Yahrtzeit 19 Cheshvan: Reb Meilech Zwiebel, Mashpia Morristown Yeshiva - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

Tonight is [clears throat] UTES. It's the yard site of melik. He was mashia in Martown. He started in Newark in 1966 6567 one of those years. Abis Fiman told me that he handpicked him to be the Mashia. He knew him from [clears throat] although he was younger but his mind was surpassed most of the older Bakarim. So as a memory just as a talmet just I want to share it's not even a story just an episode for for a minute. So the one shabas I was in crown heights and there's a shoe on the corner of Montgomery in Kingston where they have the sha they used to have it in that corner it's called was there today son-in-law of Gandhi Bzinski may be well he's there of there anyway and Ml conducted his sh like like you know the old style He was a not only a he [clears throat] was a distance and I think he was related to whatever the case and uh he would fre would normally three out of four weeks the long the long many times they were m of the week and he didn't [clears throat] care people can come people can go they can get nervous you know say as long as it takes. One of the four weeks he would go to Empire. Anyway, I was in town once and he wasn't there that chabas. So he asked me um you know if I could see this and I said fine I'll try and a me was there that chabas I was you know a little embarrassed here's my such a such a genius such a such a real you know hashem and who am I like you know and I'm going before my rebi before my teacher before but that's what I had to do so I did it and after I did it he came over to me and he says [clears throat] I say that not to, you know, to boost my ego that I got approval. I'm the m that I said from this giant but midas. I want to talk about the midas. The reb called him a bal midas. there wrote settle when he was going out and meeting his wife to his to his future kala his balas I believe here I am his talmet so he comes over specially he didn't have to come over he was sitting over there you know didn't have to say anything he could just shake his head he comes over and he specifically says to make me feel good we We have to go out of our way to make others feel good. Push it. Push it. Some someone comes into shu sometimes a friend of yours and you you know you say hello you shake your head be you know okay come over sit next to me express a little aa show a little va nothing of your stature will be will be diminished by doing so. So sometimes it's it's these simple things that shows you know the the the closeness and the way I felt was like a million bucks and and I was you know I'm in my 50 in my 50s like my 50s I have a family I'm a grandfather but this is someone who opened our eyes toad we learn and fabanging and the first entry kind of to the deep thought that there is inidus and the entire echelon of of [laughter] and hearing about different we heard from so his that benefited from him should fabang and share his teachings and stories. And he should have