Reb Shlomo Yehuda Rechnitz Addresses Shidduch Crisis During Visit to Lakewood - The Lakewood Scoop

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when they went from buffer to to adult to [Music] grandfather look at time flies time flies every single person here he's going to have that tremendous tremendous you should all look forward to a sh ibody BR head but that everyone should have terrific sh but I think if people want to do the right thing what are the things that they have to look at after the regular is the AR let's try to understand let's let's let's look into that and see let's consider that one one of the criteria we look at the pros we look at the cons do we ever look at the cons that I'm going be another girl yes it's you don't have to have people with in Vans with cattle prods to make some all not going I don't know why you can't call allowing the share price to go on I don't see what the difference is why that's not considered and What Makes Us present from Mak for making [Music] should be are your children and should go smooth he should get to the best crop maybe we should obviously it's an individual thing each person needs to see a also I think everything aome has to do with how you present the question sor is all all these people here are asking to do give part of money guilt I don't want to minimize that for a second if you want to be a real [Music] this really maybe it's time we reflect a little bit what the other side is thinking what's what's happening and what's going on people have a different cook people have a different feeling ourselves going too far looking for [Music] on [Applause] Freddy's also here I think from the first year I think I I was a contributor for the first year it's not something new that just can't I don't think anybody has to be convinced of this I think it's a simple thing [Music] just says says means there's no M there's nothing to do there's nothing to give you stay away from me I see from away from you or is a positive command you have to do something may by us