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Shiur @ Moish Greenwald’s Shul in New City, NY
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Rabbi Kalish
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Together, having in an honest way,
friends getting together, we're all
trying to figure it out.
We're all finding our ways. I like real
things. And And we're all looking We're
all searching. We're all on a journey.
Every person, I don't care where they
are, we're searching. And a group of
friends get together and make a show
together, a sincere place. Let's figure
it out, a growing place. There'll always
be different ways and different thoughts
and
everybody has their own plan what it
looks like. But we The common things we
want to grow. So to one person, it's a
stark minyan. It starts sometime that's
quiet. To another one, it's warm,
friendly, it's nice, it's had it.
Everybody has their own variation.
We want something authentic. We want
authentically to serve Hashem, each one
in our unique way.
Not in a Guys come to Yeshiva. I don't
know who's more advanced. I don't have
that thing, the stark rebbe, the stark
guy, the big guy. [clears throat] I
don't particularly buy that thought.
We know very, very little, very.
It's interesting, the Yeshiva and
parents, we're all involved in like we
look at chinuch and fixing very similar.
So in a Yeshiva, we dream of a bochur
looks a certain thing and is I'm
thinking of a certain guy who's in his
30s. He's not married, struggling. He's
one of the biggest neshamos I've ever
met in my life. Now, I have dreams. I'd
like him to fit a certain as not I speak
to the rebbe and we're led have dreams
for my own children, for guys in the
Yeshiva. But I also have to be honest to
know that I know nothing. I don't have a
crystal ball of the tikkun of this
neshama.
And this I On this particular guy, I'm
always intimidated. He's like a big
soul. And to me, it's clear as like
mesakin on the whole Torah. I have a
friend who's 40.
Also similar type neshama, who's not
married. I brought him to gedolim and
said he's like the biggest neshama. I
brought him to big tzaddikim.
Told me on like he's the biggest neshama
they've ever seen.
So, my my my point is that we that we
all have to get together and decide
things and figure things out. We also
have to admit we don't know and that
makes nafka mina also.
So, in trying to construct we try but
leave room for not knowing.
And there's nafka mina in yeshiva. We
try to make we try to build we want guys
to become
have a certain family and that's good
also but leave I speak to the rebbeim
the first meeting of the year. So, when
I focus on this the last couple of years
the trying to build
but also knowing you don't know and
that's such let's get together let's
somebody says a nice dvar Torah
says a nice tfila leave room for a place
to have space that we don't know. We're
trying to create we get together but
there's space and we
the main [clears throat] thing we're
trying to do is sincerely serve Hashem.
The Yid who taught the Salant the Ba'al
Det Chibur and there's not I I did not
plan to speak anything I'm saying right
now. Zero. I have the dvar Torah zero.
I'm feeling it sitting down here with
Reb Hershel Schachter. I promise I
didn't plan on the way on the way I was
busy with the emergency I didn't even
think what I was going to say and before
I did the dvar Torah sitting with Reb
Hershel involved in the shul this is
what's hitting me
and the Ba'al Det Chibur taught this a
lot when he would speak about neshamas
that he would say there's there's many
stories with the Ba'al Det Chibur.
He would describe Yiddishe neshamas. He
wasn't like being a nice guy.
If anybody knows about the Ba'al Det
Chibur what's his name Levi Yitzchok.
Levi's made of din.
Levi's din and the Kohanim are chesed
and Leviim are din.
As Bnei Yisrael
I'm a Levi Levi is made of din. Pinchas
is made of din. Yitzchok I'm sorry
Yitzchok's gevurah.
His name's Levi Yitzchak then and then.
As we have Levi Yitzchak Bardichever the
big eye of Yisrael, should be Avraham
should be rooted in chesed. The
Bardichever is rooted in din. Isn't that
interesting?
My daughter came home from school.
I was actually in camp. Actually in camp
they had a meeting and she came home
very upset.
She was like very worked up. They were
learning about bitzedek tishbit amisecha
don hakaf zechus.
Judging people favorably.
And they did an exercise amongst all the
people there, the girls, they were
talking about judging people favorably.
So they said let's get good at this.
They set scenarios and people had to get
creative.
And the girls like practice creativity.
You see somebody momish steal.
So you had to come up with the person
you see somebody steal your food so it's
a diabetic and they were saying chotam
and working on their creativity.
And my daughter it didn't feel right
her.
She came home. She said
It's not it. It's not it. So Hashem
basically Hashem saying make the
stupider you can make yourself the
better. Let's practice. You never know.
I hear that's not what happened in any
stories. That's just Now could it be
well the one time okay do odds nine out
of 10 that's not what happened.
Yeah so it's too far-fetched. You're
asking people so Hashem just said be
stupid. Don't be smart.
She didn't That's not bitzedek. She's
macha'ing to Rab Nachman.
Rab Nachman the words even tishbit is
mishpat. Bitzedek tishbit is not like
midas hachesed to see good in yedden
like big see good in yedden.
Rab Nachman says that the that that don
hakaf zechus is a kaf zechus in every
yedden. It's a big thing and neshama is
a big thing.
The root of the Bardichever wasn't
rooted in chesed of an expansiveness
in like see better eye in tight what was
then he saw a Yid. That's like it's it
was the Messiah so it was the truth. A
Yid is a big thing and a big deal. A
really big deal a Yid is. Every Yid is a
big light. It's just a fact. It's not
cute. It's not for a certain type. It's
just a truth. I'm not talking to see
this for somebody straight. I don't care
if the guy is in Brisk, Pregers,
Waterbury, or anything I don't doesn't
matter. Williamsburg, Lakewood, Teaneck.
I'm talking about truth and I'm talking
about do we always feel this on
ourselves? I'm not talking about the C.
I'm talking about ourselves. I'm a Yid.
I'm a big thing.
You're a Yid. A Yid is a big light. It's
a big deal. It's It's There's a big iron
a Yid.
And the Bardichever was rooted in din.
It wasn't His name is Levi Yitzchak. It
wasn't like an expansiveness. He just
saw a Yid. A Yid is a big thing.
It was rooted in din what the
Bardichever saw. His name is cool I din.
Levi Yitzchak.
And his meter was he saw a toy in Yid.
He saw a Yid. He saw a very special
things in a Yid.
>> [snorts]
>> It's not how we think. The
I'm always wondering our schools and I'm
I don't like how schools are tzaddikim,
rebbeim, rabbonim, roshei yeshivos. I
was a goody-goody in school. It was very
hard to find Hashem.
I was paid with covered and for being
strong you got so much covered. I don't
know how many times in my whole high
school I thought about God. I finished
mesectas many times. The 10th grader
from Waterbury thinks about Hashem more
than I did my whole career.
Just struggling
and I'm not saying it's not a good thing
to finish mesectas and to be strong. You
still have to find God.
And learn Hashem's Torah and pray to
God.
I was on time
My I want I like when my kids are on
time. I'd rather they daven 11:00 and
talk to God. Mamish. Then come and
they're so set. I want them to come on
time also. that's also good to say, but
I mommish want them to talk to Hashem
prayer. Mommish to come and pray to
Hashem.
So, I want to say to Habore getting
together, I want to say it's supposed to
be here to to join him in a little bit
to speak for a few minutes. The learning
Torah together also would definitely be
a good thing. But, it's it's exciting to
keep our eyes on the ball of what we're
trying to do. We want a sincere place,
that's for sure.
How to do it? I don't know. I don't know
the answer. So, it should be this way
now. We want an authentic place of
growth where somebody can come maybe
learn a word of Torah in the shul with
shmek.
And pray to Hashem with shmek. Courage
another Yid
to be there for another Yid, to be
friendly to another Yid.
Real things. When I was stark and young,
if a guy would leave Yeshiva and fly to
America for a friend's chasunah, I
thought he was insane. I'm telling you.
I like thought the guy such a shvach
bochur, like excuse he's leaving this
man.
Today, my son in Yeshiva drove 5 hours
for his friend's lechaim to Baltimore. 5
hours there, 5 hours back. So, it's like
poshut, you know, so proud of him.
You have something better to do than
make a Yid happy?
It's the biggest thing on Earth.
Poshut, you're making a Yid happy. So, I
keep in mind the big things. That's for
sure in the shul, making a shul that
another Yid comes and is comfortable, is
welcomed, is greeted, that it's like
feels comfortable for a Yid.
Yid feels comfortable, feels noticed,
feels appreciated. Like a warm place of
That's for sure the That's for sure for
sure big that somebody's comfortable and
noticed and seen and each Yid is
mechazek the other one.
That's like the very start of a shul and
then
my father was from the best users of
time ever saw in my life. Disciplined
man, never missed a minyan. His His
daily schedule was wild. But, his whole
life over the last, till he went into a
coma, crazy, crazy from the biggest mass
meeting in the country.
He would drop everything for a Yid
Simcha, like bizarrely. Vort, L'chaim,
a second vort, anything. But like there
was never a kvetch, zero. Somebody's
chasunah, you go. Zero, but but for
decades, but not a word. I never kvetch
another Simcha. Nightly, that was like
the routine. My parents went to Simchas.
Because he had he had a busy schedule
keeping like discipline. A Yid Simcha,
it's like, "Well, do you have something
better in the world to do than making a
Yid happy?"
So, I say to the chevra with all the
different styles, and you'll have to
come to you know, together in starting
something. There are things to figure
out. But let's keep the ikker the ikker.
Like the ikker, I'm not lecturing. I
don't even know the rate who. I just
know the beginning of something I'm
encouraging. I know what Reb Meish is
involved in. This is what I'm
encouraging. Whatever the style, those
are all cute things. Different styles,
different ways. Not to lose that a Yid's
a big deal. A Yid greeting another Yid.
I come in I have stage fright. I have a
very bad stage fright. I'm not saying
what everybody says they have stage I
was called to the Haftorah in my life
multiple times where somebody else had
to read the Haftorah.
I just couldn't do it cuz I have stage
fright. I'm not talking about a pretend
or being cute. Somebody's afraid to mess
I don't have stage fright here.
Because I've learned it doesn't matter
what I do. Now, Yidden together, I I
don't have to make anything tonight.
Yidden together enjoying each other.
Full joy. He He just smiles. So, then
Yidden not together enjoying I'm not I
don't care what I do tonight.
If we learn together a few words, Yidden
come together, we'll study a few words,
sing a couple of songs. A big thing.
Nobody has to create anything. That what
you make
Your addition is not the biggest thing.
Yidden together but I miss the truth of
things. It comes to
Yidden comes to diamond as a big thing.
Please however you do it, a little this
way, a little Yidden come together, sing
a few songs together, pray together,
notice another Yidden courage. It's a
big deal.
So I want to thank the for having me
sure. Means a lot that you invited
another Yidden here. You made another
Yidden feel good. This should be a
beautiful space where people feel seen
when they come, feel celebrated. And
people to get Yidden pray in their
different styles, different ways. One
guy sings this way,
but a Yidden here is welcomed. A Yidden
wanted. And together we learn Torah
together. Yidden study. They study
Torah. Yidden learn a learn a possuk
together. It's a big thing.
The world of stark and this and that,
you could also be God fearing with that.
But make sure you have the God fearing
stuff.
The emes emes of person just growing
together, encouraging each other. This
an honest space of that. And you should
everybody should have tremendous
tremendous hatslacha.
I want to learn Torah together, but till
we're more comfortable just to share the
very Torah. It's not that's not going to
work for me. If we could sing the
Adishes song, then maybe like Torah will
work here for me.
So if they will meet with the other
>> How she How she have a son back? Really?
Yeah. I really was supposed to have
right next to me
>> [clears throat]
Gory was signed and sealed with
his guitar to play for the camera and
something else came up and I encouraged
him to do the right thing.
So I also have stage fright.
>> [laughter]
>> That's it.
I'm so two Yidden with stage fright will
be a blessing.
>> [laughter]
>> I'm comfortable.
>> [snorts]
>> I'll start the first and the mind of a
bad voice, if I sing, everybody feels
safe to sing together.
Yeah.
Yeah. Let's I like his song because I
see it as a prayer to see good in
Yidden. That you Thank fully there's no
words.
Have you Does somebody make a claim to
me? I don't know if it's true.
Somebody claimed I like niggunim can
come I don't know what a Jewish song
I don't know what that means.
Songs don't have yarmulkes doesn't I
don't know what it means.
Music's beautiful.
Somebody told me that will never
sing a whole song without words. Now
they have parts without words.
Is there any niggunim by Somebody
looked it up and you can look anything
online. They found there's a certain
group with this interesting that
niggunim before I learned before I
started learning my insides I don't like
niggunim. Give me words or bust.
I've learned to cry. You'd shared with
me something hard this morning I started
to cry. The guys gave me tears. I
started crying.
And since I started crying I like
niggunim much more than words. This song
like words are such a turn-off.
What are you saying? What are you
thinking? That's all
When I was numb to my insides I needed
words.
Now my inside I can think many things.
Let's sing the right niggun. I pray my
prayer you pray yours. Let's sing the
right niggun.
De da
de de da
la
ya ya
ya
>> [chanting]
>> ya
ya
de de
>> [chanting]
>> la
la
ya
de de
la
>> [chanting]
>> la
ya
de de
la
ya
la
de de
la
la [singing]
la
de de
la
ya
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya.
Tiri rara
rara.
>> [chanting]
>> Ya, ya, ya,
ya.
Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Ya,
ya, ya. Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya. [chanting]
Tiri rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara.
Ya, ya.
Tiri rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [singing]
[chanting]
>> Tiri rara
rara.
>> [singing]
>> Ya, ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Ya, ya,
ya.
Tiri rara
rara.
Ya, ya.
Tiri rara.
>> [music and singing]
>> Ya, ya.
Ya, ya.
>> [chanting]
>> Tiri rara.
>> [music]
[chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
>> We could sing like that together we
already sing. blessing
One more song then we'll share the
retire.
If we could sing
from the words from David Amelach
I I want to suggest to us all these in
the two difficult years that call Israel
went through we found them.
We were saying till them during the week
Shabbos.
If I could ask us all let's keep saying
till them.
Shouldn't be for purpose shouldn't be we
don't need you so room captives.
We found till them our people till them
till them.
Call Israel always said a lot of till
them.
In in Europe it was like passion people
said till them. Let's go back to the way
we have a few minutes you agree have a
say for till them and you say till them.
Till them Zagers were always like a big
thing in our people. We always had an
attachment. We like lost it a bit the
last two years we like we found till
them. Let's let's randomly have a few
you have a minute so I would say cut you
don't need like a
you don't need a sorry if to say capital
that till them is for all different you
could have a someone say capital till
them this
this tell him. So, if we could sing from
David Melech K'eili Ata V'odeka the Baal
HaTanya's tune, So, it's all good. a
holy
author of the tune and holy words from
David Melech.
But the K'eili Ata V'odeka, the Yid who
can absorb kindness
in the journey of life, the Yid absorbs
the kindness of Hashem. K'eili Ata
V'odeka, we thank Hashem. We're present
to Hashem's kindness.
Somebody showed me a goyish thinker.
He said such a smart thing. He said
Victor Frankl said
that when people can't find meaning,
famously he wrote that people pursue
like quick joys when they can't find
meaning and purpose and they they settle
for temporary joys. That's what famous
Victor Frankl. This goyish thinker said
that the inverse is true also.
When people can't find happy happiness
and joy and comfort and appreciation,
they turn to meaning.
Become like a mass midden stark. You're
just uncomfortable. I picture at a table
when people sing cuz they can't be
comfortable. I picture at a Pesach seder
singing words and not connecting to your
family.
That's a nice thing to say words. But
there's there's a mishpacha we could
feel something. We could be present. He
said when people can't be present, find
comfort and meaning and joy and
gratitude, they we're not singing we
could schmooze for hours. We're not
singing
Schmooze and I have plenty that I want
to hear about his three children.
We have things to catch up.
I could talk about being a zaidy. We
have plenty we can catch up on.
But our singing's gishmack, but it's
this goyish guy said when people can't
find joy and gratitude and presentness,
they turn to meaning. Both are dangerous
things.
So, K'eili Ata V'odeka is the Yid who
could be grateful. Come home and enjoy
his family. Could be grateful. K'eili
Atah V'yadoi De'ah.
All the while Elokai Yarim Mekol all the
while facing the difficulties of life
and being more memushar.
Knowing living with their mona, knowing
Hashem's, but the Yid who absorbs the
kindness and has faith in the difficult
times.
And all of us at all different times of
our life, this is like ever relevant
these words.
We're either thanking Hashem and
absorbing the kindness or ever present
to faith and understanding and accepting
of Hashem who's leading us in difficult
times.
Can you start the Keli Atah V'yadoi
De'ah?
Thank you.
Keli Keli
>> [chanting]
>> Keli
>> [chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
>> Keli
>> [chanting]
[chanting]
>> Keli
>> [singing]
[chanting]
>> Keli
>> [singing]
>> Hallelujah. [chanting]
>> [chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [singing]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [chanting]
[chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [singing]
[chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
Hallelujah. [chanting]
>> [singing]
[chanting]
>> Hallelujah.
Hallelujah.
>> [music]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [singing]
[chanting]
[singing]
>> Hallelujah.
>> [chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
[singing]
[music and singing]
[chanting]
[singing]
>> I wanted to study a Rashi together, a
possuk in the past week's parsha Vayeira
and learn a Rashi together with a pshat
from the Rebbe, but I I admit that I'm
studying this Rashi with an agenda.
Vayomer love, the malachim come to
Avraham Avinu.
The three malachim who have been sent,
each one with their own shlichus.
One to heal Avram, to destroy Sedom, and
to give Sarah the besura she's going to
have a child.
Vayomer love, they say to Avraham Avinu
where's your wife Sarah? Where's Sarah?
Where's she?
Vayomer
and Avram says she's in the ohel.
Vayomer and the malach the malach says
surely I shall return at this time next
year. And they then the Sarah come back
in a year, Sarah is going to have a
child. With Sarah
he's supposed to tell Sarah.
Sarah is listening
by the door of the tent. Who are you?
The possuk is behind the malach and
Sarah behind them. Who are you? He the
tent possuk
malach Pashut is describing the tznius
of Sarah. She's not in his sight.
The door is behind them.
He's facing Avraham and she Shima, she
listens and hears that she's going to
have a child.
Rashi on Vayoymru love
on the the Malachim say to Avraham Avinu
So Rashi points out there's a dot on the
aleph
on the yud and the vav.
Most people who learn this Rashi get
very confused cuz there's two dots on
the lamed.
So people get very confused. In our
Torah Actasha
I I I don't That's the pull out of Torah
for no reason. I was trying to learn the
Rashi with the guy. This guy started
telling there's dots. So you have to see
it in the Torah. You should check it
out. There's a dot on the aleph, on the
yud and the vav. There's no dot in the
Torah on the lamed. The lamed is um
is trop. It's a zakif katan Vayoymru
Elohim. So it has a dot on top of the
lamed. It's the trop. Trop's not in our
Torah Actasha. In the Torah Actasha
there's a dot on the aleph, the yud and
the vav.
I didn't share the Taisus with the
chevre. I didn't want to confuse but you
all share the Taisus. Moshe, I don't
mind confusing.
But I'll I'll share the Taisus with you.
It's a pella. The Chida asks on him.
Vayoymru Elohim says Chazal there's a
dot on the aleph yud vav to tell you the
darshan the word ayoy.
That there's if there's a if you have a
led if you have a word with four
letters, aleph lamed yud vav, and
there's a dot on three of them, so
Hashem is telling you just read the word
just read the oisiyos with the dot on
it.
If there's a dot if there's four letters
and a dot on one letter, it means read
the other letters, skip this letter.
A dot on one says skip this letter.
And a dot on more words, three of them
here out of four, says just read these
letters. So Vayoymru Elohim
They said to Avraham Vayoymru Pashut
Shat Vayoymru Elohim. They said to
Avraham Ayey Sarah Oisiyos Sarah?"
But we darshan it, aleph, yud, vav,
vayomeru, "Ayeh Avraham?" "Where is
Avraham?"
They said to Sarah, "Where is Avraham?"
So they said to Avraham, "Where is
Sarah?" And they said to Sarah Imenu,
"Where is Avraham?" That's what darshan.
Many ask, including Tosefos on the
Chazal, why didn't they just put a dot
on the lamed?
Why have three dots? Hashem put one dot.
And if you have just a dot on the lamed,
you'll lost the aleph, yud, vav.
Tosefos says cuz it would be confusing.
We wouldn't read it as a zakif katan.
Vayomeru, "love." The zakif katan is the
two dots on the lamed. If there was
another dot, it would look like a circle
on top of the lamed. We wouldn't know
what trope it was. So we didn't want to
mess up that trope. The achronim go wild
on Tosefos. In the Torah, if there was a
dot on the lamed, there's no trope in
the Torah.
So worried for the printers. What's
Tosefos talking about? Put the dot on
the lamed.
It's amazing, Tosefos, what he means.
The Chida yes, this kasha, you have to
be mefalpel what Tosefos means. Tosefos
says there's no dot on the lamed cuz it
would get confusing the trope. They
don't have trope.
But Hashem knows it's going to be
tropes. Hashem didn't put the dot in the
Torah on the lamed. He put more dots. So
we have a Chumash. And we write the
trope. It's like a funny what Tosefos
means.
Oh, there's a lot to be mefalpel.
Lemaisa,
the malachim say to Avraham, "Where is
Sarah?" And they say to Sarah Imenu,
"Where is Avraham?"
Says Rashi, "What's this inyan?" So
Rashi brings up shat. Says Rashi,
he says, "Lemadnu, we learn, sheyishal
adam ba'al bayis sheyishalei."
When you're a guest somewhere, ask the
host, "Leishal ha'isha." You ask the man
about his wife. Ask him about his wife.
"Veleishal ha'ish." And ask the lady
about her husband. Derech eretz.
It's Derek harsh. I always have this
plan that I need to collect all the
Derek harsh is in the Torah to like
write about them. The Derek harsh in the
Torah are not like American Derek harsh.
I don't think much They're very nice
etiquette. Put the forks on the right.
I'm not convinced what will happen. The
Derek harsh in the Torah are very
There's a lot of refinement. There's
like a lot of adinus.
The Derek harsh in the Torah.
This one of the Derek harsh that you
meet a person ask about the spouse. You
know, how's the wife? You meet the wife,
how's the husband doing? It's a Derek
harsh.
And therefore they met Avram. They said
It's interesting. Somebody asked me on
this where is she? And I
You're not a tracking device.
It's funny the where is she, but they
mean where is she? How she holding? They
don't mean where. It doesn't mean where
according to this
Where is she means how she holding? How
sorry man doing? That's what I
They weren't looking You have to learn
when Avram responded
means she's She's doing guns fine.
That's what he was saying. She's in
She's in the kitchen. She's doing well.
That's That's what Avram was saying.
That's you have to learn chat.
But you It's a Derek harsh. When you
meet a man you ask about the wife to
wife about the man. I love the Derek
harsh.
Because it's very important to me that a
guy is not like he's a man and he's all
He's married. It's a matias. I'm a
husband. That's who I am.
It's a matias. It's It's who I is
identity. Not like it's not a
Today with the generation very
anti-identity. Who are you?
People have identity It's a very
People make fun. Boys they don't know if
they're boy or girl. It's a very
It's a It's deep.
We don't We're not just okay. They told
me I'm this. So what Who am I? Who am I
identity? So It's very much a very It's
a deep It's a very
It's a deep.
People ask who am I? A husband is not
like a side job like you know a guy is a
side gig.
It's It's If you broke me in my deepest
place, I'm a husband.
That's what I am. I accept that I'm a
husband. It's It's a pride of father is
in the TS.
Mother is in the TS. Not a A husband is
a deep thing. I became a husband.
So you You see a man you ask him about
his wife is a deep thing. It's a deep
recognition. He's He is his passion. You
want to know about him. You're greeting
him. How's the wife? It's who he is. You
meet the wife. How's the husband? It's a
kind of that It's a deep kind of that
that that she has a husband that she has
another part that he has a wife. There's
the Derek Harris. It's a big Derek
Harris to see the new person in front of
you. You don't ask about the other one.
You're not seeing him. You have You have
the wife.
It's a person you're seeing the entirety
of the person. He has a wife. It's a
part of him. To not ask him about his
wife is like to ask him how's his right
arm. You're doing You forget about his
left arm. You have your right arm and
you don't care about my left arm.
You have your shoulder. What about my
knee?
The wife is the shyness of the person.
How's your wife? To the wife you have
It's a passion. How's the husband? It's
a beautiful Derek Harris. It's such a
such a kind of a person becomes a
married person. She's a married person.
So it's a Derek Harris. It's a beautiful
Derek Harris.
And that's why she's first chat. They
ask of Rama Yesha Isha.
And they ask sorry menu.
I always I always felt that a mother has
a leg up on the mother has a leg of
father A father is a is a TS. I'm a dad.
It's who I am. It's not a Not the point
as a son. It's not
A mother her whole body changes. She
creates the child. Then Then Then the
child she turns into the food for the
like a pillow. It's a pillow of mother.
But the husband has to learn from the
mama. That he's a husband. It's who he
is. It's She has a She has a mate. Yes,
the ladies are physical men and concept.
Ladies
Ladies experience it in the physical.
You're one person, and what happens to
your wife awakens the man. Wow.
But she's feeding the child, it becomes
the source of food to the child. The
husband's supposed to help. I'm a
father. That's who I am. Pasha like
identity mamesh.
Ben Adam, my children are on our minds,
on our thoughts. I'm a father. It's
literal identity. It's not It's not a
human being
a married backer who happens to have
like these kids. No, he
He's a creator of children come from
him, a big thing.
So, this is the first thing the Rashi
says at their carrots. They said to
Avram
Shara and they asked Shara where is
Avram and him.
That's the first try. Then Rashi says
Avram pays iron.
Quotes Avram
pays iron. You always try to make
simonim to remember we are Avram. This
is positive and gold. So, this is the
gold rule. Very big rule Avram
pays iron and it says Avram and Shara
Shara Avram and they knew where Shara
Avram was good and well.
Avram and Shara Shara Avram Avram and
Shara
They wanted Shara Avram to like her They
wanted Avram to have a love to have an
appreciation
for Shara Avram. So, where is Shara?
They knew where she was.
Avram said he knew where she was. She
She knew where she was.
They wanted they Avram and Shara Avram
and Shara. Some of them were shining say
I saw Avram and Shara and that say when
they asked Shara where is Avram.
Where is Avram? It's a big question.
When did they ask Shara where is Avram?
They saw Avram where is Shara and he
felt good. And they asked Shara where is
Avram? He's standing where it's a little
weird.
Where is Avram? You were just speaking
to him.
So, some say when Avram was doing the
Avram they said to Sarah where is Avram?
>> [clears throat]
>> When he was busy flying around for the
angels, the malachim said where is
Avram? She said in my man's doing
chesed.
>> [sighs]
>> That made her have a chabibos for him.
Then it was both ways. They were
mechabev Sarah, they had like a chabibos
for Avram and Avram had for Sarah.
The psukim just say they say to Avram,
where is Sarah Avinu
the meforshim speak out the the early
meforshim Kad Mainem was speak out that
when it says Aya, where is where is
Avram Avinu, they ask Sarah well he was
doing the chesed.
And she said oh he's he does what he
always does, he's doing chesed.
She had a tremendous like chabibos for
husband. Where is Avram? He's doing what
he always does, he's helping you, he's
helping people out, he's running he's
making he's grilling steaks for people.
What do you mean where is Avram? He's
doing what he always does. And she like
had a chabibos for her husband.
So that's where Rashi second shot. Then
Rashi says Am Reb Yosi bar Chanina
dilishaga lo koishal brocha.
They asked where Sarah Avinu is, they
wanted to send her a koishal brocha.
A very litvish I love you then then a
litvish person's right. He was like
handling and they're they're they're Kad
Mainem that handle koishal brocha. What
koishal brocha was there?
Did they bench them up? Do angels bench?
Do they have a zimmun? Do angels have
zimmun?
I don't
typically like learning that style. I I
like it. Process has chat but to me even
in chat it doesn't mean they were
sending a koishal even in chat.
But that's such a way of thinking. To me
a koishal brocha if what is a koishal
brocha? Avada means to tell Sarah Avinu
she's going to have a child. Whoever
chat you learn, the Ribnitzer when he
give a brocha to people would give like
give a piece of give something nice to
eat. To send her a koishal brocha means
they would telling Sarah Avinu she's
going to have a child.
Now there's two cashes that the
Lubavitcher up the Rebbe asked two
cashes on this. First of all, the Rashi,
anybody who studies this Rashi, it's one
one on sentence, the Rashi. He forgot to
say Davar Acher.
Anytime you could look at any Rashi in
Kol HaTorah when he says three pshatim,
he says Davar Acher Noch Pshat. Here
there's no Davar Acher. He just says
like it's a run on sentence. You notice
that in the Rashi? He says three
pshatim, he just goes right into the
next one. Bav Metziya Isha then Am Rebbe
Yishmael
Are you saying new pshat? There's no
Davar Acher. It's like amazing Rashi.
Anybody looks at the Rashi, it's one one
on sentence. He says three pshatim.
Forgot to say Davar Noch Pshat. Doesn't
do that.
And the second is what's the cash why
they were looking for Sarah Imenu?
The psukim are clear, they needed to
tell Sarah the bsura. Ayeh Sarah Ishta?
They needed to tell her. And she listens
in the next pasuk. She was asha ve'lo
the case of this famous search of Sarah
Sheimas.
So of course they have to ask she's in
she's in distance. Avraham says she's
there cuz they're supposed to tell Sarah
Imenu. That was the shlichus.
Why did Rashi need to bring any pshatim
why they're looking for Sarah? They
needed that the one of the three jobs
that the angels have is to tell Sarah
Imenu she's having a child.
Why they're looking for Sarah? Cuz they
have to tell her.
The shaga lakacha bracha is like the
pashut pshat Rashi puts that the last
pshat.
Said the Rebbe brilliantly
that what you don't need the three
angels say was like a choir. Ayeh vayom
ru love Ayeh Sarah. What are the three
angels talking? It's funny when the one
angel says I'm coming back and Sarah's
going to So he should say the angel who
has the task. Say where's Sarah? He has
something to tell Sarah Imenu.
But why the other two angels? They all
like to zammer as a choir as a Ayeh.
Ayeh. Oh they're all saying together.
One angel Ayeh Sarah Ishta vayom ru they
said.
Said the Rebbe Rashi has three
every one of the angels had a different
reason to tell sorry men.
They all said I am sorry there were
three different reasons.
One man said I am sorry
you meet a man you ask about the wife
you recognize the married man to a
beautiful hearts.
The fact that he has a wife that he's
married is not a bachelor. How's the
wife? How's the wife? It's a hearts. So
that's one man. A second man is
to make
what the second guy have to say the one
angel doing that so now it's
acknowledged he's a married man.
The second man did it is to say I am
sorry
we should have
should appreciate his spouse should be
each one should appreciate each other.
And the third one is
the third one is he has to tell sorry
men. It's funny it's not put first.
That's the one that direct command. I
wonder
Tyra is the
one man
to do it. The
first so the first reason is
he put first. The
Tyra is the of a man.
Tyra comes first the first these are the
three and the way the Rebbe learns that
it's not three different
it's the full story of three angels who
asked different reasons.
I said I had an agenda I wanted to learn
this ration.
I wanted to learn the ration that speaks
about the second angel that
to bring the
closer.
That they asked
where's Sarah he said neighbor oil and
he felt closer to his wife. They said to
Sarah where's
and he said he's
sorry.
She had like a good feeling. This I
wanted to read this ration that the
angels that one angel comes to bring
them closer.
To make Avraham and Sarah men and
closer, one angel comes.
I wanted to read that Rashi. It's
interesting. Our people come from
Avraham and Sarah. We don't come from
Yeshiva. Yeshiva's wonderful. We have
our Rebbe, Moshe Rabbeinu, who comes
later. There you would suspect Klal
Yisrael would be born like from Yeshiva.
It's not. We were born from a mishpacha.
From a family. A husband and wife, a
wife and husband.
We're born from that space of husband
and wife, wife and husband.
Any idealism and all idealism, a Yid
makes people close and comfortable,
brings people in.
The first one is the one closest. I was
once I was meeting like 2 years with a
group of people going to do kiruv.
It was for the first space of kiruv. I
don't You know the warm Yeshiva's?
Oh, it's a warm Yeshiva. If they're warm
to the guy, that's garnish.
What's a warm Yeshiva? Is he taking a
Yid and he's good to his wife.
That's a word. How do you know if a
Yeshiva's warm? If the Rosh Yeshiva is
very good to his wife, it's a word. That
he's
A Yeshiva's warm when the rebbeim are
warm to each other. If they're just like
warm to the guy, it's not a warm
Yeshiva. That's a fake.
Idealism, a husband We come from Avraham
and Sarah, good to each other, l'haviv.
They're getting Everything's very exact
in Hashem's world.
When you study Torah, don't learn They
just told they're going to have a child,
which means Klal Yisrael's coming. Ki vi
Yitzchak yikarei l'cha zera, you'll have
a future.
At the place they're told they're going
to have a child, there's l'haviv
u'valah, they should be warm and close.
At the place there's idealism,
[clears throat] there's building,
there's going to be the construction of
Am Yisrael, is a husband that that
space, the husband's m'haviv the wife,
the wife the husband.
You want to build a beautiful shul,
anybody involved, they're very kind to
your wife. They make a space, mamash.
Then from there it spreads to the
neighbor, and the neighbor it spreads
from there.
But, it starts at the space they're told
there's going to be an Am Yisrael,
there's going to be the construction.
And this Rashi, at this moment, where
it's told about the construction of Klal
Yisrael,
it's told shalom bayit. My father, the
last few years of his life, we don't
know why as kids and his his balabatim
got upset. They said, "All the years,
the rav was like busy with shalom
bayit." It's true.
But, but I'm saying as a son, that the
last few years, he was like
exceptionally busy with shalom bayit,
like speaking about it and teaching it.
Shalom bayit became the dominant sugiyah
by my father in the last years of his
life. He was like busy. Husband to wife,
wife doesn't like mamesh being mechazek.
I was at my father once he at a he there
was a shiur, and he was pushing his
talmidim and his balabatim to learn
more.
And he I don't I don't it was even some
shiur they started. He was telling them
to come. In middle of this pushing, he
says to the chevra, "But, if you if it's
not good for your wife, don't come to
the shiur. I don't want to see you at
the shiur."
"Don't come. You have no reshus." And
but he was me'arech.
So, after I told my father, like, "What
did you just do, Abba? You you were
coming I was upset. I was No, I wasn't
upset."
I I felt like I felt sometimes like all
of us, I felt smarter than my father.
That's how dumb I was. So, I was like
telling my father, "Abba, you were
trying to push your yarn."
When you like like a What did you just
do there? You like stuck in a shalom
bayit shiur What just happened? Like, he
wasn't coming to give a shiur. He was
trying to like make an appeal for the
shiur. But, you stick in the middle.
Like, Abba, it's not Like, what I knew
better.
He said, "Daniel, cuz it's true."
Cuz they shouldn't come if they if not
good for their wife.
I thought, "Oh, you son of a you're
going to get up and run."
And then I'm sure it was We're allowed
to get together at night cuz the guy's
going to come home and be closer to his
wife.
But, it was interesting that that in
middle of a gathering for promoting
shalom, he was like sh dark it. It's not
good for you to have your own issues to
come. I'm a
And he was but he was my and sh dark
about it.
Uh-huh. He was
okay, okay. Thank you, darling. Thank
you, darling.
But he was
he was
he was pushing a lot shalom bias.
At the end of his life, at the last
conversation I ever had with him, was a
sugia of shalom bias and he said he told
me you understand me, Daniel. That's the
last words I heard from my father.
Encouraging words before I you
understand me, Daniel. And he said good
job. It's the last words I heard. And he
said you understand me on on an issue of
shalom bias, husband and wife together.
That was the response [clears throat] to
and I wanted to read this rashi at the
construct of our people and I want to
say it to have a involved the
constructing a shul that the first thing
to build a shul to build anything
outside of us is to be mahazik, more
warmth, more presentness. We're all
human. We're human. We have to be we
have to take on care of ourselves to be
this. Nobody It's not a guilt sack.
Shalom bias is like one of those things
that can we're human. We're all human.
We live with human beings. But I want to
say at the onset of construction of any
idealism, this should be a warm shul.
Step one is we're going to all commit to
be warm with our wives. Mamish, I mean
it. From that space, there's the
construction of klal Yisrael.
Things aren't like just Hashem throws a
lesson that's not how to learn Torah.
How do I know why middle of a parsha
people love looking for the lessons?
Then you pull out the lesson, you speak
of it.
Look where Hashem wrote it. What's being
said here?
This was the besura of am Yisrael. And
at this place of a nation coming, the
construction of Avraham Avinu's dreams,
it says l'haviv hu she should be into
her, she should be into him.
That's at that space of construction,
everything flows from there, everything.
If I have I want whatever to be a warmer
place, I have to buy a better gift for
my wife's birthday.
Then the Shiva got a little warmer. I'm
nice anything everything flows from
there. Everything comes from there. In
all construction of things, I'm being
truthful [clears throat] way being
something so I said I had an agenda to
this Rashi
to studying this Rashi. I want to share
I wanted to share this with the heaven.
Have I used up all my time already? We
didn't even barely get started.
Whoever want to take it over to the
wife.
>> [laughter]
>> It's funny that
you come to an event before we started
people would would chatting and
everything is very quiet.
I'm used to I go somewhere to speak on
Shabbos I give a share to ladies before
I come upstairs and I'm smoothing. I
walk up and they'll get quiet. They
stand up I feel a lot of cover. Then I
feel horrible. You're having such a good
time it was quiet we were listening.
It's funny that the talking before is a
more important event.
And people say
It's funny we had parents stay on Sunday
we couldn't get quiet. It was
impossible. Everybody was so excited the
guys had been on and off we did it
different. The guys were fired up to see
each other. To a lot of newcomers it
looked terrible. You can't get quiet and
you own you should we couldn't get quiet
impossible. I had such a nerve.
Who wants to get quiet? People are
enjoying each other. I didn't I didn't
get quiet. [clears throat]
How embarrassing we just got quiet.
The guys were excited to see parents
were excited to see each other. You're
saying shush
to stop. You imagine a guy's in the
middle of praying and you like shush
him.
So excuse me excuse me I I know you're
praying but I want to eat some pizza
together. He's praying.
Guys putting on film. He's I know you're
putting on film but
two you didn't talk and it's like a
crazy to say shush crazy you're out of
your mind.
You stop two you and during shul I
promise I mean it. You need to think
many maybe fast I'm to say to you I'm
not talking.
Now the carrots is the carrots is let's
pray cuz we're going to talk more to you
in front prayer.
I'm going to pray for you pray and then
we'll be closer so then you can find
that inside of the chat. Two you and
talking is a very big thing, a very big
deal. You like schmoozing. You only have
a right to say chef what you're going to
do is going to cause more talking by
you.
If the carrots is such a good minion
that you didn't will schmooze better
later and I promise you're going to done
that and I shall will feel better and I
promise you have good broccolis and
better things to say to each other and
say chef.
I want to talk more. I want to talk
more. Just need to talk better and more
let's let's do this so we can talk
better.
If what you're going to say is going to
cause more so I talked to the ladies
like if after they'll talk nicer and
better and more then I'll go okay okay.
Ladies a little quiet. Let's say
something. So my chef saying like we can
talk about your life if what we're
learning going to be more than I go home
better so then then I can't come to the
sheer. I would say it's a hectic end to
go to the sheer. The guy's posture going
to go home and be a much better husband
so then I can't.
But that means I'm constructing things
that a guy makes space for his mishpacha
mamesh.
Start constructing a shul that's
that's he's talking about a warm shul, a
comfortable shul. A guy is home, is
present his wife with all those things.
Makes the getting in from there people
are overflowing into shul into each
other including more people in that.
That's that's the iPhone of construction
of everything. That's how to make a warm
shul, a warm Yeshiva, a warm idealism,
warm dairies of people and I'm you sure
that at the time of construction of I'm
you sure this was said. David could you
bring the guitar? Bring your cell phone.
We put a chair right in front of you
David.
>> [snorts]
>> What's that? Ah.
Waterbury quiet.
I'm a shonk you know we were about to
start a negative.
>> [clears throat]
>> You got them?
>> [music]
[chanting]
[singing]
[music]
>> I want to talk I want to talk about that
song though. That that song was
He's the most adorable He is like God.
Apparently I thought that was pretty
[chanting] good.
One more time.
>> [chanting]
>> I think it's the first time
>> [chanting]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
[chanting]
[singing]
[chanting]
>> Amen.
>> [chanting]
[chanting]
[singing]
[music]
[chanting]
[singing]
[music]
[singing]
>> I wanted to welcome Zundel here.
Zundel, how long ago did you move into
this part?
From Mishawaka fresh.
That solid that solid thing has I grown
on me so much in my life.
The light of being there for another
year that's in the sugar. Somebody runs
in a minute. The order that is in a
community is crazy. I don't know Claudia
so wouldn't serve without that solid.
Nothing to do with the quicker response
time. Hashem runs the world. We we all
that's not the issue. How would we
survive without this display of enough
the people leave us so good in a minute
and anything they're doing. Running for
people can be like cynical about it,
laugh about it. It's crazy.
There are people who want to second run
for another year. In the second we were
friends here at the circle. It's
Michigan.
The light that that is for our people is
an argot. It's like a crazy light that
they're getting who just in a minute run
and put everything aside, no matter
work, this, that to run for another year
is like a crazy thing. We get used to
things and stop seeing what we're
seeing. We're seeing something that's
like a lesson and a light for our whole
fever.
So for Zondo to have been tired a
beautiful year, but he he runs for
another year. That's it's a big light.
New city just got lighter. Beautiful.
>> [applause and cheering]
>> You want to welcome with Tom welcome the
whole cover here. He was the first one
here. If Todd if Todd I'm sorry. If Todd
you were the first one If Todd you were
the first one here.
Yes. Look what's going on here. Tell me.
Amazing. Amazing.
I'm going to tell you a story that
that's done about the first one there.
When we moved toward me and my wife,
there was an older community. Todd if
Todd's a young man. When we came there
wasn't a young community. There was an
older woman who came. She had been
raised in a communist kibbutz in Eretz
Yisrael. She was raised separate from
her parents.
They had a like a brilliant idea that
kids shouldn't be raised at home.
Communism. And the kids were raised in
collective Michigan.
They were raised in like a collective.
She was very upset at from people.
And she was very nice to us when we came
in and she had her own 25 year journey.
Accepting from Yidden and growing a
crazy journey. She passed away before
Sukkot a year ago.
Beautiful person and her husband. No and
Jerry.
Jerry passed away 2 years ago she passed
away before Sukkot. When we moved to
this was the lady in the city.
After the circus I was looking for a
Kyle Wolf for two years.
I was looking for a righteous convert
and I found we found a righteous convert
and he came to town and he's lifted up.
It's crazy what he's done.
It's that lady's grandson.
She knew on her deathbed she knew before
she passed. She knew before she passed.
She knew that he's coming to town bread.
If we would have dreamt the first year
that he was there that her grandson's
going to teach that I shouldn't need
that to be impressed by him. He is a big
thing but we came hot shots to town.
It was a big year living in town. Her
grandson's like lifting up the whole
city. It's a pillar.
But here here it's like pushing you see
it already
you're
You see already have a beautiful year.
It's amazing what's going on here.
Amazing what's going on.
Big things come from good starts.
Yeah.
You have a sincerity checks the air and
you make sure people can carry on
Shabbos is
It's amazing. Did you ever dream you
dreamt this would be?
No. I didn't never imagine it.
It's wild but you were the gutsy one.
You were the first one with the thought.
Amazing. You call it that.
>> [laughter]
>> It's always an action.
Wow.
Amazing what's going on here. Paid 450
also.
>> [laughter]
>> Amazing. Amazing what's happening here.
CB you live in this area also? New City
Central.
Huh?
Also New City though.
>> Yes. Yes. Such a good name for a city
that
Did they call it after the show like
It's massive.
Are there other shows in this part? Um,
not really. Not immediately. There's a
Khabar, there's a Khabar here.
Beautiful. There's
five people in the valley. All right.
It's not right here. Uh, it's 20
minutes. 20-minute walk.
In Muncie, that's like a trip to the
neighbor.
Zev, you live right here in New City.
Most of the Khabar show you live right
in New City.
David, maybe you do this. I'll close
with one thing I do have we all have to
get get running having to watch from the
clock. Give a good song to the Khabar
from you.
One of you as that you like. Yeah.
Yeah.
Sure.
I I had some Yaakov had something funny.
I just finished my Tisha B'Av. I got up
from from a year of Avelut.
And I listened to my first song, but I I
told my wife, "This is not my first
song. I heard music the whole year. I'm
in Waterbury." It was the first song I
heard without any guilt.
>> [laughter]
>> My siblings were like, "Well, think of
the first song in a year." I'm like,
I've heard about 10 songs for holiday 30
years. They
>> [laughter]
>> like, "I listened to a song without any
guilt." Just like
music was going, but
They did a Chananya and a Reish song.
I've listened to it now 16 times since
my Tisha B'Av.
>> [clears throat]
>> It's actually very good. It's crazy,
man.
That's the song I've been pounding this
week. I just heard it also this week.
He wrote it in before right when he
wrote it during the
No, no, it was during the year. Same,
but no, I'm saying he wrote it
supposedly, whatever, sometime ago. He
didn't just write it and
>> I don't know.
>> Yeah, I think he had it written and then
when they released the hostages, he put
it out.
>> didn't know. That's what I heard.
And it was the song he had I didn't
know.
Yeah, it came out right away, man.
David, what song you doing for the
heavy? You doing nice song for the
heavy. You doing a new one? Yeah,
obviously.
Sometimes they don't uh
go well.
He's trying the sign of Shua. Yeah, I'll
see if they like it. Either way, it's a
rough crowd, so it's
>> [laughter]
>> I have very low expectations.
>> There's not a lot of talking when I do
I'm saying very low expectations.
>> [clears throat]
[music]
>> Shifty, shifty, [music]
shifty the days
Call you may [music and singing]
I love so is the no of my shame.
[music and singing]
Shifty, [music] shifty, shifty [singing]
the days of shame.
>> [music]
>> Call you may I am.
I love so [music] is the no [singing]
of my shame.
>> [music]
>> Shifty the days of shame.
>> [singing]
>> Call you may I am.
>> [singing]
>> I love so
>> [music]
>> is the no
of my shame.
>> [singing]
>> All
my [music] days,
let them
>> [singing]
>> be with you
for all
my days,
all my days.
All my [singing] days,
let them be with you
for all [music] my days,
all my days.
>> [singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music and singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
[singing]
[music]
[singing]
>> All my days,
let them
be with
you for
all my days,
>> [music and singing]
>> all my days.
All my days,
let them
>> [music]
>> be with
you for
all my days.
>> [applause]
>> I believe you all have to run. I promise
that 10 I have a meeting in the Muncie,
a quick meeting that I have to go to. So
I want to just share this will be the
decision. Are you going to have a letter
to Shashi the Sharoof?
If you if I want to see how you think
that if I can help, maybe we can figure
out what I have to rub we need.
Rashi says, "Avraham and Sarah made him
make a mish the Godel. They make a huge
party."
The Yummy Godless he Godless yet stuck
tonight in the day
that they that they're going to which
partial shot to get some of shine and
say that means the day of the Mila, but
the simple shot the most for Shinom
learn is the day that he's that that
sorry men who stopped nursing gets up.
After 2 years they made a big party. Now
people can wonder we don't make a big
party
after a lady stops nursing. The valid of
shot, the simple shot it was on the nice
that Sarah had a child. She didn't just
have a child, she became a mama. She
became a mama. She can feed the child.
So the end of the miracles when she
stopped nursing, she became a mama. That
was a miracle. You make always the nice
after the referral Schliemann the place
can bring. You make at the end of the
nice you make the miracle. When somebody
is a little better you don't make the
suit. The suit is at the end of the
miracle.
So calls mine she's nursing in the
middle of the miracle. An old lady
became a mama. She became a mother. When
she finished nursing they made a big
party after 2 years.
Says Hazal Rashi brings that at the
party people doubted that Yitzhak came
from Sarah and Avraham.
At the party people gave their children
and Sarah nursed. It says Sarah me Mila
la'Avraham he Nika bun in Sarah that
Sarah would nurse
boys. She nursed many boys. and she
nursed her child one bun.
He make a bun himself. Rashi brings a
medrish she nursed many boys. Says Hazal
people doubted
that that they had the even when they
had a child in their house people
thought they adopted.
At the suit the people brought their
children and Sarah Imenu nursed all the
boys at the thing and people saw Sarah
Imenu really had a child.
If you have I'm not make Litvish is
beautiful. I come from Litvish roots. My
my mishpacha is Chassidish but I my
rebbeim is Litvish. I love Litvish. All
Torah is good.
And the Litvak Do you ever hear such a
thing? She nursed everybody's kids. It
mean kip shut eye.
I want to suggest what I think the Hazal
mean. If somebody has a different shot
in it if you get upset at me you want
much more literal. No Chassidish year is
learning that they all are handing
children to Sarah Imenu. What are Hazal
saying? She nurses all the sons. What's
happening?
To me it's pashut maish. To me like
pashut shot. You're less pashut shot
thinking she nursed well. Maybe I
could be she was nursing other people's
kids and they started believing she
It's a little bit strange cuz it's the
day after she finishes she's not able to
nurse anymore. The nice is over.
So she couldn't even nurse anymore and
then she's nursing people's kids is like
doesn't even work in shot. That's not
that's no Chassidish year CB would learn
that way. Isn't it? It's not pashut.
To me pashtus what's being said here
is when people found out Sarah Imenu is
nursing a child. I once I like animals.
I once went to the zoo and I was
watching the elephant use its trunk. I
like lost my mind. I promised in the
parking lot of the zoo I started
freaking from my hand.
I was like
guys would call I don't want to say it
to all the people I thought the guys
would call tripping. I managed to have a
look at my hand. I couldn't believe it.
I couldn't believe it. My hand is crazy.
The elephant's trunk, it was like
fluctuating away flies. Then it was
eating, was doing three that make me
tell what difference I can.
And I was in the
my hand I'm used to but I needed up when
I walked to the thing I was like
I'm looking at my hand I couldn't
believe it. I'm just used to my hand.
The Ramban says the purpose of nisan the
Ramban in parshas boi is to see a sham
and tell you get used to things.
When Sarah may knew had a child, people
started nursing their own kids. They
started becoming mothers and Sarah
becoming a mother in a shocking way.
So when you get used to it was like
woah.
I was with a few weeks ago I became a
grandfather. I don't know the segway of
grandparenting yet. My wife and I will
learn it yet.
I want to express that I became a parent
again and seeing my child become a
parent, I was young I didn't
I didn't have my kids before I had kids.
Think about that. My kids taught me to
feel. Today is the I wasn't feeling much
when I had children. I was like rooted
in action.
Now I'm like feeling to have a child is
freaky.
And I became a better parent. I became a
parent again. I'm a reborn again parent.
A parent had children. Wow, it's crazy.
The the the kindness of having a child
is close to having a child, the
responsibility, the probability, the
child that sham gives me a child to
raise, to care for, to love.
The icker said all the other is a joke.
The icker is the father taking playing
baseball with his son. That's the main
thing. That is the that arouses us to
play more ball with our children. That's
the icker right our family.
Father to be
able to hold your kid to
talk to each other
it's It's him so to get him from her
from like a gap. It's like not sure.
It's an order that it goes from one end
of the world father and put this child
is it's the did the world was created. I
don't have said you better.
When sorry may new nursed her child, she
nursed a million children. And he could
burn him Sarah. People before they know
maybe it's adopted. They made a suit to
sing sorry became a mama. People lost
their minds and they took care of their
children. If that's what it means sorry
nursed many children. Of course they
did. That's partial shadow of hazard.
The people hand her to nurse. Maybe I I
don't know. You probably still from if
you don't believe that.
I hope so.
But and and maybe it means literal I
maybe I'm not saying that to learn
literal. I doubt that's what hazard are
trying to say.
It means people handed sorry the
children nurse. She nursed everybody's
children and people experiencing the
nice through sorry. Remember they made a
big party and mish the God of the
invited everybody. Doesn't mean a lot of
food.
And this rash he says they invited the
greatest of the generation. They made a
crazy celebration to teach people the
nice of our sham. We had a child. And
how many mothers became mothers when
sorry nursed her child? How many mothers
nursed So it says sorry nursed all the
children.
And only people were awakened.
Before people say I had a child maybe I
had not that people didn't have people.
They made a big soda. The I mean God
knows she nursed everybody's children.
And I'm saying
if the cover likes the shot tire or
somebody who's into queen you said
there. If you don't like it then you
hire it.
Today all a lot of honest shows my I'm
not doing
it's all it's all there's keyboards go
yes. We need shot and rubbers and
brushes so there's all keyboards go yes.
We need all all the styles.
But it challenge yourself on a rush.
What's being said here? What's
What's being said in to understand this.
How many could this be the simple chat?
I think it's the simplest chat.
Is this a view of how that
>> [laughter]
>> You had a different simple chat, Mesh?
Never thought of it. About it.
I believe what it means.
Yankee been
You had a chat Yankee been the Russia
made the direction of Shiloh.
It's a joy. It's a joy. I hope I get it
by I want to come back again. It's a
joy. Next time we'll come with a whole
camera of that.
We'll have to bring together. I really,
really appreciate the camera. I really
this this this space measure should be a
beautiful place where you didn't feel
comfortable. Where you didn't feel warm
for this. It should be like
where it's a prayer setting the space
measure. Words of Torah exchange. You
didn't shouldn't you didn't should be
should have an alien. They should grow
in this in this holy base measure. Have
an excellent night. Thank you so much.