S.S.S.S. Parshas Tazria

okay we're ready to [Music] go double at least two cougles this week and what's the price price on cougles is a special this week on coules here at uh Southside sandwich out do you have cogle yeah we have he has cogle okay fine H so this week is a special at the beginning of the para a little bit into the par we begin to talk about the inion of n the the inion of and the gor talks about actually many people don't don't realize that people don't know that the gor says that there are like seven reasons why n come there seven reasons why a person would get toas but of course everybody most people know the most popular one the most uh the most popular uh reason for getting teras most popular reason for the go everybody knows is l a person's life on he gets so I'm just going to we're going to we actually spoke about this the and we spoke about it last year a little bit um but due to the fact that it's so vital and then the garas talk about it so much and the fars speak about it P speaks about it how unbelievably terrible the the of we're going to go over he going to go over some of the that we once spoke about we're going to add to it a little bit so the first question we could ask is right right off the bat why why is it that n come for just for for for har why did n come for this reason okay there are seven reasons of the but why why the most popular one why did come why doesn't a person get the for some other that he was why why is it that is so and so looked at as such a terrible thing that that getting going which was a pretty embarrassing and a pretty uh severe punishment I'll tell you another the also says call anybody who speaks if a person is person a what are we talking what's going on over here person a speaks why again why another another says I can't live together with this person pretty scary thought think about it person speaks think about says no I cannot live with this person in this world very scary thought again for why l so much okay then there's a couple other memor we bring down if a person speaks there is no Tak for him what is that supposed to mean there a Tak there should be a Tak for everything why is there no Tak why again we see that is unbelievable is all these that I just brought down they all need a beer to understand what is so terrible what is so unique about different than other soar says that of the to bring it down to our level a little bit the says that a somebody who is a a person who is who part of his being speaks he is n to and we once spoke about this a couple different reasons why but another one of the reasons why a person who speaks isal to because I remember I spoke to I spoke to you about it last year also afterwards that other animals other animals when they if they if they attack somebody or they attack something they get Han out of it they tear it apart and and they eat it so although they're doing something destructive but they're doing it for their own Al they want they have their own reasons that that they're going to have Han from something but a is different a when a when injects Venom into into a human being or into another creature the doesn't get anything out of it he he's just doing it because it's it's bad and he's doing something bad and the same things the say about even though you're going to say ah so to say these they didn't understand like a a juicy piece of so like we always say the Kasha is the terror they didn't understand and really what you think is is not Han you're making an excuse for yourself to be able to speak so you say that but really a person when he says something bad about some somebody else what could you possibly have Hanah to knock down somebody else you want to be better than the other person do something do something constructive do something for yourself so no that's a person is's compared to a who you're bringing the worst out of a person and somebody who says word aside from all the like brings down 30 something more it's an unbelievable every word not each uh not each lashara session each word a person UTS of lar over 30 something between you could build up resum in no time at all so what a person is doing he has no he has no of the whole thing he's just doing it to be bad we say are loved by they're called children and we all know that uh anybody anybody who has children knows that if it's one thing a parent cannot take if one thing a a parent can't stomach is if they sit there and they if you s say something bad about Someone's Child you want to say something bad about you talk you want you want to say something bad to the person himself you're this or that so he cares about you he doesn't back get away from me right but if you say something bad about a person's child it's a te that's the way it is it gets it gets to it gets to a person in a way that doesn't have to deal with it when you say about another you're saying something about the children of it's one of the of it's one of the things of one of the things that we have to believe is that we are children of if you say something bad another that's why we said you're a you're not believing these are's children and you don't obviously do not believe that because if you really really understood and you believe that these were children of you wouldn't say something about it you don't believe you don't believe that a person is uh that people are children of loves his [Music] children this says a beautiful V he says this is all about what we're saying now is the bad side of what people do he says is always um multiplied more and more imagine that imagine what what a person gets if he says something or's good why what why because you're showing when you when you're when you're loving another when you you're showing that you love children you're showing it you believe that every is a child of right we say says is bigger than than why is it bigger than why because again for that same reason because a father has tremendous a father knows that someone's taking care of his how could something be bigger okay we spoke about it by also but why what was how because seeing again that a person is caring about his children a person is taking care of his children and when one y helps another y that's more than there's one question that a person always has unfortunately it's become a way of life and and un unless a person takes a proactive stand and and and makes a stop to it he makes himself AER a person takes makes sure that he thinks about it every day it's become a way of life just to talk about other people and to degrade other people and to to try to knock other people it it's just for some reason it's it's just the way it is people always have to be cynical nah you think he's so good he's really not so good it's it's a way how does a person so a person right away there's a certain Yos that people have when it comes to this inion of how can I I'm going to change now for I'm 20 30 40 50 years old and for every day it's part of it's part of life how how's a person going to change so I was just thinking that this is a perfect week to address that issue why is that because we come now with par this week we have and teaches that no matter where you holding in life is a of that the are given the are given this opportunity more than anybody else and I saw he says not over here on this week's he says I think says that when it says other words the fact that he not giving given that you can always renew yourself like the moon right the Moon it it gets smaller and smaller and smaller till it's almost gone and then we know it comes back and it's going to become a full moon again so that's that's a given that is a given but this is so to speak the mother of all his this this week that we're coming up to that when we have this week on Tuesday we're beginning this this month of which go we're going to be we're going to have the G it's an unbelievable month you have a special special that you can address an issue something which you you almost May something which You' get you've given up on something which is so hard to deal with something which which is so hard to do all these things when it comes to this week we put it together with and the that talks about talks about that a person has an opportunity to to to go back in all these things even though we saw how serious it was we said the person be considered AER a person and we and we explain why we could a person could start to understand that every person each year is a Ben is a child every single person is a child of of a and how we treat people and how we look at our people this week we have a special opportunity to renew to do the we should to that the mon that will look at us and say look my children are doing and we amen