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Ruth #4: A Sword in the Beis Midrash -- Part 1 - By Rabbi YY Jacobson
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Great achievements always necessitates
great risks.
Ruth
does something very courageous and very
risky.
Following the instructions of her
mother-in-law, Naomi,
she waits till the night when their
relative Boaz is winnowing the grain in
his field.
Ruth comes to the field and after Boaz
winnows, eats, drinks, feels good, and
lies down to relax and retire for the
night in his granary.
Ruth approaches him subtly and lies down
near him, exposes his feet,
and then the possuk describes in the
third chapter how it's the middle of the
night
and Boaz quakes, he trembles, he's
grasped as he discovers that there's a
woman lying right near him. He asks her,
"Who are you?"
And Ruth,
in her consistent dignity
and inner confidence, does not lose
herself, she's not terrified. She
responds, "I am Ruth, your maid."
And she asks him
to marry her.
It was a very risky moment. He could
have cursed her, he could have expelled
her, he could have ran, he could have
been
furious at her.
Instead,
he's overwhelmed by a positive emotion,
he blesses her.
And he promises her to do it, but there
is one condition.
He says there is somebody who is a
closer relative than I am. Now, let's
recall this detail because it's
extremely important to be able to move
on.
Boaz and Ruth were relatives, first
cousins. How? Let us recall, there were
four brothers, there was a man named
Elimelech,
who was the son of Nachshon ben Aminadav
from the tribe of Yehudah, from the
tribe of Judah. Elimelech, the son of
Nachshon, has three brothers. There were
four brothers altogether, there's
Elimelech,
there's a man named Salmon, who is the
father of Boaz,
there was another man
who is identified
as Tov, his name is Tov, which means
good.
There is a fourth brother who is the
father of Naomi. Elimelech
marries Naomi and they have two
children, Machlon and Chilion. Elimelech
dies, Naomi remains a widow.
Machlon and Chilion marry two Moabite
women, Ruth and Orpah. Both of them die
after 10 years. Orpah returns to the
Moabites, Ruth follows her
mother-in-law, Naomi, back to Bethlehem,
back to Judea. They are
poverty-stricken. We know they're
poverty-stricken because
Ruth offers to go and glean grain, glean
barley ears and stalks from the fields
since it was the time of the barley
harvest, spring, Pesach time.
So, this means that Naomi married her
uncle, Elimelech,
and Naomi was a first cousin of Boaz
because Naomi's father was Elimelech's
brother, Salmon's brother, and Salmon is
Boaz's father. This means Machlon and
Chilion,
who marry Ruth and Orpah, Elimelech's
children, are first cousins of Boaz.
Right? Because their father is
Elimelech, Elimelech's brother is
Salmon, that's their uncle, and Salmon's
son is Boaz, it's their first cousin.
So, Naomi was both Boaz's first cousin,
she was also Boaz's aunt because of her
marriage to Elimelech. Ruth, because of
her marriage to uh
Machlon, Elimelech and Naomi's son, Ruth
is a first cousin of Boaz.
So, Ruth comes to Boaz in the middle of
the night and she asks him to marry her.
Very elegantly, she says, "Spread
your cloak on your on your maid." The
Medrash points it out. It says, "Look at
the distinction between people. Look how
the wife of Potiphar
tried to inspire and arouse Joseph in a
relationship in Vayeishev. She says,
"Shichvi imi, lie with me."
Grabs him. And look how Ruth presented
herself to Boaz. "Uperasta knafcha lamah
sachi, you should spread your cloak on
your maid."
Language, how you express yourself,
which of course expresses what's behind
the language, the soul behind the
language.
Now,
as we explained, Ruth tells Boaz, "Ki
goel ati, you're the redeemer, you're my
redeemer." What she was suggesting here
is a form of yibbum. Levirate marriage
is the Torah instructs that if a man
dies childless,
his wife should not marry just another
man, she should marry the brother-in-law
and thus perpetuate the legacy of the
deceased husband who died without
children. The child who's born
will continue, will perpetuate the name
and the legacy of her first husband,
and in fact, his soul is a reincarnation
of
the man who died. Now, yibbum refers to
brothers-in-law. In other words, the
woman is commanded to marry her brother
if she wants and her brother-in-law
wants.
If not, there's a process called
chalitzah, we discussed in the previous
class, class three.
But nonetheless, as the Ramban explains
in Vayeishev,
this the concept applies also to
relatives. When the woman, the widow
who's left without children, marries a
close relative, a goel, a redeemer, this
is a form of yibbum, a form of levirate
marriages,
where
the energy of the man who died will be
continued and perpetuated through the
life of the new couple.
The concept of yibbum, the Ramban points
out in Vayeishev, is a very mystical
concept, it's a soulful,
completely spiritual, abstract,
mystical, kabbalistic concept of how it
works.
The point being is that the spirit of
the dead man continues to linger
in the psyche of his widow. In the words
of the Zohar, "Rucha hu deshavik
begava." The spirit of the dead husband
who died childless still lingers within
the woman, and it's redeemed through the
marriage to his brother, and the child
that they will have, the spirit of the
of the first man
is released, it's redeemed, it's
liberated, it comes out of the spirit of
the wife, of the widow,
through the child. And as I said, it's
also a reincarnation of uh
of his soul.
Now,
with Naomi, the whole concept didn't
apply. You'll ask, somebody asked me,
"Why didn't Naomi want to do yibbum?"
It's not a question. Why is it not a
question? You should know, yibbum
applies only if the husband dies
childless. Elimelech did not die
childless. Naomi's husband died with two
children, Machlon and Chilion.
Tragically, they died later themselves
without children, but the law of yibbum,
the permission to marry a
brother-in-law, which is usually
forbidden,
to marry your husband's brother is
forbidden, even after he dies.
It's only in a case when he dies
childless, while he died, there's no
children.
Naomi had children, Elimelech had
children. So, Ruth offers Boaz, asks
Boaz to marry. What was Boaz's response?
Boaz's response is, "I am a redeemer, I
am a relative. I am a kinsman of the
family. I am in that position of the
person who redeems. Redemption also
applies to fields, as we discussed and
we'll soon see it again.
The Torah did not want
that people should sell their fields
because everybody had plots of land that
belonged organically to them, the
ancestral inheritance of each tribe and
family of Israel when they entered into
the Holy Land under Yehoshua bin Nun in
the year 2488
after creation, 40 years of traveling in
the desert, they come into the land,
everybody inherits their plot plot.
They're not supposed to sell it. If they
do sell it, there was a commandment that
the closest relative should try to
redeem the field so that it remains with
in the family within the tribe. This is
called the redeemer. So, Boaz tells
Ruth, I am a redeemer, but there is a
closer redeemer. There's a closer
relative. Who is he referring to? He's
referring to his uncle.
Boaz's father wasn't alive. Salmon was
not alive. Elimelech was not alive.
Naomi's father was not alive probably,
but there was one man alive, the fourth
brother, Tov was still alive.
Elimelech's brother was alive. Naomi's
brother-in-law. Naomi's uncle. Mahlon's
uncle.
He's a closer relative than Boaz. Boaz
is a first cousin of Ruth's deceased
husband.
Tov, Boaz's uncle, Naomi's uncle,
Mahlon's uncle, is an uncle, not just a
first cousin. So, Boaz says there's
somebody closer.
So, wait over the night, rest the night,
and in the morning, if he redeems you,
great. If not, I will redeem you. I will
marry you.
This concludes the content the theme the
narrative of chapter 3. We now turn to
chapter 4, perek dalet.
U bat pasuk aleph, perek dalet, the
fourth chapter, the last chapter of
Ruth, verse 1.
U Boaz al ha-sha'ar.
Boaz, this is the morning. Boaz goes up
to the gate of the city. Vayashev sham,
and he sits there.
As the commentators explain, the gate of
the city was the place where the masses
would pass. They would convene. They
would gather. It was also the place
where the local court, every city had a
Sanhedrin.
A court that was the large Sanhedrin of
71 members, like the Jewish Supreme
Court. But every city at its gate
had a Sanhedrin, a court, usually 23
members.
And we see in the Torah in a several
places that the Sanhedrin, the courts,
are identified with the gate of the
city. So, Boaz goes to the gate.
Vayashev sham, he sits there. Vehinei.
And behold, guess what? Ha-go'el over
asher dibber Boaz. The redeemer about
whom Boaz was talking to Ruth. Boaz
spoke to Ruth about a redeemer who's a
closer relative to her than he is
passing.
What a coincidence. Vayomer, Boaz tells
him, "Sura, turn away.
Shva poi ploni almoni. Come sit down
here, whoever you are." He doesn't say a
name. Ploni almoni means that anonymous
person, that some type that particular
person
whose name so-and-so.
Ploni almoni, he specifically doesn't
say a name. Vayasor, he turns from his
path. Vayashev, and he sits down. The
Midrash Rabbah here says a beautiful
thing. The Midrash Rabbah says God said,
Boaz asah sheli.
Naomi asesa sheli. Ruth asesa sheli. Af
ani asesa sheli.
God, Hashem, says, "Boaz did what he was
supposed to do.
Naomi did what she was supposed to do.
Ruth did what she was supposed to do.
Now, I will do what I'm supposed to do."
And he makes sure that this ploni
almoni, that this redeemer, the uncle of
Boaz,
should pass by right at that time so
that Boaz can offer him the proposition,
and
the story can develop. It's a very
profound Midrash because
what's this coincidence that a man
passed by right then and there, right in
the morning?
And the answer is, and this is this is a
a description of life.
We don't see the full picture. We can do
what we have to do.
I can do what I'm supposed to do, and
you can do what you're called to do.
Each of us
who said, "Life is a powerful Whitman
said, "Life is a powerful play,
and
you may contribute your verse.
I must contribute my verse. You must
contribute your verse. And sometimes to
contribute your verse, you have to take
risks. You have to have courage. You
have to have confidence.
You do what you have to do.
And this is what happens. Boaz did what
he did, what he was supposed to do. He
didn't run.
He could have hollered. He could have
screamed. He could have cursed. He could
have called his his hosts of maids and
servants and guards and what's this?
Boaz did what he had to do.
He rose up to the occasion. He realized
the sacredness, the preciousness, the
depth of the moment. Naomi did what she
had to do. An old, broken,
poverty-stricken widow.
But nonetheless with unwavering vision
of what has to be done. And Ruth,
our hero, did certainly what she had to
do. She went in the middle of the night
as a widow of the grain, and she
asked Boaz to marry her. So, God says,
"It's now time for me to do what I got
to do."
Now, why is he called ploni almoni? In
the previous chapter, Boaz identified
him as Tov. So, some commentators, like
Ibn Ezra, say it's not true. His name is
not Tov. Tov there just means Boaz says
it's good. It's not a name. But many say
his name was Tov. Rashi says that he
didn't Ultimately, he would not man want
to marry Ruth. So, the
the the Torah the Tanakh doesn't mention
his name.
We'll see almoni also comes to word
ilem, mute. As we'll see, he was mute
from the words of Torah. There's also a
a deeper interpretation. Ploni almoni is
a classical term that's still used very
often. Ploni almoni means so-and-so
without saying a name. It's like It
could be anybody. Ploni almoni means,
you know,
the guy in the street.
And it's really it really captures who
he was.
What Boaz would be asking from him is to
do something out of the ordinary. Boaz
was called here to do something out of
the ordinary. Here is a woman
who comes from Moab, a non-Jewish woman
who converted,
somehow cast her fate with a family that
left the Jewish people, that deserted
their people.
Boaz is a leader, is a judge.
Why get involved in this?
So, I spoke last week that Boaz
recognized because of what Ruth did
what was at stake.
But ploni almoni was just a regular
person.
And ordinary people follow an ordinary
lifestyle. They go in the middle of the
road. They don't go too much right. They
don't go too MUCH LEFT. PLONI ALMONI. TO
achieve greatness,
you have to often be ready to take
great risks and to be able to fail. But
ploni almoni
didn't want to achieve greatness, nor
did he want to fail. He wanted to live
an ordinary life. So, he really captures
the ordinary person who may live a life
of quiet desperation.
So, Boaz asks him to
sit down. He comes and sits down. Pasuk
bet. Vayikach asarah nashim miziknei
ha'ir. Boaz gathers 10 men of the elders
of the city. Not just 10 ordinary
people, from the elders of the city.
Vayomer, he tells them, "Shvu poi. Sit
down here." Vayashev vayeshev, and they
sit.
This immediately tells us about the
stature of Boaz. I mean, he summons 10
of the elders, and he tells them to sit,
and they sit. Why does he think Why does
he feel justified to give them
instructions? Apparently, Boaz was a
very important person. He was a powerful
person. He was a great leader. He was a
man of great influence, and therefore,
they looked up to him, and he commanded
that respect. Why did he gather 10
people? It's unclear. Why would he
gather 10 people? So, the Gemara in
Kesuvos daf zayin amud bet offers an
argument between Rav Nachman and Rav
Avuha. Rav Nachman says something very
interesting, that this is the halakhic
source that birkas chasanim is
ba'asarah. Sheva brachot, the seven
blessings we make as we celebrate the
wedding of a groom and a bride, the
sheva brachot are done only with a
minyan, and that's why Boaz, who's about
to witness a marriage here, gathers 10
people. Rav Avuha says the reason is
completely different.
And that is because Boaz has to do
something else. He has to publicize here
a law.
And I'm going to ask you here to look at
source number one in your curriculum.
Right below the video, there is a PDF
document with a curriculum. Please open
it up. You can print it out. You can
look at it as you wish. And we see the
famous pasuk in Deuteronomy in parshas
Ki Seitzei. Lo yavo Ammoni u'Moavi
bikaal Hashem.
An Ammonite and a Moabite, a member of
these two nations, cannot enter into the
congregation, the community of God. Gam
dor asiri lo yavo lahem bikaal Hashem ad
olam. Even a 10th generation cannot come
into the community of God forever.
And the Torah gives two reasons. One is
they did not greet you with bread and
water when you left Egypt on the route
out of Egypt.
And not only that, the king of Moab
rented the prophet Balaam the son of
Beor to curse the Jewish people. As we
all know the famous story in Parshas
Balak, the curses were transformed into
blessings. But they rented him to curse
the Jewish people. As a result of this,
there is something in the Ammonite and
Ammonite and Moabite nation that does
not allow them to join the Jewish
people.
What's by the way the connection between
these two reasons? So I once saw an
interesting explanation that the
Moabites could explain the reason we
didn't greet the Jews with bread and
water is we didn't have money. There was
a recession. We didn't have money.
One second, the Torah says, to rent a
prophet and offer him a house filled
with gold and silver to curse the Jewish
people, you had money. Suddenly,
suddenly you had money when you wanted
to destroy the Jewish people. Suddenly,
there was no recession. The economy was
great. There was a flow of cash. So
don't tell me that you couldn't offer
bread and water to nomads who left
decades of torturing and savage
suffering and you couldn't offer them
bread and water.
Not only that, all you could think about
is how to destroy them when they
completely did not threaten you in any
way.
Here we have a major issue as Halacha
the Rambam points out clearly, an
Ammonite and a Moabite. Moab is today's
Jordan. It was a country, it was a
nation in today's Jordan on the east of
Israel. Ammon was also to the east but
more down south.
Down south, Moab is more up north in
today's Jordan. Now,
an Ammonite and a Moabite can convert,
they can become converts and and as the
Rambam says in Hilchos Issurei Bi'ah
Perek Yud Bet, they're full-fledged
Jews. But they can't marry.
They cannot marry another Jew.
And even if they stay within the Jewish
people
and they marry, the children cannot
marry Jews. Unlike for example, an
Egyptian. An Egyptian who converts,
the third generation can already marry
an ordinary Jew. If an Egyptian man or
Egyptian woman convert, let's say, and
they marry each other, their children's
children can already marry any Jew.
Any other gentile who converts according
to Jewish law can immediately marry any
Jew.
Ammon and Moab, even a 10th generation,
even a 100 generations of them being
among the Jewish people, of them
converting, they could never marry an
ordinary Jew.
Here's the problem. Ruth is a Moabite.
Ruth asks Boaz to marry her.
Even if she converts, she's a Moabite
woman. Ruth a Moabite is not allowed to.
So Rabbeinu Bachya says in Maseches
Yevamos page 7
that's why Boaz gathered the 10 people
from the elders of the city. It wasn't
just regular people, it was the elders.
Why was it the elders? It was the great
scholars. It was members of the court.
To publicize and discuss and give the
verdict
that the Torah law applies only to men
who are from Ammon and Moab, not women
who are from Ammon and Moab.
And now we understand why he does it
right now, why he gathers the 10 people
right now.
Later, the Malbim says this, later Boaz
is going to become biased.
You can't trust him.
Because once he wants to marry this
girl, you could say, "Oh, of course
you're Of course you're saying you're
allowed to." But at this point, Boaz was
not sure he's going to marry her because
there was somebody else.
There was somebody else first.
So it was a much It was an objective
discussion. And the conclusion was, um
it says
in the masculine.
The
prohibition applies only to a male
Ammonite, a male Moabite, not to a
female Ammonite and Moabite. So anyway,
there are 10 people here gathered.
Possible
Boaz
in front of the 10 elders turns to the
goel, turns to the redeemer. Who is the
redeemer?
That man, whoever his name is, who Boaz
encountered that morning, who came to
sit down. He tells him,
We have to listen to these words.
The plat part of the field which
belonged to our brother Elimelech,
Naomi, who returned from the fields of
Moab, has sold.
We now learn here for the first time
that Naomi had a field. Naomi had a part
of a field. It belonged to Elimelech. It
was Naomi's and she sold it. But I want
to ask you a question. Where did Naomi
have a field from?
Soon we're going to see that Ruth also
had a field. Where did she have a field
from?
So you might answer, "Oh, simple answer.
What type of question is this? Her
husband died. Elimelech died, right?
Elimelech certainly had a field
in the Holy Land. So Naomi inherited
Elimelech's field."
But let's understand the Halachic and
ancient laws of Yerusha, of inheritance.
When a man dies, who inherits the man?
His sons.
If he has no sons,
his daughter or daughters, as in the
case of the daughters of Zelophehad.
If he has no daughters, if he has no
children, who inherits him? It goes up
from son to father. His father inherits
him. What if he has no father? Then it
goes from his father to his father's
children. His brothers inherit him.
What if he has no brothers?
If he has no brothers, the man who died
has no father and he has no brothers,
then it goes to his grandfather. It goes
to his father's father. And if his
father's father is not alive, it goes to
his father's father's children. In other
words, to his uncles, to his father's
brothers.
Now,
those are the laws of inheritance. A
person could give a gift to whoever he
wants before he dies.
But according to the laws of Yerusha,
laws of inheritance, this is the system.
It goes to his sons.
It goes to sons, it doesn't go to his
wife, it doesn't go to his daughters.
However, there's an obligation to
support the wife till she marries
somebody else, if she marries somebody
else, and the daughters. There's also an
obligation to pay up what's called her
Kesubah, which is the husband has an
obligation when he marries the wife that
if he divorces her or he dies, there is
a significant amount of money that goes
to her.
And if that money is not available, she
can take it from his real estate, from
his assets. After he dies, the money
that's owed to her in the Kesubah, the
stipulation that if he dies first, she
gets a certain bulk of money, she can
take it from his assets if there's no
money.
And she has to be supported, the
daughters have to be supported. But the
laws of Yerusha go to the sons or their
sons. If there's no sons, it goes to the
daughters or their children. Again, if
they're not here, it goes to the father.
If he's not here, it goes to his
children, the brothers or their
children. And then it goes back to the
grandfather. And if the grandfather is
not here, it goes to his children, the
deceased man's uncles and or their
children, their descendants. And if not,
it goes to the great-grandfather, all
the way back. And that's why everybody
has a Yerusha.
So when Elimelech died, who inherited
his fields? His children, right? He had
two sons, Machlon and Chilion.
Now when they died, they died.
So who did the inheritance go to? It
didn't go to Naomi. When Elimelech died,
it didn't go to Naomi. Who did it go to?
It went either to Elimelech's father.
And if he was not alive, it went to
Elimelech's brothers. So how did Naomi
have a field?
Also, it says in Pasuk Gimel, look in
Pasuk Gimel,
the part of the field. Why a part of the
field? So the Even Ezra says it was a
big field and Elimelech had only a part
of it. The Malbim says it's a very
difficult answer.
So it seems, and this is what the Malbim
explains and many other commentators
explain, that the reason Naomi had a
field was because of the Kesubah. Which
means, we know when somebody dies, there
is an obligation to nurture and take
care of his wife and his daughters after
his death until they marry somebody
else. There's also the obligation of the
Kesubah. The wife, as I said, has to be
paid money and the assets of the husband
go to the Kesubah. Now, Elimelech died.
Naomi had a right to collect her
Kesubah. So the field of Elimelech in
the Holy Land,
Naomi had a lien on it. She had a lien
on his field that belonged to her, the
assets of it, in order to pay for her
Kesubah. Whatever the amount of her
Kesubah was that Elimelech stipulated
with her on the day of their marriage.
Now Naomi needed the money, so she went
to sell this field.
So that's what it's He's telling the
redeemer. The part of the field that
belonged to our brother Elimelech, which
Naomi has a lien on, she now wants to
sell. And the reason she wants to sell
it is she needs the money.
So she wants to sell her field and get
her money.
Now,
we know the Torah says in Parshas Behar,
in ancestral
in the ancestral homeland of Israel,
when somebody wanted to sell a field
because of poverty, there was an
obligation on the relatives to redeem
the field of the buyer so that it
remains within the family. Who is the
obligation on? A relative. The closest
relative has the first obligation. If he
can do it, then it goes on the next
closest relative and then on the next
closest relative. So therefore, who is
Boaz offering this mitzvah to? His
uncle. Elimelech's brother, he says,
"You are the one who's supposed to buy
the field from Naomi." It's Elimelech's
field, it's your brother's field. He
died. He owed the ketubah to his wife.
You're the first one to redeem it. She's
going to sell it to a stranger. It's our
ancestral homeland, it's part of our
family. You have the obligation to
redeem it. Go and buy buy it from Naomi
instead of her selling it to somebody
else.
The same is true about Ruth. We're soon
going to see that Ruth also had
property. Why? When Elimelech died,
Mahlon and Chilion inherited it, his
property, his field. Whatever else he
owned. He had two sons. Besides the part
of the ketubah
of Naomi, which she had a lien on. Now,
when Mahlon died, he probably had a
ketubah with Ruth, too.
So part of what he inherited from
Elimelech, she had a lien on because of
her ketubah. And now she wanted to sell
it in order to get her ketubah.
And therefore, Boaz offers to the
redeemer, "You redeem the field of
Naomi. You redeem the field of Ruth."
This is how the Malbim explains it here.
The question is is a famous Midrash
Rabbah in Ruth in the first chapter.
Naomi tells that her daughters-in-law,
she says, "God should give you kindness
just as you have done kindness with the
dead and with me." What type of kindness
did they do with the dead? So that's one
of the explanation And with me? So one
of the explanations in Midrash says that
they forgave the ketubah. Both Ruth and
Orpah,
they forgave the money of the ketubah.
They didn't
pressure
Naomi for the mother for the money of
the ketubah. So then Ruth would not have
a lien on the field.
There is a book I saw today, it's called
Chesed Le Meshiach. It's a commentary on
Ruth that was authored by a man who
lived in the 20th century. He died in
1917.
Rabbi Eliyahu Akiva Rabinowitz, who was
the rabbi of Poltava.
He was also a great polemicist. He wrote
a book against secular Zionism called
Sea and Ba Mishpat. He was a well-known
rabbi, a prolific writer, a great
scholar. And he wrote a book on Ruth
called Megillas
called Chesed Le Meshiach.
There he comes up with a
a a brilliant and simple interpretation
how Ruth and Naomi had fields, had
properties.
Which also answers the above question.
And
you can look now at source number two.
We made a little diagram so you should
appreciate it, although by now you
should already know this.
Let's remember right? Tov,
who was supposed to redeem, Salmon, the
father of Boaz, and the father of Naomi.
Naomi was married to her uncle
Elimelech. Now, Elimelech dies.
According to the laws of inheritance,
who inherited who inherited the field?
His fields, his assets, his two sons,
Mahlon and Chilion. They didn't have
children. So when they died, it couldn't
go to their children. Who did it go to?
It goes back up. It can't go to their
father Elimelech cuz he's dead. So who
does it go to? From Elimelech, who's in
the grave, it goes to his other
children. In other words, it goes to his
brothers. He has three brothers, Tov,
Salmon, and the father of Naomi.
So all the properties of Elimelech, all
the goods of Elimelech, whatever
Elimelech owned that went down to his
children after he died, now go back to
their uncles.
Elimelech has three brothers, so it gets
split up between three.
So Tov gets a third, Salmon, the father
of Boaz, gets a third. And who gets the
other third? Naomi's father.
Naomi's father is Elimelech's brother.
So she gets a He gets a third of
Elimelech's property. Now, when her
father died, who inherited him? His
daughter. There's no sons, the daughter
gets the property. So Naomi had a third
of her first husband of her husband's
properties.
That's how she had the fields. And the
Chesed Le Meshiach, he tries to prove
that Naomi sold
part of her field
to Ruth.
She didn't want to take all the stalks
that she was bringing her for free.
Generally, righteous people don't like
to get fa- take favors from others. They
want to pay. How did Naomi pay her back?
She gave her part of her property cuz
she had a third of Elimelech's property
that she inherited from her father.
So
Ruth had fields, Naomi had a field, and
it didn't have to do anything with the
ketubah.
According to the Malbim's explanation
that it was the ketubah, we understand
very well why it's chelqas asad, a part
of the field, cuz the lien was only on a
part of the field.
So according to the Malbim, the word
chelqas is explained. Okay. Regardless,
so now we know that Naomi has a field,
she wants to sell it.
And
Boaz turns to his uncle, to the goel, to
Ploni Almoni, and says,
"The part of the field that belonged to
Elimelech, Naomi is selling it." He
says, "She sold it." But the Malbim says
it means she's about to sell it. She
wants to sell it. According to the
Chesed Le Meshiach, actually it means
maybe that she already sold it to Ruth.
But in any case, here is the situation.
We're going to lose our plots of land.
It's going to leave our family. And as
we know, the Torah does not want that a
family should lose plots of land that
were given to it by Yehoshua when he
divided the land among the 12 tribes of
Israel. Pasuk Daled. Vani amarti, so
Boaz said, "I said, egla oznecha leima.
I will reveal your ears saying." In
other words, "I will talk to you to your
ears to tell you.
Knei neged hayoshvim. Buy. Buy the field
from Naomi in front of all those who are
sitting here at the gate of the city.
V'neged ziknei ami.
And in the presence of the elders of my
nation.
Because remember, Boaz gathered 10
elders. Plus, this was a public
thoroughfare. It's the gate of the city.
So there were many people. So buy the
field from Naomi in the presence of the
people, in the presence of the elders.
Im tigal goel. If you redeem the field,
in other words, you purchase the field
from Naomi and you redeem it from the
would-be foreigner buyer, stranger
buyer. You redeem it. Veim lo yigal. And
if he won't redeem it, and now suddenly
he shifts from second person to third
person, talking to the court, talking to
the Sanhedrin, talking to the elders.
Veim lo yigal. And if this man, my
uncle, will not redeem it, hagidali, let
me know. Ve'eida, and I will know. Ki
ein zulasi goel. There's nobody besides
you to redeem the field. Va'anohi
acharecha, I come after you. I am not on
your level of kinsman, of of of
closeness,
but I am after you.
He is an an uncle of Mahlon, an uncle of
Ruth. I am a first cousin.
So if you're not going to do it, there's
nobody else left. I come after you. The
first responsibility, the first
opportunity is on you. The first mitzvah
is on you because you are a closer
relative to Naomi. You're Naomi's
brother-in-law. You're Naomi's uncle.
You're Ruth's uncle. You're Mahlon's
uncle.
If not you, then I come.
Vayoimer, the man told him, "Anohi ego,
I will redeem it. I am ready to buy the
plot of the field that belonged to
Elimelech that Naomi is now about to
sell."
When Boaz hears that he's about to buy
it,
Boaz says, "There's one more point."
Pasuk K. Vayoimer Boaz. Boaz tells him,
B'yom knoscha sademiyad Naomi.
Now, let's listen. On the day that you
buy the field from the hands of Naomi,
from the hand of Naomi. Umei Eis Rus
Hamoaviya. And from Ruth the Moabitess.
And I'm going to stop right away and
note that here it doesn't say from the
hand. By Naomi, he says, "Miyad Naomi."
By Ruth, he just says, "Mei Eis, from
Ruth." And any serious student has to
ask the question, why the change from
Naomi to Ruth? She has a hand, she
doesn't have a hand.
But let's go again. Vayoimer Boaz. B'yom
knoscha sademiyad Naomi Eis Rus
Hamoaviya. The day you buy the field
from the hand of Naomi and from Ruth the
Moabitess. In other words, he's buying a
field also from Ruth. Ruth also owns
property?
Eishes Hames. The wife of the dead man.
Suddenly, he identifies Ruth as the
wife, the spouse of somebody who died,
her husband, Mahlon.
Kanisa.
You have acquired it. La hakim shema
mesa na halosa.
To erect the name of the deceased man on
his inheritance, on his plot.
What is he telling her? It's a little
bit cryptic. So, Rashi explains he's
telling her I'm sorry, he's telling him
you will buy the field from Naomi. On
the day that you buy the field from
Naomi, you also must buy the field from
Ruth, redeem her field as well.
But as Rashi says, here's the clinch.
Ruth agrees to sell her field only if
you marry her.
She's not just selling her field to a
relative. She's going to sell her field
to somebody who's going to marry her.
Because that way the name of the dead
man Mahlon, who left the world without
children,
will remain alive on some level through
the inheritance, through the field.
Because if she just sells the field to a
relative, it becomes his field. But if
the person who buys the field also
marries the widow of Mahlon,
so then as Rashi points out later in the
chapter, when she's walking around that
field, they say, "Ah, she is the first
wife of Mahlon." So, somehow this field
remains a little bit in the domain of
Mahlon, in the property of Mahlon. So,
Ruth agrees to marry the Ruth agrees to
sell the field to somebody who's going
to marry her.
Because she wants the name of the dead
man to remain on his nahala, on his
inheritance. Since this was the property
of Elimelech and it was the property of
Mahlon according to any interpretation
you're going to choose. The ketubah, the
other interpretation of Rabbi Rabinowitz
in Chesed L'Avraham.
The Malbim explains the pasuk
beautifully.
The Malbim says that what Boaz is
explaining to this redeemer is there's
two types of acquisitions.
One type of acquisition is from Naomi.
From Naomi you're going to purchase a
field according to the legal laws of
acquisition and purchase. There's ways
how we purchase real estate according to
Torah law. You can purchase it through
money, through a document, or through
building in it. Hazakah. Kesef, shtar,
hazakah. Money, document, hazakah.
That's how you're going to purchase the
field from Naomi, through a regular
acquisition between a buyer, Naomi, and
a seller, a man Tive, who happens to be
her uncle and her brother-in-law.
How are you going to purchase the field
from Ruth? Not by buying it through one
of the instruments and methods of
acquisition, but rather by marrying her.
And by marrying Ruth, automatically her
field will be in your property.
Says the Malbim, this is what Boaz is
intimating to this goel, to this
redeemer in the pasuk. So, look again in
pasuk hey, we're going to read it now
the way the Malbim interprets it.
Vayomer Boaz, Boaz says, "Beyom knois
hasa demeyad nami."
The day you're going to buy the field
from the hand of Naomi. Here he says a
hand because how are you going to buy it
through from Naomi? Through money that
transfers from hand to hand. Kesef
anikna meyad leyad. Or a document that
goes from hand to hand. It's a regular
acquisition. You give me money and you
get my field. You give me money and you
get my house. You give me money, you get
my real estate. Meyad nami. So, the day
you're going to buy it from the hand of
Naomi, "Umei aishes Ruth amoyevian."
From Ruth amoyevian. By Ruth it's not
coming from her hand. She's not
transferring you something with her
hand. On the contrary,
you're marrying her. You're becoming one
with her.
You're marrying her. She becomes your
wife. You become her husband. You
actually give her something. Or however
you're going to perform the marriage.
There's three methods how to create a
marriage in halakha.
So, from Ruth amoyevian, you're going to
marry her. And that's what he continues,
"May aishes Ruth amoyevian." From Ruth
amoyevian, "Aishes hamays konnisa."
You're going to acquire the wife of the
dead man. You're not going to acquire
the field. You're going to acquire the
wife of the dead man. Why does he say
aishes hamays? Because it's part of
yibbum. It's a form of yibbum. What's
yibbum? Yibbum is she's not just
marrying any stranger. She's marrying a
relative. Why is she marrying a
relative? So, when she marries a
relative,
so then the child who's born from that
union is considered a continuation
of the first husband who passed away.
It's only if she marries in the family,
her brother-in-law, or somebody else in
the family.
So, you're going to acquire aishes
hamays, the wife of the dead man. It's
going to be you're you're being you're
getting married to her as the wife of
this man who died. And she wants to
continue his life because he died
childless.
And therefore the field is going to
become yours. It's through aishes hamays
konnisa. You have to be kind to the
aishes hamays.
And that's why it's la hakim shema mesa
na halosa. That's the objective. The
objective is that his name will continue
through this inheritance, both in the
field and also through children.
Pasuk vav, vayomer hagoel, when he heard
this, the goel, the potential redeemer
said, "Lo ukhal ligol li."
I can't
redeem
the fields for me. And I can't marry
Ruth.
Pen ashchis es nahalosi.
I might destroy
my inheritance.
Gaal lekha ata es gulosi. You redeem my
redemption. Ki lo ukhal ligol. I cannot
redeem.
Why not?
Source number three, Rashi.
Take a look in Rashi. Rashi explains.
Pen ashchis es nahalosi, zar'i.
I might destroy my children.
Ki mi nahalas Hashem banim. The pasuk
says in Tehillim, the inheritance of God
are children. In other words, children
are called our nahala. So, when he says
I might destroy my nahala, he means my
children. Loses gam bazari. I will
create a blemish in my children.
Shenemar, lo yavo Amoni u Moavi The man
told Boaz,
the pasuk says an Ammonite and a Moabite
cannot come into the community of God.
So, you want me to marry Ruth? I can't
marry Ruth. I'm happy to buy Naomi's
field. I'm happy to buy Ruth's field.
But this condition,
this stipulation that it must come
together WITH A MARRIAGE, WHOA, NOW
YOU'RE PUSHING IT. What's the problem?
The problem is you want me to blemish my
children. I marry Ruth, we have
children. These children are coming from
a Moabite woman. My children ARE
BLEMISHED. THEY CANNOT marry Jews.
Forever.
Why can't they marry Jews? Because the
Torah says lo yavo Amoni u Moavi bakahal
Hashem, even 10 generations ad olam.
Even 10 generations from now, my great
great great grandchildren cannot marry
other Jews. Why not?
I married a Moabite. That's what he
says, "Pen ashchis es nahalosi." I'm
destroying the children that are going
to be born from her.
So, Rashi vetov baAmoni velo yaAmonis.
He made a mistake. Because it's Amoni,
not Amonis, as we spoke earlier, we
discussed earlier. Amoni in the
masculine, Moavi in the masculine, not
in the feminine.
By the way, the Medrash says that's why
he was called Almoni. Almoni comes from
the word ilem. He's mute, he was mute
from the words of Torah because he made
a mistake in this halakha. Not only
that, the Medrash Rabbah says he told
Boaz, "You know why Mahlon and Chilion
died? It was a punishment because they
married Moabite women. You're not
allowed to marry Moabite women even if
they convert."
So, he says, "I'm not going to do this."
And he refuses the offer. He's not going
to marry Ruth. He's going to destroy his
children.
And here we must ask a great question on
Rashi.
Why did he talk about his children?
Say he would never have children with
Ruth. It's really irrelevant. He should
have spoken about himself. He's a Jew.
Elimelech's brother is a Jew.
Ploni Almoni is a Jew.
Whoever he is, it's really irrelevant to
this question if he was a relative, if
he was
where exactly in the family he was.
But a Jew he was, a full-fledged Jew who
lived in Bethlehem, in the community of
Boaz, who was a closer relative than
Boaz.
Is he allowed to marry a Moabite woman?
If he believes that even a female
Moabite is not allowed to come into the
community of God, why does he discuss
HIS CHILDREN? PEN ASHCHIS es nahalosi,
azari.
Let's say he and Ruth would never have
children.
He is forbidden to do it. That's what he
should say.
If he made this mistake and believed
that the prohibition applies not only to
Moabite men, but also to Moabite women,
and a Moabite woman is not allowed to
marry an ordinary regular Jew, lo yavo
Amoni u Moavi bakahal Hashem, how can he
marry Ruth?
But he doesn't mention anything about
himself. He only talks about his
children. Why? He should have told BOAZ
SOMETHING MUCH MORE POWERFUL. FORGET
CHILDREN. EVEN IF I'LL never have a
child with Ruth.
I'm not allowed to marry her. She's a
Moabite woman. A Moabite woman could
convert, but she can't marry a Jew.
The Maharsha asks this question. One of
the great commentators in the Talmud.
What does the Maharsha answer?
Maharsha says
a big chiddush.
What?
That this man said, "Maybe I am allowed
to marry her."
Why am I allowed to marry her? Because
of yibbum.
Because of the law of yibbum. What's the
law of yibbum again?
A man dies without children.
Usually a woman is not allowed to marry
her brother-in-law even after her
husband's death.
Her husband died, she cannot marry his
brother.
But if he dies without children, there's
a mitzvah to marry her brother, if she
wants.
But if she if she or if she wants and if
he wants, if not, there's something
called chalitzah and then she can marry
anybody else.
So yibbum actually overrides the
prohibition of marrying a
brother-in-law.
So this man was telling Boaz, "Perhaps
I'm allowed to marry her because of
yibbum."
As an act of yibbum.
So even though she's a Moabitess, the
mitzvah of yibbum overrides the
prohibition of marrying a Moabitess. But
the problem is the children are still
not fully Jewish. Our children are the
problem.
AND THAT'S WHY HE TOLD BOAZ, "You could
marry her cuz you're not going to have
children." Boaz was already an old man,
according to most commentaries, was a
very old man, as we'll see in later
classes.
This is what the Maharsha explains. But
the explanation of the Maharsha is very
difficult to understand. There's no
mitzvah of yibbum only with a
brother-in-law. Before the Torah was
given, the Ramban writes in Vayeishev,
the tradition of yibbum was practiced
with any kin. Which is why Tamar went to
have a relationship with her
father-in-law, Yehudah. But after the
Torah is given, it's clear that yibbum
is only a brother-in-law. Now, this man,
Ploni Almoni, was not Ruth's
brother-in-law. He was not Machlon's
brother. Machlon's brother was gone.
He was an uncle.
So there's no law of yibbum.
The reason we're referring it to yibbum
is because the concept of yibbum was
applied even to relatives, but not as a
mitzvah.
It was not an obligation. It was
relatives that you're anyway allowed to
marry, whether with yibbum or not
yibbum. There was the concept of
marrying them in the case where the
husband died childless. So to say that
yibbum should override a Moabitess, the
prohibition of a Moabitess doesn't make
sense.
So in order to understand this, the
answer to this, what Rashi is saying,
we have to introduce
another story.
Open up source number four. It takes us
to Shmuel Aleph, chapter 17.
This is the story we discussed this in
class one on Ruth, David's war with
Goliath. David's war with Goliath. And
we know, of course, that this is very
deeply connected to our story because
who is Goliath? Goliath was
the son of Orpah,
Ruth's sister-in-law.
Now,
take a look. Shmuel Aleph,
perek yud zayin, pasuk nun hey.
Vayikra Shaul es David yotzei likras
Plishtim. When Shaul, the king, saw
David going out against the Philistine,
omer el Avner sar hatzava, he tells his
commander-in-chief, Avner, "Ben mi zeh
Avner?"
"Whose son is this lad, Avner?" Vayomer
Avner, "Chai nafshicha, melech, im
yadati." Avner says, "I swear by your
soul, the king, that I don't know."
Nun vav, vayomer hamelech, "The king
says, "Sha'al atah ben mi zeh alam." Go
ask whose son is this young lad."
Nun zayin, uk'shuv David mehakos es
haPlishti. When David returned from
striking the Philistine,
so Avner, the commander-in-chief,
brought him to the king, to Shaul, to
King Saul. Vayomer elav Shaul, "Ben mi
atah, na'ar?" Shaul asks him, "Whose son
are you, lad?" Vayomer David, David
says, "Ben avdecha Yishai Beis Lechem."
"I'm the son of your servant, Yishai,
from Bethlehem."
The questions here, the two major
questions. Shaul asks Avner, "Who's this
young man?" Avner says, "I swear that I
don't know."
Why are you swearing? The king just
asked you a simple question. Who is he?
Who's this Who's Who's his father?
Why do you start swearing that you don't
swears, which means he understood the
question to be faithful and profound.
Question number one. Question number two
is
in pasuk nun hey, Shaul refers to him as
a na'ar, ben mi zeh na'ar. In pasuk nun
vav, he refers to him as ben mi zeh
ha'elem,
ha'elem. Both mean a young lad, but why
the change of terminology?
On this, there's a famous Gemara, a
shocking Gemara in Maseches Yevamos,
page 76b,
Yevamos daf ayin vav. Take a look at
source number five. We're going to learn
the piece of Gemara together.
Zag demishna, Mishnayos Yevamos daf ayin
vav.
Ammonim u'Moavim asurim, ve'isurim
isurei olam. Aval nekveihem nekveihem
mutarim miyad.
Ammonites and Moabites are forbidden to
marry Jews
for eternity.
But their wife their female members are
immediately permissible.
I should just mention parenthetically
that this law is not relative already
for a very long time. And the reason is
the Assyrian king, Sennacherib, around
150 years before the destruction of the
first Temple, came and relocated all of
the nations in the Middle East. And
therefore, he took all of the Moabites
and he placed them elsewhere. He took
all of the and Ammonites and he placed
them elsewhere. He took the 10 tribes of
Israel and he dispersed them. And till
today, we don't know where they are. So
therefore, today, if you go to Moab or
you go to Ammon and there's a convert
from them, we don't assume that it's a
convert from the ancient Moabite nation.
They have been, as we say, buttled,
nullified in the majority of humanity
and civilization. And therefore, today,
any gentile who converts sincerely is
accepted and can marry any Jew. So the
law of Ammon and Moab applied only in
ancient times till Sennacherib came and
confused the whole world, as our sages
put it, "Bas Sennacherib bilbel es
ha'olam." Till then,
the Moabites were native Moabites. The
Ammonites were native Ammonites who
lived there from the time when the Jews
left Egypt. But now, already since
Sennacherib, already before the
destruction of the first Temple, this
law is over. It doesn't Not that the law
is over, the circumstances don't apply.
So But even then, it didn't apply to
females. That's what the Mishnah says in
Yevamos. Now, look further. Zag degemara
minan u'minan, how do we know?
Omer Rebbi Yochanan, Rebbi Yochanan
says, diyoma kra, the pasuk says,
"Vayikra Shaul es David yotzei likras
Plishti."
When Shaul saw David
go out against the Philistine, omer el
Avner sar hatzava, "Ben mi zeh na'ar,
Avner?" He asked Avner, "Who is Whose
lad is he?" Vayomer Avner, "Chai
nafshicha, melech, im yadati." "I swear
that I don't know." Fleg degemara, "Did
my other lawyer daley?" Did Shaul not
know who David is? A few chapters
earlier, Shaul was overtaken by
melancholy.
And he was advised to get somebody to
play beautiful music to calm his soul.
And who did they bring? They brought
David to play his harp. And Shaul took a
liking to him. So Shaul didn't know who
he was. How much did he change?
Zag degemara, "No, hachi kama Shaul."
Shaul meant something much deeper. He
did know who he was. But he asked his
commander-in-chief, Avner, "Im mi Peretz
o hachi kama Shaul, im mi Peretz o im mi
Zerach hosi."
"I know who he is, and I know that he
comes from the tribe of Yehudah. But
Yehudah and Tamar gave birth to twins,
Peretz and Zerach.
Does David come from Peretz or Zerach?"
"Im mi Peretz hosi, if he comes from
Peretz, malka hava."
"I know that he is a king in his blood."
"Sh'ha'melech poreitz lasos derech bein
machaneh beyado."
The word Peretz is very telling. The
word Peretz means a breach. A king is
permitted to make a breach in the path,
and nobody could protest him. If he
needs to cut through a certain path, he
can make any breach. He can remove any
building, and nobody can protest him.
This is part of the authority of the
king. He's a Peretz. He can make a
breach. He can destroy regular
boundaries and remove structures. So if
David comes from Peretz, there is royal
blood flowing in his sinews. "Im mi
Zerach hosi, if he comes from Zerach,
ish ba'al ma'aveh." He's just a
prominent person. Shaul wanted to know,
in other words,
if David has within him
the potential, the destiny, the energy,
the royalty, the character that makes
him suitable to be a melech, to be a
king.
As the Gemara continues there, which
we're not quoting here, you could look
it up if you want, that he saw some
symptoms, he saw some signs which showed
him that David was a king.
This was, of course, crucial
for Shaul to know, on many different
levels,
including deep spiritual levels.
What's the future of the Jewish people
if he's the next king?
This was the question. Now you
understand why Avner took an oath, "I
don't know."
It wasn't a question about simple
identity, "Who is he?"
It was a very deep question, "Is he a
king?" So Avner said, "I swear I don't
know."
Now you understand his response. The
response is proportionate. It's
commensurate with the question.
And the The continues, this is what
happened. Om my loy doyeg ha doy me.
Doyeg the Edomite turns to the King Saul
and tells him.
Who was Doyeg? We have to know Doyeg is
defined in the Tanakh as abir haro'im
asher l'Shaul, the most powerful of
Shaul's shepherds. As the sages explain,
he was the reish Sanhedrin, he was the
leader of the supreme court of the
Jewish people, one of the greatest
scholars of his day.
But as far as character, he was very
flawed. And he didn't like David.
Om my loy doyeg ha doy me, Doyeg the
Edomite tells
Shaul, and you know, one of the reasons
he's called Adoymi, which means red, one
explanation is he came from Edom.
Another explanation is Adoymi, when he
spoke in Torah, everybody blushed. And
when he asked David or anybody else a
question, they blushed because nobody
can answer.
Doyeg says, "Achat umashal lo vem hogin
ul hamalkhut um lo."
You're asking if he's worthy for the
throne or not. "Sha'al lo vem royi ul
vem b'khalim lo." Why don't you ask if
he's worthy to enter into the community
of Israel or not? "Mai ta'ama?" What's
the reason? "D'kha asi Rut hamoyaviya."
David comes from Rut the Moavite.
David's father was Yishai, Yishai's
father was Oved, Oved's mother was Rut.
David's great-grandmother was Rut, she's
a Moavite. "Shaul, your majesty, you're
asking if David is worthy for kingship.
If he comes from Peretz or Zerach, why
don't you ask a more important question?
Is he Jewish? Can he be a full Jew?"
So yes, Rut converted, she could be a
Jew.
But uh is is he worthy of marrying a
gidisha what a yidisha froi?
A kasha d'yidisha erla k'froi, can he
marry a Jewish family?
Can he build a Jewish family? Can he
marry a regular Jew or ordinary Jewish
woman?
Or not? That's the question.
Om my loy Avner, Avner tells Doyeg,
"Taneina, we have learnt it." "Amoyni
veloy amoynis, moyavi veloy moyavis."
It says an Ammonite man, not an
Ammonitess, Moavite veloy Moavitess. The
Torah says "Loy yavo Amoyni u'Moyavi" in
the masculine, not in the feminine. Men,
not women, yeah, Rut was a woman.
Doyeg tells Avner, "Ela meyata mamzer
veloy mamzeres."
It says "Loy yavo mamzer b'khal Hashem."
A bastard boy, so a child who was born
from a very promiscuous relationship,
say a woman commits adultery and lives
with another man while she's married
before she gets a divorce. And she has a
baby from the second man, the boy is a
mamzer.
He can't marry an ordinary Jew. So maybe
you're going to say "Mamzer veloy
mamzeres" that only applies to a male
mamzer, not a female mamzer, just as you
did with Amoyni u'Moyavi, and we never
heard such a law.
Avner said, "No, mamzer k'siv mum zar."
The word mamzer has a meaning. Mamzer is
a combination of two words, mum zar, the
blemish of being alien.
So mamzer doesn't mean a masculine
mamzer and not a female mamzer, mamzer
denotes the concept that this person has
a blemish that he or she is alien.
Amoyni u'Moyavi is the name of a nation,
and it says in the masculine to exclude
the feminine.
Mamzer has a meaning, and that meaning
applies both to the man or the woman,
the boy or the girl.
Doyeg did not remain mute. So Doyeg
continues, "Mitzri veloy Mitzris."
Later it says an Egyptian who converts
can't marry an ordinary Jew only in
third generation. Maybe it's only an
Egyptian man, not an Egyptian woman.
Same as you did with Ammon and Moab, by
mamzer you FOUND AN EXCUSE, BY MITZRI?
So Avner said, "Shani ancha, here is
different. The m'farish ta'ama d'kra."
The pasuk explains the reason. "Al asher
loy kidmu eschem b'lechem u'mayim." The
reason a Moavite and Ammonite cannot
marry Jews is because they did not greet
you with bread and water. "Darko shel
ish l'kadem u'lelo darko shel ish
l'kadem." It's the
custom
of a man to go out and greet them with
bread and water, it's not the custom of
a woman. By an Egyptian, the Torah
doesn't give a specific reason that
applies to men.
The reason is because of what they did
to the Jews as an enslavement, probably.
The Torah just says an Egyptian can't
come in to the community of God till the
third generation. So we don't
distinguish between a man and a woman.
But by an Amoyni and a Moyavi, the Torah
gives a reason
why they can't. And that REASON APPLIES
TO MEN, NOT to women.
The men's culture and nature is to go
out. The women's nature is not to go
out.
So you can blame the men for not
greeting the Jews with bread and water,
you can't blame the women, it's not
their fault, they're not guilty. So
they're exonerated from this prohibition
that they can't enter into the community
of God.
So Doyeg continues, "Halochem l'kadem
anashim k'vatz anashim, venashim k'vatz
nashim."
Why?
The Moavite men should have gone out to
greet the men, and the Moavite women
should go out to greet the women. You're
telling me tznius, modesty, borders,
boundaries, it's not for the women to go
out? THEY COULD HAVE MADE A CHITZONUS.
LET THE MEN GO TO THE MEN, LET THE WOMEN
GO to the women.
And since the women did not go, they're
equally guilty, so why are you excluding
the women from the prohibition?
Ishtik.
Avner was silenced, he didn't have what
to say.
In front of the king,
this takes place
as they're discussing David who's going
out to fight Goliath.
Going out to fight his cousin
who went back to Moab cuz his mother
didn't convert, Arpa became a Moavite.
Now the question is, doesn't David
belong on that side as well?
Miyad, right away, "Vayomer hamelech,
Shaul ata ben Yishai ha'ela?"
The king
tells Avner, "Go ask whose son is this
elem, is this young lad?" "Hasam karilei
naar ha'kha karilei elem." The beginning
he calls him a naar, then an elem.
"Hakhi kamalei was telling him halakha
in his alma k'tzalu shatz shatz u'shatz
u'shatz u'shatz u'shatz u'shatz
u'shatz."
"A halakha was concealed from you, go
ask in the base medrash." That's why it
says elem. Elem doesn't only mean young
lad, elem also comes from the word
concealment, "l'ha'alim helem."
Telling Avner, "There was a halakha
concealed from you, you don't know the
law.
Who's right, you or Doyeg? Was Rut
allowed to marry Boaz, or was she not
allowed to marry Boaz?
Are her children full Jews, or are they
not full Jews? You don't know.
Elem, you're you're confused, go to the
base medrash, go to the study hall, go
to the yeshiva and find out."
Shaul. Avner left the king, he went to
the base medrash and he asked the
question. "Amru lei." They told him,
"Amoyni veloy amoynis, moyavi veloy
moyavis." They repeated this tradition,
it the prohibition applies only to
males, not to females.
"Achshilu hu Doyeg kol ha'ni kushyasa."
Doyeg asked all of the above questions,
the questions that he asked Avner, he
posed in the base medrash to all of the
scholars. "Ishtiku." They were all
silenced. Nobody had a response to
Doyeg.
Doyeg had a great question.
He had not one great question, but many
great questions, proving
supposedly that Amoyni and Moyavi refers
both to males and to females, and hence
Rut could not marry a Jew, and hence
Rut's children cannot marry Jews, and
even if they're Jew, they convert, they
could never enter into the congregation
of God as Jews.
"Boi l'harug z'ei alei." Said the
Gemara.
They wanted to declare David at that
moment as somebody
who's not royi l've b'khal, as somebody
who cannot be a full-fledged Jew and
marry a Jew.
Miyad, what happens now? Immediately
something happens.
And here the Gemara quotes a pasuk in
Shmuel. Pasuk says "Va'amasa ben Yishai
Yisraeli asher ba l'Avigail bas
Nachash."
Amasa, the son of a man whose name was
Yisra, the Jew, the Israelite, who
married a woman named Avigail, the
daughter of Nachash.
And by the way, who's Avigail, the
daughter of Nachash? Avigail was a
sister of King David.
"Bas Nachash." The Gemara explains
elsewhere, Nachash refers to Yishai,
because Yishai died without sins, the
only reason he died was because of the
serpent who made Adam and Chava who made
Chava eat from the tree, and that's when
death was decreed on all of humanity.
So Amasa was the son of a man named
Yisra who married Avigail, David's
sister.
He's His father is identified as Yisra
Yisraeli. "U'khsiv b'Divrei Hayamim" in
Chronicles, he's called Yeser
ha'Yishmaeli. Yeser the Arab, the
Ishmaelite, he comes from Yishmael, and
he's identified as the same person who
married Avigail. Was he a Jew, or was he
a Yishmaeli?
"Amar Rava." Rava says, "M'lamed
she'khagar charbo k'Yishmael."
This teaches us
that he girdled his sword like a
Yishmael, like a Yishmael, like like an
Arab, he girdled his sword, he he girded
his sword.
"Va'amar." And he declared, "Kol mi
she'eino shomeya halakha zu, yeduker
b'cherev."
Somebody
who does not listen and obey to this
halakha will be stabbed by a sword.
This is what I have accepted from the
court
of Shmuel HaNavi, Shmuel from the city
of Rama, Shmuel HaNavi, Shmuel the
prophet, Ammi Ne'eman, Ammi is my Ammi
Ne'eman, my office.
From the Beis Din of Shmuel I accepted
that it's only an Ammonite man and not
an Ammonite woman, only a Moabite man,
not a Moabite woman.
So he takes a sword like a Yishmaeli,
really he was a Jew, but the reason we
call him Yishmaeli girdled his sword
like a Yishmaeli and he said, "Whoever
does not accept this halakha will be
pierced, will be stabbed with a sword. I
have accepted from the Beis Din of
Shmuel."
From the court, the Sanhedrin of Shmuel,
that prohibition applies only to an
Ammonite man, to a Moabite man, not to a
woman.
Fregt die Gemara, "Mei Ma'amin?" Does he
believe? Va'amar Rabba bar bar Rav Huna
said in the name of Rav Kahana, "Talmid
chacham she'amar halakha u'ba, any
scholar who teaches a halakha, im kedei
mai'aseh umar she'eino umar, im umar ein
umar." If he taught it before
he became involved in the story, you can
listen to him, if not, don't listen to
him cuz he's biased. If he taught the
halakha before, it affected him
personally, you could accept it. If it's
after, you can't accept it, he's a he's
not a subjective, he's he's not
objective, he's subjective.
Yishai married David's sister.
In other words, his sister WAS YISHAI'S
DAUGHTER. AMASA WAS THEIR SON.
IF THE MOABITE WOMAN WOULD BE prohibited
from marrying a Jew, IT WOULD AFFECT HIS
CHILDREN, TOO. IT WOULD affect Amasa and
all the children. How could you listen
to him? And for the Gemara Shani ach
it's different our Shmuel who Beis Din
Kayim, Shmuel was alive, his Beis Din
was alive, you could go ask him.
I CAN'T TRUST somebody when he's giving
me a law that he's biased about if he's
the exclusive source. I can't trust him
because he may just want to cover for
himself. But in this case,
how can he lie? Go to Shmuel HaNavi, go
to his Beis Din and find out.
And that's why we can trust him.
Fregt die Gemara, "Mi kol makom kasha."
But Doeg has good questions.
Shmuel's Beis Din says that it doesn't
apply to women, but Doeg asks, "Why
not?"
Women should have also gone to greet the
Jews.
So the Gemara says two answers. Hacha,
here in Babylonia, Targum U'v'Yom they
explained it based on the pasuk in
Tehillim, "Kol kvudah bas melech
penimah."
The respect of a princess is to remain
inside. But Mar bar Rav Ashi in the West
in Israel, Be Teima Rabbi Yitzchak bar
Rabbi Yitzchak said, "Kera, the pasuk Am
Be Teima Rabbi Yitzchak or some people
say Rabbi Yitzchak said, "Amar kera, the
pasuk says, 'Vayomeru el Avraham, 'Ayek
Sarah ishtecha?' The three guests asked
Avraham in the beginning of a year,
'Where is Sarah, your wife?' And what
would he answer? 'Hinei ohel, she's in
the tent.'"
She's inside. So therefore the women of
Moab were not responsible to come out
and greet the Jews because a princess
affects the world from within.
"Hinei ohel, Sarah is in the tent." So
therefore they weren't obliged to come
out to the highway to greet the Jews, so
therefore they're not responsible for
not coming out, and therefore the
prohibition on the Ammonite and the
Moabite does not apply to them.
And this concludes this story of the
Gemara.
Which at first glance the whole story is
deeply, deeply enigmatic.
How will a sword help us determine the
law?
He says, "Whoever doesn't accept this
law will be stabbed with a sword."
Can a sword determine what's true,
what's not true? IF IT'S A SWORD THAT
DETERMINES IT, IT'S A BUSH, IT'S A
SHAME, IT'S A DISGRACE.
IF THE SWORD IS THAT WHICH DETERMINES
TRUTH, IT'S NOT TRUTH, IT'S VIOLENCE,
IT'S AGGRESSION, IT'S BLOOD, IT'S NOT
TRUTH.
I say, "IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT THIS LAW,
I'M GOING TO STAB YOU." AND YOU ACCEPT
IT BECAUSE of fear of death, that's law,
that's justice? THAT'S NOT LAW, IT'S
TERRORISM.
MEMON NAFSHACH, IF THE argument is good,
what do they say? What do they What do
the lawyers say? If the law is on your
side,
then emphasize the law.
If the story is on your side, if the
story that happened supports your
version,
emphasize the story. And if neither,
then just pound on the wall and holler.
If the law is true, if Shmuel says this
is the halakha, what do you need a sword
for?
And if it's not the halakha and it's
they're going to accept it because of
the sword,
it's not a halakha, that's not a law.
Since when? We never heard such a thing
in Judaism. Law is established because
he's standing with a sword, he says,
"Whoever doesn't accept it will be
stabbed." What's the meaning of this? He
wanted to convey an idea, but what's the
idea?
And the great question, the big
question, even a bigger question is,
what did he say? He said, "I have
accepted from the Beis Din of Shmuel."
They knew it already in Beis Medrash. In
Beis Medrash they said, "Ammi Ne'eman,
Ammi is my Ammi Ne'eman, MY OFFICE."
AVNER TOLD SHAUL, "TANEINA, we learned
this."
BUT DOEG ASKED ALL THESE QUESTIONS.
So why suddenly when
Shmuel is quoted, the questions are
gone? Why?
Doeg could have asked his questions on
Shmuel's Beis Din, too.
They already said, "Taneina, we learned
that this is a tradition." BUT DOEG
TRIED TO REFUTE the tradition, to
disprove it. So he could have asked the
question now on Shmuel, too.
Furthermore, Boaz, who was a judge
according to most opinions, already gave
out a verdict that Ruth could come into
the Jewish people, and he did it
publicly in front of 10 elders.
So why was Doeg Why would Doeg's
questions generations later valid?
And also, why couldn't Boaz be quoted?
Why they have to quote Shmuel?
But these are major questions. What is
the Gemara trying to say?
But the how based on how we understand
this Gemara, we we answer all these
questions.
We'll be able to see the meticulousness
in Rashi's words of why the goel, why
Toiv, why the redeemer refused to marry
Ruth, not because of himself, but
because of his children.
As we will discuss next Monday night.
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