S.S.S.S. Parshas Vayigash

okay today was Zeiss Kanika now Tonica is over much to our Chagrin it goes by so quickly and like we always tell customers who come in feel free just go right up and eat some good food prices beginning of the parish uh before the beginning of the power shows himself anymore in front of all the people that were standing around him he called out ishmaelite remove everybody from the premises everybody Yosef wanted everybody to leave what did he say when everybody left right he sold me to mitzrayim very interesting the the confrontation so to speak here between the schwate and Yehuda Joseph the midrashram here are unbelievable you read through a measures if you have some time on Friday night you want to fall asleep on the couch unbelievable what was going on and how much more okay we got the noise how much more the uh actually was going on behind the scenes between the swatham and the Ice Age but one of the questions that they asked I'm just going to ask you a couple of questions firstly deposit says Yosef couldn't hold himself back anymore so what is exactly the reason that right now you know we're going through the whole story and all of a sudden right now something must have happened below Joseph could not withhold himself anymore something happened right now there must be something that that create that made this situation over here another question why did Joseph say the part that we uh that like we said the second person that I am the eyes I would think and I'm sure you most of you or all of you would agree with me that as soon as Joseph said I think the brothers would probably remember the entire story so why did he have to say I am Joseph that you sold to be trying seems to be a bit extra and the next question that someone before she has is throughout the last two weeks in the bar show Jose was putting his brothers through a lot of Sorrows what was the reason that Joseph was doing all these things to begin with okay it culminated in this was part of the beginning but through the last couple of weeks what was the reason that you guys have did this whole thing so to begin to understand this Indian if you show them brings down from the division small a very interesting point when Joseph he says it follows when Joseph revealed himself to the brothers there was something very very crushing going on in that room at that time it was a year there was a coming together of the Jose Benjamin and all the other brothers for the first time in many many years and this was a very very special occasion it was a special a special getting together of all the of all the swatham together take everybody out of this room why because in order to have this special you could not be so to speak Azar a stranger over there so that's why yasuv said right now is a special there's a special thing going on here right now in the world where for the first time in so many years all the swatant in order to actually feel this occasion in order to make this happen in the right way called Ishmael I take everybody out of here so to speak everybody you're all familiar with by the cleaning the same type of thing when the audience that uh once a year and such a holy time the audience of the crying God will had that time of the Kurdish baraku it wasn't shy it had to be that nothing else was going on nobody else could be around nobody else was able to be there this was just the time for the Korea and a coach barcle and the same was true for Yosef and his brothers when Joseph was revealed himself to his brothers and and Allah were together now nobody else could be this was a very special time that couldn't be interrupted by anything else is a very interesting thing which is all of us and it's actually you know we're talking about over here we're talking about a time of getting together at a time when nobody else is supposed to disturb Steve Sean says an unbelievable thing he says really every single one of us should be able to be zaisha for this kind of thing and should concentrate he says three times a day we damaged finesse set aside three times a day for us to have an audience so that God is powerful and he says during his Vanessa or when a person's dabbling a person puts on his pill in the morning his Palace is filling and he sits down and and he diamonds and he gets up and he said he says that's the way a person should feel a person should feel that I was given this precious opportunity the audience this is my audience this is my time I have a chance to be alone the goddess miracle and a person has to talk and make sure that there's nothing else it may be used to be people but now cell phones beepers pagers whatever is going on a person has to make sure he doesn't want to see a song was written if this was over 10 years ago I don't know if there weren't so many cell phones then it could be if it was written a little bit later we would it would have said in here because he was a very on top of the situation kind of he knew what was going on you know so but this is what he's discussing that when it comes we all have this opportunity the same thing as the kind of yeah that the plastic tells us over there by your safe nobody was standing there right though it's been over there so the the men wish we could go back and talk a little bit there's a message over there by the crying God though by the coin goggle if the passive says wasn't the current local person no person is allowed to be in the oil the kind mother was a person what we're saying here is is that the clean goggle himself it's individuality he had to be total misbattled himself to our courage but at that time there was no person even the coming brother was not considered a person the same thing was here by Jose it says and his brothers at that moment were not together ish they have to be Miss bottle themselves totally in order to have that Unity of the twelves to be as one to have that auspicious occasion anybody had to be in this bathroom there was no person there was no ish and of course goes into he won't get into this now the different uh each one of the represented a different one of them and all of them got together and uh if you have time very very late Friday night three o'clock in the morning you pull out and see Michelle and you get into a little bit of those things it's not meant to really discuss here around the table with a full of sandwiches behind me it's all different schmoods but okay so now let's just answer the couple of questions we asked at the beginning of the fire show the reason now Joey safe had to make we wanted to know why the devices make all the tourists for his brother why do you have to put them through all of that just to get to this Ali I said the reason Joseph had to put himself the brothers to all those Soros because now had to sort of break his brothers down they have to be his spotless he had to get to them and in other words each one couldn't be a yay she couldn't be a person he couldn't be an ish and what happened and once he broke them down then right at that time when Yehuda who was going to be the Mela Yehuda was the greatest of the it was going to be you know there was gonna be the melon and yahundah was ready to say that I am now going to be in heaven see Isaac in other words at that moment exactly that moment Jesus saw that he had broken down and none of the swatham had a zit on himself anymore he was ready to become one unit of all the schwaten that's why the person says right at that moment we asked the question what do you mean why was Joseph able to hold himself back all the time he sent the brother's back there to throw to get yaakov even shimming and the whole thing with Benjamin then he was able to hold himself back but right now the ugly Jason yeah because right now he broke the last straw he got uh Yehuda who was going to be the Mella told him I'm ready to be an Evan he's ready to be in Evan then that we're all together then we're all one there's no ish over here and that's why Joseph had to also say we asked why do you guys have to say that I'm the Yosef is if we asked and when he said all the brothers would have remembered the story very very well they've been worried about it for so many years they would have remembered the story so Joseph is telling them okay I have to break you I have to break you down Yehuda and I had to really make Sorrows for you to break you down but don't think that I'm any different Look at me now you think that you're all in one place and I'm a Miller I'm a mela so I stand out from you I said no I'm still the same Joseph I haven't changed I don't hold myself to be this great person I told myself to be one of the I hold myself to be one of you and therefore now Joseph was able to say that there's a special he sent everybody else out of the room yahudah was on par with them now everybody was in it together he said I'm still the same Evan I'm still the same person maybe outwardly I became the second in command I've been trying but inside I'm really the same evidence so really the lesson we could learn out of this whole thing is what we said a little earlier that every person has their moments during the day their time every day where you're able to to dive and you're able to have a youth are you able to sit down with you and it's safer you're able to dab him just with you and coach welcome will each give in this time but if it is a distraction there if there's something that's distracting you not only is it not the same but it takes away from the whole moment it takes away from the whole Swiss that we have and that's something we have to remember each and every day that when we have this opportunity to dive into our food that's what a color sparkle wants the color sparkle wants that he treats we're his children I know and when the father required to say to the son pay attention I'm talking to you that's what everybody saw them is telling us he's telling us listen I'm giving you an opportunity I'm giving you an audience you talk to me and that's something we learned from guys safe that in order all the other distractions happening to use this opportunity