you can talk about the journey because ra mentioned that are listening are probably not their own uh business owner and tell argument mention owners mention well clearly percentage wise mention bus owner the mention was mention and most of them are not business owners either young or they are just like yeah so TR to call the ctage of business I know it was not an easy Journey for you like but the decision at one point is that's it theet I was always creative you felt you're smart enough or is that because you felt like will offer value capable um but to actually e the business you [Music] know like not good enough throughout mention right so this voice C subconsciously like scary SC but once the jump isene rer so moment right after all these years the opposite insecurity say rejections [Music] likees like whatever and like support right and I think it takes it takes a year to to feel solid in in the in their position right wow what would you tell somebody that's thinking about opening a business now if you feel up for it go for it yeah jump in it's it's totally worth it but no it's not easy like but can right and it's worth it but it's not easy wow what the questions can sales mention sales um sales is a reflection in the a self-esteem w a sales coach and team sales for company specifically is actually healing work or connecting with mention connecting like self-esteem feel yeah I do sales myself that being said web media web media web media bro Flo bro social media presence which is basically creating content product the service platforms like Instagram foll messages and it's creating the content WhatsApp which is a lot more effective but essentially we're bringing a lot of new eyes to your business which is good for Branding is good for sales the link to my WhatsApp is in the description and if you need uh floors Milly wood floors vinyl self level scraping wood floors we service um the tri state area Service Brooklyn Bronx Manhattan Lakewood Jersey City Newark Monty um the areas yeah residential commercial new construction Renovations we deal with uh contractors developers interior designers end users for down a we have very uh uh talented get the team the client should I give him a shout out yeah [Laughter] yeah building so basically about four or five years companies operations field um so like it came to me like it's a gift um all scrap whatever and like us yeah next whatever happy job to shine and [Music] no estate at that time [Music] whatever know actually like wow it didn't take me effort to do like knowledge and experience wood floors like easy you know professional business but you know that's managing the yeah wow um so so I never ever yeah but I never took credit for it by the way get aare oh wow excited enough Contex enough cont in the Construction indry contract the they gave question and like why not yeah and uhans 10 units wow my Cent wow wow wow yeah I guess it is happy yeah it's not so easy but it's also not so difficult mention yeah everyone can do it everyone can do it uh if you can tell people to work on one skill to make their life better what would that be one skill or one habit what do you think is something that everybody if they work on this will have a much better life take care of yourself notice observe yourself and always tell yourself it's okay like don't don't talk negative about yourself to to yourself like and take care of yourself take care of your body eat healthy sleep healthy work out like emotionally like take time to to to breathe to relax to you know without distractions on down phone and and notice what comes to your mind and and say it's okay it's okay it's okay like deal with this that's it wow process your emotions you know emotions it stands for energy emotion emotion energy emotion says so basically canly do energy and in in Maas this what the difference feelings and emotions feeling is the physical mail not physical part from the body the emotion is the the mental path the the the emotion is St and the feel feelings feel overwhelmed and if you don't take care of your body got you're not going to feel well right like you're going to feel you're going to feel it in your body and in your mental mind like yeah anything else that you're passionate about that you want to share or cover in this conversation yeah z z and unhealthy masculine if you're a guy if you're a woman's Z un healthy feminine don't switch roles be very careful be aware you know in the in the opposite well or stay in a relationship basically lost and a man whatever anyone z a giver the law of giving and receiving and it's important rece Circle okay the circle doesn't stop a flow a flow energy a flow energy yet a of flow energy don't stop the flow don't stop give and [Music] receive like give and receive the law of giving and receiving Minds Lally successful this is the trick yeah flow don't stop the flow don't do it to you yourself you deser you deserve to to be abundant you deserve to be in the flow very very beautiful thank you since in a close and we get to meet quite a lot mention questions questions in the comments towards analyzing the questions 20 minute weekly podcast absolutely I would be down for it because that we should give and when we give we are in a healthy masculine and when we are we are a good person in general it's it's a nice thing to give because when you give you receive so so if there's 10 questions in the comments do of YouTube um yeah anything else Namaste Namaste thank you so much everybody for listening by I'm just saying um thank you everybody reminder to please like the podcast subscribe to the channel the editor literally um so and leave a comment myapp is in the Des yeah and yeah an high level I never did something like that I'm putting myself out there yeah I break through walls yeah like for myself it's a challenge like I showed up all that this by the way they lesson show up show up all right thank you everybody good night good night