Relationship Over Being Right: A Deeper Connection

sit down with 10 people and you and everybody tells you you're 100% right. >> Being right is a very lonely place. >> But you're saying another point is that the relationship is way more important than the ego or the argument or being right. >> It's all about that. The way you said it with your with your father is that to keep the family together and to respect my father and to have this relationship. >> It's better to be smart than right. >> It's the only thing is to be smart if you want to have your kids connected. >> If you sit down with 10 people and you and everybody tells you you're 100% right, >> being right is a very lonely place. >> But it's like you can't deposit it in the bank. >> Absolutely not. >> And it shuts down the kids and it makes them feel that they're not safe to share with us how they feel. So the value of having a relationship or having a family together must be way heavier, must be way stronger than being Right.