S.S.S.S. Shiur Parshas Ki Seitzei

going a little further into I wanted to begin tonight with uh something that we actually touched upon a few months ago but of course during Clayton shell it's more appropo the we once mentioned inam asks a beautiful Kasha and now we say twice one of the things we say the that everybody knows even if you Mumble the rest of but these you know one thing I asked one request I have I want to be able to sit in the house of hasem all the days of all I want to be able to sit in in the house of hasem all all my days a pretty obvious it's sort of a bit of an unrealistic request I mean uh let's be honest you have to leave you have to go to sleep you have to go make a parosa you have to go home and eat you have things to do with you like so what kind of request is I should be in the house of all all of the days and all day every day 24/7 354 365 whatever you look at it every day is a beautiful beautiful terce says we're not talking about that a person goes to the B Med when he's maybe when he's born they take him straight from the BRD they drop him B matter they lock the door they said I'll see you you know some other time they lock him in they said that's not what the PK is referring to what the PK is saying is like this we have an opportunity during our lives and throughout every day to make wherever we are and whatever we do into the B of if a person runs his business honestly if a person does his business in the right way and then your business becomes B you're doing what wants you to do in your business if your home is a place of kadus if your home is a place of to then your home becomes a so what we're asking that every place I go whatever I do should be and that's something we're asking in the for us to mention dur is that every part of our lives from when we wake up in the morning till we go to sleep at night and wherever we go whatever we might do we can turn that into a b that's a Madre that every can actually Aspire for that's that's a Madre that every could try to be because to lock yourself in the we know that's pretty much impossible but this to turn your life into that's very very much attainable for everybody you have to do it in small steps but that is attainable and that's that's a that we once mentioned and I thought it was appropriate that we mention it now before the says a little further in the if a person when a person builds a new house you should build a everybody knows what is on your roof that's the P so we can ask one or two questions on this P we'll see what we have time for but the first question I want to ask on this is why is the mitvah of said why only if you build a new house what if you get a handyman special and you find a nice place maybe down east somewhere Street and you find a nice uh house you can do Renovations in and uh there are dangerous places in the house dangerous roof of course have over there also why does the say only if you build a new house another it says you should make a a fence right a boundary of fence on your roof we know that the of Mak applies also to a bar to different things any dangerous place you might have most probably also today would be a swimming pool any place that is dangerous in your house you have a mid to build a fence around that somebody wouldn't get hurt if nothing happens to a person so why does the specifically say on your roof so again I want to mention another which has to do with has to do with and it's it's a very a very beautiful also we're all familiar with the in the that we l by a everybody knows the you know with the TR also that should leave his ways so the say that that is one of the things that we have to learn that sometimes when a person comes to El or comes to rash see sometimes you try to nitpick maybe I have to fine-tune this maybe I have to fine tune that the B to tell us that one of the big things to do when it comes to time is to look back at the year and maybe say you know what this didn't work out so well so the says whatever I did till now I'm leaving I'm going to another I want to try another way I'm leaving the path that I was going on and I'm going now to another way I want to try something different that's so that's why he says that's why that's one of the things we can learn from this person he says when it comes now time and we always this before when you're born to build a whole new house and that is way to do ch that's chot that I'm going to let me see cuz you start to think about it was I really so bad how can I F tune what I did everything no we made a decision now that the last year we tried but things didn't always work out so well he said now when it comes to build what do I what do you do you have to know in order not to end up where you were before you have to make a you have to build a m around AAS you want yes rash tells us that it's a perfect time to do CH and start over andm does give us the capability and gives us the opportunity to start again for a new year and for and to do but the only thing is even when you want to start you have to build this how how do you do that actually mentioned how you do that is with that's you have to start means that I'm afraid to get near the boundary you see someone get close to something that's dangerous you inch toward it you see no this is not the right place to go and you go back and that's the thing to start off with he actually he actually brings down a very interesting thing that the the word MAA the word for offense the word Mak is Thea the word Ma so I eded it up it actually does not work out he says that is but it's you can add you need one one of the rules ofria one of the unwritten rules or written rules is actually that you can add one which adds up for the word and he says that word um with with that one adding one for the word and is is adds up he says what is the second we ask what is it why we say he says a person wants to start achieving things that's what that's why we say on your roof you start with the high that a person has to know that that he has to have me this year and have boundaries so we don't end up in exactly the same place we were last year just to mention the uh one more thing that he says on this says another another another thing that's important for us to know later on the the person is not it goes I'm going to say this quickly I know we don't have that much time but brings down a beautiful ver here he says another thing to be to achieve he says become part of a he [Music] says if you see a person that something's wrong and you see something's wrong with him it must be that he stepped out of the he's not holding himself as part of a it's a big big for a person always to be always to keep himself as part of a and he says something very interesting and this is the I'm talking it is not I so I'm just telling you what he says he says many times you see that if you see a person and you see that a person is alienated from that he's that he's after something's wrong that he's getting further further away from he says it means that when they want to alienate when a person is far what is what did they do they put in his head to start having Tinus against the the r of the city start having Tinus against and if they want even more start having against start having against that's the way says it's sort of telling you if you see a person that always has complaints about everybody around him and the and the and the people in the neighborhood and this and that this is a person telling a person I can't have you be part of the so then I have to have on you and that's something another thing we learned from this week's para so here now talk today that uh we we each week we try to add a couple of lessons to El we have to remember first of all about the we have to remember that we have to build a boundary and remember what we did in the past year and to build a boundary abound that so this year we make our Cabas we're able to keep them we're able to end up in a much better place then we were the past year again we say each week also like thank you very it's hard to it's hard to believe it but thank you very