Shiur Torah #95 Wasting Seed, The Self-Made Physical & Spiritual Gehinom COMPLETE LECTURE

first I'd like to uh thank RAB zon and for arranging the we had this whole tour of this last week every night a different sh a different location a lot of a lot of interesting things that am needs to find out because apparently we're in a generation we're on one end we're in mashia we're at the end of days and you don't necessarily need to be too brilliant to realize that we're at the end of days if you just look at the world around you you watch the news for 5 minutes you realize that the world is not the same anymore if you want to watch the uh political world you notice that in the um page 49 it gives you a list of things that are going to happen at the end of times things that are going to happen right before the mashia shows up I did a sh about this on Sunday in Stan Island in all Tora and it's aash we went over each one of the items on the list and when you read it it's like reading the newspaper like reading the newspaper everything that said is going to happen it's happening one of them is that the leaders of the world the political leaders of the world are going to go against the nation now generally this is against logic because the politicians are people that they don't just get their job just because we have to vote for them so if we vote for them then technically they should serve us they should do things for our own interest not for their interest but as generation after generation the corruption continues gets worse and worse the only difference between today and if you just say let's say three or 400 years ago is that today they do it with a smile today they tell you that they're you're your friend please vote for me vote for a change and the next thing they know they're doing everything in their power to destroy your life one of the recent laws that was passed that's slowly but surely if Hashem lets it happen is going to destroy civilization and bring us back to Sodom and Gomorrah stage is that they passed the law in the United States that now you have to allow children in public schools to go to the bathroom that they feel most comfortable so if the boy feels comfortable in the girl's bathroom what's what's the problem no one actually thought that rape is going to increase as a result of this I guess it's a you have to actually have an IQ of above five to know that this is going to increase crime this is why several States I think it's eight different states actually have an IQ above five and they realize this is going to happen so they're suing the government what's going to happen we don't know but you're seeing little by little soet is changing less than a year ago they also passed the law that they wanted to remove the Ten Commandments there was a a statue of The Ten Commandments and they wanted to in a government building and they wanted to remove it so we're not only removing logic but we're also going we don't really need AEM anymore I would not be surprised if the next round of bills that the government prints are no longer going to say In God We Trust we're going to say thanks to our hard work thanks to the president thanks to the stock market thanks to whoever they come up with not God even though technically most people that read the dollar bill and they see In God We Trust they usually think that they mean oh it's the dollar is God because unfortunately in our society most people do treat the dollar like it's God they chase the dollar more and more and more like I did for much of my life as if it is God so when you see that and on the other end if you see the war that's happening in the world that's quiet that's happening there are thousands of thousands of people being killed quietly if you just look at what's happening in Syria and the Civil War that is happening no one is mentioning that over 250,000 Syrian citizens died last year by their own government no one seems to care no one seems to think this is actually valid or important and unless you actually look for it you're not going to find it so propaganda is increasing also the only thing you do see on the news on a regular basis is increased anti-Semitism you're seeing Hashem uses number one tool of anti-Semitism that if anyone wants to look was originally created in parot the book of Exodus the first par it was the first time that anyone specifically went against the Jews at that time we were Israelites but anti-Semitism in America in a recent study they confirmed that at least 40% of Americans are allies are considering themselves anti-semitic if our allies are such good friends you could only wonder what our enemies think of us but this is all Yem this is all in the hands of hem has nothing to do with us has nothing to do with them it has to do with our actions but hasm needs to use these tools it's a hard topic for people to talk about people don't like it people don't like to talk about Germany and the Holocaust but the reality of it is that this happens this is Hashem when someone asks how could AEM you know where was Hashem during the Holocaust the very simple answer is he did it just like he created man in the beginning of time and he created the world and he created the Torah 974 Generations before he created the world he also did this nothing different why because of what he said in the Torah last week's par in America where a little bit of a lag behind Israel we read is one of two in the Tora that people don't really like to read in our grandparents generation and previously before that these two parot that are full of curses or punishments used to be read extra loud people would scream them instead of just reading them with a regular voice they would actually yell them out as loud as possible why because fear of hem is a necessary foundation in order to believe in him if you have no you have nothing kazal says that a connection to AEM that's only based on is a incomplete connection it's incomplete it's good it's a connection nonetheless you're still getting some battery power but it's incomplete you're not going to get to full power your iPhone's going to get to 60% but a connection to hasem only based on a only based on love is no connection at all it's impossible there's no such thing why why does say it's impossible to just love AEM and not fear him I love Hashem everyone thinks they love Hashem you ask any half- naked woman walking in a street that's half Jewish or even not do you love AEM say yeah of course I love God he's the best everyone loves God except the atheist that created their own religion of not believing in anything which is a different topic of its own you ask religious people not religious people everyone could say I love Hashem it's very easy to say I love Hashem but to show AEM we love him is a different story says it's impossible to love hem without fearing him why because you cannot love something when you don't know what it is which means that if you knew just a little bit that we can know we can't really understand AEM but the little bit that we can know through his Torah of what he is and what he's in control of which is everything whether it's the cells in your body or the speech that comes out of your mouth or the money that's in your pocket or the wife you're going to marry or whether you're going to live another week or not or whether you come into the world male or female rich or poor everything is in his power when you realize he's in control of everything how could you not fear if I really believed that he's in control of every single thing that moves every single thing that doesn't move every single thing that I see and every single thing that I don't see everything of course I'm going to fear him because I know that if even if you want to look at it just scientifically we said it in last night's Year everyone of us has protein proteins in our body trillions and trillions and trillions of proteins in order for your body to function and requires these proteins everyone says eat chicken eat meat you need protein so that's the source but what do we do with these proteins in your body you have an infinite amount of proteins but every one of these proteins needs to go through something called a protein fold meaning that they need to fold precisely in a way that's exact and if they just miss a little bit miss a little bit like for example you know you see this book if I close it like this then it's like that but if you just throw it around it could close in a little bit of a different way still closed not the same with the protein fold if one one of these proteins folds a little bit off just a little half a centimeter half a millimeter that's where disease comes from blindness being crippled not being able to breathe not being able to move blood not being able to function just one not trillions not five not 500 one who's in charge who's in charge of folding all of these these the same asem so if I know he's in charge of these protein Falls that I never took you know never really cared about until now I should be scared so if I know just a little bit about Hashem obviously I have to be scared once I'm scared because of the almighty then we can start a relationship then we can say okay now I know what I'm dealing with to some extent let's see what else you say so he gave us a love letter it's called a Torah gives us instructions Torah in Hebrew also means means instructions instructions how to live instructions how to succeed instructions how to be happy instructions how to get to Eternal happiness and also instructions how to get to Eternal suffering same instructions instructions for everything everything and anything you could ever want is in the Torah anything and everything that has any good in it has to have a source in the Torah whether it's a statement a thought anything has to have a source in a Torah nothing new is created Under the Sun as has told us so now once we've started this relationship fearing Hashem is the beginning eventually that fear gets to a point where you start kind of liking him too little by little maybe you fall in love but when you fall in love with your wife anyone's not married you have a right away keep us away from sins and get us to do the first we need more Jews fall in love in the beginning it's passionate it's nice it's amazing but if you ask a newly wed couple how much they love each other they'll tell you a lot how much do you know about each other not so much because you don't have experience but if you ask an old Rabbi 75 years old 80 years old it's been with his wife for 60 years how much do you love your wife can't describe it a lot a lot that was uh 60 years ago was a a lot a lot what's a lot she's she's part of me how much do you know about your wife nothing how do you know nothing because everything that I know about is not enough because there's so much more to her discovering her new over and over again she's amazing that's what you can see Mas you see the love between an old R and his wife is much much better than a 20-year-old that just got married and thinks that he uh won the L why because the connection has moved from physical to spiritual and a spiritual connection is eternal and that takes time so little by little we gain this love but eventually we get to a stage of the highest level of the highest level of fearing of hem which is not fearing of punishment only but fearing of hurting the connection hurting the connection between us a person is not going to raise his W his voice to his wife if he's a normal human being not because he's afraid she's going to slap him if she's a normal human being hopefully she's not going to slap him but because he fears that it's going to hurt the connection someone gets to a point where they don't want to sin not because they fear that Hashem is going to punish them in this world next world and all of these things they fear that maybe I'm going to disconnect from him and anyone that knows even a little bit about connecting to hasem knows that disconnecting from him for even a minute is m g in this world without AEM in your life you have zero I lived like that most of my life and you only know the value of something when you don't have it once you got to the highest level of which is fearing hurting the connection then you can begin to think about loving hem then the highest level of according to kazal is the beginning of loving hem it's the beginning ofm so how come you hear so many teachers rabbis and so on writing books and teaching about how you should love hem love hem love hm love AEM I don't know I can't really answer for all of them all I can tell you is that it's an illusion for most people in our generation to start with loving hem it's just not possible according to kazal not me it's not my opinion eventually you can get there and eventually you should get there and that's where you're supposed to sacrifice your life to get there but nonetheless one of the major issues we have in our generation today is that because we are constantly trying to fit in we've become a politically correct Society in a politically correct Society you cannot find the truth in a politically correct corre correct Society you only find things that don't hurt people's feelings so today's Shure is not just going to be what what I just talked about that was just an intro but it's really going to be about something that's a much more difficult topic that is unspoken of in the English language I only found this out when I I looked for it myself it's called wasting seed there's obviously other topics we'll throw in as well but wasting seed if you notice anyone that watches Hebrew lectures online a sea of them few really strong rabbis have told the people the truth whether it's from the Z many many sources which will go over many of them in the English language sadly I became the third person to speak about it publicly just a few months ago there the sh that I made which is about an hour Shure or so a few months ago very very popular I think it's my top Shure there's Rabbi Alona that made a a few small clips about it 20 minutes 30 minutes and some others little longer and then there RAB mrai who's been telling the truth for the last 22 years also has a few clips about it and he also has a sh out there that's about it the fact that I've only been giving lectures for the last couple of years and I became the third one out of thousands of rabbis that speak the English language is sad why because according to kazal there's no sin greater obviously there Shabbat but aside from that there's no sin greater than there's no sin greater than wasting seed kazal says and we'll go over it with some sources it's the equivalent of idol worship including incest including and a few other small ones all together in one package it's a nice package deal most people don't know this every teenager has this problem every got it's in his 20s has this problem in the 30s many do and this sin continues for Generation after generation and even sometimes people that are married who don't know how to conduct themselves with the Torah life also in the same problem so we're going to talk about this and I'm going to provide you some sources but the first thing I'd like to provide you is a reason of why rabbis don't talk about it from the Torah because hasem obviously in His Infinite Wisdom wanted to give us information that's Eternal as it says in the although there are over 1.2 million prophets throughout history at least 1.2 million prophets throughout history only 55 are mentioned in the in the tanak 40 48 males seven females so we ask Hashem why why only 55 what the Torah of the 1.2 million wasn't good enough what happened to them what happened to their prophecies maybe we want to see it answer the Prophecies of the 1.2 million or the majority of them was only relevant to their generation we mean we understand from here that the 55 we do have the information is relevant for eternity no one can say that just because Moses didn't have a car that's the reason why he didn't drive on Shabbat it didn't drive on Shabbat because it's not allowed it's not allowed today it wasn't allowed back then it's never going to be allowed so the conservative and the reforms and the fake religious that drive to Bess on Shabbat thinking they're doing should know this is a very very big mistake you're better off staying home never never going to a synagogue one day in your life than turning on the car for half a second I actually H have one of my students he's in the car business and he sent me uh he knows he's an engineer and he sent me a uh very complex spreadsheet showing how many actual fires are being being ignited every time you just press the gas based on the RPMs of the car based on how fast you're driving and so on the minimum the minimum the highest is tens of thousands but the minimum the first number that I see was 3,000 just by pressing the gas combustion yeah this is a problem so one time you press the gas you lit 3,000 fires which by the way is 3,000 sins it's 3,000 separate sins it's not one sin it's 3,000 separate sins you press the break press the gas somebody goes to besset they made 1.5 million a which is a little bit of a problem to show up to with with that kind of account because the there's two of them there's the good one and not so good Jeremiah told us some information that can help us today Jeremiah tried like all prophets his main job of a prophet is to do kiru to bring the nation back to hasem to wake them up and to tell them the full story tell them the truth whether they do it or not is irrelevant I'm going to tell you the truth today whether you listen or not is your choice but at least you'll have a choice based on information at least it's going to to be an educated decision whether you sin you don't sin it's not my problem but at least you'll know and that's the one thing that someone took away from me many people took away from me before I did Chua they never told me I can't tell you that I would have listened to them I was in a different world I had millions and millions of dollars I had a company to run my Gava was a little bit higher than Earth I can't tell you that I would have listened but still a 50-50 shot no one could tell me that I definitely wouldn't have and I know myself that maybe I would maybe I wouldn't either way it's always a 50/50 shot which means it's never your job it's never your job to decide for people there's a is I says that um if you know that someone is not going to listen it's better not to tell them because at least their sin is shog shog it's not a big deal you know it's accidental sin this is a problem this is a misunderstanding why because they also missed the Mish which precedes it it's before it's the beginning of the oral T everyone knows know says that a sin that's accidental a shog egg that comes from lack of learning turns into mid turns into purpose so you didn't know fine you didn't know you don't have to know but you have to learn you are commanded to learn now if you didn't know because you didn't want to learn then your sin is not sh it's mid it's on purpose there's no such thing as I could just show up to Hashem ignorant no such thing so all of these people whe they call themselves rabbis or they call themselves something else that are telling people no no no it's this whole generation is anusim and it's uh full of people that are and they don't know and they're this and they're that it's nonsense according to hashem's information it's 100% nonsense you don't have to take my word for it you can see it from the T itself you learn it you're going to see it we'll learn today heal meem and I will be healed save me Hashem and I will be saved for you are my praise Jeremiah chapter 17 ver14 what is Jeremiah telling us here the background story of why Jeremiah is crying to Hashem is because Jeremiah tried to do kiru but kiru the right way he told the people the truth he found the tribe of Ephraim wasting seed bunch of rash wasting seed and he rebuked him told him this is the worst thing on earth you're crazy Shem said this is guaranteed G this is AB this is horrendous this is going to kill you in this world and the next they went against him they went against him and tortured him he says hem heal me they're torturing me for what I'm trying to do your work I'm trying to tell people the truth this is what I get these people are going against me I'm trying to help them and they're going against me just like people that watch some of my shim they go against me also just like they've been doing it for ra M for 22 years or anyone that speaks the truth they go against you I have some people that actually take clips of my videos and they write different description no this is what he says it's actually if you watch the videos very good Clips it's the truth they just want to translate it something way a different way actually use some of their clips for myself and I publicize them it's good Clips you don't want to believe it it's your choice it's not my problem I'm not making up anything everything comes from if it's my if it's my opinion I tell you it's my opinion it's obvious it's my opinion so Jeremiah did the same thing but obviously if I could be his nail I would be happy but nonetheless they're torturing him how much are they torturing ing him if we fast forward to chapter 20 chapter 20:4 cursed be the day on which I was born May the day on which my mother bore me not blessed Jeremiah gets to the point where he curses the day he was born how could someone so holy so pure so amazing get to a point of cursing the day that he was born the midash that was actually written by his son Ben say that this was the day that the tribe of Ephraim didn't just go against Jeremiah but they told him you have two choices they surrounded him overpowered him so you have two choices you either waste seed just like us right now or you're going to see a real live Sodom and gomorah and what they did in Sodom and gomorah the same thing they did in Tel Aviv just a few days ago with the gate parade they threatened to they threatened to rape him so after forcing him to waste seed he was really considered anus he cursed the day that he was born why is it so bad why does theem care so much we waste seed in last week's par gave us a little bit of a secret that was a nice K I got that I think you would like after telling us each level of punishment we have five levels of punishment starts from losing our money the last level says that as it happened in bet mikdash when to get to such starvation we'd have to eat our children it's what happened inash he wasn't kidding but if you notice before each section each section of punishment hasem says the same thing V translation if despite these meaning despite the punishment that I gave you in a previous level you will not be chastised towards me meaning you still don't have you still don't care you're still sinning and you behave casually with me then I too will behave towards you with casualness theat of casualness according to kazal so we pick and choose whichever me what we want to keep kosher yeah you know what they live in Brooklyn there a kosher place in every corner it's not that hard to keep kosher you have to not want to eat kosher to eat non kosher in Brooklyn different places around the world maybe a little more difficult but in today's world it's pretty easy to eat kosher anyone with an ounce OFA knows that hasm pays for it anyway but Shabbat not so sure I'll keep half a Shabbat should be happy I kep for Shabbat wasting seed nah that's not for me that's for people that are that's I'm not at that level watching my eyes that's for uh Raad ra Steinman they wash their eyes not for me you know you pick and choose I could do that even when I get out of the bathroom I do you pick and choose says you treat me with casualness you make a joke of my Torah you think it's a choice to keep all the mitv for that it's a separate punishment violating my my my Torah is one punishment treating it with casualness is a completely separate punishment but now what's the he kept saying k for anyone that's learned a little bit of also knows that it has another meaning if we go to se Deuteronomy chapter 23 verse 10 when a camp goes out against your enemies you shall guard against anything evil if there will be among you a man who will not be clean because of noctural occurrence he shall go outside the camp he shall not enter the midst of the camp when it will be towards evening he shall immerse himself in the water meaning going into the mikve and when the sun sets he may enter the midst of the camp so noctur occurrence meaning a seminal emission is also called ker b k someone that has a waste seed but unintentionally in Street language they call it having a wet dream talks about this verse page 20b T the rabbi is taught in the when which is this verse we just talked about which meant and you shall beware of anything evil this teaches that a person should not think immoral Thoughts by day and come thereby to tum at night and thear is mentioning evil it's not talking about think about bad things happening in the world maybe there's going to be a war maybe I'm going to lose all my money in the stock market maybe my wife's cheating on me or is going to leave me maybe my husband hates me maybe my kids are going to fail at school no no no they're not talk about D like that says in he's talking about thinking about something erotic inappropriate why because he didn't watch his eyes when he didn't watch his eyes of course he's going to think of something erotic at night so much so the says or say better said if someone has a b you know an erotic dream even if the woman in his dream is his wife he wake wakes up out of the dream and he wants to be with his wife not allowed until he cools down and he doesn't have those thoughts anymore then he could do what he wants then he's a normal person again why because if he commits relations with his wife at that moment that he's still hot from the dream what could happen to the child the child could have partial control by shim by demons why because they contributed to making the child which by the way just so you know according to kazal every single woman you see in your dreams including if she looks like your wife is actually none no one less than the Satan's wife herself that's her job her job is to take your seed and create bunch of soldiers to torture you in this world and the next so when you give her that seed you're creating an enemy for yourself this is kind of scary it's just the beginning in your dream doesn't your your soul actually leave your body and your sleep is not all of it if your entire soul left your body you would die it's only most of the Soul there's still a uh still part of your soul stays with you and um part of the Soul goes up to Sham and gets the news of what is the outcome for tomorrow meaning that you go up there and you tell the BET of sh what did I do today and they'll tell you okay based on these Deeds tomorrow you're going to have a very difficult day so that's why you see sometimes people wake up tab nothing happened but they're already in a bad mood they woke up they see their wife she's happy hey how are you good morning honey how you doing ah don't talk to me what you do what did I do you're already in a bad mood why cuz you got bad news from sh and your soul knows it you don't know it consciously but subconsciously you know it you know you're going to have a tough day so now when someone is having these dreams it's their fault there's no such thing as having these dreams just because it's because you saw something either during that day or during your life but in general it's usually during a recent time according to most dreams are complete nonsense they have zero meaning once in a blue moon someone can have a dream that could actually be a partial prophecy but the ones that are nonsense what's the nonsense what does it mean nonsense what's it's combination of the things you saw you saw an elephant today so you're going to see a woman with an elephant head you saw a somebody running you're going to see I know a little bunny running you see all types of strange things in a dream they don't really make sense but it's a combination of all the things you actually saw in your real life if you looked at a p you looked at a immodest woman that's what you're going to see and sometimes you'll see her that you saw in the street and sometimes the Satan will actually or the Satan's wife will actually have your wife's face so you're going to think oh you know what I'm not making a sense my own wife it's not your wife what happens at that point the is even if you waste the seed it's already a big problem even if you get out of the dream you survived the dream you didn't waste seed you're lucky you see your wife right next to you and your wife loves you and she wants to hug you she has no clue what dream you had not allowed to touch him not allowed to touch him why because according toad which we know most of the secrets part of the tah because of him he says that all of the crazy people people have mental problems are usually controlled by shim they're usually controlled by demons and that's why you see a lot of them say they see things they hear things they do they're not imagining it they do they do see things they do hear things you can't see it because you're normal but they do sometimes it's the fault of the parents sometimes it's a g goul now why does AEM care so much about this kry he tells us here that on one end in this when he says K on one end means treating me with casualness right means with casualness but another end it says not only did you sin but you're still wasting seed okay you didn't do fine I got it you didn't do you stole from me the food you ate you didn't do you stole from hm anyone that enjoys anything in this world without saying a says they stole from hem have to do you didn't do fine you violated shabb you worshiped an idol you did all those things okay you're going to get your punishment for it fine but not only did you do that you still have the audacity to waste seed meaning it's at a different level it's a different level it's a different world and just so far we've been talking for a little while hopefully we recorded so far a few new insights but the reality of it is that just this information that we talked about is not public information become public just this is already enough to know that it's a big deal to waste seed we got the hint so far why is it such a big deal the holy books tell us that hasem made the Torah a part of him meaning that every letter in the Hebrew alphabet that's in the Torah which 22 letters is actually Shem hasem it's actually the name of hem each letter is a name of hem when you read the Torah that's the reason why each letter is considered a mitzvah but then kazal adds to it he says it's not only AEM and a Torah one but the Jewish nation is also part of him how do we see this you spell the word yehi Jew in Hebrew it's UD he vud right but if you take you see the d looks like a r it's also looks like half of the he if you take the last UD and you put it under the D it looks very very similar to hm's name UD he V and he I drew it I'm not exactly the best artist but I drew it before the Shure and you can see the point Hashem put his name inside you what's another source scientific Source in 1983 Dr Rubenstein arrived to Israel I believe from from Venezuela and worked for the university in molecular uh molecular biology but his main job was to investigate the DNA DNA of different species DNA of sharks DNA of monkeys DNA of uh rats humans and so on in 1986 he made a major Discovery he saw that there's one major thing that's the same exact thing in a DNA of everything now every DNA in essence looks similar whether it's a DNA of a shark or D of a human being or DNA of a rat they have the same basic Foundation anyone that's ever seen a uh visual of a DNA it's these two squiggly lines with some lines across them so we asked the computer what's happens if I take the two squiggly lines and I break them apart there two squiggly lines are tied together what if I just separate them and after enough analysis the computer responds the subject will explode meaning you cannot exist if there's only one one line it has to stay connected okay so that means to stay connected is important what's the next question logically what's keeping it connected computer answers every so often meaning every several acids actg it's called there is a bridge connecting the two lines thank you there's a bridge connecting the two lines two squiggly lines made of sulfur sulfur go to Y go to dead SE bunch of sulfur over there same type of chemical okay fine Bridges is important we can't break the bridge but there's another question here the computer said every so often is there some type of is it random or is there a design where there's an actual calculation is it's not every so often is an actual method here the computer says yes every DNA has the same bridge and has the same calculation the calculation is is every tenth acid and after that it's every fifth acid and after that it's every Sixth and then five 10 five 5 65 10 5 65 anyone that knows gatria knows that 10 is UD five is he six is VAV and five again is hey you hey VAV and hey hashem's name is written inside your DNA when you waste seed this is the reason why people have amuna problems so kazal is telling us many many things about wasting seed and these are some of the things that people need to understand from bre says when someone Wast seed it's very easy for them to become an idol worshipper very easy for them to not only lose their am but completely become a complete heretic reason they're destroying both their physical and spiritual brain spiritual brain we could understand what it means but physical it's hard to understand you need to know science so just so you know part of the seed that comes out the semen that comes out of your body part of it comes from your brain now there was a book that's not very popular was written about 120 190 Years Ago by a doctor that was also a rabbi in Germany named aam stno sterin from Berlin the book is called ma 60 64 theim which is 128 pages in today's world and he did scientific research medical research not just his own but many many doctors about wasting seed and whether it helps you like psychologist foolishly say today or it destroys you and he has case after case after case after case of all the diseases that wasting seed leads to now he also starts the book which is very scary by the way I'll give you some examples in a little bit but he also says in the book uses a rambam says that the seed of a male is the T which is in essence the um what's them seed in English like the uh the thing that you make the juice from what is it called like Pulp no not the pulp like you know artificial juice the um the liquid yeah the flavoring in essence it's the foundation the concentrate the foundation of the juice for example the Coca-Cola the syrup yeah the syrup exactly it's the foundation you can't make the juice you know has the it's the foundation of it says that the seed is the foundation of the entire male body and RAM says that the only reason why hasem created us with the body is for us to be able to use our seed for P for us to be able to bring children to the world World otherwise there's no purpose for our body otherwise we just remain Souls which in essence the foundational reason of why we exist as human beings with a body is for the seed is to use the seed but not to use the seed and waste it but to use it to bring children to the world how do we know when a woman gets pregnant she has a child like this cute one in the back and after she gives birth many women choose to breastfeed maybe men don't know this but during the time at least not the not you know the single ones during the time that a woman breastfeeds the woman doesn't usually does not have most of the time does not have a period so if she breastfeeds for a year or two years she doesn't have a period for a year or two years this is in a vast majority of cases why because the milk is actually blood it used to be blood everything you eat whether it's an orange or it's a steak or it's a candy everything some part of it turns into blood the other part of it that's not turned into blood goes out of your body this very same blood is what you use to live for a woman it's what turns into milk for breastfeeding now why is it if you take a liter of breast milk out of a woman in many cases she actually feels better not worse feels better to relief but Shalom you take a liter of blood out of her body she may not survive if the two things are the same how could this be because the breast milk also has a few other things that were added to the body added to the blood to make a breast milk but the rambam says and actually in uh reren says the seed of a male is even Superior to blood just like the blood is the basic syrup for the milk you can't have one you know you can't have the milk without the blood you can't have the blood without the seed for a male the seed of a male is superior to his blood it's the foundation of his entire body which means that when he wastes it he's slowly killing himself and this is why the rest of his book is dedicated to subjects one after another real life subjects not only from him but from many many doctors that show exactly what happens to anywhere from teenagers at the age of 15 one teenager that was 15 years old wasted seed for eight years and slowly but surely killed himself but he didn't just kill himself one day just appeared and died said hello and the next thing he died he didn't get a heart attack but his body slowly deteriorated became much much weaker all the way to the point of starting to bleed in strange places his hand turned into rubber very rubbery very weak his bone started disintegrating there was strange awful smelling liquid coming out of his spine which is another part of where the seed travels through until he died this is just the first subject the best case scenario the other ones got much worse one of the other patients as we to as we said the seed comes from the brain so slowly but surely it's destroying the brain one of the other subjects you could noticeably see that the veins on his brain are becoming coming out of his head and you can see this today in some people one day they look healthy you don't see them for five six years and all of a sudden guy looks a little weird a little bit like a mutant so much so the kazal says I'm sorry the U not kazal the best doctors in the world at that time said that of a thousand people that die one dies from natural causes and the other 999 die from overusing their seed that's how much why do we have proof of this in the Torah does anybody know who the smartest man of all time was listen it's a recent smart guy he's a Jew too gave us some sight soon as I find it okayl was gifted wisdom Beyond any man that ever lived before or after so you knew what he was doing he was also very rich he was also married to a thousand women and he gave us a little bit of insight in Proverbs 31 verse 3 it says Al give not your strength to women let your conduct not destroy the protocol of Kings here kazal explained to us he says do not give your strength to women what's your strength what's your Co your is your seed the entire strength of a man is from his sperm this is why also the athletes like to inject testosterone into their body so they can become stronger or when you have a uh ill patient that's suffering some serious disease sometimes they'll put steroids in them but schl is telling you that if you give all of your strength to this Tava to this desire of women to this desire of wasting your seed you're going to destroy yourself but if you need a little bit more details he said it in another place also and also Proverbs 25 verse 16 translation when you find honey eat what is sufficient for you lest you be satiated and vomited up kazal says that Das honey is really referring to women Isa why Isa has the same numerical value Isa has numerical value the gatria of 306 and so does das so when you find a woman be a normal person if you spend all of your seed every other day to a new woman or perhaps do it even without a woman he's telling you something here he's not telling you about Das he's not telling you don't need schl to tell you now don't eat too much uh honey because eventually you're going to throw up that's not exactly wisdom of the smartest man of all time he's telling you something here if you find honey if you find a woman take it easy don't have just have just enough why because if you have too much you're eventually going to vomit what does it mean you're eventually going to vomit you're going to eventually not be able to handle it it's going to destroy your life to such an extent that even after you married someone and became a normal person you don't have a new girl every other day you're going to suffer in your marriage too your wife is a normal person she's not like you and like what you used to be you have to be able to control yourself but not only that sometimes you see that there schom bite issues sometimes it's a religious couple sometimes it's a non-religious couple you see you know you see they both seem normal they both seem rational but the wife is always angry at the husband later on many times you find out that the husband Wast seed on his own not with another woman but on his own why is the wife angry because even though she herself doesn't know her does know her n does know that he's giving SE to another woman specifically the Satan's wife shama is not very happy with you it's a problem page 42b ran says says a man has a small organ the one that starves it is satiated meaning he's full and the one that feeds it stays hungry it's supposed to be the opposite if you feed it it's supposed to supposed to be satiated full if you starve it it's supposed to be hungry says no someone says no listen I'm not going to be like I used to be when I was a teenager doing it three times a day five times a day no no no just once in a while I'll do it once a week says it's impossible a man has a small organ if he feeds it meaning he Wast seed it'll never be full if he starves it it'll be full meaning you won't need to he won't feel the desire anymore eventually eventually when he stops after gets weaker and weaker you won't have the desire anymore obviously with his wife but as far as wasting it and making the toilet another wife it's not going to happen anymore this is what kazal tells you so much so that they had to repeat it again so the same thing again man has a small organ the one that starves it is satiated the ones that feed it is hungry forever why would they repeat it what has nothing else to do with their life no page 104a says it's meaning it cannot change ever is eternal can change anything that's added today is building on the existing you can never change an because comes from this is a law of nature there's no such thing as doing it once in a while you feed the organ it'll never stop and slowly but surely a man is wasting his power and killing himself now what else does kazal say about this thear also says that each time a man makes a Mitzvah this is actually also in the M each time a man makes a Mitzvah he buys himself a defending attorney creates himself an Angel that's going to help him in this world and the next that's why one mitvah leads to another you have one Mitzvah all of a sudden you have a little bit more power and you feel like doing another mitzvah person makes an a makes a sin creates a demon his own personal demon demon gives power more the to the world of Tuma what does the world of Tuma do influences the person to make more sins that's why it says also one sin leads to another this is why sometimes you see somebody that was from a month ago made one small sin went with some girl and he's not married violated Shabbat smoked the cigarette on Shabbat not okay it's you didn't drive you smoked the cigarette a month later the guy's eating bacon on yum why one sin influenced to another sin another sin another sin another sin next thing you know he's a complete Idol worshiper but it's due to his own actions it's not due to anybody else each time a person creates this sin he creates also a kipa creates a shell around him which makes it very very difficult for him to listen to Torah makes it very very difficult for him to read tah why because tah is pure it's the purpose of this world without Tora there's no purpose of this world says the Angels were very very scared at Mount sa before am showed up why why would you be scared the ultimate day of of the world says because all of the other nations rejected the Torah and they knew that if is rejects the T hem will bring back the world to to brings the back the world to nothing the same thing that it was before we created it so now each time someone wants to learn this holy Torah and bring Purity into his life but he has a shell surrounding him the shell is blocking it which is the reason for examp when I first started doing CH I went to a very famous ra very big I'd wait for this sh the whole week usually I don't really sleep much at night so being awake was never really a problem for me I go to the sh after work all alert excited pumped up to hear something new work my brain muscles used the Hebrew language for the first time in 15 or 20 years five minutes into it snoring out can't survive five minutes okay I said okay this happened once next week I'll do better maybe I really was tied and I didn't know a week later 5 minutes 3 seconds nothing changed is is getting upsetting I wait the whole week I want this sh next week got the 6 minutes next week 10 minutes still never stay to an hour hour and a half sh can't survive sometimes somebody can't survive they fall asleep sometimes they can't sit they have to go somewhere they have to smoke a cigarette they have to go call their friends they have to do something they can't listen to Torah why because the shell the kipa is so thick that when the pure is trying to go through you're spending all of the energy you have left just to get it in by the time it finally a little bit got in you're completely tired you fall asleep but with enough training with enough effort you start peeling off the kipa start peeling off the shell eventually becomes 15 minutes half hour an hour eventually one day you could speak for 5 hours about it takes time takes effort you can't give up this is one of the main things that people need to understand is that there's always chuva as long as you're alive there's chuva as long as the light still works there's Chua even in the um Mish a that says that the one that causes other people to sin has a much bigger difficulty doing chuva even his gate even his ability to do cha is still possible just doesn't have as much doesn't have as much help from sh normal person does Chua in his 20s could have 90% help from hasem 90% someone that's in the same age but has a whole website against rabbis he wants to do chuva you may have 10% same age same situation same school same look same everything else went against rabis went against the T was a heretic publicly could have less but he could still do you have a question could always do CH as long as you're alive and the source is man man was a rash that even killed his own grandfather Isaiah the prophet he cut him into pieces chopped them up chopped up his own grandfather the prophet kados not only that there wasn't enough he erased the name of Hashem everywhere he can find anywhere he saw hashem's name he erases it wasn't enough put Ida worship everywhere not enough raped his own sister incest when he was ready to do CH accepted him this we find out from 107b so now you know that Chua is available but as we started this Shure although some of the things you may have heard were scary it's not scary enough when Hashem created men we started s sinning pretty quickly eventually he fast forward to the generation of Noah and the average person was rash kazal says that the major sin even though the last straw was stealing the major sin of the generation was wasting seed which is the reason that after the Maul After the flood Hashem gave Noah seven laws first six he gave to he added one to Noah which is the reason why it's called because he was the last one to get it so it's named after him one of these laws is do not spill blood most of us understand it is do not murder that's theat wasting seed is also murder according to scientist each and every single seed each one has all all of the things you need to make a human being obviously when they connect with an egg the woman's egg not a egg and chicken egg I have to drink your life a little bit to get you out don't want you get too depressed I hear this stuff I almost want to cry because I know so many people are in this Ze in this garbage they have no idea that they're in garbage you know a rat doesn't know that he's eating garbage he thinks it's G he thinks it's a a hotel festar hotel why cuz he's part of the garbage when you're part of the garbage you don't know that it's garbage only when you leave the garbage for a little while you're what's going on it's garbage so many people are in this garbage I was too wasn't different now most of us understand do not spill blood as do not murder but scientists is telling us that each and every seed is technically has all the things that we need to make a human being each and every single one of them is a potential Soul that's supposed to come to the world if this seed has a problem with it it may either not become a soul or it can become a problematic person someone that's born with diseases Shalom there's not there more than enough diseases in the world that we know a disease exist the word m which is disease has the numerical value of 83 that's in the I think what's the significance of 83 says there 83 different types of diseases that he brought on MIT but kazal is also telling us something else not only is each seed potential soul but eventually you're going to learn that you're going to see that how much of murder it really is to waste one seed you fast forward to recent generation and scientists said that each time seed comes out of the human body it's approximately 300 million seeds which means that each time you waste seed you're murdering approximately 300 million people you're murdering America each time you're destroying a country each time murdering murdering one person ah it's no big deal it's just one guy still 299,999 900 it's not a big deal you murder the whole 300 starts becoming a big deal you do it three times a day you murdered India you do it five you got to China by the end of the week you murdered the entire world show up to Allah like that show up to the bed of sham each week I murdered the world good luck oh Shabbat good for you we'll turn off the fire and gain on on Shabbat for you that's what happens Shabbat good for you we'll turn off the fire on Shabbat heard one time that there's a there's a decree from sh that is the cree from sh on so he went into the galut he went into Exile place that even though he was no one knew him he arrives at this place where the r over there is a holy r a holy Rabbi that get secrets from sham every so often get secrets from from sh so now everyone sees or regular guy maybe even less they don't know he's do do Thursday night the r says to the I had a dream and in my dream they told me on this the first verse I got 14 translations of the first verse that were translated by all these different types of embellishments and compliments that he's giving all everyone's excited yeah wow know back then they respected RAB see Satan already started I hope this thing wasn't off for that long see you see you see it live see it live the Satan hates my lectures so he kills the uh batteries very quickly supposed to last two hours sometimes the last five minutes it's good it's good news if the if the Satan is spending his time on us that means we're learning something useful so now everyone's excited about oh and then this old man says no he's not a sadik he's not a kados what do you uh I know him it's not really a big deal oh how dare you go against the RAV the rabbi of the quiets everyone down he says okay okay okay let me give you the P ignore this guy Friday Night comes after the r says I had another dream they gave me 14 more translations of the same verse and now we have 28 the same verse of this that and all these compliments that he's giving them everybody's excited yeah more wow this is 300 years ago so they were excited about and then this guy in the back again he goes ah stop it with the tadik and the kados he's just he's just a everybody gets angry they want to beat him up hey you're going against the robs you're embarrassing the robs get out of here already the of the says Cal down Cal down let me give you the Saturday afternoon after the says I have a I got in sh again 14 more translations of this that were given to me from the from sh that translated by and all these compliments and everyone's excited again and again this guy says stop it with this how many times I have to tell you he's not a kados he's barely even a talid this time even the r couldn't take it he said throw him in the cell you know in those days they had a cell a jail cell right in the entrance of the besset for anyone that was went against the rabbis would be put into the cell right next to the entrance so everyone can spit on them on the way in and on the way out for going against the r it's not like today that it's a popular to go against the r back then they respected the rabbis rabbis were holy someone goes against the rabbi not if it's a rash a real Rabbi we have many in today's world few wear costumes that are not but point is this there many good ones back then they they got the the respect they deserve today not so much today there's fist fights with rabbis sometimes so anyway they throw him into the cell door is in a Cell all of Shabbat right before abdalah comes up they want to do abdalah all of a sudden the whole world starts shaking there's Thunder there's lightning kazal says that the only reason why Hashem created Thunder is to scare us only reason there's no other purpose for it to scare us why because when you're scared of a thunder you're like if that's just one of your small things you have to have a little bit of wakes us up whole world start shaking the ground starts shaking the lights go in go out scary stuff all of a sudden there's a on the door everyone's very scared they have no idea what's Happening Here D says okay I'll go open the door he opens the door and he sees a giant demon black angel full of fire and all the scary things you can imagine times a thousand says what are you doing here says you should be ashamed of yourself you know who I am no I'm the Angel that's in charge of turning back the fire on at Gom after Shabbat because AEM turns it off on Shabbat and G for anyone that kept Shabbat anyone that didn't keep keep Shabbat doesn't go off so the part that goes off I'm the one that turns it back on after Shabbat okay so what do you want for us so they told me in sh that I'm not allowed to turn it on until does of and you have him in jail you should be ashamed of yourself the rav immediately collapses runs to begs for forgiveness crying hysterical I didn't know because I know I know you didn't know that was the point he didn't know that Hashem is going to send an angel but that's all you should listen to him they didn't send angels for me so says in regards to Exodus chapter 3 verse 8 summarize this whole thing he says at the end of times we're going to be different than the generation of MIT MIT we know that the best of us the best of us the small amount of us that actually survived MIT because as we know at least 80% of is were killed in MIT in the Mak the darkness plague why they didn't want to do they didn't want the Tor they want to stay inm killed them a mid that says it was much higher than 80% instead of one out of five it was really one out of 500,000 that survived I go into that a little bit more in a different Shure but to save time says that the ones that actually survived were in the 49th level of tum the 49th level of impurity if they would have reached level 50 Hashem would have destroyed the world one more sin that's it but says the generation before the mhia will reach the level 50 and the only way that could save him is so I was thinking to myself how much worse can we be from Idol worshippers I mean that's what they did they were Idol worshippers that's why when they got to yam hasm didn't want to split the ocean the Mal of MIT which his name is MIT came to Hashem and says what why are you going to split the ocean for these Israelites and kill my my nation the MIT the Egyptians I know the Egyptians my nation is worshiping Idols they idol worship and they idol worship so why would you kill one over the other so I'm thinking to myself why would hasem save us even if we get to level 50 is one question but I guess that's his promised toah and yob so that's good it's good news but the bigger question is how can we get worse than idol worship most Jews don't idol worship maybe money but it's a form of idol worship but it's not like a uh I don't know maybe but there's one reason I had this while I was in Jerusalem about a month ago Torah in Jerusalem is different Torah those three things that is kept they kept their language they kept their names and they kept their clothing they looked like Israelites they still spoke Hebrew they still kept their names of yob and Abraham and and M you still knew it's a Israelite and not an Arab and they looked like Jews they looked like Israelites they looked there had certain clothing that was different from the Egyptians so you could notice this is an Israelite this is a Egyptian Idol worshippers yes but they kept three things according to kazal that's one of the main reasons of whym saved them so how will we worse think about it yov it's not Yakov anymore most of the time it's usually Jackie or Steve or Matthew all types of American goyish names it's a reality we live in America we all have different names before going back to my original name your own in a business world for 16 years I was known as Ron I took the first two letters out why cuz Americans don't know how to say your own they'd make up every other name in the world world at one point he even said urine yeah this is the bees own I had to go through in college in high school what can you do not but most Jews don't have Jewish names a lot you know it's especially if they're not religious so our generation now is not really keeping the name okay fine we don't keep the name language the fact that I'm giving you a lecture for the last however long it's been in English already answers that most Jews in the world do not speak Hebrew it's just a reality especially KES the holy language the one they speak in Israel between one and another is not exactly the holiest language they took they created new words some words they actually created daa the opposite of the Holy language that's how much the zionists like religion what about clothing I know they didn't have black and white back then you're not obligated to be black and white you could just look like a normal human being it's fine what we're not allowed to do is look like go meaning there's certain type of clothing that's just not allowed for Jews both for men and for women one of the main reasons of why Hashem saved us is not because of the men we were terrible it's the women the women with sadot they kept their modesty so now when you see unfortunately most women Jews and non-jews walk around half naked in the world they think that the less clothes they have the more attractive it is this has already been a problem for a while it just got much worse if you just look one generation back we didn't have as much of a problem two generations ago the problem didn't exist I went to a government building to get my daughter a passport few months ago in Florida that old picture is of Florida but maybe like the 1930s of people on a beach go not Jews I don't think anyone was Jewish bunch of pictures regular people hair covered skirts the neckline goes up to here covered up to here they're more modest than the biggest raban in the world I think this was average for go not just Jews today women it's too hot it's too hot that's the answer so what they survived at five 5,700 years and now it just became too hot it wasn't hot in MIT it wasn't hot in Egypt in a desert so women we already know we have an we have a problem where's the problem with men this is one of the things that I actually had a k also in Israel I personally have always hated skinny pants on guys I think it's an awful look it's not modest which by the way a man is always obligated to be modest himself but that was as much as I had I mention it here and there especially when you see old Israeli guys that are in their 40s and 50s that are fat and you know wearing skinny pants it just drives me crazy how anyone rationalized this is most men in general in today's age are overweight we're not exactly all Brad Pit I mean we're people overweight I'm not skinny far from it would be kind of odd if you listen to me to a lecture if I was wearing skinny pants I think you'd focus more on a skinny pants than me but that was as much as I had but then in Israel gave me young guy was bothering me for a few days cuz I started seeing Yeshiva kids Yeshiva kids wearing it okay the the one that's secular not keeping anything wearing skinny pants what does he know he's lucky even has clothes on his girl covered her her finger so yeah skinny pants is already a m but the religious guy wearing skinny pants it's a problem it bothered me bothered me and then one day I see this young kid probably no long no older than 20 years old running in front of me you know passes me and he has swinging and he's got skinny pants on sweatpants skinny pant thingy and then I got it and I made a picture you can pass it around whoever wants to pick it up but someone else wore skinny pants before and it wasn't our friends Nazi Germany that's who were skinny pant exactly skinny pant wide on top very fitted and skinny and gross on the bottom so I had a Shure a lecture in NATA the last one I did and I that's when I had this k that day and it was actually your you know the day of independence oh no y had to you know mourn The Six Million of us that they killed rash that they were the uh Nazis killed six million of our brothers and sisters and everyone says oh I feel bad they killed my great-grandfather my grandfather my sister my brother and I look at the current generation I said you feel bad yeah of course we feel bad I know this one that had his father died and his grandfather died yeah yeah so how come you look just like them why do you look just like them don't tell me you feel bad and you look just like them so that's when officially skinny pants in my mind and I think it already well before it was in my mind and any person that knows any an ounce of Torah is officially it's officially not allowed not because I did but just because if you ask any Rabbi with a spine they'll tell you it's not allowed so it's not only not modest our enemy of just the previous generation wore it you want to keep wearing it be my guest it's your life I just think it's wrong in many ways but is more of a gay thing not every guy that wears skinny pants is gay although it does hurt your uh your um your private area and it makes it very difficult for men to actually have children later on it also creates problems for kids I actually heard robbi wallerstein says this uh that it creates problems for children in uh you know Middle School uh because their parents their genius parents are giving you know s 8-year-old kids skinny pants because they want them to look hip and the kid ends up peeing in his pants every day because he said so the teacher asked him what you should raise your hand well before you have to go to the bathroom says no no I go well before I I need to go he goes okay so what's the problem why do you keep every day something says no it's uh I can't get the pants off it's not the kid's fault it's the [ __ ] that he has as parents they want him to look hip destroying the kid from inside his house because we want to look like but that was the third part that completed the puzzle how do we get to how do we get to the third gate we don't keep our language we don't keep our names and now we're not keeping our clothing cuz when our Yeshiva Boys want to look like go we have a was a problem mashia is around the corner so now you have many people complaining about their life but if they just look at no they'll understand a few things when Hashem says you're not allowed to spill blood he wasn't just referring to murder After the flood and hasem destroyed the world gave the no in chapter 9 verse 6 it says translation whever sheds the blood of a man Dam within a man his blood will be SPL spilled because in the image of God he made man D so blood of a man we understand it's blood but what's the blood of a man within the man if it was just blood of a man he would just say blood of a man blood of a man within the man we know it's the T it's the syrup seed when he spills blood his blood will be spilled this goes all the way back to Noah proof fast forward Genesis chapter 38 the story was the first story I heard about t when I started doing CH from the story of Jud and Tamar one of the areas that we learn about mssiah by the way but originally Judah and Tamar were not together originally Tamar was married one of judah's sons ill was his first born but air judah's first son was evil in the eye of Hashem and Hashem caused him to die next verse then Judah said to Onan consort with your brother's wife you know give Onan was his second son marry your brother's wife because there was no kids it's actually a uh Mitzvah and enter into a leverate marriage with her and establish Offspring for your brother but Onan knew that the seed would not be his meaning that the son would not be his he considered his brothers so whatever so whenever he would consort with his brother's wife he would let it go to waste on the ground AKA bathroom so as not to provide Offspring for his brother what he did was evil in the eyes of Hashem and he caused him to die also kazal says that wanted saw appreciated the beauty of Tamar so much that he didn't want to ruin her beauty by having to get pregnant says no so for you I'm just going to keep you pretty but I'm just going to be with you so you waste seed outside of her body I don't want to have kids like today's generation no no I only have one kid already it's enough we can't afford a second kid Hashem ran out of money no we have two kids and we got a dog we can't maybe we're going think we're considering a cat also kid no we can't afford kid with Thea prices today huh nuclear family so air wasted seed as AEM told Noah not allowed to waste seed in that generation it wasn't too difficult to know that Hashem existed Hashem killed him on didn't want to have kids with Tamar because it wouldn't be considered his kid says what do I do it for I want to keep her pretty also she's a very beautiful woman I don't want to ruin her body I want it to look like she's 20 forever okay enjoy hasem killed him also this is also a source of why go also not allowed to waste seed because at this point we don't have Judaism Noah 12 tribes they're not considered Jewish they been Noah Judaism was born in Mount saai so here we have ourselves some Torah sources of why wasting seed is a problem what else does I'll say as we mentioned before each time someone makes a sin they create a demon kazal says you fluid especially provide substance for demonic forces it is for this reason that many s Satanic rituals require semen or blood most people that are crazy enough to worship the Satan usually they have to spill blood or semen for it why because those thing this spill spilling seed creates them now you also tend to see that people that waste seed have a tough time learning here's a source part of the seminal fluid comes from the brain this is sent down the spine when a person spills seed he is wasting away part of his brain this low is the function of the brain especially memory you could learn the gar 8,000 times you're still not going to remember it just like ra Stan said The more seed you use the softer your body becomes and some of his patients the Z the disgusting nature that they got to after wasting seed and some cases for only 6 months doing it four or five times a day for 6 months literally made them yeah I know it's crazy but to a teenager it doesn't seem like a crazy thing doing it a few times a day for six months doesn't seem like a wrong long time the person completely became crippled eventually being found on the floor with blood coming out of every hole of his body in another case a person that was wasting seed for about two years only about twice a day only twice a day for about 2 years according to a different doctor this is not even do Starin it's just in that book Dr simmerman said that he came to him completely in pain suffering unknown pain the doctor understood that this is from wasting seed he forced him to stop and he watched him over he overseed him he healed after several months got strong again young 18yearold boy went back to it 6 months later he was dead his brain dried up the cases get worse and worse in many cases the people M crippled and had different types of disgusting fluids coming out of their body in some cases even lost control of their own Seed where even if they wanted to stop they couldn't it just comes out this is scientific not religious yet a person's emotions are thrown totally out of balance people who are pit often have a hard time controlling their temper they're also subject of sadness and depression and lose their self-confidence anyone that wasted seed this is like looking in the mirror people are P are also always tired and need more sleep more often than not they have bad body odor and breath they also according to the rambam they bald prematurely their hair growth starts in strange places and their body becomes very weak where when you were 18 years old strong you're supposed to be able to lift a building the guy can barely make it to the store loses almost all of his abil ability to perceive Kusa one also loses his desire to study and do if you still have a desire to do means it's Hashem has a lot of mercy on you but you have to stop immediately the souls brought down through the person's sins are also considered his kids after a person dies these Souls come to take revenge against their father causing him many problems in addition they also come after his physical children to try to harm them this is the reason why when someone dies they're not allowed the children are not allowed in Jerusalem they're not allowed to go to the funeral because if he a wasted seed those demons that he created will could actually kill his children on the spot there's actually an Al against it t 23 one who has rectified his breed it is impossible for him to fall into the desire of money if you do chva for AIT you have a promise from sh you won't fall for money meaning that you'll be able even if you have a lot of money you'll be able to control yourself it's a very big upside because money and I can tell you from my own personal story very big test it's a very very big test 29 it is almost impossible for a person to rectify his sins and all their aspects for they are many for there are many details and various aspects for every sin however when one rectifies his Brit one does CH which is the combining element of all channels he automatically repairs the damage from all of his sins another big upside for doing chuva having Protection 1 to 31 having protection during travel depends on someone wants to be okay during a long trip short trip driving to from New York to Florida driving from New York to New Jersey all depends on breit someone who is p cannot pray with full concentration it's impossible for them why because all the things that lead them to lose to to waste seed are things they think about when has the Satan come to you in your mind when's the perfect time two places two times exactly when you are in Kusa which is prayer or studying one's the second time the wives are going to love this one when he's supposed to be intimate with his wife he's intimate with his wife that's when the Satan comes into your mind and reminds you of what you saw today so in essence instead of being with your wife you're thinking you're with someone else if your wife actually knew she'd probably divorce you on the spot and there's actually kazal that says there's even a SE on the child that comes from that if it's a Mel someone who's a p b should be very careful to protect himself from dogs and anything dangerous from weapons because he already has a category created himself so many demons that are going upstairs to Hashem telling them look at this sinner this rash that's killing your nation every day he's killing 300 million of them every day when someone puts themselves in danger that's usually when they go to AEM and that's why in Shabbat the uh kabat Shabbat prayer it says there's a uh three reasons of why a woman dies during her pregnancy it's three things why pregnancy why not just a uh regular day or Tuesday pregnancy is a dangerous time put yourself you're in a a dangerous time that's when the catore is going upstairs you want to protect your wife protect your breit when a person heaven forbid experiences no Mission meaning it went out without necessarily him doing it it stems from KLA of Lis should her name be her name should be erased I told you who that is already each one of these is about 30 of them I'm just giving you the top picks there's 80 Pages we'll keep this one for later nightmares anyone ever have nightmares now you know the source nightmares usually controlled by demons demons are created by that by many of them many many of them they quate two Torah five for all you single guys looking for Z sometimes because of the sin of a person can actually lose his destined wife his Z when he was brought to this world right before his n went into the little babym already decided who his Z is going to be you waste enough seed you lower yourself you lower your spiritual standings enough your Z is going to go to an appropriate person which is not you is always open you bring yourself back up that's the point of doing this you Hashem knows don't worry he created the Heaven and the Earth he'll take care of that too by fixing this sin a person will find his destined wife and on top of that she will not be rebellious against him 2 Torah 87 why she why is he mentioning she would not be rebellious against him because like I told you sometimes a person wakes up and his wife is mad at him and he hasn't done anything yet he just woke up why she mad at him cuz our knows that he wasted seed she can't see but a knows says wasting seed causes havoc in the spiritual worlds what does that mean imagine a person is hired not exactly a genius to work at a nuclear plant they don't need a genius they just need somebody with a gun to make sure no one presses the red button that's it he doesn't know what the red button does tell him each shift is six months you can't leave this building for six months fine he gets the job he sits there with his gun talking to himself all day eventually sees the cleaning guy hey how you doing how you doing they grab a drink which by the way kazal said says one of the major reasons why you're not allowed to drink on a regular basis get drunk is because it leads to wasting seed this is seph to they hang out have a few drinks one day cleaning gu like so what do you do H just look at this button all day what's the button do said I don't know they just say it's a big deal you want to press it yeah why not let's see I think they're lying to me I think they just want to waste my time and torture me in the cell for six months so go let's press it so he starts pressing it Goron starts pressing it he doesn't realize that each time he presses it he launches a missile a few hours later a bunch of army men come inside with guns who's pressing the button who's destroying the world both of these drunk guys are on the floor laughing and now they got the shock of their life like what what are you talking about destroying the world we were just pressing the button like yes you fool each time you lost a missile you launched a missile and killed 150 million people that's wasting seed that's Shabbat you don't see the damage here right away but in the spiritual world you're destroying civilizations when you arrive without chuva you'll see and a person that did it without doing chuva would know that the place he arrived to is the gome that he created for himself it's no surprise spoke up and said all those who waste seed are punishable by death it's raami said it is as if he sheds blood it's murder aashi says as if he worships strange Dees says whoever weighs seeds equates himself to an animal just like an animal does not care what it does so to this person randomly commits the sin just like an animal is set aside to be slaughtered and does not receive life in the future world so to this person stands to die and does not live in the future world m shabat page 41 major flaw of the generation of the flood as we said they wasted seed rambam was a doctor aside from being a major Sage a major we have all of from you know what he was doing one that weigh seed is old age jumps on them meaning that they age much faster at 18 years old we look the same at 25 he looks like he's 35 at 30 looks like he's 49 at 40 looks like he's 60 if he's survives to 60 would be a miracle his strength lead him and his eyes go weak you start losing your vision at a very young age B bad breath pours out of his mouth regardless of how many times he brushes his teeth he always has bad breath this is very common in today's world his hair and eyebrows fall out and hair of his legs and armpits become thick and his teeth fall out or become weak lot of cavities all of a sudden when you were 18 you were a bull by the time you 25 you have worse teeth than your grandfather what happened you just took a shower went outside for a half hour because of a little sweat you sweat like you know you smell like you've worked a full day in a uh in a toxic plant many additional health problems occur 240 R de I mentioned the sources so you guys don't think I made this up just for the fun of scaring you this will be a good one for the mothers to know one that weighs seed heaven forbid his children will die young or end up as evil people it also causes poverty 151 if a wife hears this and finds out that her husband wasted seed for a second she'd probably torture him to death touch a wife's touch a mother's children you're playing with fire that's why when his students came to him and his Deathbed he said rabi give us something give us some insight that we could take with us forever he said may you be scared of man may you be scared of hem as much as you're scared of man what no it's supposed to be opposite no unfortunately most of us don't have really we're scared of men scared of the cops 3:00 in the morning that are pulling us over more than we're scared of Hashem that's watching every single thing that we do that's what was teaching us as we all know someone reaches adulthood to a certain extent for a girl it's 12 and for a boy it's 13 Bar Mitzvah until that time any sin they make is their parents which is the reason why one of the the father says that the boy's B Mitzvah is that he gets rid you know that I get rid of myself of this responsibility meaning that if the 8-year-old played with a video game on Shabbat the sin goes to the father if the 11 yearold girl ate on P it goes to the parents there's only one sin the goes to their account to the child's account to the boy's account under the age at any age whether he's 2 years old if it's possible or he's 11 or he's 12 or he's nine wasting seed wasting seed stays on his account doesn't go to his parents person under the age of is not held accountable for his sins except this one for were under the age and got punished you remember the punishment they got a moment ago that I read as we know each of the limbs each of the mitv we have 63 mitas for each part of our each one of our body parts wasting seed defiles all of them each sin affects one body part which is the reason why certain people that know cabala if you tell them something if someone has a medical problem you tell them what hurts they'll tell you exactly what sin you need to rectify what sin you need to do Chua for in order for it to stop they know the body they know the sins they they understand things that are not known in the medical world but we're wasting seed someone waste seed it's all of them all 613 MIT all 613 parts if someone is praying a lot he wants yesu from wants salvation I need a job I need I need a wife I need something I need to stay alive his prayers are not accepted waste seed prayer is gone to death fears you can pray until from here to tomorrow won't make a difference so so is there a point to pray of course there's a point to pray you can't make it worse accept me every it's notom no he say that your prayer is not answered meaning you can pray you're doing the mitvah of praying but as far as getting what you want why you getting what why you going to get what you want if every day you killing 300 million of his children so the prayers are not answered for each time a person does this sin he causes the creation of a numberless amount of kipot to take the image of pigs and dogs so the demons the person creates apparently look like pigs and dogs someone that dies without doing CH just so they know they get to the uh gome that's a waste a boiling waste we'll leave the Gom part of that I think you're scared enough hopefully looking for something specific a moment maybe here each time someone has something bad happened to him they always blame God D wanted to remind us of that each day in our of M read it after at one point it says is crying to Hashem see my affliction and how much I struggle for what sins what sins that I make look at my enemies and how great they've become and how much violent hatred they have against against me this is the same thing as us we lose a little bit of money girlfriend leaves us job's not good this is not good complain to hem what's the difference actually didn't make a sin so he's actually asking hasem what did I do that I have these enemies if you're crying to hem about all the things that are happening you better be ready you better have a really good reason cuz all you're doing when somebody is making the sin like this making the worst sin such as this and telling what sin did I make that you're punishing me like this you get even more punishment for the why am I punishing you you just killed 300 of my uh boys this morning another 300 million of them this afternoon and you're planning to kill another 300 million later tonight and you're asking me why you don't have any money money's coming out of you every day as we all know parasa comes from the children people that are worried about having enough money to have kids it's the full it's the biggest thing that's people have no idea each child comes with a parasa so that means if someone has four kids and they say listen I don't know I don't know if we could afford a fifth kid maybe we should go to the rabbi maybe he could uh give us the uh permission not to have any more kids even though it's all four boys and supposed to do po Boo supposed to be at least one boy one girl but maybe we can get a uh a discount or something from the RAV you could just say four boys is like one boy one girl you know make a new for us special we don't have money we don't have money little do they know that the fifth kid that's waiting that the N that's waiting in the chamber upstairs comes with a million and a half dollars they don't know why because it's they think everything is in their hands the p is in their hands every time someone Wast seed they're also wasting that million and a half dollars they're also wasting the billion dollars they're also wasting the this world not just talking about the next World next world they're literally creating themselves the worst type of gome there is one of these types of Gomes it doesn't end ever people don't believe in Eternal punishment they think nah too much what does it say in the Torah is eternal punishment where does it say it as we all know we got oral Tora and written Tor you go to I couldn't bring all of my books I have to put some on my phone you go to page a wrongdoers of Israel who sin with their body sounds familiar right and wrongdoers of the Gentiles who sin with their body also sounds familiar go down to G and are punished there for 12 months this is if someone the reason why I even read this initially is because someone told me no look see first verse over here means that they just get punished for 12 months if he would have read the rest of thear he would have a different understanding this first 12 months is the trial after 12 months their body is consumed and their soul is burned and the wind scatters them under the souls of the feet of the righteous as it says and you shall tread down the wicked and they shall be as ashes Under The Souls of the righteous of your feet but as for the minim minim like worshippers and for the informers and for the scuffers who rejected the Torah and denied the resurrection of the dead and those who abandon the ways of the community and those who spread their Terror in the land of the living and who sinned and made the masses sin like yov the son of navat and his fellows these will go down to Gom and be punished there for all generations as it says and they shall go forth and look upon the carcasses of the men that have rebelled against me meaning Gom will be consumed by they will not be consumed meaning Gom eventually will be end will end when the mashia comes eventually there's no more Gom except their part of the gome that continues forever why all this like why such a dear punishment because they laid their hands on a temple as it says I have surely built there a house of habitation as you can see the wasting seeds fits several of the descriptions so it's not just a p like some people think almost done page 13B they talk about this issue and whether a man is allowed to even touch that area of his body they say no not allowed rud was also known as rebi rados asks why is he called R A kadosh why isn't everyone else knows as a kadosh cuz he never even looked at that area of his body even with his eyes he didn't look of course he didn't touch so kazal says yeah but what if how's the person going to go to the bathroom you have to wear special pants okay what about if you have a Spike spike hurts get stuck in that area of the body painful page 13B says it's better off that his stomach will blow up and he die rather than him remove the spike from that area that's hurting him that's how careful they were to even touch the area and same page 13A says it's better that one would tell everyone that all of his kids are and get a lifetime worth of Shame then touches private part and waste seed it's better that he gets sh everyone calls him he look your wife was with another guy look all your kids are M and he could prove no they're not M they're not so it's better that he gets that shame his whole life than waste seed one time shame is a big deal in Judaism someone who shames his friends in public and someone who makes fun of somebody in public has no share of the world to come we learned this from David So to accept upon yourself the worst possible shame that all your kids from another guy your wife is a harlot say accept it just don't waste seed why was yadik called Y sadik and no one else of the 12 tribes we learn this from he call it sadik because he didn't waste seed it's so much so that when Po's wife the gar says Po's wife came onto him and Joseph almost sinned he almost sinned but then he saw the image of his father reminding him that if you make this sin one day when they have theen for the they're going to have to engrave the names of the 12 tribes your name will not be engraved reminded he gave gave yadik some reminded him of what the sin is the gar says he took his hands and he buried him into the ground like forcefully breaking his hands all the way to the point that miraculously the seed that was supposed to come out of that organ came out of his fingernails just don't waste seed he's called a sadik because he did not weigh seed he protected his breit the other 11 tribes did not protect the breed apparently at sadik we learn from seph I think it's chapter 19 maybe ah Jeremiah 15 vers verse 19 this is a verse I mentioned last night about kiru which we'll embellish La a little bit later but from here it says if you bring forth an honorable person from a glutton so we learned that an honorable person is a tadik someone did chuva someone did chuva is considered yakar honorable precious the opposite of yakar is something that's as far as is obviously cheap but here we're not talk about price the opposite of a sadik is someone that's so if you take the word Yak which isud he change the order of letters you spell the word ker which is what we talked about which is wasting seed the yakar the numerical value of yakar is 310 what's 310 is the amount of words that amount of Worlds that a sadik gets Ina gets 310 worlds that's what your car gets you can figure out what the carry gets [Applause] die wants to scare us a little bit more it says that each time a drop of seed is wasted is a bad angel that takes the one drop not the whole thing just one of the drops and uses as a hostage to give the Tuma more power against you so looking bad smelling bad aging fast growing ha in strange places losing years out of your life losinga eternal punishment demons nightmare in so many words time to stop how do we stop Why Stop aside from being scared to death how do you do chuva for something like this so a few things first and foremost chuva is you have to stop immediately you cannot continue the sin one more time someone starts they don't do it for a week two weeks three weeks four weeks they fail the is to make sure that you have to protect your eyes because if you don't protect your eyes if you don't want if you keep watching movies you keep looking at these magazines keep watching stupid videos on the internet you do all of that stuff you're bringing Gom into your life there's no way to avoid it there's no way to avoid it you watch you know how they call the Israelis call it you wash your eyes with looking at other women you're bringing gome to your life even if you want to stop doing it yourself it's going to happen to you at night what you have to do is you have to start looking at the floor you can't walk around looking at every like uh you know one of these uh puppets that you know shakes their head you buy it to baseball games you have to start watching your eyes yeah it died again it's Okay the phone's recording let's see how long that lasts Satan doesn't want to you online this doing CH for something like this the this is something that could save a lot of people doing chv you have to first start with watching your eyes second of all you have you have to start practicing not touching at all limit it as much as you can I know normally it's tough for a guy and so on you have to do whatever you can whatever you can especially if you're single if you're married you have your wife if you're single if I if if there was a way to not go to the bathroom I tell you don't go to the bathroom because when you're single it's almost impossible third thing is if you're single you have to find yourself a wife stop being one of these losers that's uh 40 years old still looking for the perfect woman find the wife be a normal person don't worry about it you'll be uh you know you you'll you'll develop love over time I'm serious there's a bunch of guys that I went to school with they're in their 40s and 45 they're still looking for the perfect one where they're looking for in clubs no I couldn't find the perfect one I thought I had it when 20 years ago okay what about now you're 45 years old what are you waiting for find a woman settle down get a wife that's it she doesn't have to be uh you know the number one person on Earth just find somebody settle down you'll develop love over time if you guys have something in common if you could tolerate each other if you could have connection you have chemistry that's it doesn't have to be a uh Marilyn Monroe and uh you know and one of these other I don't know Brad Pit or something this just normal people build a family build a future just have something in common that's it it doesn't require this this shid crisis that we have today is all because we can't watch our eyes the men can't stop looking at non immodest women so they think that the sadik that just came from B Yakov is supposed to look like a The Prostitute he saw in the mall and the woman unfortunately she you know some women are very materialistic why because they watch TV they look at these magazines they see that all these celebrities have this and that so the guy's chasing money so he can keep up with the girl's expect expectations and they both Drive each other crazy crazy there shouldn't be a crisis there's plenty of men there's plenty of women I have every single day someone asking me if I have a shid for them how could it be there's guys that want shid there's girls that want shid why you can't meet each other what's the problem find yourself a wife if it's not because of anything else it's to stop this sin stop this sin I'm telling you it's it's such a horrendous sin I had a lot of health problems anyone that wants to know my personal story you can watch last night's you it's online will be online tonight I know suffering one thing I understand is suffering had many many years of suffering pain and screaming and surgeries and pills all types of wonderful suffering I know what suffering is I'm an expert in suffering you want to know what Gom looks like I could tell you in this world not the other one I know what it looks like I know what suffering is you don't want it you don't want suffering it's it's a nightmare you got to get yourself a wife it's number two if you don't have a wife get yourself a wife work on it work on it has to become aside from learning T has to become number one number three just as the rambam says only type of people that waste seed spend their time on this stuff a people that are empty-minded they have no they have nothing in their head so they're bored to death and boredom leads to sin like told us can't be bored can't find yourself bored what do you got to do you got to go learn toah stop stop being a batlan doing nothing with your life watching sports is boredom watching television is boredom you can watch TV for nine hours and not even realize nine hours passed because your went to sleep your body is just dead nothing happens the shell whether the guy died or he lived whether the team won or not it doesn't affect your life you're just wasting your life you got to spend time developing your n developing your brain here says you want to rectify all the seed that you wasted you have to sweat for mitv because each drop of sweat that comes out of your body from a due to a fixing one drop of seed that came out of your body so in in uh in you should be the guy that runs around and sweats his eyes out with the Tora celebrating for the Mitzvah you're supposed to be happy run around have a good time if it's hard in the you should study even extra hot in Yesa study extra sweat doing a mitzvah literally sweat because each one of them is M helping you out most important thing is you have to learn difficult Tor learning nice listening to a nice story yeah it's fine it's good it's not bad but for this sin you have to you have to choose your suffering there's two types of suffering as far as just Chua it's either suffering by your choice a suffering that's not your choice so it's either you force yourself to learn difficult and pretty much to the point of ripping your hair out of your head and struggling at 1:30 in the morning instead of going and get eight hours of sleep you only got five because you struggle to learn some Tor orm's going to give you different suffering you don't want that suffering you have to struggle that's what is one of his 42 says means means difficult T learn T that's difficult it's not easy it's nice is nice little tape here a little CD there it's all nice but if it's easy for you it's not going to fix the sin it's good for toah but not enough enough if you have the sin like every pretty much every single person that's alive today few things and I'll finish this is really more for the women than anything else every time the men look at women they're not really doing our anything favors a woman walks around like a prostitute and doesn't want to wear any clothes or the clothes she does wear is like becoming like a second skin it's so tight that you can pretty much tell exactly what she looks like she has to understand that each time she walks around like this the demons are following her why because she falls into this description says says whoever influences the masses to become meritorious meaning to do chuva shall not be the cause of sin someone is doing organizing lectures giving lectures giving CDs out publicizing Torah trying to get people to do chuva hasem is going to give them special protection hasem is going to help them in a big way if they're not making this major sin making this major sin you're cutting your connection with hem but one who influences the public influences the masses to sin will not be given the means to repent a woman that walks around a modest woman walks around she doesn't realize that every single time she walks around it's not really the problem that she walks around that way God doesn't actually care whether you wear a tank top or you wear a tube top or you wear nothing or you wear mice clothes not that God knows exactly what you look like he created you is that every single step that you take is another guy looking at you in every single second that he looks at you as a sin every time he sins you and him create a demon and neither one of them ever leave so a woman that goes from Avenue 15 to Avenue 20 thinks oh she looks cute with her new mini skirt doesn't realize just from Avenue 15 to Avenue 20 a thousand men looked at her she just created a few thousand demons for herself and for them who wants that problem we all have enough problems in our life what do we need this for she becomes a she becomes one that makes the public the mass is sin people don't understand it's not about Hashem caring what your cloth what your clothing style is or not he cares about his children and he cares about what his children look like like and how they behave this is why even go must be modest because if a Goya walks around IM modest and she makes a Jew sin it's it's a major problem she has a major major problem with hasem exactly but it's even bigger when she's making one of his sons sin so for example in the T mentions that anyone that makes a sin with an animal does bestiality which in hashem's Eyes by the way is the same exact thing as homosexuality that's why they're always together they're always next to each other in a Tora homosexuality and bestiality even though in this generation it seems like it's almost both of them normal but at least being a homosexual is accepted you they even have parades for them uh but in reality in hashem's eyes it's not accepted and he sees it as the same thing as being a man being with an animal a woman being with an animal and he says if a man makes a sin with an animal or a woman makes a sin with a animal you kill both of them now okay fine you kill the guy I understand he's crazy he doesn't deserve to live what are you killing the animal for what the cow winked at him why is he K why are you killing the animal for what she do kazal says because hem doesn't want to look at her and be reminded that for her he had to kill one of his sons understand so the woman that walks around IM and Hashem knows that because of her he has to send a bunch of his sons to concentration camps this so people don't understand how modesty is so important we made a lot of sins throughout our Generations hasem had mercy on us in every single generation he had mercy on us he almost destroyed us several time but he had mercy on us he loves us we sinned with the golden calf he had mercy on us he gave us a warning we sin with the mind he gave us a warning we complained he gave us a warning idol worship gave us a warning before the BET mdash was destroyed we got countless War warnings the second bet mdash we got countless warnings before he punished us we got countless warnings except once only one time in the entire Torah only one time in the entire history did we not get warnings Bak when balak and Bam tried to curse am Isel Bam's curse did not work and turn into a blessing so he told balak listen I can't curse them because they're God protects them but if you want to beat them send all your women there send all your immodest women over there no mini skirt tight jeans send all of them over there why their God hates Zima what's zma Z is immodesty prostitution as soon as the women arrived is sinned and within a matter of minutes Hashem started a plague without a warning you're going to learn about it in a few weeks in ch in a matter of minutes hasem killed 24,000 of am and it only stopped because Pinas the grandson of aronen took a spear and put it inside the two leaders Z and with the leader of the women also Sal so here we see this punishment which is different even though idol worship seems really bad it is really bad complaining to hem bad everything is bad we do anything that's against hm it's bad but IM modesty hm says you're killing my children and this is why you see today so many women getting so many different diseases where are they getting these diseases in the sex organs where is the number one cancer for both males and females today in those exact areas right the areas for women the areas for men private areas where the where where the disease ism is telling us hem is telling us you have to act like like Jews not uh not like the people of Sodom not like the people of Noah and that's why women have to work on their modesty and they also have to work on their husbands they have to make sure you do not allow your husband for one second to look at other women it's never okay ever because you're protecting him if he if he starts doing it children are going to do it and that's the thing it's just once a kid starts with it kazal says there's almost no way to do chuva for wasting seed why because it's the biggest addiction there is it's more addictive than than crack so much so that this this r that wrote this medical book 190 years agoin said that even when he told the guy listen I cured you now you made yourself worse if you continue wasting seed you're 100% going to die one after another after another guy continued and continued until they killed himself that's how addictive it is so you have to overcome it it's a big deal it's a big deal in hashem's eyes it's also a big deal in hm's eyes that you don't get men to do that if a woman is responsible for a guy using that as an excuse for wasting seed she's a partner in the crime and that's the big thing that people need to understand this is going to be a wakeup call for whoever could hear the Shure full length and actually get some because the biggest compliment that hasem gave to abah a after the is now I know that you're scared of me after he passed 10 tests 10 tests he just about to kill his own son for hasem hasem stops him says no no don't put your hand on him CU now I know that you fear me so fear unlike what this generation thinks is not only a good thing it's a compliment afteru died he called abah my lover but during his life he called him said the highest level of compliment he told them is that now I know you fear me fearing hasem is the foundation it's the beginning you have no fear of hem the she is not even relevant to you nothing's going to help you you have to develop fear of hem pay attention to him notice himem you believe in him and you follow what he says any questions you have questions I know soon the camera is off so you guys have to have question usually when the camera's on no one asks any questions camera is off it's 500 questions yesterday I think I said questions nobody asked any questions I shut off the camera we stayed there till 2 o'clock in the morning the um there's even more sources but I think you guys got the point say uh on the girl side you have to make sure that your husband knows this information so he doesn't ever think it's okay you have to make sure that you're not the reason why anyone else is ever gonna be a sinner not just your husband but anyone else for men it all starts with keeping your eyes clean and you start working on to get you have to learn stuff like this you have to learn you have to learn m regularly every day not once a week is not enough even if you learn for 24 hours a day one day a week somehow and the other six days you're not learning it's not enough it's better that you learn two hours a day than everything in one day every day because you're Nama needs food every day not just once a week you know it's like if I told you listen don't eat every day just eat once a week but eat the whole day steaks one steak after another you won't survive you need to eat every day yeah there's a few there's a few that uh that you can say it's not necessarily there a few that I'll if you want text me and I'll send them to you that you can uh say to to help you as far as protect your eyes but the uh the biggest thing the biggest thing that you can do to help yourself with withit is when you learn Tor especially difficult Torah your your brain starts working differently and just like the the rambam says in a uh here actually it's uh 21 the same place that he said that only an empty brain makes this type of sin in essence he's also telling us that if you fill your brain with Torah you're never going to be bored if you're learning to Art every day even if it's only an hour two hours a day your brain is always going to be functioning oh you know what yesterday Rashi said this or you know your brain's always going to be working on that if your brain is only working on business or the material world very easy to sin but if your brain has some Torah in it on a regular basis it's going to function differently and you're not going to think about that stuff but obviously it requires some work you have to do it every day so Torah especially difficult Torah and obviously difficult not just it's difficult and you never understand it but difficult until you understand it um is the type of stuff that's going to fix your brain and a and get you away from seeing all of the stuff thinking about it uh in all ways um second thing is obviously have a good relationship with your wife if you're mean to your wife then you can't blame her for not wanting to look at you you know some guys think that the the wife is like a uh a slave or something I don't know what happened to this world but people treat their wife like they think it's a plant they can move it wherever they want you know you have to treat your wife like a human being uh you have to take care of yourself you can't expect her to be excited to be with you when you don't take a shower more than once a week uh you know you have to take care of yourself same thing with women this is I'm telling you guys this is what this is this is the type of stuff I hear no I don't want to be with him why he smells okay well take a shower why can't you tell him no I feel bad telling him who's going to tell him then who's going to tell him who's going to tell him tell him listen I I refuse to be with you because you smell okay so the guy's goingon to start taking showers 10 times a day he wants to be with his wife this is the if he's not going to be with his wife he's going to sin so the wife thinking she's nice to him by not you know hurting his feelings being politically correct by not hurting his feelings she's leading him to sin enough with the political correctness tell people with the truth you could say it in a nice way you could even say it in a funny way and joke around privately but say the truth be you know be just say what it is enough with this garbage is in the world with all this political correctness no I don't want to hurt the feelings what hurt the feelings you're telling the guy something that's going to help him okay so the surgery is going to hurt I understand understand but if we don't do the surgery the guy's going to die what are you going to do I know it's going to hurt the recovery is going to hurt the surgery is going to hurt everything's going to hurt but eventually he's going to live so it's better that it hurt now and be better later than no later so tell people the truth the biggest thing that you can do for all overall connection to Hashem is take care of his children in a woman's case two major things one modesty you have to be modest there is no other option you have to be modest if woman if you're married you have to cover your hair not with a wig that reaches the floor appropriate look modest don't drag it you know grab the attention of the public the only one that should see your beauty as your husband the wigs of today are not Kosher even the rabbis that say that wigs are Kosher or used to say that wigs are Kosher would never say that the wigs of today are Kosher because the wigs of today look better than natural hair understand so it's nonsense no one no big Rabbi in the world today agrees with today's wigs no one even if he tell me no but his own wife wears it okay he has his own problem doesn't mean anything someone came to radya and said radya spoke against wigs all the time says there's no place in the toah it says you're allowed to wear wigs whoever said it is making a mistake you're not allowed to wear wigs said yes but uh your own granddaughter is wearing a wig like yes there's place for her and G also it's all a problem the human hair part is because it comes from most of the time there are different traditions in Tibet in India and different places in Asia that it's part of idol worship to uh to uh take off their hair Idol worshippers it's Idol worshippers outright Idol worshippers it's part of the tradition to cut off hair as part of idol worship so women that wear wigs in many cases are using idol worship you're not allowed to benefit from idol worship in any way even if it's a gold statue you're not allowed to benefit from it not allowed to use it not allowed to sell it not let to look at it nothing so of course you're not let to wear it on your head but aside from that it's not modest it doesn't meet the basic requirement does not it's not modest so women need to understand yes I know this is a big tun in this generation no one wants to cover their hair everyone wants to look pretty for the for for Steve and Mikey at shop right I understand but your husband's more important and God is more important Steve and Mike is going to look are going to look at you know some other uh girl they don't have to look at you your husband should look at you yeah that's it cover your hair cover your body your skirt needs to cover your knees after you sit sit down not before you sit down then as soon as you sit down it goes up and becomes a mini skirt that's not that's not modesty skirt ideally should cover your ankles even when you're sitting down but even if it can't the point is is that it needs to cover your knees at the very minimum when you sit down but not like going like this every 3 seconds you know there's a lot of women you go to like a wedding and it's like every two seconds they all you doing sit-ups at the chair that's not that's not a uh just to cover it normally and also it's not supposed to be that tight why because if it's tight then anyone with eyes can see exactly what your body looks like has to be loose that's what modesty is like that's what Hashem said it's not me was up to me I'm a guy what do you think a guy would want it's not before we did Chua I would tell my wife don't wear any clothes I had no concept was an animal telling you this is what hasem wants shirts have to cover the elbows at all times neckline needs to be covered obviously you have to act like a human being you can't talk like a truck driver speak like a lady and guys For Heaven's Sake if if you're wearing skinny jeans stop it already it's m like enough and aside from that whoever you know wears it tell him something it's just not appropriate it's not it's doesn't look nice I don't know who thinks it looks nice but whatever I guess it's a taste situation you got to stop it I don't know it's it's just it's just one of those things which by by the way whoever doesn't know who actually made this style popular it's not exactly the Mr righteous made the style popular it's a guy named Lil Wayne he's not the ideal Jew or anything he's not yep sadik he's the one that actually made it really really hip and then obviously other superstars followed and I think he eventually graduated to just wear women's pants because the men's pants weren't tight enough I'm serious so if you're a nice Jewish boy that fears Hashem wants to fulfill your purpose in the world why are you using this guy as a as an example who wants to look like him we're Jews we're not go we have to stop talking like them they're not even supposed to act like that but nonetheless we have a higher we have a higher uh responsibility we're supposed to be a light to the Nations this is why anti Hashem uses anti semitism because with anti-Semitism that there is in the world we still have huge huge amount of assimilation huge amount of anti of U intermarriage huge amount of Jews not keeping anything because they feel like Tommy and Joey are the same as them huge amount of people with no interest whatsoever in God huge and it's funny because the Jews are supposed to be the most religious people we find ourselves as least religious people so you have to tell each other something you got to tell each other the truth got to do chuva and you you build on top of it there's always chuva is always available it's always available but you have to be serious you have to be genuine and with something like this for guys gar learning tough stuff that's the secret stop coping it obviously and if you're single get yourself together find yourself a wife and all of you do very soon amen amen