Why didn't FR want his mother to be buried in Staten Island? - Lesson from Miami Tradegy

a good native shabbos to everyone pasta is bullock following you beige with kimutamus and a few days before shivasamatamas these days be transformed for joy and happiness let me begin with a story i heard just last night a new story that i never heard from the grandson of rabbi barnetsky was my fifth great rebbe at la bachcha yeshiva and he taught in yeshiva for 50 plus years or maybe 60 years many years and he was a tiger yi he was a student of the frida keraba and in fact he went to atvatsk before the outbreak of world war ii to learn there and he became he was learning with rabbi jacobson hasidis in the 1930s while he was a student at tiravadas and barnetsky was a tired yidd a sincere year i recall when he went down and his face turned red so his grandson ellie ariel told me the following in in i guess 1941 or 42 the frida quedabra asked him robert barnetsky his grandfather ellie's grandfather where to see them the baptists see them bury their berry people the bavators he said in staten island there's a hellca there's a section there that has from the turn of the century were burying their relatives there if you could ever ask how do they get there so he said in those days you drove your car the hearst you drove it onto the boat and it took you over the river to staten island because this was before the varazano bridge was built i believe in the late 50s or early 60s anyway so the rebbe said to him barnetsky i will not bury my mother there this was when rabbits and stannis his mother was very sick and this is i guess before the free cabbage went to chicago because his mother passed away when he was shakata when he was in chicago but she was very ill and the rebbe was obviously preparing himself to have a plot for his mother and he said barnetsky my mama that thought to meet legend and the explanation that i don't know if the fruit could happen said this or ellie said this is that because the ground the earth is wet from the water the the the ocean the body doesn't disintegrate he said that that's a pain for the the for the summer because it's it's called and we don't want a person to have ever the banging around of the cave of the body being in the earth so when the body disintegrates then has peace shalom menuha rest so if you could ever said since that this cemetery is near the water so therefore the water doesn't allow the body to disintegrate as fast or maybe at all i don't know my mom eventually and shortly there and so he asked her barnetsky can you find another place uh barnetsky i guess in conjunction with robert kozanovsky and rabbi jacobson they found the place which is today the oil coche of the frida kerebe and the red the oil in queens so this is the first time i heard the mai said the story if anyone has heard this before please tell me if there are different details than the way i heard it please let me know as well so we could we could get it straight but this is what this grandson called me last night to tell me that he heard this mice and not just once several times from jose there are vanessa himself who the frida karebe discussed and and this issue with and asked him to find another place where he can bury his mother where the goof will disintegrate et cetera et cetera it's um it's it's it's valdika days and it's hard days we just had a tragedy in miami uh a building that had many eden in it collapsed and if you if you saw the way they had pictures of it mama's like a shoebox it fell down the back side of the building towards the ocean and this is in a a city called surf side in which the shul rabbi lipscore there it is there is the rov my parents lived across the street from the shul so i know the area well and i can imagine the type of building it was because my parents were on the sixth floor and they were towards the front of the building and when we wanted to see the ocean we would go on the porch to look towards the back but it was the back side of this building i think on 88th street and columns the shield was on 95th and collins which collapsed we know little we don't understand the ways of akadeshwarhu as we speak now we have to continue davening the davis that shall make a miracle that many of those people under the rubble are still alive and will be found and be healed and be back with us those that have perished they say fourth parish they're ready if any of them are eaten or even have the non-jews may their souls rest in peace as we say but the the question is what's the connection to the advantage of gimbal tamils and shiva but thomas just a thought a short thought at the highest time of simcha the wedding the jewish tradition is to break a glass to remember the destruction of the bay's amigdas the way aka this barcode the way god created this world is such that there's a dual reality there is goodness and kindness that's obvious and there's goodness and kindness that's disguised and concealed both are from both are from god there's no such a thing as evil or bad coming from god the issue is whether we perceive it as good or we perceive it as bad the fact that a building collapses what is what's the message what's the message well someone is saying i made and there were three so we've had three neighborhood collapses miran the karleen stolen school yerushalayim outside of shalom and now a building that had many eden in florida miami area we used to strengthen the schleischer dwarim the three things upon which the three pillars upon which the world stands tyra avoided to increase our study of terror avoid this the idea of darwining diving with a minion not talking during davening and all of that and blues hassan helping people with loans and seductive also a building has a foundation and it seems like it seems that the foundation here went into the earth if the the way the buildings fell it's like a like a matchmak group and even the rubble's like a pancake one on top of the other it seems like the earth cave out and it's it it all disintegrated and and melted and and everything fell the foundation of yiddish kite is a munna's faith and be talking trust in the abrasion the cycle the intellect and the medicine the emotions are already a development an enhancement of a moon of faith we need to strengthen our and understood the more we strengthen our moon and the abrester the stronger the building will be and stand firm another point possibly to to think about is the buildings there are one next to the other you know it's prime real estate you're on the ocean i once heard that the reason why trees in a forest stand nice and erect and straight and tall whereas if trees are just growing on the street and they're scattered and not next to each other they tend to bend and fall is because when you stand next to each other you have the power and strength of each other holding each other strong and straight when you're on your own at the end of the day you fall you bend avas israel the buildings to continue standing straight and erect and tall and beautiful the increase of abbas israel of caring for each other loving for each other and really helping each other will surely surely eradicate any negativity and any mishaps from happening again in the future may hashem help us that was zaika to see the layman the true redemption and every year and every creation of god will be well uninjured healthy successful and will be said to the ghoulish lama so that before shavasana thomas comes will be already shabbos