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okay first i want to i want to welcome all the clutch of a guest here today this is the first question we guess this week the uh every couple of weeks we get to uh get to an indian in the parsha that's like a classic indian a couple of weeks ago if you remember we talked by carson bayarchel we discussed the indian of shabbos this week there's also a very important indian that's the indian of uh of the that we discussed in particular in these two parties this gossiping of the indian of uh los angeles what happens when a person speaks swashin hara so this week we're actually most of it's going to be based on a beautiful nasi michael the whole uh the entire thing the water brings down the possibility there's a whole sugar there that discusses the indian of uh rashford the gemara says that zoi's tea at teresa hamiltoyra which is the second part of this week what does it mean the gemara says sort of like uh like an acronym the word mitsura is like an acronym for monsieur shamroses oyster taurus of a mighty shamrock that what that anybody who speaks slush and horror gets in the game that's what the gemara says and we know that that's what the torah says that someone who speaks australia is going to get nagoya so the first is one obvious kasha that we can ask is why is the isser of lashanhara that much more humber why is it different than any other issue in the torah why is it dhafka the indian of russian horror when a person speaks slush and hard that he gets negoyam that a person will get harassed why not any other israelitarian person the person does something maybe that should be the indian uh maybe that should be the punishment the person to get harassed why is it uh we find that such a so homer the indian of a person speaking russian horror so we can look at a couple different memories that are brought down about russian heart and maybe we'll get a little understanding of uh of what la shinhar really is the gemara continues magmar says over they call him i'm going to just tell you a couple of things to show you the gravity and the seriousness of uh the way and the way we look at la shanhara the maharaja says that somebody who's a baba shaharis somebody who's masaki lush in hara he said he's a kaifu maker so the question is on that member also why why is a person a kuiper baker if he speaks slush and hara the gemara goes further calling this apology i cannot live in a world together with a very very serious uh statement there a banjo i'm saying if a person is in the saphir loshinara the person talks bad enough about another person caveathal i and this person cannot live in the same world together question again why mars is also a misappellation horror enlightened there's no real way to fix them up calling the sapphire that if a person who speaks oshinara it's as if he transgressed by the zoroastrian guillotine the three um that's a person who is over and that we just obviously repeated a couple of very serious things how we consider a person to speak sasha nara so what's why is russian heart attack is such a serious thing so the truth is all these mammaries they all need a little beer they all need a little explanation so the truth is we could begin to understand it from the gemara that the gemara says a little further that a person who is a baaloshin hara he is compared he is nimsho he's compared to a knockout he's compared to a snake director of harsham why is a person who speaks such compared to a snake so the mcfarsham answer that a first enough a snake that bites why does a snake bite somebody a snake gets no hanoi from biting somebody an animal that tears something apart an animal than any other kaya that bites into something has hana he wants to bite into it whether it's the meat or it's the whatever it is an animal but a snake has no hanoi the snake's biting of a person comes totally from the so to speak the yetzara of the nakhosh from just totally from ron everything that makes a snake bite is totally from bad and that's why we compare abolishing technically what is abolishing a person speaks something bad about somebody else what are you gaining you're not sinking your teeth into something you're not getting that piece of meat like a guy who wants to tear some of this bar it's nothing it comes totally from raw it comes from the worst parts of a person that what what comes out of the worst part of a person a person that has to always knock somebody always say something bad about somebody else someone that can't for somebody else you always have to bring them down that comes from the bad part of a person so a person is compared to another hush and that that's that's something which is totally raw and that's why tomorrow that's why it's compared to another another reason the nasir zone says something beautiful bishop says are beloved they're beloved why because they're they're called children the kurdish barkle everybody knows that if it's one thing a father can't stand and the father has a hard time taking is if somebody says something bad about his children it's much worse than saying something about himself for sure there's no there's no question about it a father cannot cannot take that when somebody says something bad about his children so when we are children of a karish barku when you speak lashin hara and you say losh and hara about somebody else what you're doing is if you're saying russian horror about i could sparkle's children and a car spoke that makes a kurdish broker very upset and that's why a person is called and that's why a person is it's called the terrible that's why it's terrible and rashin hara is worse than any other thing that a person could do because you're speaking bad about a kurdish book with children and akashboko gets upset about that so why is that the truth of the matter why is it blush and hara why do we say angelo takana one of the things was that a person enlightened why can't you uh fix it up if you speak lush and her about somebody else go to the person ask him atheila and you have a takona so why why why do we say that zombie speaks oshinara can't fix it up it must be that you can go to the other person and ask him for mikhaila and maybe he'll be me almost like you but now you have to deal with akaris barucho that's something else you spoke bad about a courageous broadcast children you have to ask a cousin oracle media not just that's why alike.com yeah you could you can do something on the road to takana you can go ask the person makila and you have to ask your husband because yom kippur is not muslim unless you ask the person makila but ain't like takana because you have to now deal with that coach burkhum you have to ask us you did something wrong you did something wrong to his children and that's why who says i can't live in the same world because you're not you're denying by you speaking bad about somebody else you're sort of denying that he's a children and one of the fundamental beliefs and one of the fundamental uh things of amuna is that we're bottom talkers and you're denying that by speaking badly about somebody else that's why you call the kaifer and of course along the uh along the way of the native shonen always writes you show them if you get to learn a little bit absolutely tremendously positive safer no matter what he says then you see michelle man i see everybody nodding the head here then he always ends up in a positive note he says imagine all the terrible things we said now about a person speaking russian horror alaska's kamavakama midatova is definitely marouba and midatova is definitely more so when when with shashi surely when he didn't get along with each other avada the star is a hundred times more that's how we say we say via after the reaction why not western something else should be a clown god of the material why that's good they'll have to learn to come out for the same reason that uh that the that the sin of washing horror that their blush and horror is so many terrible things you call a person a kai friend there's no taconet there's nothing for that same reason and that's why we know there's a clown has because think of it again in the same terms and steven shalom says the same way a father doesn't like when that someone said something bad about his children if somebody is a magnus ira and he takes in his children any person will tell you also he's much more concerned don't worry i'll find a place to eat i'll stop in the sandwich shop on the way home i'll eat something but if you take care of my children if you take care of my child then i'm happy with you and that's why you doing you're thinking about a cottage bar with children yo sir miraculous take care of myself it's very nice that you're macaulay or sheena but do me a favor be nice to to other you then be a husband says that be happy make other people happy and then you're going to make them college borrowed too happy i just want to end with uh there's a an ariza visa brings down there's many different before should speak about what components you should have when you when you go to darwin so rizal says before a person uh goes to the davishman estuary he should think in his mind we have to learn why should a person think we're after the refuge because obviously we want these feelings to be accepted so this is so now we could understand why the arizona says that why it feels accepted because this is the most frustrating thing that goes back to and what are we looking to do people need things people have problems people have things that they're begged for if our college broker every day so the least you could do and the best thing you could do actually is to get on a couch buckle's good side how do you get on a kurdish birth who's good side arizona and this is the the the time actually to bring up just uh all these things are brought down in suffix of israel will be accepted and then everything that you want to get a school for you want to get this is the first thing to try to do that we should be there you should try to first be friendly with all of you then be marked and and be careful not to get rashom to this indian of russian horrible