S S S S Nesivos Shalom Parshas Vayishlach 5775

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of shabbos parsley believe it or not we are less than two weeks to sanika and that means it's a very exciting time of the year hanukkah but it's so hard to believe that we're almost that we were just talking about we were just talking hello rosh hashanah yum kippur sukkas and as soon as we pass that we say before you turn around it's danica and here comes kaneka so in the mid chamber the next week or two we're going to discuss a lot more about sanita this week we're going to concentrate still on the car show we have our audio feed which was a tremendous success last week the quality of the audio without the video the quality of the audio was really fantastic and we hope to continue upgrading the audio situation hashem appeared to yaakov vinu right the changed or gave a different name to yaakov avinu until now you are yaakov from now on you're going to be israel there's a very interesting tomorrow good morning the gomorrah says abram anybody that calls up avrom and you should not be called abram anymore anybody who calls out brohom avinu abram is over and um and the gomorrah asks why is this not the case with yaakov avinu here with yaakov avinu in our tarsha it also says that your name should not be called yakov anymore why only by abraham of inuali over on this assay the answer to that is that by yaakov avinu we see something very interesting we see that the torah itself goes back to using the name yaakoi even after this parsha even after this possum by yoimir ali kim lee srel and he called yaakov avinu who called out the los angeles so we see that the torah itself goes back to calling yaakov ovinu to calling him yakuli it is different than by our vinu we see that the name yaakov remains with yaakov avinu even after the name israel was assigned why is that why is it different by yakagovinu than it is by abramovina if you use the name abram if you use the original name it's no good so also why did yakov avinu so if we say that the torah went back and we used the name yakko why does yakovino have two names as opposed to all the other others the other is abraham why did yaakov avinu retain two names and not only that why do we see that in the same puzzle the torah uses the name yakoi the first israel and then yaakov even the same puzzle so the sibishol has mahalo there are two different ways we have to know that we always have to always remember that there is the way of bonnie avoid us hashem as his son which is avoid of us of a person that worship worships that kaddish powerful and serve the koshbaku as an evident and that is euro like we've said from the office when we spoke on a rosh hashanah we mentioned we say after when we blow the straw for ayo maharash that we're saying that part of the judgment of a yid is how we serve the kardashians how did you serve did you serve akash parkour as a son or did you serve a kaddish boroku as an evident and we know that the avoider of bunning is greater the avoid of a ben is a greater avoid however it says in the steve shalom there are times a person has to know there are times that you need to be in evidence there are times when you need to get by an essay and the media of body will not be enough the meat of serving akash broke who is a ban is not enough you have to serve our kurdish foreign europe if a person has to get buying he's saying you need that in europe we know that the media of abraham of enough was said the media of yitzhak avinu was guburumi and era two different types of avoidable which combines the tesset and gebura and combines the up of the hero you took the middays of abraham took them and combined them and there are times in life says in the siddhashalam when we need the media sahaba for for our voyages hashem such as when a person is learning torah of avoider so we need the media of ahava to come close to coach barco at those times and then there are other times when we need dafta the media of europe like if a person has to battle a taivo if a person has to battle the aids of iran if you just use the middle bahama you can fail in your battle the need of a havoc could go or the media bahama could go off could go off the wrong way a person has to come with me the sahaba and what is real shameless real shameless is like yaakov real slamus a person is supposed to strive for is the combination and the balance of both of these midos the media that yakov had okay i must apologize for our technical difficulties here i won't fire the crew but we're definitely going to uh try to fade this out for next week so as we were saying real slamus is the combination of both midais the media is the way yaakov avinu had it and that is the reason for the two names of the akulavinu the name yaakov where we know when the puzzle when yaakov aveeno that's what yaakov avinu was trying to stay away from and jacob avino was fighting from the first moment the name israel is the name of hesse so yaakov avinu was first called the name of yaakov if you know why because gracious hashem that although abba is a higher madriga a person first has to have hiroshima a person first has to have hira's hashem gracious hashem to battle the atara and the tigers of asa first that's what you have to do first and only then was the name israel given to do your avoidable with ahava which is a higher madrega that comes after europe euro must come first in order for your avoider to really be on a high level we are called cloud israel because israel and ahava are higher that's why we use that name of yaakov the name of israel because it's a higher mandranga but yaakov avinu the answer to our question yaakov avinu had to keep both names first we had to have the sur mera and then we were able to have the assay one before the other but you need both first and there's a reference to this in the parsha the parsha says at the beginning of the it's around asap you know what it is yaakov knew how to devoid his avoider he knew how to fight the eight to haravesa yakovino was not worried about his gastritis akersborough had already told the akavovinu you have nothing to worry about your gosh me is physically you are not in jeopardy at all but yaakov avinu split the mahanat for surme ra and asegtoy to teach us and to show us the remnants that a person needs to balance your life you can't be a fanatic in one way or a fanatic in the other way that's the challenge in life you learn how to balance your middles learn how to use each media for serving and together once you learn from the media together the torah didn't give up either of the names yaakov got a new name he got the name israel but the torah is teaching us we need to keep both you need to keep yakoi and you throw learn the balance and that is the way to the ultimate growth that is the way to come close to kurdish and that is the lesson of this week's tarsha it's a lesson for all of us all of us to learn to keep a balance to understand when to use our talents when to use our middles to serve and grow getting closer to our kurdish barcode