S.S.S.S. Shiur Parshas Mattos Masei -Losing Your Anger

got angry he was upset he got angry at the at the soldiers at the commanders he was upset with the commanders of the army why because the commanders of the army left the benice midgun and the comments of the army did not kill the minus the mid-year so why should the puzzle says that maestro was angry and because these would have been nice media who convinced the the banane sure to do alvarez and because of that 24 000 didn't die and they went to mohammed they came back and they said they didn't kill the media in her success but moshe was actually angry tomorrow said we learned from here we see from what happened here with angu that if someone gets angry uh i'll translate what the gemara said tomorrow says that if someone gets angry if he's a wise man it'd be someone that lies he's going to forget his wisdom someone someone who's angry and we all know we all know that what happened with moisture there's three times in the torah that the torah tells us that maisha bennu got angry what were the three times the first time we know it was after another video were after another navy were nifty so myself got angry when he thought that aaron akoye may have made a an error in uh in a locker uh about a vertical surveillance by carbonus the positive says over there that moisture got moisture got angry the second one the second time meisha got angry we know moisha hit the rock why she hit the rock and he was angry and the third time the third time that the toilet said that moishe got angry is here in this week's power shot moishe was angry about the maester here with the with mid young and what happened we see the gemara says moisture avenue forgot he forgot telling the of how the kasha had akasha kaelin and instead the one who taught the halal was a lazar before we even continue remarks when discussing the indian moisture mainly getting angry he says let's not forget who we're talking about over here we're talking about moisture abey new moisture available was the greatest navi the greatest person to ever live so when we discuss about moisture getting angry we're not just discussing about any person losing his temper and getting angry but yet we see the torah teaches us this lesson the turret says that my sharpener got angry because is coming here to teach us a lesson that if a person loses control if a person gets angry things happen he could forget he could forget torah and uh if we think about all of all of us mundane people what happens with the average person people lose their ability sometimes to control control their temper and what happens when a person loses his temper we know anything can happen when a person loses when a person gets angry we know that many marriages have been ruined because somebody got angry families have been broken because somebody gets angry friendships are destroyed because one person gets angry partnership people have a partnership one partner gets angry partnerships break up so many many many different things that happen when your anger is released and you don't restrain you don't hold yourself back but what's one of the tightest that people have sometimes once we're discussing we're discussing the being otherwise here we're discussing about getting angry one of the big kindness that a person always has when you get angry that's angry what are you getting at me for what do you mean it's the shame shamayim i'm not a gang you're supposed to get angry the shame shamans i want to tell you how beautiful from zhang vital i saw the tower brings down from his review and he says a fact this is this is a fact he says that a person should not get angry even if you feel that it's the shame shamayim and of course everybody who gets angry no one just gets angry right everybody has perfect needles we know that so a person gets angry about your mind vital the shame is review that a person should never get angry why suck the arizona because it's impossible to get angry and not destroy something when a person gets angry you think it's a shame you have all your frozeness and every everything makes sense to you but when a person gets angry arizona is guaranteed and this is our reason speaking it's guaranteed that something is going to get destroyed it happens to be it is also there's a safer there's a safer called eric akaya and this safer here the entire safer talks about cars talks about anger how a person should control his anger what anger is and he talks about the meat of cause from the macabre the safer where about yelling says the following things it says that a person we know if a person has to show him as an illness if a person is sick he says he'll go through any length any go to any doctor go to any place just to cure himself with classroom he thinks that he might have a life-threatening illness soccer before yelling is safer that that's what kos is that's what anger is to the nusham of a person to the rookiness of a person it says a person just like a person would go to any doctor into any great length to heal himself from a physical sickness so too a person has to go to any length to stop himself from this sickness of course which is a rookie sticker sickness and the tissue repairman is safer but says that the i don't know i don't know how many people here hold the the the bachram and the children here for sure did not not ever get to me rapan talks about he says about with moisture feinstein's arsenal bianco's kaminetsky that's all he says they were the doordar and they were lifted about i'd say 24 and a half years ago i think right and it was they had the daily weight of kawaii straw on their shoulders but anyone who ever met with moisture or yakima za'athal saw what a calm demeanor they always had and berkshire and i was like to speak to both of them and to get brothers from both of them to speak to them and you saw a certain serenity a certain and these were people that you know our promo our problems no matter what they are never compared to the problems that these guys heard every day but rappam says rabban says when you looked at these people you saw what it means to always to never lose your temper always to have calm and serenity and uh and he said these were these are people who had who who knew when they heard and they had very real problems and still never never because that's a goddamn that's someone who wants to grow and lead this that's a goggle somebody who always has control of what he does so i was thinking to myself that it could be that this is shocked why this possible if moisture that moisture got angry it could be there's a reason also why it's placed in this week's parasha we know the beginning of this week's parsha talks about nagaran and the love of devorah that every word that comes out of a person's mouth everything that a person says has to be satisfied if a person makes another how he says it what you say did he use a lotion or didn't you lose anyone who who learns kimura in the dark and sees how intricate are of what comes out of your mouth and how you said it and what washing you set it in and how careful a person has to be about what he says and this and this indian of a person of a person this indian of anger and oh usually what happens is a person loses control and he says something out of his mouth he says something to another person when you see the show them banners brings down a rabbin says that the mouth of a person is like a clichares the mouth of a person this is something that see michelle says many times that the mount the mouth of a to do so much with his fearless the things that he says but you have to know that if it's a if it's a cliche which is so important and something which is so big that unfortunately sometimes it can be used on the hepbuck and sometimes a person opens his mouth without thinking you can hurt somebody and that lasts a lifetime you can cause tremendous damage and now it's very apropos where we're now in the in the right in the middle of the three weeks of the vena matsuram and uh we know why the second base of mikktus was destroyed the second base amigos was destroyed almost 2 000 years ago and we're still sitting in the gullahs and we're hoping every day at the gala but we don't know but we do know the gemara brings down that the reason why the second base was destroyed was because of these where a person didn't wasn't don his friend the cast where a person had sent us kingdom where a person got angry and said things and hated another person and let loose and didn't control himself so it's a perfect week to have to learn the lessons of this week's power show it's already like we say we always we think about it we talk about it then how how long can we do it it's enough already we see all the never all the problems that the things that are happening in classroom every day brings another another thing another anyone who went to the lifeline dinner last night saw what's going on just in this town of lakewood alone and and then it says it's black and white it tells us why why children get sick it tells us why we end up why we why we're in the scholars and we should be able to we should be able to acquire what we're going to say at the end of this week we should strengthen ourselves and we should take these lessons to makable meshia and that tisha book which is coming in we can ask you not to be a younger