Shemos (5786) The 3 Stages of Personal Redemption

Shalom and welcome back to our par we find that many many times throughout his we find that he often brings down a ver from his grandfather the to help us understand what was and what ultimately led to the gula and this focuses on the words of civil the word civil could mean the backbreaking labor the servitude that the Mitsam put us in. But the word civiliz could also mean from the ability to be able to be civil, the ability to be able to handle something. And this tells us in the name of his grandfather that as long as they were able to handle the gal, as long as they were comfortable there and they were okay there and they weren't itching to get out, they weren't looking to get out, they weren't crying out to the we need to get out of the place that we're in. As long as they were still able to be, they weren't able to get out. It was only when it was only when the died and cried out to how long are we going to be in Mit and they said we can't handle the challenges anymore not that was the moment when things shifted and that was the moment when went from being init to getting out and this is a thatim said over and the brings this down in multiple places for example in pes He writes that the reason why we need to mr on the night of on the night of Pes is not just to remember the challenges that went through but to remember that it was the bitterness and the taste of bitterness and the feeling that this is horrible and we can't handle this anymore that ultimately led us to be able to get Adam and we have to recognize in our own gullis as well that it's only those moments when we say we can't handle it we can't handle being a gullis for another moment we can't handle not having the bdash we can't handle not being able to bring carbonas not having a having Isa get in the way of us fulfilling your rotten. Only once we're able to taste the bitterness and say it's bitter. Being a gull is bitter. It's dark. It's something that we want to get out of. Only once we say it can't be gulus anymore. Only then that becomes the moment that we're then able to get out of mitz. But in the year toughness takes it one step further to help us understand that these feelings that a person needs to feel the feelings of bitterness and the and the inability to feel those those are not just things which happened in mit are not just things which are happening globally and tool as a whole as we go through this gullus and move from the stage of gullis to mit very soon the state of gula but this is going to explain it that although it takes place on a national scale to all of it also can take place within each and every person and This focus focuses on what we say every day in after we say goes ahead and takes out prisoners. He goes ahead and redeems those that are humble and he helps those that are poor. Says what are these three things? What's the difference between a person who's a aner, somebody who's tied up, somebody who's anov, somebody who's a dum? What are these three madregas says that these three madregas reference three levels of people the way they're experiencing go the first level the highest level is which obviously it's not an order as we'll see soon it's not an order begins at then and then but says is the highest level is they're called they're humble the people that are they themselves they're not really in golas. They're only in golas for the claw. They're only in golas in order to give the kayak and the strength the Israel to be able to survive in golas to be able to get out of golas. And the suffering that these sadikim are experiencing is not because of them. As it says about that, that the moment that he was born, the whole house was filled with light came down to this world in order to go ahead and help get but not for himself. Says this is a reference to the obviously being the ultimate But it's all of the sadikim that are connected to all the sadikim that are living in golas and they themselves are not are not in golas. Although physically their body may be in golas. Their nam is not in golas and is not suffering the suffering of the rest of on their own behalf rather on behalf of the rest of they're going ahead and suffering feeling the pain of helping climb out of the that they're in. That is the redeems those that are those that are humble. A reference to the says this is the average person who's in gaining him. He's in Gulas and he recognizes I'm in Gollas and it's challenging him in gis and he says I feel locked up. I feel tied up in way in ash way financially emotionally but I feel tied up. I feel like I'm not capable of going ahead and utilizing my full potential inn or because of the fact that I'm stuck in a very very small confined gash space and it doesn't allow me to be the person that I want to be is a reference to those that are banim those that realize they're in gullus and desire to be able to get out. They desire to be able to move out of gulas. Says, what does mean? He helps those that are poor. It means those that are so poor they don't even realize that they're in gulus itself. Asal the ultimate poor person is not one who's lacking financial resources but one who's lacking das who's lacking knowledge says means helps those that don't even realize they're engul to recognize they're engul in order to rise up to the madrega of the serum and ultimately to be able to get the to be able to get out of gullis itself and these are the three madregas that take place within gulos the first madrega being the sadikim the sadikim are really not even gullis already escaped gullis ly above Gullis. Nevertheless, they're there in order to help get out. Those that are in Gulos and recognize they're in Golas, the Maitia. And finally, the Dalum. Those that are so stuck in Gullis, they start to become comfortable and they start to give up and never thinking that it's possible to get out of Golas. That is the Dalum. And each one of these three Madreas need help need help to get out of their state of Gas to be able to get into this. In other places says that this is why we find four shinies of Each one of these three, the first three major which is each one of them reference another one of these three majus ultimately leading to which is the fourth stage the stage when able to be brought to the and each one of these three stages take place as we said on a global scale to all of the three parts of the sadikim the benim and the sadikim is a reference to the the benim is those that realize they're in gulas and want to get out and finally the it doesn't just mean the wicked people the people that are so stuck in gullis that is the helps each one of these things and then ends off with an unbelievable short paragraph the same that that took place in it takes place at every says even more than that in every which means in every single human in every single yid that's living through the stages of golas and every golas that we've been through. You can also find all of these three things. Every person has three aspects to him. Every person has all three parts. The every person has these three parts. There are parts of our that we feel like we're the we're really not engul. Those are parts of oursel that we've already gone ahead and experienced what the calls. We've experienced our own personal salvation. And in that area we don't feel stuck at all. We feel like if we're ready going ahead and we're actualizing our potential or maximizing our potential that's the area in which we feel like we're at sodic for some people maybe shabas maybe ding maybe learning there's areas in our life where we feel like we're not stuck in goal it's like we're not stuck we're thriving we're going ahead and doing everything we could do in that area that is a level of the second is says our parts that we feel like we need a tremendous amount of help in parts that we feel we're stuck in but we recognize we're stuck in we recognize the flaws and the challenges that are there and therefore we beg to get us out. Get us out of the place that we're in. And finally says, parts of us that we've given up on. Parts of us that we don't even think we're possible and we're capable of ever fixing and ever changing. And we start to say this is our reality. This is where we are and there's nothing that's going to change. We become so capable of being s of going ahead and accepting and being able to take and to deal with the challenge that's there that we don't even cry out to the to get out. Every one of us says this says all three major the Russia and all of these dwell and all of these reside inside of every single all of them are within every and says the goal is that the same way that the same way that the ones that are out of gullis go ahead and are there in order to pull the other parts out of gullis to pull the rest of out of gullis says we need to do the same thing that the parts in us the of the that's in every it's the that's the that goes and helps a person and is the which means look at the parts of us that were maximizing look at the parts of us that are doing well and allow those to be able to be the ones that are helping the parts of us that are still stuck the ultimately shining the light even on those even on those parts of us that we don't even think is possible allow our successes allow our victories to be able to go ahead and to be able to give us more victories to give us the strength to know that we're capable of more. To give us the strength of knowing that those areas in our life which we've given up on is saying that the inside of us that resides inside of us gives us the strength to pull the other parts out. gives the gives us the strength to be able to be and all three of these come together to ultimately lead to the final stage of the will be for us the is our the three stages of our our as a whole as a nation and the three stages of the of every recognizing the three stages the first stage is when I'm so stuck I don't even think I can get out the second stage is that I want to get I'm trying to get out and the third stage is Once I've already been out and therefore I turned around and utilized the successes to be able to help the other parts that are still stuck in golas and say I'm here with you but I've already been successful. I'm already partially have climbed out of gulas and therefore I can utilize the success to pull the other parts out to have all four to have all four part all three parts of ourel get to the place of every and the Russia get to the gula and by every recognizing and actualizing his gi have a great chis