Shavuos: The Great Wedding

this Tower class is brought to you by torahanytime.com okay it was the second night of face helps his two boys his two boys were Shmo schmelker and penthouse and he says by the way these two boys would later turn out to be together would be the rapper of smelkomi nicholsburg penhas would be the Great hafla is and he says boys should we begin to learn so the oldest Boyz is coming we should learn excuse me [Music] of course and he says because is coming so the father says hate to break it to you but has nothing to do with the yamta from I said of course I know that but on harcina Sigma tells us and then elsewhere took an oath that we're going to keep the Tyra there's a concept so we have to know how strong is full is so we know how strongly we're bound to keep the target plus if you count the bladder how many black do you have them to show us 49 blast so if we learn one blad a day we'll finish them assess them by the time okay the next year little pinchas is learning with his father the father says it's the second night we're beginning to count spirit and which recepta should we learn so the kid says we should learn two masaktas have to do with it you taught us married like the posix says we landed this week in the half Tyra Vera stick married Claudia Israel well Island forever and he gave us which was the Torah so we have to know we have to learn Hillsong to realize to recognize the strength of the marriage and that both parties have to fulfill their end of the day okay Rabbi Sai we say every day when we put on filling that God married forever when when did Hashem marry Cloud Israel so what we are going to learn this morning is that this condition took place at harcina myman hasinai was not just an occasion where Hashem handed us to Tyro where he gave us the laws but actually it was a symbolic wedding it was a Hasina my mirrors between the revanshalam and Kinesis Israel in fact take a look on your sheets and number two big mama base is commenting on the Posse that so to speak there's a day on the calendar that God got married foreign right by the side of them the colors coming down the aisle the Husson comes out down to greet the color in fact Rashi comments on the Posse invisa Hashem God didn't come listen didn't go to Sinai he came from Sinai what does it mean he came from by the way explains you know the gamara tells us in kadushan who takes who the man takes the woman right not the woman takes the man not the woman takes man that's why right if the woman nowadays they want to have you know the Dual ring ceremony the problem the man has to do the formal Act of acquisition you don't have to do even that is a problem about that for the woman to give the man a ring then we're worried that less people think that's all you need and people are gonna rely on that so but we're not getting to that right now but the Clio tells us that's why does the man take the woman the man takes the woman because the man lost something he lost his rib so who looks for who the Aveda looks looks for the owner or the owner looks for the Aveda the owner looks for the Aveda so too the man has to take the woman and that is why they punish them he so to speak he lost us we were lost in the Triumph we were held captive in the Triumph three barslam comes may have Sinai to take claisa okay so far it's all nice and fluffy it's a beautiful concept that God so to speak married khalisa balaturum takes it further Rabbi said we know that every marriage every condition requires a Kenyan a formal acquisition says about this marriage no less also required again if God marry clay Israel then he need to he needed to do an act of Kenyan he needed to do a formal acquisition what was the formal acquisition we know a woman is acquired in three ways right like you know the rebel once said at the malava malka you could come to him Malcolm three ways because either cash bistar you bring a check or babia you just be there that's it right so Nicholas there are three ways to marry a woman star and Via so which acquisition did God use to marry Claud Israel says all three cases number five Maisha nicknam what was the question they cashed in at the yam we once spoke about this uh whatever money they borrowed from the time they got even more money on the yam so that was the castle for the condition got it okay that was a question star Tyra there is a star Tyra sivalanu Maisha Ella and then look in the navy God says Hashem symbolically performed this third acquisition to Claudius Royal says the Bellator and listen to this if Hashem performed three types of kenyanim that's why we say in the navi verrastically loyalum that's Kenyan one that's the third one and then in yesterday it says okay first we're just getting started we know the title is given in which month s right the third month why the third month why not the second why not the fifth why not the seventh says the balator if you see a captive woman you take her out you want to marry her how long do you have to wait three months why because you want to know who the father is you got you have to have a three month separation to know who's the father the the captor or the new husband who was held captive claw Israel who wanted to marry him how long does he have to wait Hashem waits till the third month until he marries okay even if you were even if you knew that she was untouched you still have to wait like plug okay okay so now so far based on everything we learned we would say this is all symbolic it's an analogy it's a nice drush it's a nice agato but what we're going to learn today is that this relationship between Claud Israel and the riversham this kadushan is subject to all of the halacha is and we'll understand why the great with some Cipher how he understood even as a young boy the most important message to learn in anticipation of shavoos is kadushan and okay it sounds like you know from the introduction this is going to be and I got it to sheer it's going to be nice fluffy no no you got to have your thinking caps on today okay we begin with the hakatama of the hamakna look at number seven the hamakna was written by repentless Horowitz and in his introduction and in his introduction he speaks about the marriage that took place between Kinesis Israel and Claw and he says like this Hashem loves Kalisto so much to the point where he wanted to marry us forever an eternal relationship okay in order to get married you need condition kadusha needs Kenyan what was the kidushin that Hashem used to marry okay by both side fasten your seatbelts look in Alice um what exactly was the condition some say shahidianum you know what the money for kadushan was The Wealth the riches the spoils the bees asthma trying right that that you go over to a woman you say here's 10 billion dollars she'll probably marry you chances are she'll marry you she'll say yes right so we buy some offered us that was a lot of money that was a lot of wealth Services there is one opinion the cast of kadushan was The Spoils of the shrine there's another opinion says let me tell you another you know what the other opinion is they're very valuable it was made out of San Perino and it was a gem some learn the cast of kadushan was not 49 days earlier when they left nutrium but rather it was at matantara the Lucas says let me chime in on this month like this I ask you what was the case of kadushan there's one opinion that we already still in the balaturim that the cast of confusion was The Spoils of the time there's another opinion the cast of kadushan was says we're going to talk we're gonna talk about that come reach out of this we're gonna talk about that says let me chime in I'm gonna tell you what the condition was the condition had to be the Lucas foreign number eight the matters tells us like this yeah there was once a king he married a woman what happens the woman is mazana so quickly her interfere The Show Goes ahead takes the kadushan rips it up this way this woman is not tenacious she's not a married woman that committed an act of infidelity to her husband but rather she's a penurya she's a single woman who acted and properly and the King goes to the and he says I have to give you a big ass it's a good thing you nullified the marriage this way she was not tenacious-ish we were never married because you destroyed the condition before it was come so too says the madrush Hashem married with what my strabenu comes down with the Lucas he sees Clyde Israel as doing the Unspeakable acts of Zenus was the Unspeakable Act of nuts the aegon so my Shabina says marry them now they're being mazana we don't want Hashem to deal with us like an Asia fish that was mazana so you know what I'm gonna do I'm gonna take the condition I'm gonna break the condition I'm gonna nullify the marriage I'm gonna make it that the Cloudy Soul was not an Asus issues and said but rather they're like and therefore was already married from the time they left my slime with the Bezos metrium what would it accomplish to break the Lucas they were married already you have to say what what do you see people he breaks he nullifies the marriage this way when Claud Israel is mizano with the ego they're not inacia but rather they're what they're like okay so everybody said we have two opinions we have two opinions regarding what the marriage was the balaturum says the marriage was what seems to say very clearly that from the fact that Maisha broke the Lucas and nullified the condition what do you see from there what was the condition s there's the magnet okay you got it so it's okay the murderer seems to say that it was because it wasn't the Lucas what good would it be from to break the Lucas which one is it who's right was it the Visa or was it the Lucas says about says they're both true the marriage was the was the business the marriage was a look like I once you marry someone once you can't marry them again but once once you're married to your wife you can't marry her again unless you divorce her there was no divorce over here you remove your marriage says an unbelievable thing okay you ready for this you gotta you know hope you ate your Wheaties this morning put on your thinking cats what number I'm not sure it's in number nine it's also in [Applause] it's also a number seven says he has a question we know the condition could not have only been the business that's where I am otherwise what would much have accomplished by breaking the marriage was already effective but on the other hand the balaturam says the marriage was Ibiza but let's ask ourselves a question if Hashem married claiso with the Lucas who did who did Hashem give the Lucas to promise well me you know only one person received it so that means Moshe had to have been on behalf of claisa we know that if a man marries a woman with Cass F he doesn't have to give it to her he could give it to her now there are two types of this is merely takes the money and they're not married until the sheath takes the money and gives it to the woman his job is just Transportation he takes the money he transports it to the woman the condition is not effective until she receives them then there's something called he she sends someone did accepts the money she could be in Honolulu that's the moment accepts the money she's married wherever she is foreign and then the marriage wasn't ineffective until May she handed them have to break just don't give it to them because the marriage is not effective until Maisha hands them so if my shared a problem with the fact that cloudy Soul were serving the eagle and he didn't want Clydesdale to be married so that Hashem shouldn't treat them like an Asian so instead of breaking it save yourself the trouble don't get everyone so excited just don't hand the Lucas the clients they're married breaking doesn't do anything don't give it what does he have to break it for but uh their hands level yeah so just yeah so what do you have to break it for extra you have to give it really to the wife to a hand only only it depends on or you could give it to the chef La Cabo gets it it's like the woman got it so we don't understand what's going on but what kind of Swift so don't break it breaking doesn't do anything you ready for this because of this question says the marriage was the business and the marriage was how it was kadushan out tonight it was a stipulated marriage what was the stipulation and you could keep it for marriage on one condition you accept the time so it's really annoying it's it's a tonight condition outside let's say a man says to woman I'm an ass that I like your challenge but one minute this money was born a condition I like to chill in the morning it's God's money that was walking the slaves yeah Hashem freed them Hashem that's after class still got it and they wanted it back so Kyle says when you pay us back we'll pay you back but you don't have a right to steal money from your employer if it doesn't pay you right so so in other words the marriage was the business on condition that cloudy soul will receive the Lucas so you say this sounds very far-fetched to say it was a marriage out tonight it's a possible what's the password but iaco when I take you out of Egypt so the marriage was Visa it was on condition that claiso would accept the Lucas so what happens listen to this what they're married yep the only thing is my shopping and he sees them being mazana he sees them serving the agar so much says I need to uproot the condition retroactively so what does he do he takes the look like he smashes them now cloudy so I can't accept the Lucas now the tonight is unfulfilled and the maesta is Vato and the condition is off and now Kaliso is not like a Asia zinsa they're like a penis wow wow says now I understand an amazing thing you know comes down from Hasina I and he sees carliso serving the agal he says Aaron what's going on this is not it's not my fault you know they pressured me into it it was a tough job and and you were you were late where were you Michelle we're waiting what to do so we're stalling for time so I told Claud Israel this isn't kisis I said to them who says that right remember this public Aaron was trying to stop at times who has money taken so says what kind of question is who has gold who has gold imagine you go to the eskimos who has ice right what's expression selling coal and uh Newcastle right who has money who do you think has money the Jews were loaded they were loaded they just came out of the time with the bees that's Ryan right when when it came time from the nadavas Hamish gun every Jew is donating and donating and donating somebody says okay enough already so it's like who has money yeah you go to the richest show in the world uh anyone here have money you know every every car outside is you know a Lamborghini anyone here at money so what do you mean who has money what kind of question is and then so the guy comes usually they say oh we're partners with you and it's our privilege right to hold right they want to butter you up they want to convince you to give the money what kind of appeal is iron making give it what is it Aaron says take it off that's how you get money from people imagine a fundraiser he goes to the Usher he says yeah money take it off what's the hold up Aaron went with a gun with a semi-automatic who has money take it off says yeah you know why it's exactly because listen to this how did Chloe swell have money where'd they have money from are they allowed to keep that money if they stay married what if they don't fulfill it tonight it's not theirs anymore so Aaron says you want to make an ego who has money not you it's not yours anymore his power up to take it off now it's not yours you're not fulfilling the tonight the money is take a look at number 13. if you have kadushan out tonight and learn this guy tonight is saying very matter of fact who has money you guys don't yeah we do no it doesn't belong to you anymore Hashem gave it to you for the marriage you're not fulfilling the tonight the marriage take off the money mean take what do you mean take you have to give the money yeah the taking they most people they have that damn pad already it's the giving that's the problem right so why would it say vehicle take the truma it should say Viet newly the famous Kasha right every past is chuma you're gonna hear that a thousand times why does it say yeah what were they giving the Visa how what were they donating to the mission the business I am did they own the business Triumph not and not really because they serve Diego because they serve Diego the money didn't belong to them anymore when was the condition reinstated which came along with the Civil dameshkan so when Hashem reinstated the marriage he says by the way by you building the Muskan and bringing the condition back you can now take that money for yourself are you cool you could take it you okay and with Diego they lost the money but now that they had a civil to rebuild the mishkan that came along with the second Lucas the kadushan was back and now they were allowed to keep the money so when we came to home the first look nice we don't have it it's broken so now we're get we're taking this very seriously right we started off with you know I got it turns rush but now we're taking this very seriously we're saying there was a full-fledged marriage the marriage took place when when they left midsreim with the bees that's right it was all tonight that they accepted what does he do he breaks okay right boys if we're gonna be take this so seriously that there was a full-fledged marriage over here then this marriage is missing a crucial component missing it's missing something called an Amira and Amira you need to talk if a Hassan gives let's say Hassan takes out his life and they go to the jewelry store and he buys her a million dollar ring and he puts it on are they married no no no no son who the lion he could buy your flowers he could give her kesf he could do anything iffy there's no Amira there's no marriage as a gamaran kadushan foreign so beautiful we have Amira but wait a second what's a halacha a man says to a woman like this he says where's the ring no ring and then 40 Days Later he says to her yeah what's doing how's everything on her finger no son who 40 they excuse me 40 days earlier but not a son who 40 Days Later no no shakers you need nasina and Amira at the same time so very nice Hashem gave amiro to Maisha he said to my Shah Allah in the beginning of harsinai but he didn't give the lucrez until 40 days later she knows what is it for doesn't matter you need a mirror right so one second that's the question the question is let's say a question Hashem gave the Amir in the beginning of the 40 days was until later is like this have you I see sheet is like this what if a man says Amira and then for 40 days consecutively he says okay what are we gonna do about the flowers what are we going to do about the photographer and um who's gonna be the caterer and how much is going to pay and make sure your mother doesn't get involved with this right so they talk about the condition for 40 days straight right and then at the end of the 40 days what happens he gives it to her so you have Amira for 40 days is it a good marriage according to abuse it's a good marriage so what do you have over here you have an Amira and the look at number 14. when does Hashem give the cast of tamasha bayite when he finished speaking to him what was he talking to him about Tyra they're talking about the marriage for 40 days and he immediately gives the cast of so it's a good condition not so fast that's only good Accord who says is a good condition but according to the shita of rabihudan kadush number 15. you need Amira and immediately in Athena it's not good enough for this talk about the flowers and the caterer and the Mother-in-law you need to immediately give the condition so therefore how was it condition according to the shooter review Huda so you have to say listen to this maybe who would say it wasn't kadushan with kassef it was conditioned with star what was the star s where's the Amira for Star you don't need an Amira why not because what do you think it says on their star it says on the star it communicates on the star what we're doing so for sure you don't need Amira um um what is that again that's by gitson right by getting RPM let me pick savum fight one second yeah you need you need it you need adus you need this uh but for the actual Act of condition you don't need an Amira you don't need an Amira if according to Manisha you could use the same faucet no but the problem is that Amira was 40 days earlier we went the number 14 is that no that wasn't before he comes in no no no number 14. but now that speaking was only his learning that wasn't immediate that wasn't the direct issue of the marriage so I both said but here's the problem with star because listen to this if you marry a woman with a star nowadays we don't do that you write the star and you hand it to her are you married no why not because there's a halacha that the woman needs to be aware at the time the star is written that it's being written for condition a star has to be written medita she has to know about it now let's think for a moment who's the woman over here what's the star s when were the Lucas written so the sixth day we weren't around then so the star was not written with our knowledge so therefore the star is puzzle says you have to say based on the Zaya desire says that just like all the nishamas of cloud Israel were present at harcinai they are also present at the time of the writing of uh okay that's what Magna says so everybody say this is how the Machina explains the cadution what's the condition on conditioned Claus I it's the problem the problem is there's no Amira there's an Amira in the beginning of the 40 days I 40 days is too much time lapsing in between I that's only good job you have to say contributors were there at the time ready for this what was the Nissan that was condition right what's the second part of the marriage says it's also a math like us what wasn't a suun you could take a look in your sheets the number 20. regarding the nasu and it's also the mountain suspended over our heads that was a Chupa right when Hashem said you know you want the Torah either take it or leave it that mountain was a symbolic it was a shotgun a lot of people when they get married when Hashem suspended the mountain of their head that was Krupa no there's another way to do an assume you know how you can do it right that's what we try to do all the various ways because we're unsure exactly how to do it what was it you could when Hashem was number 21 that was the of the shrina in the mishkan so we have two opinions one opinion was that's one opinion was then assume was the lighter okay that's good was uh was a year later comes the hamaknan he's gonna chime in on this marriage consummated was it or was it so you ready for this unbelievable comes down from arsinai and he sees right Claudius was making the golden calf zunus so what does my Shabana want to do he says if you're a married woman and you were in you had you showed infidelity to your husband who are you like asota samosha wants to test them like a soda so what does he do he burns the eagle he grinds it up he makes Sota Waters nescape says Rashi looking number 22. yes foreign I have a question question for you if a woman is uh unfaithful to her husband when do we make her drink the site of water not the soda the site the waters one right when she's an arusa or only when she's in a sewer the command condition says number 23. igmara says does not drink the salty water doesn't drink the salty Waters when did Blazer become a nasua according to martial not until Hashem that was afterwards so what's my sharabino doing giving them the sight of waters they're not married yet there was no nasu and yes you're forced to say says that if moisha was testing them like a saita they must have already been a nasua and you have to say the nasuan took place when when it was because didn't take place yet how could moisha try to test them like a soyta then a soon didn't happen yet and only uh size therefore we're forced to say says but we have a problem here's the problem you ready could you have an assume without condition could you first do the soon and then do kadushan no first you need step one first you need could you get married and then have an engagement party that doesn't work like that you need First Step a Steppy I don't get something what was the Nissan what was the condition unconditioned they would accept but what did he broke them what happened to the kadushan kadushan is off so then how exactly was how is that Hupa you can't have hookahs there's no condition so my she broke the condition so if Masha broke the condition there's no condition if there's no condition there's known as soon if there's no suing what's my should giving them the sights of waters they're not married in the first place foreign it kills two birds with one stone it's oh but listeners asking that's the only coin to a puno we don't pass in like kofuna so what's my sharabino doing passing like rafuna we don't pass in like we pass again that kid are you ready for this what was rafuna's logic that Krupa could do both says if care safe star MBR which can't do can't do this in so then which could do nissu in certainly a kadook Edition can't do part two but it could do part one it's weak they're weaklings they're wimps they can't do an assume but yet they can do condition so if Chupa which is strong it could do and certainly could do condition this type of foreign it could kill two birds with one stomach could accomplish everything so by Rabbi this is what the hamakna says lamisa what was the marriage on condition they accept the problem was he was he was movable everything then they did takes care of everything why it's kills two brothers understood the lambdas of the kadushan and the nasun of Kaba sataya okay I'm gonna tell you one Kasha from ravians on this okay and then we'll move on the great rubber of Jainism in his safer look at number 25 he dedicated many many many pages of a safer to this Indian of the kadushan the nasuan between and he says every because obviously there was somebody who did not agree with it his name is Hashem Hashem again what did moshabino think moshabbin was said I'm gonna break the Lukas but then everything does kadushan Anderson but Hashem obviously did not agree with this why because on my shopping what does he do with the Lucas he broke the Lucas what did Hashem say to Maisha why what's now that Claudius they weren't like they're like they weren't married what do you mean they weren't married but what about the cafe gigas but according to moshius was the beginning of the 40 days so if kapali and archigis was a full-fledged condition then the fact that Moshe broke the Lucha is only and not only abolished the first condition but they're still married with Sassoon from the khupa so if they're still married what's Hashem giving a big ass to Maisha they're still married you're forced to say that Hashem did not buy into this thing that we just said that everyone would agree that this type of takes care of both things so very nice moisha bought into it but Hashem didn't buy into it so what's the problem my disagreed it's not the first time the problem is but why when moisha checked them like a saita did it work if klap ishmaelia if in the eyes of Hashem they're not married and they're not nasus and they're not arousas the water should not have been effective because they weren't married okay that's the question I'll be honest in irishness Rabbi say we're not finished okay listen to this you'll say this over tomorrow night they'll be very happy it'll be even better than the cheesecake it's into this is well known he wrote on the hill you open up a mission he was the contemporary of he's a contemporary of the Sam Cipher and he also wrote Charles foreign ER okay he's a big man because I'm sorry for rights about him says like this I fortunate is his congregation that they have the privilege of having him it's a bask in the Splendor of says ready for this errison getting married it's a mitzvah submissive what's right what clip of the condition backwards that's backwards why in the bracha is it backwards so he says I know why because in the Hashima of the bracha it's backwards because we say Israel hey so I said fine but why is it backwardsima why do we say Hashem so he says we have to know what the words mean most people would say Hashem Sanctified claw Israel through the institution of the sound of me foreign on condition we would accept the Lucas the kadushan is off then he does and then he gives us so when Hashem married so we say like this why are we saying it backwards because that's how Hashem did it to us because the Paradigm of marriage the first the martial of marriage is God marrying call Israel and according to the hamakna which is not really according to hamachna by the way because according to machinae he did both in one shot but sort of based on this logic of the hamakna first Hashem tried to do condition but the condition was bottle then he did that is why we say yes so next time you go to wedding you sing next to the guy and you know you're waiting around endlessly say you know by the way do you know why we say why we do it backwards that's what ashamed to us and then he did says rivergolas he says it's beautiful right because he says if you're not going to say so at least I'll say something it's beautiful okay however he says I don't like that I don't like the fact that the was kafali in Harker gigas that's a marriage where Hashem is suspending the mountain over our head that's the it's like coerced we know Rabbi so if you can't do against the will of the woman how could you say the mountain being suspended over our heads so therefore brother finds out margola says another possible way Hashem okay Rabbi says take a look at this take a look on your sheets a number [Music] it's funny success I carried you on the wings of eagles brought you to me what is this when did God put us On Eagle's Wings says what I did to the Egyptians as if on the wings of English to bring the carbon person whoa where did we bring the carbon PESA so we would have said and it's Ryan no Hashem lifted us up in an area he brought us to the base time and the first carbon Passat was brought at the Maka namikda right amazing the first carbon pasta was brought at the Maka hamiktas says that means Hashem brought us his color into his values bringing the color into the viruses so now we understand beautifully is the condition didn't happen until he gave us the money at the Visa that's what it means so so far we learned a lot of alumnus of this condition that took place between but what we want to learn is that aside from the fact that this marriage was subject to all of the law of the lambdas rabbi said we should realize all of them and hug him that take place at our Fasteners today are all based on what happened at time right what do we do on the we break the glass I ask you why do we break a glass right because I'm Wireless right we have to remember you shalim even at a time of our our simcha no that's one reason we do it you want the real reason because when we get married we have to remember the original marriage what's the original marriage Republic what happened at that original marriage what was broken to commemorate the condition or reshine him says someone the greatest number 29 to recall the original kadushan we break a glass Under The Choppa to remember what happened at the original marriage between Claire Israel Rabbi so listen to this there's a safer code the safer hotash base the Tash base was written by Rabino shimsheim Ben yes was in prison because of false charges so the tashmates used to sneak into his prison cell and the tashmates learned from the marami ruthenberg 590 denim that I recorded in this safer over here number 30 the safer attachments says that attachments everything we do at ahasana is to mimic harcina he writes like this on the second line number 30. we find in many places God marry the Jewish people the Torah because and we mimic that for example the Hassan starts off his Amira with the words which letter hey why do we start marriage with hey can I get this from the words of Reason can I get the five books of my viksuba begins with which letter just like the Torah that begins with the letter base Tyra how many how many Nissan says the word Carl seven times why do we have Shava brachice Why seven can I get the Zion kailuas they heard times is hashem's name mentioned in Chavez 14 times how many times has hashem's name mentioned in the assassadores 14 times how many days between yes and Tyra 50 days how much money is xuba as far as I know I don't know any source of this but he's a reshine claw you saw fasted and kala fast the day of their wedding just like Claudius Royal before math entire why do you have to put the money into her hand why can't you put it down onto a table because Hashem the public says how long were Claudius from the time they borrowed their uh until they left with Ryan 12 months how long do we give a color to get her clothing ready 12 months 12 months then the tax base lists the number of camachios that have nothing to do with anything but it's kadai to know equals fine that we know zakar is the gamatria bracha makeva is just this is for your enjoyment anyway no that's what he says you know take it or leave it anyway so then he says like this we juggle fire fire says jungle fire the lightning of harsinai then he says the following amazing words he says take this rule in your hand take this rule in your hand the last amazing all the customs of Hasma we learned from Hashem or your marriage gives us some advice for getting married ready for this advice go down a level and [Applause] right you're not married yet before you Mac nakite hi call right so go down a level and get married what does that mean sometimes the guy doesn't want to get married she's not good enough for me so Sigma doesn't matter just get married okay you can marry someone who's not good enough right because chances are you're not good enough right says where does this come from says what do you mean where does this come from what was the first marriage we banished what was the greatest example of someone who had a settle in marriage he had to settle he had to settle for us right as great as your grandson is he lowered himself he had to come down to get married by the way what's the Trap Hashem Dargo severe to go down a level to go down a level that's where we learn it from okay why we do the dancing is this is the time of wedding why don't we dance when you got married you dance I hear I guess at the end of the tour they're not dancing it's later on you know no interesting let's just finish up the you xiaomi tells us that by the carbonis by the Sierra isim that is brought on all the young and Thailand it says it doesn't say Sierra is it just says why says what did we do we are in Macabre since we're Macabre the Taira the ibancham says an amazing thing look on your sheets do you xiaomi you xiaomi tells us number 33 in Russia once you have accepted upon yourself the Yoke of the toraham I consider it as if you never sinned in your whole life in other words you know why we don't have to bring we know why we don't call it because in this for accepting the Taran Hashem forgives our sins and every year onshibous we accept the Tara Anu Hashem considers it as if we never sinned I never understood this you shami accepting Torah is a big it's a big mitzvah just because you do a big Mitzvah your sins are not atoned for what somebody comes to Ashira he gets Katara there's no capara you need to do chuba so what does yushami mean that because on shavuas we accept the Torah Shem forgives our sins so we would like to suggest you know what the mechanism of this is the Rashi brings down there are three people whose sins hashems for doula someone who converts an and it says when you get married your sins are atoned for every year on shoeless when we accept the Tyra what are we doing we're reenacting the condition so the same way Hashem atones for the sins of the kala and the khasa at a wedding every year on shabbu tones for our sins what's the mechanism the mechanism is and that is we say like this foreign based on everything we're learning now smooth is not just an occasion Hashem gave us a tire Jim married Claudius there was kadushan the Lucas were kadushan the gigas wasn't as soon it wasn't just the time Hashem gave us Torah it was a hasana and therefore they understood you know what two words capture the essence of us it was the time of the marriage of kalistral and riba Islam let me be the first to wish you all a Mazel Tov upcoming hasana and uh you know please invite me and uh and uh it's important feeling to focus on that of course we stay up at night and we learn and we commit ourselves to Lima Torah but let's not forget about this very important aspect of us is it's a time when they banished on forged an eternal relationship with claw Israel it's a half dollar Hashem is you've just experienced another Torah class brought to you by torahanytime.com