S.S.S.S. Parshas Emor

beginning of this week's power show obvious kasha hold him before she mask uh right away beginning a double ocean say to the kehan the children of aaron and you should say to them it doesn't get more obvious than that it says twice to say in the puzzle so rashi right away by barnes rashi gives a terrorist to this and rashi says what's a more likely on him yeah martial about she says that they have to give over this message also to the children to the children to kahanam so moishe feinstein that's all has a beautiful vert right away on this there's a beautiful thought and a vital lesson to teach us about for our children he says if somebody wants to inculcate he wants to instill in his children that they should have that they should have a love for yiddishkai that they should have uh or if somebody has atoned a rebbe and he wants to instill something in his comedy you cannot accomplish what you want by just merely telling them one day after the other telling them you need to do this you need to do that i want you to do this the tarot says to do this you cannot accomplish everything that you want to by just saying this is what you have to do this is what you have to do it is it's also important that in addition to that a person has to demonstrate to them that a life without torah a life without the torah is not a life that's desirable and beautiful a life with torah is something that's desirable and beautiful it was besides telling them over telling them telling them what they have to do in addition to that you we are martial again first you have to teach them you have to tell them you have to teach them you have to tell them and tell them what being the king mitzvah is what doing mitus is going to do for you that's going to give you a beautiful life of clara and that and that's going to teach you and that will tell you and tell you for the future what the life of terror can do for you and therefore there's a double lotion of emor the amarto the and the next one is telling you that we have to also give over the values and teach them what the what the mitzvahs do for you and that's a good margin says something right along these lines so sometimes as as adults and then people that have children sometimes we know sometimes even for rebbe sometimes it's hard it's hard to you know we all know that we're always on display and we have to be role models for i'll tell me them we have to be role model models i mean for myself not tell me them but for myself for my children and then robin have to be role model models for that time either and there are times that a person just doesn't have the strength or the resolve to always be on display to be doing what's right she said what you have to do sometimes is think to yourself the repercussions of what you do if you don't demonstrate what's right even if you can't do it for yourself even if sometimes you feel like you're tired and you feel like you can't always i'm always on display i always have to show i always have to do the right thing even if for yourself you feel you're tired you can't always do it you have to take that next step and realize that you have to demonstrate for your children you have a responsibility to your children until you tell me then to go ahead and that's the again if the mr part is hard sometimes but you have to always remember the amarta layum the part that you have to demonstrate and you have to teach your children that's another thing that you have that's something else i saw a beautiful word from roberto swarovski's that's how he says over from his father rosamond serrano and also a very important lesson that we could see from the the beginning of parshas mr and a lesson about shiloh for our children so the beginning of pasha's emma is talking about what it's talking about the kahanam and what it's doing is telling the kahanan that they have special halachas and special restrictions that kahanam had what is the what is it essentially telling the kahanam what we're telling the kahanam here is that you know what kahanam you are different you're different and you have special awakas there are things that israel could do and you can't do and we also know that italian it doesn't say right here beginning to but kahanam are allowed to do things that israel is not allowed to do they have their own set of mitzvahs so what we're telling the kahanam is that they're different zelda barcelona a beautiful thing from his father of zama because generally parents are able to control the environment of their house people there people are able to set their tone in their own home what should be there what shouldn't be there what the environment in the house you're able to set it's a controlled setting when once a child steps out of the house and there's peer pressure and the society it's much much more difficult to control what your children are exposed to it's a much greater challenge to bring up your children in the right way once they step out of the house so doctor that we see at the beginning of this week's tasha and tasha's emma where she says where do we bring down a rashi where do we bring down a lesson that specifically speaks to the children that's in departure precious emma but we're telling you that you know what sometimes when you step out life is going to be different and that you it's here to teach you a lesson that your children should know that the meeters and the mitzvahs that you teach them sometimes you're going to go out in the world and you're going to be challenged it's not always going to be as strong as in your own house you're going to be challenged and you're going to see different things and you're going to feel like you're different so we have to teach them even when you feel like you're different you have to hold your own and that's the lesson the beginning of harsha's mr that we teach the children that kahanam are different but that's why we say over there you're different but that's what you have to teach your children and sometimes you're going to feel different but you still have to hold on to the values you still have to hold on to the lessons that you taught at the home and of course uh to round it out to say over and to see the sheldon you see the show them on superstorm has a as a separate safer called the sibe cannon which is a beautiful beautiful safer written on different lessons and people are mamasha maze when you read and see the show safe from us you would think that the civil servant was lifter about 10 years ago like nine years ago he was in his 90s if you read his safer on guinness you would think that he was born in the 21st century every lesson that i've had some tell me what i've said over in the share on shabbos and sometimes there are being there and we've said all the different things from his jennifer as he was shown it's an unbelievable thing how his lessons are so precise and so exact for today's generation and i assume it's that way because these are timeless lessons from hidden so this one says like it says years ago when there used to be a more of a structured thing as royalty and would be a king and a queen and the the prince and the the the different people in the king's family they would have their own set of rules how they were to dress how they were to eat how they were to travel and uh obviously that set of rules was different than the common fault they were different than the the regular people on the street so when a prince walked out did he feel like uh listen i feel very bad and i'm different of course not he knew that he was royalty he whatever he was doing different he did with pride because i i'm nothing wrong with being different i'm proud to be different you know sometimes you'll see i'm sure many times you come across people and you see that there are people that when you see them you see that they they they hold a higher standard whether it's in kasras or tsunayas or the way they they they handle tadaka the way they are they know people that are just a little bit on a higher madriga you see what they you see that they're they're just different they they act differently so when you when you look at when you look at people like that you say do we say that uh do you look at them and you say uh you know sometimes people want to make fun of them say why do you have to be different why do you have to be different but what's this person who's different thinking you think of course i'm proud to be different i'm proud i worked on a certain media and i'm able to excel in it more than other people then then i'm proud and that's royalty it's open to see the show and that's the way it is also by every jewish child right every yiddish child that's the way it is and that's a lesson that we learned from this which parsha at the beginning that a child has to know and parents have to teach a child just like the lessons of the kahanam that when you go out whatever you're you if you excel in something and people make fun of you and people you think people look down at you no that's royalty what you have you should it's something you should the more sometimes unfortunately the more people um have fun and the more people look down at somebody the the better you know you're going because people would like to be the same as you then that's a lesson we learned at this week's power show and barley honey had a royalty but that's a lesson that we could all have to take this royalty that we're different and sometimes we have to step out in the world and we and we have to learn this lesson to teach our children teach your children but also you also have to demonstrate the only way children are going to learn is if we demonstrate it to them and we show them that by doing these things you lead a beautiful life and by being on a higher level and yiddish you lead a beautiful light and that's the lesson of pasha san marco