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A Torah anytime original series.
Perhaps the single greatest urban legend
in the history of the land of Israel is
that the Dead Sea is salty because Lot's
wife who turned into a pillar of salt
disintegrated into it. Now let's ask a
question. Why in fact did Lo's wife turn
into a pillar of salt? So, we all know
the story. The city of Sudame fell so
deep into moral decay that Hashem
decreed its destruction. It just had to
go. Yet, there was one inhabitant who
although flawed, he merited salvation,
and this was Lot. So, the angels tasked
with destroying the city stopped off at
Light's house to tell him to get out and
get out fast. And as Light and his
family were leaving, the angels warned
him, "When you run, don't look back."
Well, look back is exactly what Light's
wife did and a human salt shaker she
became. Now, this story begs a question.
What exactly is so massively wrong with
turning around for one second? What is
the great harm in glancing backward and
watching? What's the big deal? So, she
stole a glance. Okay, it's not every day
that a city is pummeled by a heavenly
sulfur and firestorm. Why is it such a
great sin, but that she stole a second
to watch this historic apocalypse?
Something that never happened before in
world history and has never happened
since.
So I saw a powerful explanation by Rabba
Vdar Miller. He says that the Tyra is
telling us a fundamental principle in
Shouva and growth and that is if you
want to change, if you want to grow, you
can't look back. If you want to grow up
and better yourself and become more
wholesome, you have to be a different
person. You aren't the same person who
ate too much. You aren't the same person
who spent too much time on your phone.
You aren't the same person who didn't
learn enough or who spoke too much
lashhara. To grow is to shed the past
and begin a new. Allowing the past to
linger in our basement hinders our
development. You can't possibly become a
healthier eater with fast food coupons
in your pocket. You can't possibly be
less attached to your phone when you're
still subscribed to the same 347
WhatsApp statuses as before. You can't
possibly be a new person if you still
look to and befriend the bad habits of
your past. Every gudle and great person
by definition had moments in their lives
where they had to shed their old sort of
mediocre self and become bigger and
better and larger than they previously
were. It's so easy to become paralyzed
by ourselves and remain set in our ways
taking the path of least resistance in
life. But the path to godless is to look
forward and keep on climbing the ladder
of life. Now I heard from my
father-in-law mayor the rashiva of or in
Atlanta a vart that demonstrates this
idea brilliantly. He pointed out that a
mitz someone who had to go upon
completing his days of isolation outside
of the camp he needs to go into the mikt
to become. Now the problem was that tame
people weren't allowed in the basikt. So
how can someone who had saras go into
the bas mikt to become pure if tame
people aren't allowed in the bas. So to
solve this problem, the kohanim would
bring the mitsora into a special gate
called shah niconor which was both part
of the besa mikdash yet not charged with
the same level of kadusha that would
prohibit the mits from going there and
that way he can be in the ba mikdash
without fully being in it and that's
where he becomes pure. This, my
father-in-law pointed out, is symbolic
of how the Tyra sees the chuva process.
It wants people to go to a place where
they feel like they don't belong. It
wants people to go to a level of that
they didn't think they could reach to
raise oneself higher than what they
previously thought they were capable of.
By forever attaching ourselves to our
past, we may be living a life of
self-fulfilling prophecies about who we
are and what we're capable of.
Challenging ourselves and forever
marching onwards makes us bigger and
better servants of Hashem. Now listen to
this. You ever wonder why Light's wife
turned into salt of all things and not
something else? like why not a big
pillar of dust or a nice heap of garlic
powder or I don't know a mountain of
cayenne pepper. Why did she turn into
salt of all things? The answer is
because salt wasn't just a spice. It was
power. You see, in the ancient world,
salt was literally life itself. Salt was
worth more than gold. Empires rose and
fell because of salt. Roman soldiers
were literally paid in salt. That's
where the word salary comes from.
Caravans crossed deserts just to trade
it. Kingdoms built entire trade routes
around it. Wars were fought over salt.
In China, the first state monopoly was
on salt. In Africa, slabs of salt were
traded ounce for ounce with gold. Cities
like Venice became rich beyond
imagination because they controlled
salt. Salt roots carved their way across
continents from the Sahara Desert to the
Silk Road. The Via Salaria, the salt
road literally built Rome's economy.
When Napoleon marched his army across
Europe, one of his biggest challenges
wasn't food. It was salt shortages that
left his men weak and demoralized. And
the reason salt was so important is
because without salt, there was no way
to preserve food. There's no way to
survive the winter or to feed armies or
to live off the land without salt. Salt
was how you beat time. It was how you
kept things from decaying. Salt was how
you beat death. It was the technology of
preservation in a world where everything
else rotted away. So when Load's wife
turned back, not just with her body, but
with her soul, Hashem turned her into
the very thing that symbolized her
mistake. She wanted to preserve her old
life, her old comfort, her old identity
in Sudim. She couldn't let go of the
past. So Hashem said, "You want to
preserve yourself? Fine. You'll be
preserved perfectly like meat packed in
salt, unchanging, unmoving, frozen in
the past forever. She became the
ultimate metaphor, a living fossil of
someone who refused to grow. It's a
haunting image, but a powerful one
because every time we look back and
refuse to grow, we're doing the same
thing. We're salting our own potential
instead of letting it blossom into
something new. Now, listen to this
story.
There was once a billionaire, his name
was Glenn Sterns, who agreed to one of
the wildest challenges ever put on
television. He was approached by people
who offered him the following challenge.
They said, "We're going to take away
your name, your money, your contacts,
your status. You're going to be dropped
off in a random city with just $100, a
pickup truck, and a phone with no
contacts. and you'll have 90 days to
build a business worth $1 million. 90
days. So, he accepted the challenge and
he suited up in some nondescript clothes
and he was dropped off in the city of
Eerie, Pennsylvania. Now, picture that.
You've got a hundred bucks. You know, no
one. You're in a city you've never heard
of. What would you do first? So, most
people would just start panicking. Where
do I sleep? Where do I eat? But not him.
The first thing Glenn Sterns did in
Erie, Pennsylvania was walk down the
street, go to the first stranger he met
and asked him, "Where is the closest
synagogue?" A synagogue. Of all the
places he could have wanted to start, he
chose to start with a synagogue. He
wasn't Jewish, but something inside of
him understood a secret that's ancient
and eternal. If you want to rebuild your
life from scratch, if you want to find
people of depth, of vision, of
discipline, you go where purpose lives,
you go where people show up. You step
into a shull. What ended up happening
was on his way, he found a local gym and
he spent 35 of his precious $100 on a
month's membership, not to work out, but
to surround himself with people who were
working on themselves. And it worked.
Within days he started meeting people
who opened doors for him and he built
connections and he earned trust and
slowly dollar by dollar he built a
barbecue restaurant that by the time
COVID shut down the challenge two and a
half years late two and a half months
later it was valued at $750,000.
And when they asked him later why he
originally chose a synagogue, he said,
"Because that's where you find people
who are making positive changes in the
world and that's how you start
anything." That line hit me because
that's us. We are the people who walk
into the gym of the soul every day and
we push ourselves to grow and to rise
and to become more than we were
yesterday. No one in all of world
history has had to start over more than
the Jewish people. No one in all of
world history has had to leave behind
their homes and their families and their
livelihoods and their languages and
their communities and step into a world
completely unknown more than us.
Throughout history, we've been dropped
into new cities and new countries and
new continents, stripped of everything
we knew and everything we built and
everything we loved. No one has been
forced to rebuild from nothing time and
time again in city after city and
continent after continent more than the
Jewish people. And yet every single time
we rebuild, every time we take the fire,
we carry the fire of Senai, the fire of
our traditions, the fire of our values,
and we plant it into the soil of our new
land. And we take it and we nurture it,
and we grow it, and we make it thrive.
That's who we are. A nation forged in
exile, a people who knows how to start
over and make something extraordinary
out of absolutely nothing. We are the
masters of reinvention. The world
champions of resilience. No one in
history has had to reroot themselves as
many times as we have. No one in history
has been tested by the necessity of
beginning again more than we have. And
no one has done it with the
determination and with the courage and
with the vision of the Jewish people. We
are the people who turn adversity into
opportunity. We are the people who take
fire and turn it into light and take
ashes and somehow someway turn them into
flames. We are the people who no matter
where we're dropped. Whether in a tiny
town, a massive city, a foreign land, or
a strange continent, we always rise and
we build and we grow and we thrive. We
are the people who always find our way
back. Back to Scha, back to Tyra, back
to our values, back to each other. We
are the people who never stop growing
and never stop striving and never stop
turning every challenge into a triumph.
That's who we are and that's our legacy.
That's our fire. A people who take every
exile, every challenge, every new
beginning and turn it into a force that
changes the world.
The angels were telling light, "Run for
your lives and don't even glance back
for a second because you are to leave
here new people saved by the skin of
your teeth. Grow, change, start a new."
That's the correct way to change. It
reminds me a little of how I used to
view nila at the end of yum. I used to
feel slightly dejected at the end of
nila. The gates are shutting right in
front of my face and I'm going to drive
home from Shaw the same exact guy I was
last year. The gates of heavens close
right in front of my nose and I humbly
walk home the same old me. But then I
heard a perspective that changed my
outlook entirely. The gates of heaven
aren't closing in front of you. They're
closing behind you. Hashem is urging us,
quick, jump into my world and close the
door behind you. Come through the gates
and live with me. You'll love it here.
You'll you're you'll be a new you.
You'll live in my world. Nila isn't the
end. Nila is the beginning. Nila isn't
the gates sending you home. It's the
gates ushering you into the garden of
Hashem. It is you. Version 2.0.
So don't be like Light's wife and look
back. Look forward and step right
through the gate to a whole new version
of you.