Work is Great - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

so on page 362 good morning my web page 362 and we're going to be continuing from the first word on the line is how Ghazni emits one to be like yeah not a ton I ate was eight lines down the first ones have - me and we're in the middle of that line after the after the comma he took to refresh everyone's memory when we're in middle of this [ __ ] at the other Dominic says into Hill and capital Kufa member of 146 zambra how awesome bhai yes I'm Melek ibid I will pray I will praise I share my sing to Hashem and he uses two different adjectives Messiah whatever not adjectives apply words and live my life and be ID'd my might that I've also said that the word ie D means ancillary something else old so he said that this refers to the Gulf I will I will praise God with my body and it it's preceded by a hollow Samba hey I will pray us into presence and with my soul so he had a question why soul before the body since the Gulf it since the Aveda with the Gulf we explained yesterday a great one the difference between the afraid of the neshamah and the evader of the Gulf and the avoid of the gopher seems to be where we're will where Hashem is real objective is if someone please turn off your mute your mic because there's noise coming please so they never said that although that's true but nevertheless the way the entree to get to the to do the proper avoidance our goof requires there of the summer so the so kind of leads and guides the goof and that's why the Melek says first a hogwash and bhai I will praise a sham with my soul and only afterwards when the soul directs the goof well I also seem to a sham with my book with my body this is what we went yesterday and he also added to her he explained that this is the evader of what's called Escoffier and it's a blow the scarf it means to subjugate something to control which is the initial and first step in service of God you need to control yourself only after control yourself can you then transform yourself and then and this is this is well right now in the minor and the West idea was a measure but she asked me give examples and gave examples and that is and that is that the avoider of viscacha lends itself to using gosh miss only kaffir ma shumou chromoly only the amount that you need for existence and we spoke about this yesterday at great length and we'll have to go on now all the fury and all but most of the children are on my youtube channel so you could always go back and review them if you miss the shear you want to clarify something okay let's go on the gun possession mukla Chloe now that ever says even kind of a more difficult service among a more nuanced point even whatever you need for your existence yah says they should label a belief do it without heart and heart that's an expression Yaakov do you mind muting your your mic so well there's less noise please the idea being okay I wanna make this clear [Music] yesterday we spoke about not indulging the hungriest we spoke about that now is anything even if you're dealing only with the gosh knees and you're not indulging that means the the hungriest you've put to the side but they don't have to do it belay fillets that you're totally into the gosh miss in other words they we have four three three steps who is it enjoying - Mears and just - nice so now what is tackling is the second stage the gun possession mukla you need to eat you need to sleep yah says ice you should do that shall a bit level live not with heart and heart in other words where you're I must have it no it's I don't have to gonna go I'm gonna go back to my muscle I don't have to have the grading The Cranberries on the under turkey well the turkey tell me I can have so I'm going to really enjoy the turkey says that ever even that is not necessary putting the focus and the intention on the gosh knees and making that the primary aspect of your being when your drive and your entire being is not where it's at that's what that was adding over hearing these words so again this is not the indulgences this is even what's necessary should be done with you know not complete focus and I'm you know I must have it and then okay you telling me I can't have the indulgent part but the gossipy I can have let me concentrate fully on the - knees that's the that's the addition of these words let's continue so how should you go about gosse's hello commercials and of our chef mclaughlin bus i sing only the way you should deal with gosh mrs. as though you're forced to have it I mean I don't want to be so so blunt but the de mother says the famous good monitor that probably you you heard about when you were a hustle but the way you should be intimate is as though you are like forcing yourself now everyone knows that the intimate experience is pleasurable experience and should be coming from that perspective and you know yes but if you're like totally glued to it you're you're again it's necessary but you're you're you're you're making a focal point of what's necessary there's a saying there's an opposite indicator which says that the Jews I think camped mean nothing had no father one of the one of the one of the places that they they rested a traveled was from a place called nauseam till no father so there's a city's attached but there's a work that is a play on words the notion comes from the word ishshah' now seeing women no father comes also is associated with the word knows notion magnifier and his five I bet it's a nigga's fire vibrant a vibration a wife that is five I felt he is womanized bees even a nose over your nose you're basically totally women eyes by wrong wife but to the point where that's what you're thinking about now that's a famous word that people would say I see they would say if there was someone who was like oh my wife's head needs to be at home my wife is my wife stabbed my wife my wife my wife and yes your wife needs your home and yes you have to respect your wife leaves to check with her but many times we use that as an excuse that's what this word is coming to to excludes don't become and then you know I'm sure everyone knows here sometimes you meet someone who's like totally controlled by his wife there's a difference between respect and control and the Claytor does not say you should be an efforts to your wife a serving table what pepper but hey puff is also not true that your wife should be a servant to you but we need to say there is a system oh right so I'll cope on him going back to here look what he says the gun possession MOOC riflery even what is necessary yes is a chalet believed to live Alchemist Asian double similar glass they say you're being forced to be intimate I mean what does that mean you're being forced you enjoy being intimate what the commander says that the governor says that the ultimate of serving the Hashem through intimacy because every experience in life in the Jewish life is the service of God like I told you the other day that the students went into it the Rebbe is a bedroom to see how they were intimate they didn't do it because they were you know what do they call them Volvo surfers were what that word is for years and I know that they didn't do that because they were so disgusting they did it because they're crushing to the sea how is it possible to do this mitzvah which is a very pleasurable Mitzvah and doing the same for Maya and that's what the mother means here to this other demand I'm quoting today Kaffee it's the Russian that the mothers can fish a couple shed a gecko you remember the demonic if you should couple [ __ ] it's like like a sad that Shambhala is forcing you to be intimate what's trapped what is that tomorrow me all this tomorrow's you know you could either say oh it's a God Eater and it's in attendance you know just nourish Kaito just a fable or like the Michelle and and other commentaries the learn how lovely and ideas from these stories in the tomorrow also in the Gemara makes a statement confession cook the couple said it has a purpose it has a meaning so what are we learning here what's the meaning the meaning is that don't beef a fiber dip it in us you know yes yes it's a mitzvah to procreate it's immature to be intimate in the midst of einem we know all that but nevertheless you have to come to a point with all Gospels I mean I chose kind of the extreme you know but if oh gosh me is it shouldn't be commercialized you should it should be commercial Sandoval same okra from Marseille say I'm doing it as though I'm being forced into doing it in case ugly the zoo says yes mentioned where's the emphasis saying like a pork you know a plat first the emphasis of I got Swiss favorite thing right and then know all about the Joneses right so my question is what's the what's the whole deal with that like you hear you hear they're so immersed in gosh mist and with these big houses and the gorgeous colors isn't it the same thing like why not only about fear okay okay okay I got it I I heard it don't wait turn your mic off please it's so much so I don't want to really you know we've gone over this liquidity only hundreds of times I told you I cannot be responsible for my neighbors I can't that's not the code this is what it says in the trader and let's see they said a muster people who are serious they they're plenty of people who are serious about this and they don't live lavishly I told you the story of the neurologists from Long Beach California who I knew he's already other members and he was mama shocked at Sadiq and he drove around in this beat-up jalopy you know broken-down car and he asked me if he says he comes to these meetings with you know doctors prominent doctors and they see him parked in his car and then walking in with her with you know with a a creased jacket that he looks like he just came out of bed and he asked me if he has permission to buy a new car because he doesn't want to spend money and indulging me and he doesn't need a new car I remember like yesterday this happened like 30 35 years ago 40 years ago so I told him he should buy a new car from the last year this not this year's model but West's model this way he breaks the tiger of not that he had to divert but he has to drive around in a proper crashing Shapira a kiddush Hashem but there is a difference between an indulging and indulgence for him it wasn't indulge for him I promise you it was mama SH and necessary the fact that the people you know live otherwise you know what could I tell you you know this is not the everyone knows you know and that's it you know that's it let's go further because I play the zoo look Zimbra this I've wager that was described and know now is referred to as Imre song why is the cold song zebra I have the space here is Emmett who the difference between a fear and SM who says she who prepare a here denotes singing with the mouth the Zephyr who believe and Sammartino singing with an instrument that's why we have the word Clay's Emer right klezmer that you guys follow that the word klezmer that was used in the community especially in Europe is made up of two Hebrew words clay Zimmer what's clays in there Clay's Emmer is singing with the with an instrument and it says AHA ghouls who plea Elenin summer and the soul and the body the goof is a vessel to the soul well Haley Nevada shell a groove that's why this activity that we're discussing now is quote is called the clays eminence called Ximena why because there is a Kaylee the goof becomes a vessel for the Soul so just as a the difference between shear shear is the pair with your mouth and Sadler is was an instrument okay Lee so that's why governor Mela uses the word Zamora play loci be ID I will see in what matter the Goverdhan others offer song to hashem through an instrument meaning he took his body and he and he teaches us we should take our goof and have the goof be a vessel for the Soul and that's why he uses the word Azam bro this is the interpretation here in the mind The O'Jays that's one explanation another explanation is his emblem in your noise Krisha the word Zimbra is associate also has the meaning of Krisha creaser means to cut curries commercial co so it says for Hanukkah and your vineyard voice is mild you shall not cut right this is regarding pay under the different mitzvahs the kind of Holy See's money there's another person can you shout y'all you shall observe in 18 you sire you curse the chorus has a thousand it must made us and you will cut the the new the thorns we must be mesmerized the bit must made us with a pruning with a pruning tool there is such a verse of it there they must mater is to cleave must matters as a vessel shaken by a spider is that you cut the branches the twigs you cut the I'm sorry not the thorns the twigs you cut the twigs with this pruning tool my producer goals new clay similar what we've been describing as iphitus a groove is called Zimmern she in your know because its concept is my half is Kairos ago to cut away the indulges indulgences of the body or irrigation her or him and it's bad habits you have to cut them away tzemre so this the rebel says is another explanation in the verse of Zamora when the Chi VOD remember OD refers the world to the Gulf and the Gulf has indulgences and in tendencies and habits as honorable way loci I will cut those away high time in the classic Fela and therefore when it comes to diverting we caught diverting me buttocks are my eye because kiss my from buttocks are my two biggest wish ma'am that means till it's the estaba we call that the shame sookay versus the Zimbra of song of song but also verses that inspire us to cut away the indulgences so you ask the average person on the street what does Sookie dissimilar mean it's verses and into hilum and in other places of song applauding and praising us and true but at the very same time those same verses if you think about them are meant to Jade your table to cut away remove the indulgence feeling and the focus on the Gospels took a derivative and it says so will as a matter reach them this means to cut away the thorns twigs those issues that are unhealthy for a person's service of a chef the customers bring them because are more sung by Marcus advised when you take the time to meditate and reflect that everything that's said in the verses of praise of tsukiyojima by her mother's Abbas delving your mind deeply into the things not just lip service and not just chuckling you're not just crying well you use your brain to understand what you're saying the syndrome and you delve into it and that doesn't come from chuckling that doesn't come from singing those are nice things and they and and and they aid they helped but at the end of the day when you say hey dilash Ankita Latino is my right so you say hey dilash am i give thanks to share key to be smart what's the difference between Hashem and smart hmm how many people dive in and stop have to say four words and they can't continue okay that's cold [ __ ] sabath so the answer is you have to know what the kazan saying and what Mooser says or what city says and whatever dolphin says and what the 3d cannabis says and then you start thinking about it and do I really understand why I do is with your cave of key holder Dasha and Kiro is with Shane in other words giving thanks how you do I said you take off [ __ ] Kiro calling to God will smite was his name what name I'm referring to and why is Kyra Bhishma and how you is left shell so right there on the school world you can spend an hour learning and thinking and and getting it just one little example this is what we mean by amicus with us I just wanted to you on this because it does does not mean you know another circle another tier I'm not belittling that that's very important but I'm Uncas advice means understanding what you're saying and and then understanding really what's behind what you're saying by the way how much that does does not mean of the Pierce amylose the first appearance of Minos knowing them to be translation of the words is it's that's ABC that's the olive base and it's necessary like I told you when I was 15 60 years old I didn't know what I was domine and it hit me I'm ninth grade first I'm diverting every day and I don't understand a word I'm saying so I took out my user stood there and took out a pencil and I took out my dick this was before they had the English translation and I had a Yiddish City translation and I wrote down in my city the translation and I'd I've earned every day with that sitter that's how I learned the translation of the words in thousand eight in 1975 or so 76 that's Peter Sam elos then he was he was not talking about that that otherwise you know you're just reading it a low-key reading so today but for Sam we have kids to do them in French and Spanish and in English and other languages that's good very good and it's important you know if someone doesn't understand you should speak to their rabbis atmosphere some of it you should say in Hebrew stuff in English it's important to understand that they're not going into that discussion right now but what we're talking about now is by marcus odd-eyes where this is you know we're learning and with domini we're ready we're all we are you know into this so here you need maka so does he yeah for you Croesus choucas cyrus ago this activity again of his bundles of reflection with her Marcus at das will impact you that you will crease us you will cut away remove shook us the lust and the Titus and desire how good of bodily needs that's it the more you concentrate and focus and understand the more you will you will you will come to a point where you'll say why don't I have to indulge why must I indulge and it will help you remove some of that indulgence that's it aha Lelouch and bhai now he goes back to the first part of the verse I will praise us and with my life and we already explained that very decided some this refers to the service of the soul meaning that you look to draw down God's inspiration into you so that you love and have fear for God in Christ helo this is called helo praise so can my this is as it says in ears be he lie nadir a lake or a sea the praise kind of the candle on upon my head literally means that the the the light of the candle should be upon me but the word is used to hear be healing shall give light on this trouble what this verse Hillel is saying consensus related to your name he'll be he'll earn a daily you're looking for the dignity of light on the summer you want your summer should get an inspiration of giggly a revelation from a shame so that your soul feels inspired but say that Oh ever though now for that says that ever the order of service is secured set up the years so I've very the discussion Ivy you asked me about this yesterday first there must be the Veda of what's called is Kavya to subjugate to control yourself you have to go gradually you can't jump the other car and after you train yourself to control your thymus the avocado only afterwards he was void debate on the Shama then you engaged in the service what's called the light of the social weaknesses haha for that is transformation when did the shun what are we learning here when did the Sharma is is is is on fire and it has gotten a wake-up call or an inspiration the call for salmon late on the sharma takes you in in very holy places and very holy feelings but that item s AMA can only come as we learn here in the minor if there's first they avoid the Surcouf to get rid of your Tigers it does and again can it happen that a person has an inspiration coming from the summer even though they're goof is still not refined and still immersed in Titus anything can happen if a chef wants something to happen it's going to happen okay but what we're talking about is the Savior the order the normal progression the daily routine the way it works in a normal way the the exception to the rule is an exception to a rule but we as if they have Shem that's what we're learning here in the mind we as servants of a Shem have a a a ladder to climb and that ever says the ladder is such that you first should work on avoiding circles and only afterwards will you will be avoid us on the Shama if you succeed in having that inspire you be meaningful and this is a this is a an answer to the question that people ask why is it that I learned and I dive in and I'm still the same Bahama why is it that I learned the dog and I'm still with the same you know the feelings and cravings for Titus and all that and the answer is that a like I told you this before and I think it's a good thing to think about imagine what you would have what you would have been if you didn't mm and you learn you'd be a bigger Bahama that that itself already is a comforting thought and number two and number two is that's proof that you have something is something is not right in the approach so get together with with atmosphere with a muskie off with a good friend I think I told you when I was in the Shiva I went over to the my sphere and asked him about certain things that I was feeling that I thought were not you know so so good nice and so he said find yourself a student in the base metrics above her who will give you muster but someone who is a you-know-who means your best not someone will say ah now it's my chance to get back at it and this was you should know I think Hillel you might have heard it from Zalman you know chef they spoke a lot about the this idea of Buddha shaft brotherly love have a shaft in other words have a shaft friends friendships the the envy Envy in this in the Hasidic societies of all code of all groups be a guerre care has something called bata but that means that Friday night after their meal they will come back to the base methods with a jeweler to a house whatever and they sit together it's like a closet snow they call it bata they learn and they sing but you know but but not just you know pushed not just cracking what within it you know the breaking be what they call no just roll over there the nuts you know whatever it's called sunflower seeds it's called butter so in garrard they have a butter in Chabad we have the vibranium in the verdict and the mustard they used to have what's called a birthday Musa do you know that they have special places which we called whole houses of massage in which they basically let each other have it you know first they spoke about what they did and then they analyzed it and it was an entire week okay yesterday he'll ask us about this he'll have made the comment that you know so in the end Musa they had this Tuco birthday Musa so whatever the form will they be Muslim considers there's a a an opportunity to to air out and then to find yourself a one-on-one father who you could share with issues that are really bothering you and your average assumption and that helps you accomplish what it says over here that first you'll do proper is Coffea and that will read the proper is hop club so anyone that says why is it that I'm learning on governing I don't have the inspiration so if the person is looking for the inspiration of outside the Delta never says and Tonya this is the ultimate ego chapter 27 and Tonya if if a person is a rush of the cave life with the potential of being a beta me and that person says I I should not have these Tigers you're out of your mind that means you think you're at something you know Sadiq you're not even a bane to me you barely rush of it a blur so so why do you convince yourself that you're Shia to the availab Sadiq and the author ever says that's only because of your geyser chapter 27 check it out right so in other words a Mis assessment of who you are is a very very unhealthy way of serving a sham and despite away is also a big teaching in musters forum and in customs to really know yourself where to know where you're at and what you could be but you can't just say I want to know where I could be but I don't want to look at where I'm at now now this too needs to be dealt with in a very sensitive way that's why you really never should be at a doctor because if a person doesn't have the inner stamina to deal with issues that are very painful and hurtful many times they should not look at that they're not ready yet because if you're serious and it can it can shatter you and it could really upset you and if you're not yet at a place where you know how to take it in the right way it's better to just put it aside some things are better not spoken about and dealt with later so there is no one answer to the issue I'm just bringing this up because this is a common complaint and by the way this complaint was written about the spoken about hundreds of years ago in all print communities and total communities because the the basic thing was I dive and I learned and why still do I have these unhealthy cravings and if you learn to Tanya properly you'll understand that the after that was saying if you don't have these unhealthy cravings you're not normal a normal person has times that's a that's the finish of the Tanya he doctor rep and Tanya yoni makes a hundred and eighty degree turn on the way the systems of learning about our voice as I said thought about them over off you look into the moosers fire in particular but even in other facilities for it not same ball they they accept the fact that if there's something that you're doing that's wrong no feeling that's not unhealthy and all that they say okay what can we do to correct that the Alta network has a very different approach the Alta nemesis first I want you to understand that your normal your healthy because healthy people have cravings - that's where Shannon created us now now let's talk about what those are and how to deal with them and the alternative is a system for that - his system is the meditation system the reflection system but the asad the foundation that the Alta deputies in the canyon which is part of the Cabal ethos in philosophy is that you're healthy you're not crazy you're not bad right there was a there was a whole movement in in in in Jewish life and scholarship that if you have a Keizer or Tiger sand and your you get something's wrong with you something's not normal and and and we have to give you a prescription a drug the medicine now that ever says before we deal with medicine let's establish the fact that you're very normal but but rabbi but Rebbe I have these cravings and I'm learning and opening and and still have Titus says down to that but what do you think you are some kind of Sadiq you're a regular guy and if you're a regular guy the way I created you and he uses the pair T of us Lacoste no Santa look how you know the [ __ ] means that's why you were created you created so that you can battle your tireless meaning you're gonna have Titus and now let me see if work on those Titus so it's an entire different perspective and and this entire system we talked to our salesmen up to a young person who's going through these issues especially today with so much going on you know if you if you take the time to explain this and talk about it it could be very helpful to ourselves and to them as well so this is an answer to to this whole issue of why am I not inspired enough to not have titus okay like I always say person says well you didn't grow up not religious you're free from birth you're an ffb you didn't know about all these all these diverse and I and I didn't have but as I said I came to chew fur so I say what do you think I didn't have my tightest I didn't have the same time this is you but I had my tightest so what's the difference between a tiger a tiger well these Tigers they eating the hamburger cheeseburger and then this Tiger is laced ugly I'm sorry we just learned in pity others don't weigh mitzvahs don't say these are colonies of Hummer we just learned that about it the list members well in other words a diver is a tithe the format of the diver is a different situation and there's a different recipe that's true but that's the tiger then the cook of the type is the same let me finish four lines never will stop it sail the sea by air evaluating a method it says and this and I've said this is very era even if I break a Yamaka the toddlers have way the vicara the ultimate of serving ocean is a yahoo we after his birth it's a fraud it's the create unity the zeljana club should give in a second we should experience the effort who are you they are get every kid this is through the service that's called quote Adams evening the volca Avoca the morning which are to avoid the Sun go from the Sharma now introduces another new CUDA that the avoidance a goof would be what yoni which would be avoid this a goof Erica FICA good YRF why that's a high in Berlin answer I want to about answer motion any thoughts the thinking starts our day starts really with the note with the night so we start with night first some we today which is neshama oh why is Dana Selma why because you start well like us we good I mean because dane right light is like the first yeah because it's day it's light it's neshama yummy this is the Habad answer but you said is right but that's a kind Berlin answer a little she answer which is a good answer and it's important but the kabadi answer is just oka but the answer of synthesis night represents darkness problems which we call over here avoid this how cool IV working on that and that's why by the way hill at night we have Chris Rochelle Amita taking cut shows and that's why at night all the bars are open they cuz it's the time of City night darkness so then the eat has to do the avoidance our goal comes the day Moses said the sender who chose that said it's light it's great I love the morning I love the light at night it's getting dark it's gloomy but that's necessary you got to first deal with the night the the issues that are right under your finish [ __ ] snare find out wait to this coffee shop club so we have three things now we have cinnamons I want you to write this down we'll hear it Ariel if I can goof and the shovel and its culture and it's up right so Aaron is good and that's the avodah of avi is Kafka to control yourself Boca is neshama and that's the avoidant of transformation of his self control of changing it completely where you kind of have left that divert and you're onto another diver but there this diver you've conquered of course everyone knows that the mother says you should trust yourself even after 119 years and 363 days or whatever sixty-four days one day before the last day of your life you should entrust yourself right Moshe but but but if we follow the system Ocean Meyers if we follow this system we have a good bet that we will we will succeed on some level we will succeed and and and and you know I'm getting excited about solo issues but to get that appreciation and that it should be really part of you requires and I've laid this ago so again we see here how see this does not negate the importance of religious chuckles but to see this emphasizes that you have a neshama you see in a way Mooser begins with I'm making a general a general of generality okay because in moosari have three or four different philosophies dr. Seliger sniffles ugh whatever crap for now but overall the muscle system begins with the goof the Hasidic system of the Baal Shem Tov is beginning with the neshamah but the dealing with the soma is not the surveillance and assemble talking about now in other words we establish a fact before we begin our therapy you have a soul you have a diamond you are pure in your very essence you're pure so okay and and from there we go on now let's see the issues that are disturbing that seem to cover the diamond and we deal with them and once we do that then we have an inspiration from above that we develop an Ivor love for a salmon author ahem that's transcendent that's not something that we ever had before that is the system and that is the system for us throughout our life this sister ground level foundation is the Shama so the building won't fall down won't seek like it does in Miami on the beach where the property starts sinking into the ocean you got a strong foundation it's called an assembler unless you have an Asuma you start dealing with the issues of the building and once you repair the building you fix the shutters so it's her again protected and everything else so that there's no firing winds that blow away the building or break the windows then you have this massive beautiful building on the ocean and it's a product it's a big mama it's a beautiful thing oh it's really the Fountainbleu hotel with its beautiful property oh but it comes if you have a strong foundation then we have all the strong foundation because we have on the shovel Keaveney have a great day we'll talk to you a seat to my side by side you bet thank you