S.S.S.S. Shiur Parshas Tezaveh-Purim

well first of all we'd like to welcome everybody back to the Thursday night here it seems that every week we come here we're discussing a different storm so this week uh this week again it's it's quite unbelievable that this year goes on and uh here we are in middle of another winter storm and we're here but we're going to deviate a little bit this week from the uh Norm which is speaking on the par of shua thing that we're holding uh two days before for now job discuss a little bit uh just a little bit about PM a couple of different interesting things the the biggest shame would be actually for the Y of PM to go by and a person not to get any real inspiration or not to learn anything or not to actually gain anything from be that would be the the biggest shame and uh I actually had somebody over at my house this week and he told me over a beautiful beautiful V from uh R wolf [Music] he said as follows and I'll start it off this way M beginning of the second I believe somebody which means he LS the end part before the beginning part you're not you can't you can't switch around the order of the Milla says as follows if you're looking through the mill and suppose you weren't as educated as you are and you're hearing the story of the Milla for the first time and you get you start off in Milla and You Begin by reading you first you say the story of vashi so okay nice story but what does it have to do with me right what is what is the story of vashi we we didn't have any problems from vashi I mean there were problems but we didn't you know well what is B then we come to Big Son and Sarah and uh big son and Sarah so it's a very nice thing that M understood what they were saying and he reported them later on a great thing came out of big but from the from the story itself when we read it the Milla big son sish if you didn't know it was happening at the end it would just be another story and then you wouldn't have really anything we wouldn't know we gain from it of course when we get to the end of the Milla so all these things start to make sense thought now we understand why the story why vashi had to happen and Esther had become the queen and we understand now why zigon and SES had to be plotting against and had to hear them and then and H had to later on take Mor out on the horse and and walk him around the whole city everything makes sense to us so Wilson says as follows a person goes through life and he doesn't understand things along the way that's the way life is many times we don't understand things as are happening things happen to us things happen to people around us things happen in CL we don't understand that but later on sometimes either we get a better picture or we don't but rtion says a person came TOA if you read the Milla with the understanding saying that um that the only time it makes sense is when everything works out well at the end then Le you're missing the point the point is that anything that happens in life even if we don't understand it and if we look at things that happen to us on a daily basis sometimes face value it makes absolutely no sense but a person has to go through his life saying no everything even if I don't understand it everything that does everything that is done is straight from and everything is also for the best if your whole story of Mill is backwards where at the beginning I don't understand anything and it makes no sense why do this have that why have to happen but only at the end oh now I understand why that all happen you're missing the point to the Milla the point that the one of the biggest points that we have to take with us on is to learn of that everything that happened to even before they were sa and everything that happens to us in history is also it's always for our best so that's if you're laying it out of order if you don't have the right order in and and in understand she missing the vat that's just a nice V that I that I heard this week you say at the end of the Milla that okay now we can go on now once we understand that everything Pro we got past the n and we get pass to to the end and it says that and Esther they wrote down they wrote down the entire Milla for posterity that it should be read on the 14th on the 15th and when some cities here and there and it says what was the things they sent out in Garett it said shom that they they had words of Shalom and truth so A beautiful sh I was at at his V one morning this week was I appreciate I'm blessed to go through all the time but a beautiful question what's what comes out of many different things come out of it but what did they send show words of peace and M he said a beautiful part p is the only y that if you take a look it's actually brought down in that different people do different things and and in other words there are people who lay Milla on the 14 and there are people who L the mill on the 15th and all the MIT for there are people in the world that do it on the 14th and on the 15th and if you look at the G and the Mish Miss says are those the the in the Pro the people that used to go to market days to the city to those who on the 11th the 12th the 13th the 14th the 15th and uh you don't see any there are no riots there are no demonstrations are no everybody's nobody has a problem with somebody on the 15 so ra says he said this was this is teaching Us in very important lesson it's teaching us sh and EM first of all that not everybody has to be doing the same thing and not everyone has the same M and not everyone comes from the same place you have to appreciate and besides you don't always have to understand but you have to appreciate and value every other person and what his is and what he's doing and this is the first time for you see everybody's doing different things and everybody's happy but why are they happy why is their sh because it's because each person understands that the other person is being he's trying to to do the truth from where he comes from his men and he's doing everything in his power to his that we had a respect for each other and that was one of the important lessons that we learned out of P Shalom peace but why was there Shalom because every person you didn't start wondering what's the other person doing look down at the other person you assumed and you knew that he's trying to be he's doing it according to his minut according to where he comes from and I could be doing something that you're not you could do something we could each be doing something different but it's that that's our liic that's what we doing and that's one of the very important um lessons of sh that we take out of out of for that we give we give to to to people who are your friends and sometimes to people even more who are not so much your friends by the end of qu well sometimes you don't remember who your friends are but that has nothing but the bottom line is it's all one big happy family at the end because that's one of the lessons we learned sh the and each of us appreciate the other so I would thinking how does a person come to this how does a person come to this m it's unbelievably big MGA to try to appreciate everybody or to try to to to live your life with like wolon said on the first part that we said it's a very very tough thing to do how how does a person come to this so that those of you that have learned from with us on Thursday night and those of you have come to the shab here and that he always goes with that it's not your job to think about how you going to finish the project it's not your job because many times you don't possible you could think to yourself how am I going to get over this mountain how am I going to how am I going to change so much how am I going to be Mao so much how am I going to do so much in such a short period of time says that our job is to start have it in your heart that you want to do that's why you see the of heart father this week what does it say who is in charge who was made to build the Mish doesn't say someone that was necessarily brilliant doesn't say the main thing is that a person has to have a BL he has to want it in his heart if you want says that if you start and you open the door just to crack that will come and kick the doors in he'll give you he'll give you you'll be able to accomplish all these things and we should to come away from por with more than we go into por and not just more alcohol to go to to come out of quan with an appreciation for what we're supposed to gain from P to understand that everything is [Music] t