Repairing Relationships: The Importance of Mechila

this is a time where people are open to being appeased getting a phone call from somebody and saying hey are you it's a time to pick up the phone I think everybody in this room knows somebody or has someone that they don't talk to or you know they had some sort of it's a perfect time to do it a good friend of mine told me about his friend who hasn't spoken to his daughter for 20 30 years I think it was I said listen don't be a fool you're not going to go to your grandkids weddings you're not going to see their B Mitzvah you don't know your grandkids are what are you doing put yourself down for one time tell her you're sorry whatever it is so you won't be her best friend you won't be the father daughter relationship that everybody has at least you'll be cordial when you see her you you won't look the other way you'll say Lo to her but now you can go to your kids your grandkids weddings you can go to their Mitzvah and he ma he called up and they have peace now so if you know somebody you could with them you could you could you could convince anybody could convince it's Kai to put yourself down I think that's the trick you're 100 you're 100% right you know you're right I know you're right but pretend you're not for a second and say you're not right and ask m