Shidduchim Stories & Recommendations from Gedolei Hador - Rabbi Elozer Boruch Bald

to welcome everyone to tonight's year to have the greatest sponsor and your share call leadership retire 718-851-8651 or email ist at Toshiba net.com do an extenuating circumstances of abrog is not available let's recover the corner by Melissa bold for tonight's Russia [Music] but me I called him I spoke today 12 o'clock he was supposed to come you're hoping you should come but there's a Hashem you can have a lot of good stories tonight and some Aces six advices and our past generation What secrets said about what we could do about shudokum today tonight it's a big yomptive the mishna says in the end of time is um the biggest role was tonight just like him keeper the mission says what was the Umar says six reasons why was he emptive but the mishnam specifies which is the Once the big yomtevant benoisters they went out with white clothing the girls went out in the vinegar and what did they do they needed to do him all the ultimately foreign you'll give me a lot of gold and silver nice jewelry I'll look beautiful foreign keeper the biggest Day in the year how do you do such a thing but what do we understand to understand the significance of today's that one of the reasons above they may say meatball stop dying the last 15 000 every year Tish above died fifteen thousand that is the ship of came nobody died they were waiting till the levana went up the 15th day they made it nobody's dying is for the miraculous finishing Keeper in that Stadium keeper they waited till the half a month tell him they believed that we're talking about Hashem took away his cars facilities from then on it became forever okay it is forever Generations till today we don't say doesn't fast tomorrow if he gets married because it was significance when you didn't go away when you do him and you keep the time of the time he says a different reason foreign all the mauritian was born the sixth day that Aloft Israel but halfway was when the world was created from Rafael's 40 days there's a new creation A New Beginning now a new start now now is the time you could start with learning were able to marry each other it's Locker for growth for two reasons number one is the denim stop tishaba finished seven days the shiv of Tisha was finished today and we start on Fresh yearning for the best and two is it's man 40 days before which is now Starts Now it starts so now we can start generations of that's why this is my circle but I want to go on to speak about I spoke weeks ago here share about you and I said then that I went to meningitis to find what are we going to do here hundreds of thousands of baham and girls hundreds of thousands around grew very little very little and people are struggling not tens of thousands of boys or girls are still waiting and it's not a crisis it's a lot more than a crisis and we don't know what to do I went to have a go and I got the police and he told me the problem is missing in other words the missing status and we spoke then about it that is not like people say in the street you can hear that Shia look it up four weeks ago I gave tens of Khazana today you have to do it at the as maximum till you find that's what pumpkin actually said um the number one it's a Mitzvah every status every Funko that you do is a Mitzvah like the Moses and conditions to marry yourself and your children and number two is that the Teva Island says a person should sell everything his houses clothing everything together you sell your whole house to get a for your child she says [Music] they're crying away everybody has to do the maximum and that's when I spoke last time I'm not going to speak over the direction I I had my my son last got married I want to tell you I didn't tell you in how it started and I just want to tell you everybody could do for sure I have a niece that's 17 years old and she gets on the phone every day because she cares and she calls up everybody for sure people think she's 30 years old they have no idea 70 year old girl she called she sends resumes and she called the chapter and gave the shout from my son's resume she's the one I gave recognized condition because she calls she has meetings over the phones hours every day a 17 year old girl no nobody has to know she's not married if you have pain you need to share the go help others and you'll see you find yourself also my wife told me a story a friend was in Yeshiva and you know those days every time this new schoolers that come out which sometimes helps sometimes don't but everything is great they want to make a big yard to suit in the bassan's yard side you'd basically sleep the whole class you know it's like a shamakazakh you know and there's a shiva's 15 old bakram and the receiver said came heard about he says David he didn't like it he says welcome don't do these things young buckham they wanted to do not for themselves the 15 year old they want to lose fathers and then she said you want to do something you're entirely for foreign on the day of the yard side extra few hours in order to have excuses with the public they were learning together one Booker says you know I'm gonna look for my brother and the other book says I'm going for my sister they call Mom to tell the mother you know we learned an extra few hours me from my brother and him his sister and this mom you know maybe you know and the mother goes and really called up somebody and to speak it and within two weeks my wife's friend [Music] so establish has no Google people have to do family groups I definitely start from tonight a new project Partners in Torah but there's partners for sure people have boys find that some other boys either think a mother has a friend who has a boy find out what you what people spoke with you when it's not interesting for you maybe it's interestingly friend shared information you have a daughter shared information you know a friend from school you teach with somebody you have worked with somebody every name you see is you could be saving daughters there's no Google Partners somebody said everybody has pronounced the project you have upon everybody's have at least one part you can have ten Partners who you're helping working together daily or weekly to make sure that's establish here from four weeks ago it's new things but it's the topic I spoke about I want to that was our moisture stanberg's idea that's all I went to many times and asked him he was very sharp of Steinman helicop Steinman he says he says I was an American I told him why [Music] this one doesn't want to be Machado with him this one doesn't want to be Michelle to him now that's very tough to hear you know people say everybody's about guys but I I spoke to my friend one of my friends he tells me you know well after the lag after the second world where everybody there's no parents to make sense but you know it's very painful to say I don't there's so much talk in the duration so against the parents I don't want to be one of those because nobody should nobody should be approved nobody should be approved but let's let's look it down I think the reason is because they were happy to find who they could find they were to build the future Generations they weren't picky they were that was the reason but whatever let's look at reps timers let's see I'm not a bug either everybody thinks he's not a bug either but let's look at the Matthias everybody has certain image on himself how he looks but you don't know how people look at you they call you Rabbi and Mr and businessman other comes to the if they don't want you so you have to look what's available you can't look you're not about Guyver but what's the point of Steiner name the value you think about yourself the other people are not thinking that way so what can you do it could be could be someone that had a bad name about you but the Matisse is that people don't think the way you think you want to get to to to to New Jersey you put in the GPS you gotta know where you are we have mine look oh I know I want this uh this type of boy this type of girl but what do you are and people on people's eyes but they're whatever that's what Steinman is saying basically we should have to see what is available it shouldn't be about guy or see what people have people looking to see of other people could get better value should get better but I'm saying if he goes a while and it doesn't work you have to see what you could do I went to avocado because they left because he was still and he told me it was a very a dealer person he didn't speak so sharp he says similar but a little different interesting every person has certain ideas that he needs that he likes and that he wants if a person would put away his own interest or interests you know different things he doesn't want but just know I want to make marry my child to be able to turn me the story of this and and not I need I need this I need that I spoke to my children he told me he wants to try to speak and he called up a uh that oh there's two of a big Veer I can't handle this is a big Veer I have to spell two after everything it was going to cost me a lot of money it's too much for me next day calls again I have a different idea for you for sure Ah that's a poorper it's not for me Paul snowing next day called Saturday I have something between not agree and not a pauper so the lady says there's nothing people look for their own interest they're looking for excuses for interest what do I not when you have to marry a few children you have to look what's what's really needed that's the third answer Mr stanberg you create with millions of dollars thousands in every neighborhood take away your own interests fourth and God I went to the tanker oven borrow park it says okay already he tells me that him and his rabbits in made between 50 to 70 years ago now it doesn't work and so why doesn't it work it's missing Trust people don't believe anybody anymore the closest they don't believe what I bought them don't believe nobody anymore he says he won't call the gear that he has a bar in his shoulder he knows him personally he learns with him he knows him and he wants to speak for the give his daughter if they ask him to speak it you know who he is so what's up you want some information to find it no if you tell me the hash of me there's a learner I'm ready to meet the Baka that's how it was people had Trust doesn't know my trust so it comes to what are we supposed to do he tells me I didn't have the safer I got it to my bathroom Haley give Hillary it was a sadly conditioned under Europe that moves similar like that Maya I bought a copy of the safe and Simmons rights a letter to somebody right first I'm warning you Allah if you do it it becomes a bigger she gets older which then was 12 and a half years old but today in this different age free a slave and give it to her she tells me take care of in the first thing that I looked at the shock says she is such low-level people they did things like going they act they had they had a very low job a low self-esteem you were the lowest ship alone still ligamara says if you if that sure means it was a good slave he knew his slave is a good one who's good for the daughter but lose millions of dollars for slave forever and the whole student is going to say what I married your daughter you gave to your slave what did you do tomorrow and I saw and say see them rights 527 that Mauritius for the same reason temporary was a greater because he saw it there's no that he took this so he warned them anymore and also he says if you don't know how to have what you want had to learn again today everybody wants you know what all the nose whoever tells me no that's who I want not to who's available or no no he doesn't know that it's 10 to him I want all the knows that's what people want that's what he's saying if you do not have what you want want what you find in other words again I'll say it again if you don't find what you want want what you find the other words that's in English I said it right okay if you don't find what you want want what you find this is what the hell is says and it's generation people are looking and unfortunately years go by and the heart goes out to them it's so painful to say what I'm gonna say but it's like the Gamora get we just learned that phenomenon of the tissue of days she wanted food she sent a slave he was a matipish you know bring me rich white flower he comes back not available bring me clean bread bring me dirty bread bring me barley bread it goes by its hours and she goes out and she tripped them and got all them under it and she died the gemara says unfortunately boys and girls new ones are not being created age 20 and 30. they actually made that boom by day one not by day 20 or 30. whatever boys and girls are out there that's what it is we gotta do what the Haley get milk said if you don't have what you if you can't find what you want you want what you if you want what you find all right it's painful but that's what the fact is that let's see is lighter eight to number five this is what I want to speak tonight A Lot try a lot about I went to many times and then after I have time I'll get to our upgesh and Sal also told me before with Nifty and we're gonna show it by the denim yet Hashem and if if forget time or be able to snitch sneak out some of the stuff from the the video they ate that are Alias didn't tell us but let me go to Abraham kanesky I went to I told him in America you want to change the gamara de gamara says it's hard like you want to change the gamara what do you want to do that's what it is it's hot I said but what should we do we need him she says Miss follows okay next year come back and tell them they're going to own a medical term is falling event they did all the shot lists they tried to do him they called and they will spell now what foreign by the end it works I am old is married or a bunch of kids many years ago I sent them I want the letter and I said they're waiting for with a great boy she said same type of events this is one of his many answers that he said where did we find the Ghazal I want to elaborate about davening for trying to get stories packed in to see how we see davening pertaining to him we find I asked somebody that you know you got to do status and you gotta dive and you got to do both so the guy says no status only by paralysis is wrong totally wrong they're on bound rights and passions and all that they should come into being he it was only Sim he had tens of thousands of Bahamas with food for a year time is such a small table how is that possible wasn't possible it was Nissan everything was Nissan so Hashem should just put them all in one place and that's it no marble no marble in this place because even though everything was Nissan but you have to do as much as possible she looked like October should be tavadik this is part of it as a house there's a favor it's as much doesn't work in other words if you want to have a sheerus you gotta have to filler and you gotta have a shot list one without the other doesn't work the same is you want to have children bottoms for him this is a clown you need both and that's why here says every person should dive in for the time that's gonna come which time that's gonna come what are you gonna find the ace to the time you're going to find you're going to find the wives that when the time comes when are you gonna need that's when you're gonna have this at the right time you have to start down beforehand foreign that means starts diving a boy starts down we say it every day by the way I once told you know we're asking for good Indica when when I go to Yeshiva five years old the baby says every day the battle tournament they're both right foreign and that's where the prime character told somebody somebody asked them watch it for help it's because already made up 40 days before when I did my took his she said Abrahim said he made up with the but he didn't say when and Darwin could be mocked into and I found the before a major Secretary of Rights belayer because she Davin not only did it rip Alexander that that she doesn't have to marry Ace of that she can marry Yankovic faster because of Philip so you see Phil is a special Kojak special for sure let's understand how trailer works and why it can help us I'm going to say some days rights Phil is the biggest thing more than any Toyota mathematism he's the biggest was not answered Ella bit filler only through darwinen foreign for two reasons to do the missus and also to see her this all because wanted to see it destroy he had only meant that I'm pretty sure explains that and when he sees it through his eyes he will get the highest madrego of nunchar kadusha the able to answer them in half you can't go you'll get them the scar of the missus a person wants to do a Mitzvah and he couldn't do the Mitzvah get the scars if he did the Mitzvahs you'll get to have all the mixes plus you'll go see it the further your answer have why was it answer the Tories is because it's filler factors what do you mean had awesome learning and darling who says it's bigger who is Philip bigger than everything else is not the biggest Mitzvah than everything else in all the myths is just as big as philosopher but it's not the biggest mitzvah it's the biggest rip exodin a person is more powerful than everything why is that pressure explains he says because when a person nobody wants that she gets Khan is in this world we want to get star in that world because Mitzvah is tremendous we don't want to lose that scar is Hashem gave us a gift the big celebration you gave us a gift I'm gonna ask you you're the boss of the world but I'm gonna ask you you're gonna listen yeah we're gonna tell Hashem what to do this is a gift even she gave us [Music] a gift that we can ask him the strongest thing is but you go to a bunch of operation I bet you give me a mountain I don't deserve it but I'm asking you please help me but Madness kingdom is stronger than everything and that's the LIE he asked Hashem gave him half and this because of his Thriller this is the strongest and then people asked says he said um and he was not answered yes strengthen yourself give yourself double energy and strengthen your heart vocabulation again and govern again the majorish writes similar the same word but adds three words keep on governing the yes you'll see there's a time but sometimes your Twitter is going to work keep on diving and the third Gamora um this District's passion someone that governs long ain't philosopher his Thriller does not go back Hashem answers him in all of them speaks and I asked Hashem isn't so you see if a person is going to answer you Yeshua the machine everybody much is on this passion if you look in the pastures akev is a very passion with such a beautiful passage such uplifting the passion but you see in the pasture tremendous thing is when when up three times to shamayam the first time you went up to get to Lucas then Thomas the Lucas were broken Finnish the first time second time he went up says the plastic and he threw himself down Hashem he threw himself down to Hashem Hashem please answer me he went 40 days to shamayam says deposit the Snapper of Hashem Hashem explains the whole story again the Apostle continues with different different Musa and he goes back again says Rashi he repeats the second time you went up again and and it says it doesn't say Hashem again first it says I fell down in front of Hashem and he listened to me he says get let's start again let's start getting new look highs he didn't listen to everything but he listened to moisture the plastic says bushes give you more muscle what Christ role did that he made Hashem angry more times and more times and more times and then he goes back to repeat the story to explain the details he starts again vast Napoleon Hashem and I fell down in front of Hashem but he's following Hashem it doesn't say he was answered later 20 seconds later it says and you know and I went up kayama Murray showing him I went up again a third time for 40 days just like the first time what do you mean it's the third time what do you mean like the first time says Rashi the third time was John Davis the loved moisture I've been just like the first time the first time he went up the first time to get to Lucas Hashem was excited to see him he got broken then he went up a second time he fell down for Hashem and he listened to him when he fell down then he said he fell down and he doesn't no answer the third time Hashem listened to him so says 40 days and he didn't give up but he did it twice he did the second time 40 days and the third time 40 days Dr Gomorrah how do we know if you're American the toilet doesn't go back Hashem it doesn't say he doesn't but when the explanation of the pasture goes on it says again I fell down and I doubted but it doesn't say Hashem before it says Hashem list why did it say before not now and then it says later the third time is like the first days Hashem was excited by Hashem and that's how you keep happened the end of the fourth the third 40 days was in kippa it's detailed but you see the posture it's so beautiful it's this week's Pasha and it's negative filler that you don't give up the Daven listen the words you know why the Gabor brings this the third time not the second time 40 days that he doesn't and also what's the master bring from this week's passion moisture being the Darwin so many times he always answered he doesn't speak Spanish the first 40 times he went to Daven is not counted that's called lengthy davenen 40 days not 19th Avenue you know why isn't it like it says two reasons listen to these two reasons why it's not considered he doesn't long I'm learning the words foreign the whole day the first day of the 40th Day nothing doing Hashem entering him so what do you what's the choice again so it's not called a long davening you don't you didn't test along this the first 40 days if he wasn't answered it's called Davon if you're not successful in business you start again I I tried so many times so but you didn't start yet wasn't successful in those 40 days it's not considered the lengthy dominance that what don't be discouraged thousand times that's not cool second reason why is a company issue avoid is those 40 days you have to stand to forgive for ruining the first 40 days the first forty days he comes down and the Lucas gets broken you're doubting an extra 40 days that's not counted alone you have to repay for what you ruined in other words is that when you have to dive in again and again and again and you give up if you're starting the episode wants that you don't give up and the second is who knows what we have to be Miss sacking for our heart we heard other people that's the count of the language what's counter the language there that the third time around Rashi writes that the ABC was excited the moisture verbena came up he listened to him the third 40 days was bahava he loved moistura bennu the middle 40 days was because anger so the first 40 days the last 40 days right when he came up I'm excited for you why is moisha being after that then he should have just haven't finished one happening or whatever and they will still give him the books here we learned that you have to dive in a language what do we see from the spiritual and that's why Taki got everything the 40th Day in Kipper kapura from I said Eagle he got the lucois and the stadium keeper forever that's because Murray should have been without the lenfield Avenue what do we see from this a person struggling Dominique if we didn't start you gotta keep it looking again and maybe you have to cover for the time of class and even if you go whole thing you got to keep on diving and that's the longest diving you don't get you don't give up darling Dominics forever someone came to to Steinman Hashem he struggles for long years should have happened he was so excited to give the news remember those days that you're so excited please help me help with every partner thank you this part work thank you yeah such a scarves to keep up there and scarves keep it forever keep on dominant keep on thanking Hashem you've done this keep on going we must leave the kids fighting Kinder this is what we learn from this Gamora there's no limit of davening in our story my knees are different knees so their older sister was waiting for and struggling so in school she wanted him to Cobble upon herself even the marriage or shorts for girls she wanted him a couple to do my roof yes I get a couple should have been 40 days that's what he comes by with old school of 40 days 40 days is so she doesn't 40 days comes 40 days I'm doing it again 40 days second time and the second 40 days and now she is from a sister talking on the phone that she has also a friend that's struggling with a sheddar and they're talking about a shadow and this and that and she's you know I'm gonna do a third time married 40 Days for both for my sister and for my sister's friend I did the third time 40 days married guess what the 40th Day of the marriage that she did Hostess the gun engage and his sister's friend got engaged the same night before the third time forty not to give up and they got married the same week yeah assistant's friend a girl a young girl she decided her own not to give up double the energy of davening use strong characters Phil I want to speak about it's not just about the canvas how much philos the Acres about how that fella this has to do with this week's passion I wish I had the time such a powerful and passions told us he speaks dear about this expansion beautiful I'm Gonna Save the kitchen but it's Rush in this week's past should we find praise the Veritas it's not like like Egypt why it is wrong you have to wait for the rain limitation you have to wait for the rain let me try him it was easy they set up the needless the water they had roads all over where the waters are going to the fields you open up the river [Music] shh no you don't need no rain or nothing it worked by itself easy but at this role you don't have vanillas sorry but at this role you have rain it that's the mile of it's all that's mountains and and there's no needless to cover the whole mountains you have to come on to the rain that's the Brock events as well what's the positive sayings District Smasher another thing says in this expansion destroys a mile says what's the nature the muzzle it Israel Hashem looks down every day ah he's in trouble no rain mess him up he's good let's give him good you want to live in such a such you're telling people that are coming from the mid bar they come from Australia hey you're going there they're going to be with a sticky the whole time they want you they'll give you good too bad too be careful the Mila Zucker going by Jaco devino between different yaakov's Brock and Asus Brock is right it says I'm gonna give you again and again this like the second time already very eaten and I'm also gonna give you extra love I'm Gonna Give You additional things I mean I don't need to get again and again I need to get money set for the month and keep it to the month imagine I'm gonna give you have another day I'll give you again in this week's passion says by the mon that the Abisha brought in the morning gave us money in the mid but the gruesome on what the hell they come on says the gemara Yuma I involved while every day we're nervous now we can't sleep a whole night are we gonna get Monk tomorrow have breakfast why do we need money for every day for a whole year he gave him money for a year he never saw his son his son ever showed up ah it doesn't show up okay I'm gonna give him slowly I'm gonna give him every day you have to come to me after being a mensch them she wanted us to come closer to Hashem here in this world do not hear just to get food and money this is not the tactless here we're in this world for different reason we had to be closer to Hashem and do the Russian Hashem so mainly this is the biggest Matana that we have to get money every day yeah it's the biggest Matana that the baby should look to you every day that he's watching me that we should be do the right thing and we should grow and that's why news my time if she doesn't want to know about them where do you see this by the knockash the no hush them he gave him wherever he wants to go he has food he has Earth he could eat the Earth what's shocked because they just want to know about him he kicks him away but Hashem made us needy people we need his help every minute punish him I need your help and we should become closer because we're going to come better people we say every time every day boy Reyna for sure boys the able to create a lot of people and things that are lacking the person the choices it means like bread and water I can't live without what's the main food of a person what we're lacking besides that I'll call mashabara besides that on the extra things I'll call on all the extra things that Hashem created which is like ice cream potato chips and the gamora's time places as apples that was the treat so again I thank Hashem that he gave things that we have to have besides and I'll call mashabara everything else that he created in order in order to live with it to get life from it every live person creature that's the partial touch going why does she make that we have to eat you know why one of the reasons I have to come on to him help me I need food doctor born and they should be lacking food that's a brokerage about all the extra things that I have that's a broker you know why they give us his life not just gosh mystical life nishoma to be a living person with Hashem we need we will need people Hashem that's the biggest brother the biggest brother has to come on to Hashem and this is the whole pass of this week yes but it's too too late this is the whole week's pasture passes Hashem is he gives you the strength don't forget that he's the one and that's when this week's passion we started Muslims this expansion why [Music] as well both are like Chris Johnson they come from the same island in Zoya beer has some more things that the oldest golden Cloud Israel why I brunch them you give me everything is dead every minute thank you for this Hashem I need you foreign [Applause] we should grow and that's what we see all in Cloudy Soul our Sadiq him particularly you can learn it from very famous it says saw on him that Hashem is with him how did he see Frank the message but he knew the cavanas he saw through his his face what what he is what Sadiq he is talking a whole time talking to register he said remember these words you could say it yourself you're the one I trust him after who patroni Patron is Russian ordin Master you're my master and you I rely on and you are my master the name is saying something he says what are you doing he's in kishev he says no I'm just davening and he said that I should be myself and that's what you said then that's why people in the older Generations always live like that and a lot of people live like that they talk to Hashem today's generation we have bigger Learners bigger davenance but we don't have the posture Hashem 40 years ago this is a very important thing to talk to somebody I need help to talk to Hashem but there's another point that I want to mention we say in ashrae every day what is the title of those words Hashem is close to everybody that calls upon him everybody and then it says to those that are going to call Hashem the MS two caches it says whoever called and it says whoever's going to call and it's as bad as he says so when is Hashem close to you when you buy Amazon words he says when you ask Hashem something Hashem is going to help you but it doesn't mean it's going to be successful it doesn't mean be successful like we find the meatball our father they wanted meat give the meat you want me whatever you want you'll get it doesn't mean it's successful will help you but you better make sure that you also even left always be with Hashem that's just when you need something to use Hashem for a service when you always the English is going to answer you if you miss if always you're going to call him like I told you foreign no matter what a person has to Darvin but I want to say a deeper shot than that in college were sick they went into bed in the hospital they both know and one died one was alive this one thousand is this one Darvin why would this one answered why this one wasn't answered he diving with his gun to kavana with the Gunter Amos did such a thing sometimes a person diamonds a lot but it doesn't come out damn it it doesn't feel I'm Dominic because I have to die when you get him out of the skin I'm begging you but there's such a thing called Hashem sorry answers you I have a toner now it's that the massive is no good but sometimes a person has a sorrow the English then the heart is so broken he calls that Hashem please help me I have nobody else to help me is very easy found as robertsaurus your help on Atari Nimitz because I have no other way only you can help me and that's what about yeah he didn't have a penny to give so Jaco started crying he said the Kapil tell him which became this ghoul including and the Asha says he used to say it foreign it comes out sometime when a person Downs a lot it comes out and that nikuda shall live that's that's I don't I'm I'm ready to lose myself and then I'm like no I'm not gonna lose myself and we all the boys and girls are listening to this all over the world we have a a c for tonight we're trying to turn over the world to meet many of them to turn over the world do not give up hope do not give up hope yakovino almost gave up hope he had nothing to himself Ace of a brother wants to kill him he's going to love him no money and he said nobody to help me nobody and they said I mean I Can Lose Myself and he went right there we need this physic all the time and Dan I think it's a different shot in the plastic of the universe of always being attacked the MS like he says if you're not always a tadiq who says the thrill is good no conversation will occurred if every Thriller it helps you know when when you want to get there when you want to get the call out the MS you're not holding that yet you want to be in that Madre you're not hold him about that but you want to be damn Mason to family myself I hope my mother's not Market my mother is apparently looking at this role but there was no panel so over 60 years ago from whoever knows the situation itself was no food there was no bread to eat not the pressure was much worse 60 70 there was no food and my grandfather climbed off a big Sadiq he had a big mishpaka provide to the family all the kids slept to one room and basically strong neighborhood you know may charm neighborhood and he came here to make some panosa and send the money to Israel my mother lived the whole family the kids night Israel but somebody heard them I was a big sadakis Russia and they wanted my mother for America most are coming to America what is she is really good was she coming to America he's sponsoring the Visas sponsoring the tickets he spans and everything showing yeah no there's a whole nice in my Shaman why she was masking dude she knew to call him that he said she should go to America so she went she came to America she didn't want to shadow and my grandfather who was poor he was at Sadiq Nobody Does it today five thousand dollars come with tickets go back my grandfather's big fools my mother said no to this he paid back every penny that caused the Visa and the tickets and all that so the mice and my mother was here then my mother ready when she was here ready maybe she'll find difference she took a job she was a principal a teacher in a high school and they loved her because she she was a principal and it's a small story when she was a girl so she had a lot with the cell and Robin she took a actually the kid somebody said she was here she'd go back not go back she was very old girl and my father was a marketing she was ready older boy and my grandfather was to broken because the didn't work out and now she's she's sitting here what go back to him at this road not go back yeah she said what did we do anything status but it came today it came to that broken heart it came to that Ms one night he goes to the best medicine they didn't have safe sonar and stolen Rodney Street you know that was out the solar shoes ready 100 years old now now it's Nitra and he goes around koi dish opens on koi dish nobody wasn't sure how to find out the story because I heard it from somebody that's knocking later somebody he told me the story and he wanted to earn Kurdish he pulled out of his heart you can help me always help you can help me fighter I'm never talking the next morning came to shoot after my mother my father's Angus genre this is the coolest on there if you can double down like we should have been 40 days and 40 days and keep on dabbing like he says never give up to keep on diving but then according this is gonna come out and then the quarter comes out Hashem is going to listen to you he's going to give you a don't give a pop with so much precautions so much to Phyllis but we have to know when we dive into that we shouldn't come and sometimes he complains to Hashem I doubted cover on I poured out my heart we are here it's dangerous you know how to do that says I must have this girl I must have another dangerous because you gave me the opportunity to die with you am I worth to tell them what to do it burns them give me this if he doesn't want what I mean I'm telling you to do different than what he understands better than you but he gave us some on the screen that we can't have and he gave us this gift that we could pour our heart attack and he's always listening to us some dementish rights some fellas need 40 days some need much longer there's a different whole message answered right away some thrilling the eighth rods and some need 40 days like I should have been worshiping it down and around the clock 40 days so we have to be very careful when you come to this Village she will come from my door bring something I think of everything you gave me like this week's passion because every opportunity to thank Hashem and every part of a bunch of thank you did this started working thank you this and with thank you helps a lot so we have to be very careful about this we have to know that every Civic is orchestration the medicine rights that some people have to go with length for the Civic work very hard and some not the message that came to him and yeah we don't know we don't know if it's time maybe we'll paint off maybe it has to upon we don't know what it is but we have to be talking that has been do our most powerful status Hashem I want to say a story about this about a sugar there was there's a big South Park nobody knows about the stanislover happened 40th Street yeah it sounded like an old sadik yeah small island nobody knows about him he told me the story and live in the black many years ago there was a stanislav rib in London and when the stanislavan London lived before his that happened after he took my story of 50 years ago more 60 years ago 50 years ago told his son I don't let you go live in America Tafe in America you know 50 60 years ago was different than today today's in America was still with the old you know way of thought either London or ET Israel England lets Israel I don't let you go so we spoke a shadow he went to living at this role and fine but what happened Hashem wanted differently she needed to go for a procedure or something it wasn't available so you have to go stay in America for a while and once you stay in America for a while what happens is he had to stay there to check because of myself he had to stay in America and he was so hurt that his father didn't want to show me an opening should be in America his father told him nished American life but the baby still made it this way this is how this is he has to follow it he came here he bought a house he bought a small stable same old stable foreign what should I do um told him the following because there's a vulture of michaelina on Christmas your heart should not be means split on the ebishta which means your heart should be total two ways live off your heart should be totally for Hashem both hearts Rashi Butch Markham doesn't mean Place more can he can mean I'm sorry more come here doesn't mean just Hashem like the Posh attached Markham come in also the place a person has a tendency that if I would be in this shoe out of this Yeshiva out of this panel out of this wife and this husband and this this neighborhood I would be better put me this I'm unfortunately I'm not too I'm not doing properly your heart shouldn't be split with the place that you are in because wherever Hashem sent you whichever place you're going whichever Civic Hashem gave you there's a reason and don't say that if I would have a different one or a different one we better it would not be a lot worse Hashem knows what you talk as Hashem knows what the reason why you're going through asham wants this and you should be happy what Hashem is doing he's fearing you and the situation the place the time the massive ly ever told him that Hashem wanted obviously he didn't choose to be here that means you have a taxi to be successful okay accepted the words wasn't finished from my wife's side who he lived in London and he died in the old stanislava show the original style of show the original stance of the shoe of the of the free of the free the Trey's father moved when they moved to the other show because does it have the same Allah of the first shoe or to lose natural I have the same spot I dive in the mouth I have the same time no it's a new shoe I can't tell her no it's the same show he wanted to keep the caduce should continuing and he was it but he wasn't sure and people were making him no no it's not the same who said foreign [Applause] the devil was so happy that that they told him this because he wanted that they held us the same shoe and with that story they gave him the hezek the stanislav in episode was also the first show this most evil and 40th Street which closed most of the time the whole week one day myself written by Penn like 20 pages and do everything why does she make all this for him obviously you have to learn everything everything is made for you who is it made for has guns it wasn't printed I don't have it the family even doesn't have it maybe some kids have it one day this 10 page or whatever it is written by hand the copy lands up in stanislative nobody knows till today how it happened nobody brought it there he tells me I was upset why am I here why is my let me touch this roll and they brought me a y but and I was a so upset about it my father didn't want to shoot me I should live in Barbara Park why am I here but now I see who gave music to my father in the Harlem that the first time shoe is the second son and this desserts dinosaur show he came over to Savoy to show them I'm here I'm also here I'm still in your show in Borough Park in style of Love they give him the physique we don't know how Hashem runs this world and when it comes to him each place we all need his acclimation I'm not going to get to to to the guest a-listing tonight because it's against Russia but I do want to say one thing this week's Passions the last word in last week's parash of today you do the qurashi in this world you do um next word the kabulary there's no sky in this world the next World the next plastic says the opposite there's no passion to church that I know that has so much great things like if this week's passion you have good kids everybody will be healthy and I can eat no boy no you don't mean I can need no doctors nothing everything will be good that's this expansion no I call her everybody kids that's passion Acres so many Brokers it says right beforehand um this world you do you don't get next World this world you gotta toy the niches go through mysterious and still have a talk on Hashem and Maria it starts if you learn the Torah and all the myths verse you get the millions of behavior this billionaire every children family should do him everything you want it's a stealer one plastic the last particle that's passion to this first possible uh boys say tonight we're going out here best Hashem we're all going out with Partners we're gonna do is Miguel why whenever you say pass that's tar I can say if I hear that I could have done this and I could have done that that's why he for higher is I'm going to do that's going to do that's simple I'm gonna do don't tell me what you did from now on what you're going to do akiv misses the people step on they don't want to do but I still wanted to save AKA when you want to do it you save yourself a hundred a thousand times language that's a lot of thousand times that's a regular Mrs but for her if we do a Mitsubishi sitting around wasting your time every extra minute you call up a friend how can I help you with a I have a son you have a son I had these a few things spoken for me you had these two things let's share I have a a young couple they they know they they know what's in the school on the work all the they didn't above it what are you sitting up you're not retired you know so many families help your kids and income help other people and this is the biggest cause for all your egg ever will go wrong to do them for others the days everything he ran now we have what against him this is the biggest thing but that's what it is should be easy and show you the right way and every relationships [Music] foreign [Music]