You are worse than the low-life because you know better - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

we're learning Kanye this will be the last year on chapter 30 painted Lament and we are on page Lama tests we're about uh five lines from the bottom let me bring you up to part of what we're going what's what the alternate was talking about here he doubt that is talking about not only should you be humble to every person because you don't know what they're going through when you you you aren't in their place that was the first first point number two you aren't actually better than them because if you analyze your own um if you analyze your own avoida in the good things that you do you're not exerting as much effort as you can it should be to make the comparison to to say that person is a sinner because they're sinning and uh because the time is in front of them and they're not controlling themselves and you are control yourself yes maybe in those course lust related issues of yahish Etc you're controlling yourself but in your asseta if you are not exerting the same amount of effort and then Dr Debbie said that even in in surma if you if you're middle of a great conversation is it sihana you don't stop now it's time to dab and now it's time to learn and maybe now it's time to answer kaddish etc etc you continue or or the other examples gave in issues of surma Iran you specifically spoke about uh issues that have been on the benic enactments where you you a person will tend to say this is the Riser this is their abundance so by the rice uh by biblical injunctions by telling Junctions I'll follow but by repeated conjunctions I'll be more lenient without it I've been said that's totally wrong that the words of the rabbis the sages and the scribes are more severe and strict than the words of the title so that was yesterday then now we're going to learn and finish the Panic without it I was going to say you're actually worse than the gaussian McAllen and therefore you should be more humble you should be so therefore you have to be humble to him and therefore what it says and pick the others have he if true let's see what the alternative says look inside Tanya now let's start from the the period on llama test it's about 10 lines to the bottom in middle of the page albums I will damage him who you dare safer um if you are truly a person who knows the book who's scholarly and they'll tell you the number two um and you support and you hold on to the title of God and number three foreign [Music] then your sin is is so difficult to carry in other words you got a big Sim and your and your negligence is double the masha'ain used to the fact that you don't wage war and overcome you're a Yates in comparison to the waging of war that the cows of the column has to do and your sin is greater than the calcium is sitting on the corners who are distant from God says Thou could ever listen to this is their sin compared to you is not so great but Masha gives them the fact that they don't conquer their inclination that is burning by them like a flame fire Hashem due to the they should have the fear of God Sam that that looks and observes and sees everything they do nevertheless it's not as bad you see these words it's not as bad as the one who's close and close to God the closer you are to Hashem you need the more Hashem is with you Menasha and their Hashem expects more of you so here we are we're thinking oh I became about trooper I do trooper I grew up this way now I made a positive change it's all true and he got a lot of reward for that but at the same time you're being scrutinized greater that's without them ever saying here and when Hashem scrutinizes you greater boy this he finds those cracks and holes and issues in a greater way in there he sees them more by the person whose Holier supposedly than the person who's not that's what he says the honor of God and nevertheless he rebelled therefore his punishment is much greater I'm here in others start a fascinating statement regarding ignoramuses amirs ches [Music] that their accidental sins are considered like I'm sorry they're intentional sins their zodun is amazing their intentional sins are considered like accidental so this is quoting it to support his argument what's his argument this position is that the cow Shepherd colleague doesn't know any better the Council of Khalid was not seeking the closeness of God the kausham is not your day or safer the conquestion of the column is not masika share potato is not close to God he's a person who goes with the flow and you know so number one remember maybe he's there because that's his partner number two you're not working hard and serving God the way you should be so you are working less hard in service of God than he is working in controlling his burning Gates of her which he should be and finally you know better he doesn't know better so you're the real sinner so the last Point here in Chapter 30 is without it but mama's turns the tables upside down and he basically wipes away the thinking that I the from True the learner Jew and all that have a right to to belittle the couch of the Kali and why is all this important we spent for sure among this chapter 30 elaborating in great detail why why is it so important because downtown is giving us advice here to feel humility and why is it important you don't need to feel humility so that simcha true simcha can be realized and therefore and when you'll Dive In and you'll feel that through simcha you'll have that during the darkening we learned in Italian chapter 29 that what gets in the way is the clip of the citrakhra that creates a blockage and the blockage sometimes and many times causes us to be jaded right you do the Mitzvah right here's you you keep is coming we're going to fast I'm gonna be a sure we're gonna put on the Talus look like a malach and the Kittle and the sneakers and the everything fine we've done all the rituals and we have the right clothing and the right this the right that question is do you have a moment where you feel you know you really feel inside and many times that's blocked it's called Tim tomev the blockage of the heart so down today finds ways gives us ways both in chapter 29 and 30 how to unblock the blockage and and the and the and the method that he uses in chapter 30. you hear the method of using Chapter 30 is to humble yourself and humbling yourself means to find to realize that our avoida our Good Deeds is lacking lacking big time because when you when a person understands knows that it the quality should be a certain way and they don't live up to their quality then you know who you fooling that they say the name of the fourth letter of the Bible a fool is only fooling himself he's not fooling anyone else everyone knows that he's a fool so he thinks he's but he thinks he's fooling so he's unfolding himself because no one else is fooled when we really look at ourselves and we realize how our avoida is is lacking that should put an end to any feeling of I'm better and I'm greater and I'm smarter and all that and that's why Menasha even when people in school or elsewhere you know feel a certain way to us the whole idea of comparing comparison whether One Compares themselves to the other or the other Compares themselves to you and all of that it's a childish a childish attitude it's not for an adult it's like my father is greater than your father my brother can you know hit the ball further than your brother that's like you know children you know use that type of thinking adults don't hopefully they don't and when we do it's been childish so so like and and if and and if you want to use that then then just think about the different analyzes that the alternative gives in Chapter 30 and you'll come to the conclusion that um there's nothing to to brag about nothing to feel better now the fact that someone else feels a certain way towards you you're not responsible for the way they feel to you because if we're going to be worried about the way people feel about us we might as well close up shop okay the person has to know what the goal is a person has to have an understanding and a belief must be um spouses and once you get that and you need to get it early on in your life or even if you don't get it early on whenever you get it you get it you go with it you don't look back right if you're climbing up a ladder and you look down you're gonna fall down just keep on going up so I want to conclude this part the the formal section of Tanya now Chapter 30 and we will now start fabric give me a second