S.S.S.S. Parshas Ki Sisa 2013

first thing I want to do is I just want to make a small apology um I was just uh mentioning here before that I myself didn't realize last week we got the sheare up online through actually it was a fault of mine that I uh sent over the wrong link from the wrong week so when we had to post the share we had the wrong share um we had the wrong link to the wrong share and the share went up a couple of hours later than usual and I must say that the amount of uh grief that I took for that the people that listen to the share on the way to work but when they get to work or when they do this or when they do that and uh so my sincere apologies and we haven't had the train go by during this year in about a week so okay here it is says at the end of this week's par that after came unfortunately we had the mice of theel in this week's went back he got the he came back down the says made a a covenant with cl on this he brings down the in the says that that what is this bris that the Tor is talking about when the says that now there was a br between says this is a br on and he learns it from the in this week's para the says from the word Al we learn that the bris has something to do with Al which is and what's the great bris of that is something which is hard to learn you have to you have to learn it's something you lose sleep over it I mean says we should all be on that level he says is hard you have to work and you lose sleep over it and so who learns a person who learns and Har is so who only someone who loves otherwise he's saying otherwise it'll be too hard it's too much for me it's hard work why would a person lose sleep and Har only because he has an and he's ready to dedicate himself to therefore when there was a bris we say that this bris was on if you take a look a couple of weeks ago at the end of the the says then it says and that's right after and we see that there's a bris over there so how does that with the we just brought down says that when a the bris was and we see right after we use a of bris and it seems that there was a bris on too so why does t stand out as something special according to that it was only that that we had a bris on how would that fit how would this fit with the med over there so B the ran the ran answers this Kash over here the ran says that since the bris that they made by Hari since that time there was an A and when CLA worshiped theel they were over on that bris so raan gives a ter and saysi there was a bris but after that bris now they needed a new bris because once they worshiped the agel that that bris was off and that bris that we have now this second bris that they made that's that's what the is talking about that bris is on says about this in of a bris that there's two types of CIS bris two types of a covenant says there's a bris that's an inner bond an inner bond between the people or the things making the bris and he says for instance says by the bris between and the says that made a what is it and loved each other so much so intensely that that is when they can make a bris they had a bris that it created an amazingly strong inner Bond that's one type of Brit a Reales like the over there in says says that they that's one type of a the second type of AIS is theis ofu and the says we know says we I'm sure and we we know that the bris between and a was not the BR of and the BR of and was much more of a superficial bris so the other type of bris that's wants to say there are two types of bris one is the BR of like the second type of is one like that's the second bris a bris like we have in this week's para in another place this week's para when the the tah gives us the unbelievably fantastic mitvah the talks about shabas it says it uses a of and see says this bris that we have by shabas is the first type of bris a bris of pus the love it shows the love between and he brings something unbelievable from says he says unbelievable thing he says that shabas the word shabas telling you what he writes the word shabas is gatria the following as soon as I saw that said you know there's so many ways you can do gatus no matter what you do sometimes right you can make a gatria work out but there's a word chabas and it's gatria this whole sentence and you know what it works no added no nothing added no words added no nothing that is gatria shabas that that's what shabas is shabas is not just a seventh day of the week when it's time to eat sleep drink eat CH that's not what shabas is shabas is that bond that it's shabas is when a has all of those when has all of those things then you're to the ofas to have the mitah of shabas is one thing but you want to have you want to have that BR that Bond like we said about and you want to have that of you want to have that that you have to have you have to love be close and the same was like we saying at the beginning of the the first bris of to that they made byi that was a regular bris of keeping the toah the bris there was a bris at the end of there was a bris but that was a bris to keep the to that was not the internal bris that brings together the new bris that we have in this week's paral of that was different that was a different type of of bond a different type of Covenant different type of bris that was the bris of tabal and how do we have that bris how does tal stand out as shab do as as also like we said from the that stands like we said in t who learns T someone that's ready to work someone that's ready to Har learning like we said love in order to get Theus in chabas in order to get Theus in t you have to have you have to have that the Mitzvah the learning is done with your your and and that's a love that you have a special thing for shabas and for an inner bris and in thing and he says a y has to know that when a yid is being I when a is sitting and learning aside from a person has to know that when you learn to and you and to you're making a and that's the of the in this week's para of when a person learns and he has then you're being the of the T the in this week's para of and when the is of this with of his which said his his and his that also he can do the same thing with Shas and with that's an inner the very famous says created Created to as the antidote to the so many there's a lot of Jewish spoken about this but the is what does I Cre what what how does to an antidote to the okay so many but he says like this it's not that's the antidote to the what's what is what fights the is it's a direct thing the how does the comes to person is like an age it burns up inside a person a person sometimes the fire can get out of control can get out of control and that's the same thing with to in order to fight the you can't okay is good open up a safer and to sit you could sit with your feet up on the couch and a recliner also so good but you want to fight the you want to have thein that comes with the a that comes with the fire of T that comes with and that's why says aside from learning anything that you want to learn that's why he says a person has to set aside a certain amount of time to have a he says a is where a person has this bris that's where you immerse yourself even if it's for only a small time every day you immerse yourself and you apply yourself totally to Li he said and that's the you want to have the you have to have some sort of where you have that he says it's like he says is is the outside of a person to and that's water to is an a water water is not not metire the inside of a person the a of to that is what's MRE the inside of a person when you learn when you learn to with and you keep shabas not just to keep shabas like right to keep shabas with the like we said the way to keep shabas with the bris then you had that special bris let us uh let's think about this when it to the shabas it'll be the the first shabas after we have this year tomorrow night we have to remember that the and shabas they're Mitzvah yes they're Mitzvah but they're not Mitzvah that the ultimate the way to actually keep them is not in a passive way you can keep shabas in a passive way you keep shabas in a very passive way you could learn t on a recliner with your feet up and never no but if you want to have the BR ofra you want to have the bris of shabas yeah shabas has be done with his lavas to have understand whatas is you want to have the of you want to have that should affect you you have to have you have to that is how we become a changed person the bris between us and on shabas and