Zionism #2: Off the Derech - OTD -You wouldn't call yr wayward son wicked would u? R Yoel letter

okay so let's open up the text that was already manager uh the letter from let us know Khan it's the second sheer we're on page pay not pay tests no we started pay test oh yeah oh we are still on paid tests no yeah yeah we'll get it right you're right you're right you're right your paragraph you are right you are right okay tell him says before I get into the body of the idea into the main idea I I suggest a very simple question for you to think about listen to this what if your only son if you had an only son foreign doesn't want him to uh you know to get all flustered that he's saying hey this is going to happen to your son so he says my intent is not God forbid when you talk to someone directly it's called in Hebrew but there is so I don't mean that this question directed at you I want you to think about it as an emotion Elliot saw it if only if it would be that's why it's in in in in quotations [Music] and we hope to Hashem that he'll guard us from this entire from such a situation I'm going to describe now foreign although who can give a a guarantee that surely this won't happen to any individual well in the physical material world as much as we do what's right there's no guarantees okay nevertheless specifically in this generation where Darkness covers the earth and therefore it's apt for these things to happen where people have a yet either and he says so what if your son your only son would become a bahalo Shabbos he would desecrate Shabbos without hessia publicly yes and there is hope that if you'll be my car of him you'll bring him closer with love and closeness and honor he'll return to us you see the word saying to this person I want you to really think about this truthfully it was your kid you were the longer pious throwing the stones in May assure him or screaming and or you know in in in in Williamsburg it was your kid that having it either and then there's a chance that some someone will be my car of him or her and he will do true but she will do true is asking the person who is writing to what would you do then would you make a husband an account if it's forbidden to be my kind of going to show him Wicked people who Mitzvah and it's a Mitzvah listen to hate them with the ultimate of hatred what you say to yourself hate um I don't care it's my kid my kid is a Russian now since he's a Russia I hate him and therefore I don't want to hear about him I don't need a struva etc which is a dominant feeling or at least used to be it used to be in these communities and unfortunately still is bites up let's go on oi or would you say is a Hector and that's why Hector over here is in in in in in um in the quotations or you would find some kind of header to permit yourself to give your son or daughter a second chance even though everyone else is in Russia right the Cardiff is Maybe by bringing him close and being nice to him and honoring him he'll do true love so Rubio says I want you to really think about that what would you do now if yo says butter that sleep it's sure to me foreign I am sure I am convinced that if you were to truly again the words are in italic in bold if you would truly think about it and be objective the word is a Yiddish word and it means in English to fool yourself and you don't want to fool yourself you want to be honest and genuine and sincere but yeah actually show them suffocus vexmaker there would be no doubt by you and no doubt within a doubt so I am started because you would surely do whatever it takes to bring your only son who went off the Derek back to Cuba even though right now he is a Russia so who are you kidding that's the question he says I want you who who you and your friends who call the non-religious people reshaim and it's a mixed with they hate them and all that I want you to tell me if you would have the same feeling about your son or your daughter who left the dead of etc etc okay next paragraph on one hand how you talking question mark why should you have that feeling is in others he's saying you know that you would not have that feeling for your son or daughter who left the dead your only son but seemingly why not you know you're a yirushimaim you're a Jewish how is it not that is doesn't hate to show you and more so you're going to show them signs of love and closeness in other words seemingly takes what it says in the Toyota that unless he's supposed to hate so how is it that you wouldn't talk to hate your own son ah it's a very simple answer why be sure this is like sweet as honey and it's all in Yiddish it you know gives it out you you know you should understand what he's saying your own child when you're talking about your own child and some bold the word organ egg in them and then again the word zaina means you're only son and get his fault felt up cold noise oh kanoi it's all zealotry Falls aside felt up Maisha means Falls aside Falls away so who are you kidding you bluffer in other words in in and then okay even if we're even let me explain is not saying that you have to that when the trader says you say hey to Russia it means some of the one of the daughter of he's not saying that but he says if a court you according to the way you guys think someone who is otd off the Derek and all that is a Russia and you have to hate it so he says if that's the case how is it that you don't hate your own son and the answer is because when it comes to my blood when it comes to my flesh I don't look at oh what it says the title I don't I don't say that again Joel's not saying that that's what you should do he's saying according to the way you think in other words really you have it all wrong you don't understand what the title is saying as the out that ever says in chapter 32 and Tanya that the idea of giving muscle and hating someone for their Avera is when when their says in chapter 32 it's a phenomenal then he says there look into chapter 32. you should scold someone for their sins the word which means friend and breaks it up into two Hebrew words IM someone who's with you he plays god with you he eats pizza with you he schmoozes with you you go to the bar together you go to the ball game together you learn together your friends and even then even then as I've said many times on the shioram there's a way to give Musso taught it to me and I'm right I write about it because it's so important just because someone who's your friend okay is there you you have friends who went to medical school with you okay you meet them and they're just wrong you meet him there they're in the cafeteria eating shrimp you want to pull their eyes out their Jews you know them your buddies no no there's a way to do it when's the last time you hung out with them you hang out in bed Shem as you hang out with frumies you got to become their friend and more their friend and all that and once you become the friend and spend time and and that is something that we don't want to really do whether we don't want that environment if no problem but then don't give them muscle because your mustard will only be uh hate it because you're not their friend and this is a heavier this is so true in life it's true if your spouse is true with your kids it's true with your rabbit and Casino you know I I I just for a second I digress you know there you know I was raised in this culture when systems sit together you you give each other you beat each other up right and and when I went out sleepers to California and as the years went on you know I tried that with my Bella bottom and it didn't work and it was a disaster and I stopped my brother bought him even though they have a yamaka whether it's a balcuba not balchuva they're not the roof they're not the SRI they didn't they didn't eat you know the food in the in the Yeshiva cafeteria where you could you know what I'm saying and taco when I get together with my best friends we can say anything to each other because it's taken in the right way no one's embarrassed at 60 years old 40 years after when Yeshiva to say to each other you know hey you're a jerk hey do better what are you doing for your life because because we're friends in the blood because that's we we grew up together you know I said Abigail was telling him over here basically you're not so so what I'm saying is that I don't want anyone to walk away listening to the sheer that's oh saying that the reason you're not you you're not being honest and you're not in criticizing him your son is because you love your child but really you should give him that Musser right what I'm saying don't walk it's true there's a meaning of Musser for a Russia but it has to be in the right way at the right time and the right person and I would say today today it really doesn't it doesn't apply it normally I really I really believe that because many times we say well he went to Yeshiva he's a he's a he's an ex Yeshiva boy see he knows what Shabbos is let me tell you something they maybe once knew what shop assist they don't know anymore Chavez's you know I I didn't said you guys have maybe I should but a friend sent a clip of of a woman in Williamsburg I guess she has a tour program you saw it now I was thinking about it let me tell the camera so some some some husted with a strimel and the Garb holding on Olive and he says excuse me um would you like to bench a little vanessric and she answers them in ayali Yiddish if you hear carefully she's speaking a Hungarian type of Yiddish you know but it's been years that she's left Williamsburg so she's not speaking you know the real Hungarian dish you know it's kind of covered over but in certain words of the bracha she makes I picked up the Hungarian this you have to pay attention and and and it's very interesting because here she it's like she's looking at him she's doing it and I felt that inside she's turning inside out outwardly you don't see it so much because she grew up I think in that community right and she left the community now let now so so what I also walked away with is she is she is a child that's been in captivity it's been caught by the glass guy and the secularism but you'll say wait a minute she was a girl that went to base Yakov went to base Rojo which is the Sacrament School in Williamsburg so you know she is a Russia wrong because she forgot everything and and you see he has to tell her the first brother she didn't remember all so obviously she's gone so far that she has forgotten the real yet so to go and say that she's a Russian no she's not a Russian Isabel she's a teenager mishbud that had a background Once Upon a Time in other words what I'm saying is that it's seldom where you find someone who's an epicatus there are there used to be a lot more they're either Justin and all those but today you know I am not going to say that the boy in new square or in the mirror or Lakewood or bien or panovic whatever whatever it is who leaves the the film world and and becomes not religious is a Russian why because if you if you know them well and you study them you'll see that they never really got it so they didn't get it then they are not a Russian foreign I just I think it's very important to to to understand that so therefore I believe we should adopt the attitude they're not a showing they're not ashamed yet you know Russia you know what I'm saying but a yeet is not a Russian Aid is just confused misinformed and it's and I I'm not saying this with like it's easy for me to say this because it's not because just like I'm sure you I've had in my life issues where someone really hurt me and and you want to walk and you want to say that guy is a real bad guy right and to work on yourself to not feel that is a very hard enough later but the truth is that's the operator that is the MS the fact that he will have to deal with the best dinner without who that's his husband it's not my husband my husband is what do I do about it and how can I serve Hashem better and that's what Dalton brings it again from the governor Shimmy bengala Shimmy bengala curses of the melach and David says I love you no it's the same thing makes up at all these problems and yes he prays to Hashem save me but he still loves and of course different rabbis different communities take this different I'm telling you the way might ever my mashpia just taught us not just because it's feeling good I'm not going to feel good people I come from you know a different generation like you guys do you know what I'm saying I'm not I'm not into you know feel good and give me a hug and everything's great and life is great and we and we cover our eyes no but at the same time look into the situation and another point which I think Dr W will say later is you know hey guy you're critical of your son and you're so good and that's Dr Davis is actually chapter 30 of Tanya he says this guy who's a sinner who's looking you know after women and all that he's sitting in the market he's sitting in Manhattan and everyone's passing Lord Tel Aviv right and everyone's running half naked and all that what what do you expect you're sitting in the Yeshiva or in your little steattle or your little and sure right or your little workplace Maisha has a beautiful view I hope you still do moisture of the BET of the mountains right that's what Maisha sees him he doesn't see the Schmutz of Tel Aviv so for him to feel I'm something so special I don't look at the Schmutz you know thank you very much my chef excavator because that's what you see from your window I want to see how you would be an artist with with all the crazies the anti-bliss people and the gays and the lesbian the guns right there where my daughter lives the heart of the Lion the the gun mayor where the gay parade starts is two blocks from my daughter two I've been there yeah yeah well and my daughter my son my three grandchildren they're just looking there and they had 600 people on simcostaria you know any other things that's right that's right and there they just bought a new shoe for 200 people and and it's packed with Eden and simchas every Shabbos three baby namings and offroofs it's it's a Renaissance beyond belief of Americans not I mean anglos Australians Americans English Canadians and some Israelis so what I'm saying is that you can easily and believe I'm telling you I I struggle sometimes you know they do an activity or they you know if they share with me and I have a picture of this or that and I say hey what's going on but it's so easy for me to say that sitting here in ballpark I'm not sitting there I'm not dealing with with people who need to be be brought back to you this guide right so keep your mouth shut you know when we will do exactly what the shluchem and others do you know Schwartz would walk would have a stand at the edge of the um the Venice Beach this is in some harmonica in California and and read the how you name to people and tell them about the birthday and all that no I couldn't do it you know shlima was able to do it it was one schleimer but but you know so before we criticize he's a Russia she's a Russia look at yourself but so that that he doesn't say over here but I just I just felt this was an important let's let's continue let's continue please inside well the last line on page Sadiq of the first paragraph and after WL says to this person to the supper when you will imagine this that it's your own son your Ben Jacob that went off the Derek you make a simple account like this let's read the next paragraph say yes when you have a Jew that is left to Hashem is very great after they come until and therefore he loves every Jew he loves this Jew and that's you because just like he loves his own child because every child every Jew is like his only son to Hashem and he brings direct the citation after the parenthesis now push it it's understood Shana God say in Korea is simple that you would have the attitude to every Jew like like you the Sacramento I'm writing to would conduct yourself with your own son even if it was off to Derek right because you love him and you love every Jew that's shame is doing the right thing let me tell you a secret okay Maisha that's the language I will reveal to The Honorable Men of Torah it's a respectful way of addressing someone may you live say yes there is such a yehudi there is such a Jew but she'll laugh because of what I'm saying what it's what it says on the text but you can handle it because we're good friends for what I'm paying if y'all says to the shop let me tell you a secret you know who's a Jew who looks at every Jew and loves him because he's a Jew just as he would he loves his own son even if his own son is wayward it's the rabbit shlita this was written when the rebel was alive it's the rabbit our rabbits is a Jew like this such like this who loves hashema with Mighty and great love the whom it's pain from the fact that the srina kavioko is and the rabbi has pain from the fact that God is in pain that some of his children are spiritually wayward and all Jews are response um tries with all kinds of attempts his status to save another Jewish from the flow right from the from the Rua from of the Bad Evil Waters the flow and the current of the bad Waters Nissan and he attempts to bring them back so if yoyo says to him I got news for you friend there is one person that I know that's me saying it's Liberation there but my debit however that this and ever again it doesn't mean to exclude not an epis that he's writing to him you know like brother to brother he's criticizing that ever the saprix from being the car after a shame is telling him look at yourself you wouldn't feel that way about your own son and what actually is Aaron ever doing he's having Mercy on God because God is and he's helping Hashem in a way Hashem has is in pain from the non-observant people who who go against him right and Hashem is in pain and what is he doing he's schlepping them back trying to bring the backup of this book any comments or questions we'll stop here clear this is this is the best safer I've ever [Laughter] this is a classic we have to thank Maisha and Usher Usher his son I didn't thank him yesterday he was the one who arranged for another poker from the Rea from the the kiriat uh what is it here at God they learned the McDowell amick the McDouble amen they brought he brought back the tense for him you know even though the you know they're packed did me a favor did Usher fade over did us a favor did Marsha favor and um I thank you for uh giving us an opportunity to learn you know that usually our shiorim we get in the first day five ten people that look at the at the video you know I mean he had yesterday so far 70. wow I mean I wrote I wrote review's response a refutation of the satmer shita of anti-Semitism of anti-zionism it was such a title you're gonna get a lot of hits yes my I was gonna say like we need you know you mentioned before to give example to someone in my charm someone in Williamsburg he lives right here and remember I don't want to say Ramat yeah like I woke up this morning and I came on brochure I was before I went to work my daughter comes down she says Abba did you hear the news I said what she said the polling station the voting today today's election oh right right yeah that where she teaches in the Chabad school elementary school in bed she said some command came in and they sprayed the whole place with like the equivalent of what's the police use for anti-ride sprayed it says this horrible smell you can't be there it's like like we need it like we need this we think we might we why should we we need them to learn it right okay but listen if six seven of us eight of us ten of us learn it and coverage is right the word gets out the word gets out and also and you have some extras for them and I'll send more I have so many copies in the basement you know if if people you know those that want one you know they they can't afford or they won't buy it I'll give it 10 for free you 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