Your Demons are springboard for highest good - Rebbe Mahrash Yahrtzeit - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

30 chapter 45 and we're actually on page 80. the second line from the top the second word the altered until now has taught us that sometimes it's necessary to go down so that you're able to go up that's a simple English one of his teachings in this chapter although when you're down it's sad uncomfortable but it's necessary then the outer number said the truth is that the particular way of going down is in a healthy way it's in a frustrating way that you're frustrated with your life frustration the way he sees it is proactive so any movement of proactivity is positive and we call this in Hebrew in the altarebus language versus axis so when one learns Tanya Avi one walks away with the following Atlas is a red flag marinos is a green flag okay this is what we learned yesterday just interrupting what chapter are we on again 31 on page 80. it's towards the end it's the last page and a half of the chapter okay so 31 okay thank you yes you're welcome so towards the end yesterday said this work of of dealing with the Yates and coming and coming out stronger because you have greater mercy on your soul that's enslaved to the Goof and the natural bomb it's to the animalistic desires and temptations and therefore you say how can I be so rude and crude and to to schlep my Godly Soul into my Schmutz and my things and you have mercy you literally have rahmanas you know to remember said this is the this avoida is an Aveda of coal yarmov all your life all your life a person that yeed works to unleash the necessarily kiss with an efficient and when you do that and when you're involved in that activity although you fail sometimes not just simply you have great an abundance of sim Club because each time you release it from its bondage you get a big brownie point and you have wow and it's like a a a a rock a stone off your chest you know and the alternative the muscle at the end of the the last yes this year the last line on chapter page mem second the son of a king who is in jail stuck enslaved with garbage all over those are graphic details in the muscle and then he's released to his father's home so too when we released an officially kiss from the shackles of the nephesh abbamis and the Schmutz of the nethership bomb is the filth of nephew it's a great symbol now let's go to page 82nd line second word and here is a rhetorical question of the balotanya foreign asks on himself although in the process that I just mentioned the body remains in its disgust it's in this disgusting state in its despicable state right we're talking about the mercy on the Netflix of the kiss and releasing it but the body still has the diver the addictions haven't gone away the cravings and urgings are always there foreign the skin of the serpent of the snake now the snake itself in in capitalistic language represents the shallows Clippers that may is the three completely defiled negative energies and forces skin is a little little less it's only the skin of the snake so it represents according to Kabbalah what we call clippersnaga the translucent Clipper where you can see some light it it's not light itself it's a it's a cover over the light but it allows some light to go through just like the skin of the snake so the Zyra cut this calls the body the skin of the snake why keep moving is for the very Corvettes hasn't been transformed to goodly incorporated into Holiness as we said earlier in Tanya that's only bad Sadiq strive for a banging knee it's our as we know it is what is is Clipper is right because so so one second so this is this is where the rhetorical question ends so the balotanya's question is thank you very much foreign it's still grub it's still coarse still has addiction still wants to indulge right it's like you know okay the person is guarding themselves from the addiction it's very very fine as soon as they don't guard themselves they're back to their own unhealthy ways that means they're really unhealthy so why should I be happy why should there be a simple hook that's his question now comes the retort to the rhetorical question nevertheless and this is very very beautiful and important words in in Tanya in this chapter 31. tikar for the word yakar precious a person Soul should be so precious in His Eyes to be rejoiceful with its happiness that it's been released from captivity of the Goof yes from the disgusting body Downton Abel says I agree with you the body still is disgusting and wants to eat and wants to sleep and wants them judge but put the focus on the soul Tikka make the soul precious the the most precious thing by you and that should bring you the simcha and we're going to continue learning more about this in a moment let's continue now as he says some more details shall Layla out of Volvo don't mix and don't confuse the word bilboo the joy of the Soul with the sadness of the body this Hebrew is a life lesson if we allow and focus on the low on the lowliness of the goof we get very sad I but if we know that what's icar in our life it's the nishoma and we put our emphasis under the Shama that brings the simcha the fact that you got a goof that's an animal duh you know see the problem is for many of the Hashem many Taylor students is they have an unreal an unreal expectation their unreal expectation is that they think they're better than they really are so when they don't come up when they don't reach that and they've been taught that all their life and when they when they're 40 years old and they wake up and they realize that they still have my shavasadas and they still have temptations it flattens them that means my entire life I fooled myself when you learn when a 13 year old boy learns a piece of Tanya and lose these chapters to begin with he never has that expectation because Downton Abbas it says here we've had it else earlier but it says here you know that your goof is a grubber thing and the Goof ones grow up kite and from the Goof perspective you're a Bahamian animal that's it okay however you have in the summer that's in you that's a slave and you can release it and now when you release it put that emphasis on the releasing and Anthony and believe me the more you focus on the shama ultimately the Goof will become less and less crass and that's a fact you take a look and you think about your own life others and you look around you and you think you see people who come to Taylor people come to hasidis people and if they're really into it not not you know it's a fabricated thing you know raising flags and screaming not you know all kinds of chances and in every Community you know we're talking about a person who's really working on themselves they actually become more more refined but from what they were to what they are today it they're different because they focused on without them what what do I care about most my message my soul not my booth my goof I know got problems and I'm gonna try to you know leave ameliorate those problems but at the end of the day the goofing is and when you have that attitude the question is not the the question of the issue is not hey I'm walking the street that a pretty woman passes by and I lift my eyes and look at her we know that's the way enough shrimp on this works that's normal that's the expectation the finishes when you turn your head away and you make the folk and you think Taylor and and at that time that's the never Shirley kiss and that's Mutual focus on focusing on what's expected and what's given is not getting you anywhere just it's just slapping you more down and and and and actually we learned earlier remember chapter 27 when the autorabba says to the to the abandon he says you think you're at Sonic oh are you you're so wrong you're so and it's Guyver those are words in chapter 27. here in 31 he says a little differently the language but it's the same pretty much and also what's the words and you have we have to always remember that don't mix the two don't make a Bilbo here don't make available the Netflix is pristine and pure and you focus on that let's continue says that this idea we see by itself this is what we call the spiritual level of exit Exodus a difficult passage why is that why do we have to run away send us out free forever he wouldn't be forced to send them he just saw the ten plagues he got smitten left and right got spanked around smacked up and with templates so why did that my shot why did they make a ploy we're going to we're going to um we'll be back we'll leave him for three days and we'll come back and then once they were out three days they ran away that's what rashes explains right says about Tanya I don't understand why did they have to do that just say we're ready we're going out forever apparently sorry your mince meat Hashem destroyed you the ten Place Empire would have said go he that was the whole thing in the place he tried this and tried this Saddam they matched and it's right there they'll kill the play right at the end at the end of the templates he was he was crushed he was crushed why do you have to play a game or going out for three days and then they run away that's Dr Davis question is the answer is out not to say it outside that the process of running away is an integral process of what mythius is all about you're right physically we didn't need to play that game but since spiritually the idea is that messiah's tomb is contamination and we were immersed in contamination the concept of Escape means let the soul Escape The Exodus so okay so the answer that the balkania give is giving is not a a literal answer to the question in the verse that look into the commentaries what does he say look hello um since the evil within the bad within the Jewish Souls wasn't it full potency in this in the left ventricle was given 49 days later and her Cena the desire and the and the in the and the will of every Jewish yet my Godly soul out of this stink hole called Egypt with its spiritual decrepit energy which is the contamination of time will the duster base and we want to cleave to God and now he brings three verses to support them as it says Hashem Uzi you are my might um and I run away I escape but you're in southern a day of problems of Taurus so we use the word minutis Escape verse number two Miss Gabi um exalted and running away escaping and finally verse number three for who and God modestly was an escape for me all these three verses and why we need three that have his father explains I don't want to get into it but the the the the is that the Escape process is the essence of Messiah remember Issa we were in a rattle we immersed ourselves in the Egyptian culture and we were contaminated spiritually okay okay so the what was necessary what the first thing was is to break loose before you can experience harcina you gotta break loose what Maisha well how did we break loose you'd see us it's Ryan and and when you're in a rat hole and you're and you're all caught up in the Schmutz and you're part of it there's only one way to get out you gotta run away and the same as the day there are situations where negotiating doesn't help you got to get out you got to help the person get out someone's caught in a coat like I told you that the person's sister had him in California since there was a truth for yesterday whatever the case and it came into hopefully and he was he was a expert in the New Testament about juvenile commended a professor and he had an open head to to learn the the New Testament so they can save Jews from Josh and all those mices and his own sister was caught so he stayed for me for Shabbos this is a Marine County in the 80s so now I asked him no did you succeed he said no I didn't he couldn't get his own sister out she was married or boy I said why not she says because it's emotional once it becomes emotional it is so hot it's not it's not logical anymore it becomes emotional there are times where the only thing you can do is a cult Buster you have to kidnap them and and I know that we're talking about the concept I'm not suggesting anyone kidnap anyone else today I'm just saying the concept of of of of just running away you know you live sometimes in a bad place whether it's for your children whether it's your yourself there's only one solution you gotta move you don't want to move it's uncomfortable you have to get away you have to escape when we went on the triumph we needed to escape from the tumor so that's why it says we the Jewish Nation ran away minuti because the tumor was all over if you're walking down in Las Vegas on the Strip hey there's no other way you're not going to change the strip it's going to be that way till Michelle comes okay how Michelle will do it leave it up to him but you gotta run away you can't be there it's beyond you to change the situation it doesn't mean to say I my way can't put too long with someone but in the heart of the tumor you have to escape okay so Dr Davis says here this concept of the never shall a kiss escaping from the from the bondage of the nephew bomb is is exactly what we experienced as a people when we left Egypt in other words the process of becoming Amy Israel was through escaping That's The Power of this piece of Tanya that that that that that that it's not that we became a Jewish people we were so Rosy and so beautiful and so nice and we were all dressed for young to with our finest outfits and Hashem said oh I love you guys you guys are such a mentioned you really want me you're dressed up and you're nice and you're clean and everything and here's the Tita no way Jose we were messed up big time say we were immersed in Memphis and 49 Gates of spiritual contamination highly see I don't even want to think about what that means but it's bad it's really bad and Hashem says out it's time to go and now is not the time to negotiate because you don't got the strength and negotiate you have to run away just run out and we ran and that's what saved us if we would have not run away at that time escaped we would have been still in Instagram because although God can do anything and he does everything nevertheless we ourselves wouldn't have the transformation that we ultimately came to through Martin Taylor right so first you have to get away from the problem you have to get away from the problem and this is in relationships spouses children teachers employers is sometimes bad situations you have to get away now once you get away you can then look at it from and see can it be reconciled can I get back can I work it out and sometimes the answer is you can't and you have to accept that then the sources forth in Kabula not going to go into everything right now but everything has been already discussed in our writings anyway let's continue we got to go on will remove the spiritual contamination from the earth see if it says you won't run away Hashem God will walk before you when mashiach will come he'll be ready after the transformation we won't need to escape anymore we can walk and follow God we don't have to run away since it's a very deep level of truvo the gambling so this causes also great joy for the soul and light for the soul I'm gonna think and focus well now you're going to comfort him from his sadness and his and his mournfulness Layman Canal to say as we said earlier when you repeats the concept but just very briefly hey man miss hooley so yes true Etc I myself my nephew John bomb is dominant that's what I told you before Heaven I didn't make this a God baby Hashem if you didn't want to make theft then don't make me this way you are responsible for making me this way all over and he put the the god the abused in the little book what if you want to put the whole elikus in the book it'll be all over and the time is in a little book it wouldn't be the big Bell titles that we are so you are sure made it no you didn't make it that way the typos are all over right they're right rampant and and we cause godliness is hidden a little safe for me um whatever any safer so that's deltan episodes look at this me I didn't make myself Hashem you made me so if you didn't want me to have these tivers then why'd you make me in such a way so the question turkey is Avi why did hashan make it this way that aspect of God he invested and he enclosed trivia like in the Serpent's skin disgusting drop of semen ains that is all the reason is he did it because the purpose of The Descent is the Aliyah the ascent because Hashem wanted all of the nepheus later because all of its garments the Hashem wanted that the Clippers the Clippers thought speech and action should be elevated through its investment and in clothing in the short speech and action of title because we'll explain later Atlantis page 41 memor and he says in K if so a foreign so this is what should I do if it says this will be my entire yearning healthy my entire life to incorporate my my life my spirit my soul for God I will take the gashmias and elevate it to God it says to you God I exalt my soul I will attach and connect my thoughts my speech with the thought and speech of God how through the Lord that's been prepared before us the hey might said I'll do the acts my shamituation potatoes called but she was nothing the title restores The Soul Peter how is it to witness the terrorist or your soul to its source and then this is also the verse means because of God you shot him are righteous but some believe they bring simcha so what is the balotanya ending with this chapter I need you guys to remember those words The Descent is for the purpose of ascent that's almost on every page in this right what does it mean that why does the nephe surely kiss why is God sended into a body International the purpose is to give it a greater High because on high before the soul came into the body then the summer came in it was nice but it was in a comfort zone it was with its own kind Hashem says I gotta see what you're really made of and you know what if you go into the body and I want you and I'm gonna force you to go into the body and you're gonna put up with all of the body's issues when you're gonna be restored you're going to be much nicer and better so in other words do you read the the the The Descent of the Soul into the body into the world is look so wreck it's for the benefit of the Aliyah the Ali of who Thalia of the nephew here in chapter 31 Tanya type Dr Reba explains the reader yet differently he says you know what the nashummah comes into the body so that the the nephew that's a big hiddish so number one we have to know that the alternative is not talking about a different type of uridas what is he talking about that when the soul the nashama comes into a body of course in itself gets an Aliyah but as well it causes an Ali after shabamis and that's the greatest in this chapter 31 in this section and that's why it's the great it's the great idea of simcha you see to have simcha from you have a you have a wonderful son you have a wonderful daughter you send them away you know they come back and they and they shine it brings you happiness right but to begin with they were on the right page if you have a child who wasn't that way and was you know in things that weren't good and healthy and you send them away and they come back straightened out your sim who's greater why is someone greater because this child to begin with what you know had a difficult a difficulty in school or difficulty and now he or she is rehabilitated that's a great symbol that's aggress sorry that's a greater symbol that's what about Tanya says here that when we take the the the the you reading Sarah Khalia for the soul it's a simple but it's not the ultimate simpler the soul was clean and pure to begin with yes then it comes into the Schmutz and now I bring it back and it gets a you know you succeeded great give your medal but to begin with you that way to begin with I don't mean in a source but when right from the moment it was God said to them you are a troublemaker you your mission is to be a troublemaker and now when you come back not being a troublemaker but being a civil obedient normal person and a normal natural bomb is that's a great and that's what the balotanya says here in chapter 31 the way to to break the um the obstacle the blockage of the of of of the of the of the nafisa bombers where he doesn't let us feel we don't feel God is to understand that when you released in the shama from the bondage and and and and and and it's simultaneously you you you harness the nepheus into terrorism as explained here for speech and action all the details then you're gonna feel you're going to feel the reason we don't feel is because we're unconscious we're in a state of sleep what state of sleep I don't mean literally sleeping doing happening they don't sleep is that we like we're we don't know what's going on tamished famished so when you wake up and you realize that you have an opportunity to make this now for shop bombers go along with the program oh that's the whole of the two bases foreign so um before yantev if you have a chance call him or send them a message especially today is the fourth lab of the Bible says yard site and he is in a sense the transition between the first three rebels of the Babbage and the next three right the outer River the first three and then the Rashad the previous next three and who's the one that's in between the Mirage and that's very interesting because if you look at his life and you look at his teachings you know he really combined kind of the old and the new at one hand he was very Progressive and on the other hand he came from what he came from and that's why he was the youngest of the seven sons of attack and that's why everyone was shocked that he was chosen ultimately to become the next lubavitcher ever he was the youngest he didn't seem to be as great of as a learner and and you know as the others he was a businessman in early part of his life he had all the trappings of not being a Hasidic but then they found out that it was all disguised and it was taka bitzada so on one end he had the kind of modernity and I'm using that in not in a conventional way but you know I'm saying compared to that with his white hat in this white outfit you see an angel and compared to the second son that my real who they say when he died and his his sandals flew from ecstasy when he died and his his he he he couldn't control the Ecstasy and his the sandals flew in the middle of the base mattress that's what they say I wasn't there but the concept is he was very removed very removed from the physical that's what we understand The Mirage was very much a people's person in fact I told you this a long time ago but it's worth repeating that when there was a question after someone said it's passing who should be the next Lubavitch right so the hasidim of couples they wanted their uh their someone said the son the second one of you who delayed in my real to be the rebel but he passed away and he was for six months but he passed away very short after 76 months I believe so the next one of slay musalman who was unable to me for 30 years he already had set up shop and and they wanted to make him the New lubavatry River but guess what the people in the Bible the town the phone the the the Townsville the folks people the the simple people they didn't want him because they felt he's too holy and all that the father right so what do they do they made you know and I said in English had he said in English whatever don't hear you no I'm outside what is it broadsides broadsides they made this prescription that that that the laborator don't want the carpenter because he had moved to Corpus but really it wasn't made it it was the people who were the wagon drivers and the shoe cleaners because they knew that with the Mirage he's such a lovable person and such a people's person more people will come to the Babbage more see them and they'll make more money taking them from the train station yeah so they concocted this this whole thing and I have copies I have copies in my archives of some of those broadsides and this was right so the Mirage The Mirage gave off the impression as someone who was like hey he's not a real rabbit he's a nice guy he's a funk guy you know we'll sit around and then do the uh the theatrics I forget what you guys call them you know the sunflower seeds will sit around and crack sunflower seeds right the truth was he was a very big time they could pick it up so that's why I say he was kind of a intermediary but for the three firsts were more old-fashioned the old labavage and then from the rashaban more the um New World the new world you know so we we recognize that in a way and I heard from siddin in the name of ultra but that people didn't understand the manage he was an enigma they didn't understand it they didn't get him you know he could be he would go to France go and he would be in a a high-class hotel and he would take a a room next to the bar you know what did he do he would go in and he found the Yeet and he said non-jewish wine all that contaminates the mind and the heart and that person became about children you think he needed to be next to the power he was drinking in the bar it's absurd he had no interest in drinking in the bar or going into a Schmitz bar whatever let me know but he went to save his soul so his outer appearance was that way you know that they say I think about today is I don't know if it's your dad but I know I heard about the um the the the Carolina still on the web and there to throw he disappears sometimes even don't know where he is and and the heel he's in he's in Denver who is here is there and you know where is he going he's going to see to see the mountain lions in in Colorado in Boulder I mean I mean what it was going to have a conversation with salmon what is he there for whatever there is this avoid that a certain subject came you know we're very very kind of private and you know people could have said this and could have said that but really they were a stick fire so today is the yard Center to remember that teach a word to share it we will come back if it's Hashem Monday which is October 16th okay and we will start the famous chapter 32 in Tanya for Hashem we're on a great trajectory that is I hope to finish the the first section of Tanya and I thank you all for giving uh given giving us the opportunity to put Tanya online and there's a tremendous amount of people I hear constantly that listen to us here here volunteer so it's it's not just for us over here which is itself very very important but uh we're reaching Greater Heights and it's hagasukas coming up should be with some with your family and your friends and true joy and when it comes to Christina don't lose your because we don't lose your pants literally but don't don't get don't get cuckoo and if some people get cuckoo be nice be civil don't allow people to to to to to to hurt them you know just remember how that we have our own cookiness and have mercy on them and and be Makara of them and Hashem should help that that says that rashab said whoever dances 48 Hours of Sweeney upstairs simplistira with great intense dancing and if you can't dance because your feet hurt you clap and you can't clap smile but you know if get involved in the energy of simcha stereo and and simple stay around when you do that then our shop says it's a school one second one second it's a school for parnosa it's a school of a panosa yeah what do you want to say no no October 16th mark it down on your calendar we'll send you a reminder have a great young everyone bye bye Shalom all only only good things bye