Shiur @ Yeshivas Imrei Binah | Rabbi Daniel Kalish

good morning and thank you to RAB Stern Fe father you're welcome good morning good morning thank you to we have a friendship for many many years for we're close for I think for 30 years were close close you and he's somebody I have grown a lot from and with the the pushing forward the Ben alah that he is what marks what marks this holy Yesa the mark of the yeshivas people grow here n tremendous alah Time and Time and Time Again people grow tremendously and it's p that's Theon somebody from all from anybody you meet tons of people somebody who always just demands himself to grow to add a Al Al person who grows and then I a whole a whole mat of people that grow when when my son decided to come over suus when H he decided to come a tremendous that he wanted to come learn and then I see there's a place to learn with that are that are growing that are in I see what the learns with RAB with RAB tab has a he has a s with r big big people very very big people and then I see him it's no wonder he's stagging and growing I wanted to talk about the topic because my son is here and has reim and the to have here I want to talk about the topic of I want to learn a I'd like to share a with the that I haven't shared what this is I'm learning we have I learn with this is the we're learning in the morning first is what we're learning in yes we're part of aab right Glazer who who learned here who was who was here he gives the kabas we we take turns where I gler myself saying and these are the I want to share I don't know I'm right amongst friends publicly you don't say you don't know you're amongst friends there's a that's very fascinating to me and I want to offer AES and something practical that I think is relevant to a tal and to a to both to both it's relevant an idea maybe perhaps something at least if this this is what the gar made me think so I want to share this with the it's a little bit of a we haven't sung yet together maybe this first maybe this first then we'll then we'll sing then maybe something after the gar says says a story and the story goes as follows stories in the very important we pass in story always brings the the most something said there's like a was a that's a he said who said it me when we see something done and carried out it's very powerful it's a story and the story goes as follows visited to the house of G and when R went the shabas shabas he made he D in shabas an ER of shabas sometime after plag ra DAV an early DAV an early minion gar is that speak about being early and things like that are hard for me to learn they perk me up it brings up things in me but the gamar says that RAV went and he daved early he DAV shabas shabas then right behind was a talmood mayor of RAV and he d right behind he d right behind RAV he went behind his rebi I picture sh exact funny scene his re Ding and started right behind his part of M spot to pick his re and comes right behind his re and right behind his rebi it's it's it's interesting because he asked he asked speaks out here that he was ding that he was daving that was daving it's interesting it's a sh of he was Ding and ra his re ising ising it's interesting if he could be the is ding one prey you're ding a different he wasn't you see could be doesn't bring that but behind R R's DAV sh is right behind him there thoughts about that hold that hold that for a few minutes finished the re finish earlier he didn't disrupt Rob didn't take the steps back because he didn't want to disrupt he didn't disrupt the ding of so RAV didn't take his steps back that's the story says the we learned three things from this story you see shabas you can you can bring on chabas early in shabas shabas that's one thing did it that's how we we see a second thing doesn't I don't know if it's even allowed or supposed to at least the was aad and perhaps even supposed to awn's right behind his rebi the third thing we see is didn't take his steps back at the end of because he didn't want to he didn't want to disrupt the so we see it's user to pass SP somebody's daving you're not let her walk past him you're not let her walk in front of him he's daving it's us you're not let it pass by a sh if the inion is to disrupt is it an inion of concentration let's say the guy behind you is under his Talus can't see you Talus is over his head is it an inion of concentration or is the there you not let a walk you can't it's to the he's ding to you can't walk there it's so that's the three things thees the pro these stories that way you can you not let it walk past us but the second thing says is you see from the story how could you say how could you say it brings it first brings a m by the way it was who says you're not it was RA who says you're not all and here says is daving and and it's himself his re who says me to do this you're not ra says you're not allowed furthermore we learned iner says four things cause the it causes the to leave and one of them is a it causes the you drive away do that 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I'm bothered what this what this says to me allow allow me to share I I can say is when you say is this the it's Tyra I know it's Tyra and we have to learn Tyra we have to learn Tyra you have a cash you have you have to think I I don't know the answer somebody has an answer I'm interested but I want to say what this gar brings me to why shouldn't what's happening here why is allowed soash and say has a second but in one says like rash it's G it's a g it's the G it's the G it seems so humble he's behind his rebi there's a g and the g perhaps rash says he shouldn't it's also there were other and Rashi says it's also it's a if you ask a person you ask a rebi who's your rebi he's unlikely to say often I'm not saying a person slugged up if they say my rebi is so and so but often a person won't will say my re I'm trying it to that we look at my re learned by Ron Butler now I'm having the guy I'm saying my rebi that my rebi would just say I'm so even behind the rebi is saying I'm a tal I Belong by him I belong I'm with him his path of service of Hashem I'm there to I'm right behind him I'm with him I'm I'm in that I'm together with that the rebi is somebody and he's saying I'm to that it's arrogant to announce that to say that so why is it I suspect I suspect you're supposed I'm I'm in to big things talid went to revon it's a p it's a p my rebi met revon for the first time he put on his ring he put on his ring he grew up in America he was he he he was a kid in America in Ozone Park he went at 13 He put on a nice ring he should properly see he didn't know anything so he put on a nice bag a ring he would never put on he would never wear St but he put it on to see Iron a g they were American boys and they were learning the first learning everything big big things the biggest things and a now don't do it it's G don't tell anybody be be still about it it's a to say it to to announce it be still about it I wonder that the head of is not what you think it's not well he's not a tal because he's a then it shouldn't say because he's a it's not if we'll say in the simple terms if somebody's the same age as the reab it's not it's not what is but just somebody's the same age it's not a g to say I belong to him I'm older it's not it's not a g if you solve the G problem was so wasn't so then he should do what supposed to it's a problem with you're not don't you don't announce what to the biggest things the very translation of is a lot is huge means understand that you're to big things understand the biggest things find the re what people Sat by because they were and they and and the re brings them that they're to the and with all our and difficulties and challenges that face eight all eight billion human beings on planet Earth and every year every for sure but to the biggest things and don't do it don't tell anybody maybe like the whispered of course suppos to but who big enough who who could say like you that's not he then he goes back maybe maybe I don't know and then it so there can't be a the humility of knowing who I think these two inan are not these two inan are how it works do humility of our humanness the humility of being aware of n the humility that I don't D A Feeling inadequacy is normal as good as the humility and that's the the doesn't but he's to don't tell anybody it's a guy make sure Nobody's around if you do it but it's a truth that the understand that that he big big things that we to the biggest things we just to Big Stuff to the biggest things without compromises without he to big big things that was to big big things to understand that to be clear by us all that we to big things that's the of a rebi that's the of looking up to somebody and and and being and and being to the there had has these three friends and M has three Pals has three friends and when hasem when hasem appears to Hashem appears he appears in the plains of M and say why he appear in the doesn't tell us what was the advice what advice was necessary what's the story this friend mamre encouraged in some way with andem appears to and that all ties in hashem's visiting a after the bris so you understand there's some connection here to bris there's some connection to bris here and in this connection to bris in this in of brem in middle of the so BR says that m i appear what's this that appears explains this I understand it hasem when was giv BR he was separated from his friends it was a good had a whole of Servants of big people serving the and said I want you I want you and I want Z have a you are mine you're and my friends and all the people his whole um no I'm separate I'm that's a difficult was there was some that was what happens to the rest of the and M encouraged M encouraged go forward encouraged go forward appears field in man's property you know what Hashem was saying if you respect it if you appreciate it if you celebrate it you're to it too the very of that that's the very to the biggest things we have a mark on our body that says we belong to Hashem in ice on our body of to Big to really big stuff all of us all of us we have a bris today here and now we to big things and M appears that he separ you're also you're also you respect you encourage you're part of this also you're you're to big things then he appears to have family if you understand it if you understand it and it and celebrate you're also to big things you got it you didn't see it as something separate from you saw it you encouraged it you you were part of it you you understood you closed and you encourage the rebi and understood I'm too so then hasem appears to have r this is an in that were coming performing a bris on his son but this inion that we're all of us are to BR we have an ice on our body with and we're to big things I dare say that the I of people are afraid to talk about I think it has to be spoken about means that a person understand to big things that's what is to take a cup of water with thank you wants my he wants me a for a minute learns for 60 seconds learns my is precious that's big things understands the that's the am to be means to recognize I belong to I'm to big things we can't be afraid to speak make you're a person open up and learn from to big things maybe even three minutes and learn sincere and ask what does the mean try to figure it out say and's people big things don't do it don't show when I think when I I think over my father's story a person who went he went ha what today is called half was called highight was the right before half my father went there became a that was his many but he became for life was the in front of my father was he went to mixed trying it's not a Casher there's no there's no Grace I don't have a Casher by by shiv people were asking to come where it have there's no cas cash I don't have a ter cuz I don't have a cash if I had a cash I'd come up with big things somebody can ask and and somebody coming my father described to us many times his first encounter his first time he ever he has the cash as RAB describes the encounter stayed with him all his life all his life that encounter he had many conversations the that had for the and the had for the re but all his life he described that first meeting with his rebi he was wearing something like jeans he came from America and he had spoke his re was a was love at first sight Mish a connection to the biggest things where to Big Stuff to big things it's just true it's not a cash it's not a cash at all he came from after teaching bringing PE and and a person could go and speak to and ask him a learning and then spend a lifetime learning's it's a g it's a g don't don't announce it to everybody maybe don't practically don't go behind your rebi hey the cash is not was it you're just gonna you're gonna just do it public in your heart you should know you see that person the front daving and has reached big Madre you should know you belong to that it's a guy look around make sure nobody sees him if it's a guy find a different place but understand your place is there you're sh to that and you're sh to big things that's what we have to that's we have to know that's an emis that's a truth that every single Ben has to know every single has to know that we're to very big things to the biggest things to the biggest things that's a truth everybody asked to know from the story yet our whole is thinking about y returning home that's what's on our mind we're not getting involved in theack of of anything is not none of us are to us A's walking home is exciting A's coming home this is the in front of's coming home [Music] coming that's a good coming home to be home a belongs home and A's coming home that's that's a all of us every to come home every year to come to home we're wanted at home and we're to big things that's every B has to has to be a place that welcome home welcome home here welcome here he is wanted here he is appreciated somebody's pushed away some Aid here is wanted Aid here belongs Aid here has space whenever you come to your in your face a lot of construction I love it it's so right there just construction your picture that's what is about the building of a people a people who's building we're fixing we're building we're coming more is more Is Yet To Come the future home of things are being constructed and building more are being divided there's room for more there's more to come that's the mius of a rebi that the big things struggles yeah all of us human beings difficulties all it's all true but the big things there's stuff coming there's big things coming there's big the's coming home he's coming he's coming we're building we're constructing more are coming more of us is coming and more of us are coming coming home this is the coming home what my father's working with me I always struggle with times that's sign I'm getting better and now my wife has way too much fun watching I'm running to make Dominion on time and she's just laughing running I'm doing well she she's excited my father always my father was a very timely person like a in time and and he had a son like me I don't know what happened but but he was very timely and and now I feel like he's working on me and he's like not bad not bad and I'm seeing the daving it's it's K to come on time to daving and I'm seeing more and see DAV extra I see how many times we say in about our people is is amazing it's so rep rep besides hasem of course the word most frequently in I believe I'm reading a lot of them almost five some days five minimum four a day depends if you do a short and the amount of times we say's people all with praying for our for the the amount of times from H's people's Nation over and over that phrase in different but it's repeated repeatedly in all the time we're speaking about your nation it's over and over the people of all the way till the end of over and over I'll call it's like the theme of's nation's people's people it's repeated in an incredible number of times's people so we should aem's people should know who we are what we're says they're M that means we're incredibly to him We're to big things we should be aware we're to big things and all ofel should be aware [Music]